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Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Impostor: 2:11am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Another thread from me again. Hello everyone, This is a very important issues and I would love to seek people's opinion on this. I don't think she knows about Nairaland so I will share and delete later. Lately I have been dating with the intention of getting married but I don't think I have found the one. However, among the few ladies around me, there's this particular one that is perfect. I mean perfect. She's homely, caring and I really like her but the problem is I love two things in women: A bit of ass - average or big ass & I don't find short girls attractive. I prefer average height to tall girls. I'm average height. I don't know why but as far as I can remember I have always find tall ladies attractive or at least average height. Sometimes I am with this lady and in my mind I will be unhappy with her height and ass. She sometimes wear things that makes her height deficiency obvious. She's 5ft.4, good job, family. She's just perfect and I really like her. This girl is every man's dream but I can't seem to look past the height. I tell myself, guy just manage, overlook these things but I keep having double mind. I am still searching but I keep wondering if it is safe for me to just go with this lady despite the ass and height issue. I know these things would sound trivial and childish but we all have things we admire in the opposite sex. Even if I will overlook ass but height... Please Nairalanders and married folks, is it ok to compromise on things you admire in the opposite sex when it comes to marriage? Afterall Nigerian women always get fat after marriage so even the ass may not be important then. I would really appreciate your advice cos she has made it clear she's looking for a husband sensing that I won't marry her. Is it childish thinking about ass size and height in marriage? Shouldn't I prioritize her homely and good character over those physical attributes? Pls advise 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by solonubinho(m): 2:32am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Oga it's too early for you to come and start disturbing us abeg..come and be going. 31 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Nobody: 2:39am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Tall, big ass. Op talk true, which IndecentStar be your spec? 3 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by anthonyuncle(m): 2:40am On Jun 12, 2020 |
do not marry someone that u ain't sexually attracted to, it's very important 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Mraphel: 2:43am On Jun 12, 2020 |
chiddyok:Nyomi banx 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by shagasha: 3:37am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Follow your heart bro... Follow ur ❤️. Nairaland guys won't be in the marriage with u. Moreso u ain't ready yet for marriage for u to be asking this question. 6 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by dyfaze: 4:03am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Oga learn to tolerate Ladies because they're managing us too. Who's perfect ? This particular lady you're talking about must have overlooked many things on you just to settle down, Now you're complaining about height, ass and bre*st, Are you a porn star?. You're Lucky to have that gul or may be you don't know that other guys are chasing her. One man's food.. Well some guys always giving ridiculous excuse whenever they're done and dusted with a lady. DM me her number, let me assess her height for u... and you can keep searching.. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by funshint(m): 4:38am On Jun 12, 2020 |
You don't deserve that girl. Please let her go so that you can both end up meeting your desires. Don't waste her time! 9 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by punisha: 5:22am On Jun 12, 2020 |
anthonyuncle: Dear OP, So u don't regret and end up in divorce, Listen to all this poster has said. U need no further answer. |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Bola146(f): 5:25am On Jun 12, 2020 |
anthonyuncle: Exactly! I can't marry any man I'm taller than, as in too short You must not marry out of pity please to avoid divorce 6 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by DontBullshitMe: 6:42am On Jun 12, 2020 |
5'4 isn't too bad for a lady. 3 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Spy360(m): 6:43am On Jun 12, 2020 |
ONE DAY YOU WILL SEE BIG ASS AND TALL HEIGHT but all you will say is Mtchew! Better go for inner qualities first before outer. 8 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by shawnfamous(m): 6:44am On Jun 12, 2020 |
I love tall girls too. I met a girl about my height 6"2... she was happy she finally got someone her height.. so I was. but at the end I discovered that she wasn't very intelligent, maybe I expected too much. I didn't see u talk about Her intelligence.. just a good job and physical appearance.. Find these inner things too to compliment the physical... meanwhile why would a girl b short and still doesn't have Ass.. 6 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by shawnfamous(m): 6:46am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Bola146:wahala.. see short girl sef dey select.. she doesn't want to marry out of pity 6 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by dingbang(m): 6:58am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Bro, there are many girls out there that will be prettier than that girl, but in the end, try marry who get sense. E get why. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Mywd: 7:05am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Bola146: And if God says you should?? |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by JOACHINpedro: 7:25am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Your mate dy find peace of mind while you're seriously searching for HBP. But it's your choice thou. Below is the average Nigerian height. Male and female Source wikipeadia
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Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Bornfool(m): 7:28am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Pass the lady to me if you no need aam I will help her with her height |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Kobicove(m): 7:29am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Impostor: It's not always a good idea compromising on some attributes you want in a partner but also be aware that it's not possible to meet someone who has 100% of the qualities you desire! 3 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Bornfool(m): 7:32am On Jun 12, 2020 |
dyfaze: Na me won collect her number now , you no go fii manage d girl |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Phenomenal16(f): 7:34am On Jun 12, 2020 |
If u know that u don't love her enough to be ur wife Pls leave her alone E get y Don't go and suffer someboris pikin......sbdy that will love every part of her is coming..... Go for ur spec 5 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by AarewaMafia: 7:42am On Jun 12, 2020 |
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Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Nobody: 7:43am On Jun 12, 2020 |
anthonyuncle:very important |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by nwachukwu9(m): 9:38am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Impostor:physical attribute are not the main thing a man or woman should consider when getting married.i have never seen when physical attributes alone sustain the marriage. They only thing that can sustain a marriage or any relationship is love that flow from the heart from each parties involved in the relationship. it is obvious that the love you have for her is not truly from your heart, it is a love that comes from the mouth. If you love her truly you would not even remember any of those physical attribute. Since you love women with big buttocks and average height,my advice to you is approach women with the attribute you want since that is what makes you happy. But remember that physical attributes can not bring genuine peace, only love from both parties can bring genuine peace. Take note of the word "both" 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Nobody: 9:50am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Bornfool: Sharp. |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Starz825(m): 9:53am On Jun 12, 2020 |
dyfaze:You dey mind Op....he already said the girl is good and perfect....so aw come not having a big ass and a preferred height the problem... Op is confused.... U could get yourself a lady with the ass and height but the fact of being good and perfect won't be there....and with her big ass and height...she fit make life tire you....go for women that will give you peace of mind....very important you won't be Hot forever Interestingly, in Life ...u mostly don't get complete package of a person.... 4 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Impostor: 9:53am On Jun 12, 2020 |
chiddyok: So only porn stars can be tall lol. I'm not even after big ass sef. At least average something. |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Nobody: 9:56am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Why not ask any of your elderly male relatives? Most people here are kids and wouldn't know. 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Starz825(m): 9:56am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Impostor:You dey mind Op....he already said the girl is good and perfect....so aw come not having a big ass and a preferred height the problem... Op is confused.... U could get yourself a lady with the ass and height but the fact of being good and perfect won't be there....and with her big ass and height...she fit make life tire you....go for women that will give you peace of mind....very important you won't be Hot forever Interestingly, in Life you mostly don't get a complete package of a person....there must be something you just have to overlook.. Well, some people wey get head no get cap according to Yoruba People's adage 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by Nobody: 9:59am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Please don't marry the lady. It will be very okay for you to end up as a constant Shiloh visiting midnight newspaper but will be very heartbreaking for a lovely, wonder and gracious lady to end up in an unhappy relationship with a cheating husband. Biko stay single and wait for your desire. Na God I take beg you. 2 Likes |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by SweetCunt97(f): 10:01am On Jun 12, 2020 |
Well, there's always ass pad and high heels. 1 Like |
Re: Nairalanders, Should I Marry This Girl Despite These Observations by callmeRichie(m): 10:03am On Jun 12, 2020 |
[quote author=Impostor post=90572412] This 1 that you haven't married and you've started complaining about her height and ass, the truth is if you later got married to her YOU WOULD CHEAT!!! cuz obviously what you find attractive in sexual pleasure isn't there in her! So it's better you let the girl go and don't suffer her innocently. Once you don't find her attractive leave the poor girl abeg! Buh lemme tell you the truth, she won't remain like that for life mind you, sometimes child birth changes a woman completely! The ass you complain about right now, would soon come out when she starts child birthing and having constant sexual intimacy! The most important thing is the good virtue deposited in her! And that's a rare gem you can't find anywhere!! SO ASK YOURSELF A QUESTION; DO YOU WANT A WIFE OR A SEXUAL BABY MAMA 1 Like |
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