When you are my friend, you become part of my business. I BE PERSON WEY DEY MIND AND THE FEW FRIENDS I HAVE ALSO MIND A LOT ABOUT WHAT I DO.

TO THE TOPIC:
My guy man seems to be in love and the girl he is in love with stays in Lagos. She moved to lagos from Abuja like 8months ago. According to her, she stays with her cousin who is a guy. They communicate a lot, no doubt about that. I really do not know how often the girl calls but i know my guy calls her even when we are watching important football matches. He would excuse us most time and spend like 5mins talking what only those in love would understand.

THE PROBLEM:
She has refused to send my guy her pictures. Even her whatsapp profile pictures are always Quotes, picture of her mother or any of her relatives. My guy literally had begged her for picture(according him, even if na selfie, please send) but it always fall on deaf ears. Sometimes they quarrel over that but my guy would always come back and apologize. This is a guy that can make 10 girls say 'YES' to him in a day if he could try.
I have told him that the girl doesn't love him the way he loves the girl but he would always tell me that she hates taken pictures. When my wife and I were dating, my phone always got flooded with her pictures. In short, every pic she took always got to me immediately and I must comment on each of them. May be i am using my case to judge his case. Most ladies send tons of pictures to random guys they never met how much more the person they call their boyfriend. I really do not get it. I actually have tried understanding her situation but the more i tried, the more i see the fact that she hates my man. She is a fine girl. Yes, she is damn beautiful but in her early thirties. They do video calls alot. My friend is saying she is not proud of herself but still, not enough reason.
I am trying to pinpoint the reason because the only reason that she gives my guy is that she doesn't like taking pictures. in her words, "I am not a picture person".

They do video calls alot, wetin the guy wan use photos do again He's a wanke.r?

Davash222:
They do video calls alot, wetin dey guy wan use photos do again He's a wanke.r?

Well, i don't know if he faps but i won't be surprised if he does. I did too, and as they say, " birds of a feather flock together ". But it is not a bad thing to have a picture of your girlfriend on your phone nah. haba. what if you want to show your friends your girl's picture?

Checked86:
Well, i don't know if he faps but i won't be surprised if he does. I did too, and as they say, " birds of a feather flock together ". But it is not a bad thing a picture of your girlfriend on your phone nah. haba. what if you want to show your friends your girl's picture?

Is it In the constitution that you must show your girlfriend's picture to your friends?

Davash222:

Is it In the constitution that you must show your girlfriend's picture to your friends?

If we should be doing what is on the constitution, i wouldn't be replying to your comments, you know?

You're probably just bored and looking for what to type, right?

They do lotsa video calls, why exactly are you still requesting for photos?

If I were your friend, I'd be very careful with your counsel. If she wasn't video calling, you would have suggested that she was staying with another man.

A lady that is in her 30s, what is her business with pictures please? Tell your childish friend to look for a slay queen in one of these state unis, they are his match.

Can your friend go to any of her social media pages (fb, Instagram) and get her pics there?

Baba.....It's very simple... She's not into him.....


When a woman loves a man, she'd always be open and would share everything and anything.....


When there's an excuse in little things like pictures.... She's only trying to use that to cut him off......

They've met/maintained an in-person relationship before she moved to Abuja, and according to you, "they communicate a lot" and "do video calls a lot". Methinks there's no problem here and there's no need for you to create one for him.

Let him snapshot the video chat