GeorgeTheCoder:


No point arguing.
I wasted enough of my time on the assumption that you were intelligent.

pocohantas:


There we have it. You can’t answer without shooting yourself in the foot, hah?

mikolo80:
western ladies learning the hard way when abandoned in old ppl home to die alone

WORDWORLD:


It is evident on this thread alone judging by the fact that far less are ladies who have come here to tell us stories about how desperately the men they dated wanted to marry them. This thread is very obvious as to the fact that NA WOMEN CARRY MARRIAGE MATTER FOR HEAD PASS AND CAN BE VERY DESPERATE ABOUT IT.

dalass:


You're 100 percent correct dearie...

Most guys spewing nonsense here, I'm certain have been rejected/ embarrassed severely by ladies and even small girls. They will hide behind phones to be typing and forming Rambo on NL

Any lady, educated and established cannot beg a guy oh... I have never and can never do such.... Because she knows her worth and quite okay in her skin.. Only lazya be needy people can do the clingy thingy

Hilarious really!

pocohantas:


Or maybe men just whine more...
You people do it better, on Nairaland at least.

WORDWORLD:


Just as men kept whinning on that thread that asked ladies to tell their experience with married men who wowed while pretending to be single.

It was a massive turn up by female folks on NL not because it was directed mainly to them but because it was a subject matter very common to them and as such stories were just flowing.

But far as this thread, without being gender biased open to all. YOU LADIES DON'T HAVE STORIES TO TELL ON THIS THREAD BECAUSE MEN NO CARRY MARRIAGE FOR HEAD LIKE UNA TO THE POINT OF BEING SO DESPERATE LIKE MOST OF YOU END UP BECOMING

WORDWORLD:


I can't breathe

pocohantas:


Uncle, no give me headache abeg. Time for this kind chuchuchu done pass. Byebye

ibkayee:

I didn’t see this picture earlier, how is this funny in any way.

The very thing you're using as bants is what the entire world is protesting against in defence of people who look exactly like you, you clearly have a very sick spirit.

Rozz:
liers everywhere as if they are not the same persons pestering ladies with marriage up and down.Pls let me breath mtcheww

Eileene:


why will a 21yr old gal be desperate for marriage

sassysure:

U want to marry me
I am a married woman of course.

Just wanted to let you guys know it ain't easy on babes too. In dormitory, I was nicknamed one guys name because he couldn't give up. Till I went to uni.

He is one of my cousin's friend. Took my picture( don't know if its with his permission) from his house and enlarged. Hung in his sitting room.
When he finally got the message that I don't want to marry him, he went for another person. It was around Easter break and I came home from school, was jisting with a nebor when I saw a convoy of cars,asked and was told it's the guy. This guy still stopped, walked up to where me and the elderly woman were. Thank goodness for that woman. She deflected what would have hung me finally. I saw this guy with the wife drove pass me the next day, he stopped and came out to greet me. I have to involve the head of his family. I sneak in to my village towards late evening, use apiam way and enter my house through the backyard. Stay with my mum without coming out till I leave. All because of men. They will be at the compound with the elders and I will jump fence from the back and disappear straight to my mum's hometown.

Girls get it worst. They will ruin your reputation. They will go to beer parlour and make u the topic of discussion.
A babe almost blinded me with very long cane simply because her so called boyfriend wanted to marry me. His dad mandated him to marry me. Have never met the guy. Actually bypassed him on his way to my house to see me
He don't know me either. It wasn't easy for me at all. Some babes get guys who want to befriend them, I get suitors. Had few,very few guys who want to befriend me and all were outside my state.

Some will stalk you.

So when u guys are busy making it look like babes are all over you, know that your brothers are killing themselves over other women. They spent money, they can go to any length.

The way men aggressively pursued me actually had a very negative effect on me toward men cos it was suffocating and too clingy. Yeah, at a point my mummy got worried cos I never responded positively to any.

You want to know about what women pass through in the hands of men, u will never find it here, go to hair salon or campus and you will be shocked to see the level men( not boys) with money and class will go to have a babe answer his name.

chigoizie7:


If they are pestering you with marriage, run, because they are not ready, they only think you are one of the desperados so that they will knack you don’t be silly while you will be hoping they marry you. Upe, all na wash. Na only your kpekus them dey find.

francisgodstime:
oga remove that 40s cos my aunty is just 36 a manager at intercontinental distiller with salary over 1million yet husband no gree show

ravensckar:
Honestly, when I read one-sided write ups like these, I feel appalled. Ain't there two sides to a coin any more? The so-called 'desperation' from ladies may not always be what you think. It could be a way of saying their own mind is made up. They have no more time to waste.

Now, let me shock you with my own story. When I met the lady I'm married to today, she told me straight up that she's not in for any long term relationship. She's almost done with school and that if the relationship won't lead to marriage, I should jejely excuse her. Me being the 'guyman' that I was then, I wanted to chop and clean mouth. I sha played along with the intent to chop until I'm full. Now, therein lies my confusion; the said lady in question was everything I wanted in a woman (beautiful, educated, well behaved, God-fearing and highly industrious). But I have just one problem; I wasn't ready for marriage. Money no dey, even the job I was doing then, salary was around 70K.


She sha encouraged me that we should pull our resources together and that we'll survive. Long story cut short, I decided to give it a shot. After all, person wey dey ground no get anywhere to fall to. We got married in less than 4 months of dating. When I mean married, I mean a proper and elaborate wedding. Brethrens, today we're still together. Yes, she's not perfect just like I'm not as well, but we are still happily married.

It was later I understood the reason for her 'desperation'. She had wasted too much time dating some Bleep boys, hence, she felt she has no more time to waste. To her, if it's not going to lead to marriage, then, she shouldn't even venture into it. What we guys see as 'desperation' to some ladies, it's called making up their mind.

ravensckar:
And should we blame them for that?


To be honest with you, I feel for ladies when it comes to choosing their partners. They do not have all the time in the world. That's why I'll never support guys making mockery of them by calling them 'Evening Newspaper'. It's only he who wears the shoe that knows where it pinches.


Now, let me tell you another secret. She said part of the reason why she was 'desperate' then was that her menstruation isn't regular and a friend told her that it's a sign that she'll enter menopause quickly. Hence, Sister decided to do quick quick and settle down.


To this day, I still cherish her for marrying me in that condition. I told her, me myself wouldn't have married myself in that condition. I was living in one room apartment with my kid brother, doing a part time 70K job that isn't regular, the only thing in my room was a mattress, rug, fan and my laptop that we use to watch movies. See ehn, anybody that insult ladies, I go follow join swear for that person.

Ulunne777:
First arrangee. Came back for Xmas and we finally met. He said if I agree before the end of the week we will marry. I refused, Oga wedded another woman end of the week. I marvel at women . You marry someone you are meeting for the first time in less than 3 days.

2nd Arrangee. Suddenly realized he was getting old. I was 19 and just got admission he was 34.There was nothing he didn't promise me even a car. My plans in life didn't have him in it. Will be disturbing me with midnight calls. #1 of his money I didn't see, an importer at that with so many shops. He doesn't give girls money lyk he said.His mum on meeting me for the first time told me if I won't marry him I shouldn't waste his time and money. I left him quick quick.
When I refused and left for school, he dated another girl that he paid for her school fee for 4 yrs including project and clearance then the girl absconded. I was on my way home from school when he met me on the road after 5 yrs to narrate the whole story and started begging me again.you and your mother should Eat your money. Nonsense

3rd was hellish. My lecturer. This man begged me at every opportunity until my course mates started laughing at us. He informed even his colleagues and they joined in begging me. He was in his 40s while I was in my early 20s.

After I went out with him on a lecturers insistence, he was gulping okra soup ND telling me he can't stay a day without eating it. We drove over to his house where he claimed he wanted to pick something. This man inserted porn for meoo and started caressing me as his gbola has risen. God saved me that day. Anuofia..

One week later he called me that our wedding cards was out. See me see wahala, I had to inform my bf and parents. It was war. Laslas he started threatening me with my results in final yr. My lecturer friend and my Course adviser had to warn him.

Almost a decade later, he isn't married yet which is his business anyway.

4th one that I was recommended to. On our first meeting the fool was squirming in his seat and when he could finally muster courage to talk had the guts to ask me if I was ready to bear children. I then asked him if that was all a wife means to him. Idiot. No introductions whatsoever.

They are plenty oo. For one man that esdapes a desperate woman, the woman has escaped 5x more. . E NO get wetin we no dey see.

Ps no pms. I already have 3 boys

WORDWORLD:


Ooops there she goes. You can't manipulate me my dear.

WORDWORLD:


Just as men kept whinning on that thread that asked ladies to tell their experience with married men who wowed while pretending to be single.

It was a massive turn up by female folks on NL not because it was directed mainly to them but because it was a subject matter very common to them and as such stories were just flowing.

But as far as this thread, without being gender biased open to all. YOU LADIES DON'T HAVE STORIES TO TELL ON THIS THREAD BECAUSE MEN NO CARRY MARRIAGE FOR HEAD LIKE UNA TO THE POINT OF BEING SO DESPERATE LIKE MOST OF YOU END UP BECOMING

pocohantas:


Uncle, no give me headache abeg. Time for this kind chuchuchu done pass. Byebye

Arsenate:

Remember when I told you you only do back and forth with guys with little or no wits but always scamper away with tails in between legs when you meet your match. I believe you wouldn't have written this if it was anslem you were up against.

anslem04:



poco its bin how long now " no leave no transfer i even heard you prefer "a breakup" to "a ban". smh! may we not av omo for a child

Dry!! Boy bye.

dalass:


You're 100 percent correct dearie...

Most guys spewing nonsense here, I'm certain have been rejected/ embarrassed severely by ladies and even small girls. They will hide behind phones to be typing and forming Rambo on NL

Any lady, educated and established cannot beg a guy oh... I have never and can never do such.... Because she knows her worth and quite okay in her skin.. Only lazya be needy people can do the clingy thingy

Hilarious really!

Gidah:
Any guy above 27 no need forcing again by then by then he should at least know the path he want to move towards life but if you be man and by 27 you are still clueless about your life you should be the one girls run for not vice versa

Blackmoran:
Yea my ex..... She came all the way from benue to leave with me, every day she keeps bombarding me with pictures of people wedding, fantasising on babies and us having kid together... Though this girl was cool she is homely can cook clean and kind of intelligent to spice it up my family loves her so much especially my dad, she has this free spirit personality.. But my instinct wasn't good with the idea it was too good to be true.. And secondly I wasn't ready financially to take on the burden of marriage but this girl never mind.... During December she travelled with my junior sister to his home town, to cut the story short I followed my instinct and today am a surviver of what would have given me heart attack....... During the thick of the moment she started showing are true colour, that homely girl started showing arrogant trait, the change was fast that I thought this can't be true... I did the right thing I broke up with her... Though my dad was sad about it but I let him know I know her more Than Them and what she portray is not who she is... A week after we brokeup my junior sister gave me the shocking news of my life.... That my ex was pregnant. . I didn't believe her cause We haven't had sex up to 4 months meaning when she was with me she was banging another dick... I waited till eight month later to find out she gave birth to a baby boy...and here let me burst your brain the father of the baby was my best friend who I trust so much...na that one pain me pass ... Lesson when a girl is trying to rush you into marraige run for your life.... If you want to get married do it at your convenient time... All girls would be at there good behavior during courtship, this one even take it to the extreme she even dey cut grass for compound... Na after marriage woman go show you are real colour....

chigoizie7:


Truth most of us must have been embarrassed in the past.


But the topic of this thread never said we should tell our rejection stories.

The topic is about people who have dated a desperate partner either a boy or a girl. The fact that there are more stories from the men doesn’t mean they are lieing or hasn’t been rejected before. I am sure that if a thread of telling rejection stories comes up, you will see men still tell their stories.

You people should stop making every issue about men and women a competition.

drmikeadams:



. If I ever meet u for dis life I go reserve one chilled,iced frozen Heineken for u..


U think wit ur brain not priickk

luminouz:

Cmon baby,don't be shy!!!

mkoabiola:
Gals above 30 .

Run

Halo22:
I have been laughing all through, knowing quite alright am a victim of the situation. My babe will not allow me to rest with her normal question, "when are coming to see my parents?" I have told her that I would do that when am ready, but she kept on disturbing. I even lied to her that in my family, pregnancy before introduction I'd forbidden in case she wants to hook me with that. I pity ladies shaa cos of how they mind is fashioned, but I will not please anyone to displease myself.