The elders will have to intervene to this

phelonrays:
You are in hot soup brah,

It's ain't gonna be magic, but clear reality, don't fall a victim of promising young girls marriage just to enjoy free pvssy.......

If na Calabar girl, I'll advice you got in touch with Queen of the Coast for outright cleansing

being in a hit soup won't be a problem once I have garri or fufu with me. the thing is a promise can be retracted if something comes up. its not a do or die affair, to enjoy free pussy? are you serious? was she not enjoying a free very good dick? you guys that see fucking as a favour from any girl need brain formatting. Sex is enjoyed by both parties and anlot more by females joor.

cooooooks:
I think you can sue him for that. Especially if you spent money on the relationship.

and when have naija guys not spend in relationships? bro try and judge from a place of no sentiments.

Oluromantic:
If the reasons are genuine like if you find out that you're both AS or your parents are not in approval or some things are to be done in ur culture which she doesn't find proper. Then no cause for alarm

But if you deceived her, took advantage of her when u have someone else in mind especially after plenty abortions, d curse go stick. Because dating to a Nigerian woman is like life investment. It's d greatest achievement they envisage.

you're right about it being a life investment to naija ladies but promising a lady marriage and later decide to retract your promise is not a do or die affair is it? OK, what about guys that promises ladies marriage and the ladies left them to marry another guy?

Futuragetty:


Dear girls,
an agreement to marry is viewed as a binding legal contract, and if a party can show that there was in actual fact an existence of a promise to marry , and one party reneges, then a civil claim can be made.
_______________

and as far as I am concerned, Curses only work in our Nollywood dramas.

hahaha legal action indeed, that is if she has an evidence that can't be disproved or contested. let's say she wins will she be compensated with what? fund for emotional trauma or what? she ain't getting nothing bro.

donbachi:
U took advantage of her,using marriage.and she fell for it.u come dey knack front and back,without condoms,that was accompanied with aborted pregnancies...paddyman,make i tell u the truth.e go work.and for u to ask dis kind question wen u never brush ur mouth.e be like e don dey see the signs.

I dont know where to start replying you bro, you sound so childish. knack her front and back, with and without condoms? abortions and whatever? are you freaking serious? you need to update your mind.

Abortion can't happen without a lady's approval (at least to a reasonable extent) once a lady walked to the hospital and spread her legs to abort a baby she's solely responsible for it, a man or any other person can only threaten, influence, manipulate, brainwash her to abort but the actual steps and process can't happen unless the lady agrees to it 99% of the time so stop this abortion blackmail. after all relationship is not a prerequisite for marriage.
so basically one should marry a lady BC she did abortion for him, they bleeped, did doggy style and missionary with and without condoms? your case is different lil man.

HotPoundedYam:
was she a virgin when he made the promise?please answer me

. E get why.

No she wasn't a virgin..she has been fucking for a long while.

It is actionable in court.

The offence is called 'breach of promise to marry.'

So, take a legal step!

Adedove:
It is actionable in court.

The offence is called 'breach of promise to marry.'

So, take a legal step!

there's no evidence, just he say she say and that doesn't stand in court.

Don't look for male/female fights every time.

Guys should not be disproportionately spending on relationships in the first place.

ThePussiologist:
and when have naija guys not spend in relationships? bro try and judge from a place of no sentiments.

ThePussiologist:
you're right about it being a life investment to naija ladies but promising a lady marriage and later decide to retract your promise is not a do or die affair is it? OK, what about guys that promises ladies marriage and the ladies left them to marry another guy?

You have a point

haaaaaaaaa:

Guy, I pity you oooo

Seriously he deserves it. The one person that did that to me, I’ve not cursed him. All I know is, one day my God will deliver him to my hand for all the shame and tears he put me through.

donbachi:
U took advantage of her,using marriage.and she fell for it.u come dey knack front and back,without condoms,that was accompanied with aborted pregnancies...paddyman,make i tell u the truth.e go work.and for u to ask dis kind question wen u never brush ur mouth.e be like e don dey see the signs.

esp the abortion so painful

SaintHilary:

OP and oda guys, take the bolded seriously..If na Calabar/Akwa ibom girl, Hmmmm

I dey come first

Tell me more

phelonrays:
You are in hot soup brah,

It's ain't gonna be magic, but clear reality, don't fall a victim of promising young girls marriage just to enjoy free pvssy.......

If na Calabar girl, I'll advice you got in touch with Queen of the Coast for outright cleansing

tell me about the CAlABARs

MOnkeyBabe:
tell me about the CAlABARs

doN't kNow MUcH abOuT 'em, BUt taLEs aNd TeSTIMonIes FrOM PeoPLe WhO mEss uP wITh 'eir dAughTers Ain'T ThaT cOOl, SoME tHat I KnoW aRe STilL suFFErIng tILl date

ThePussiologist:
Guys if a guy promises a girl and later abandoned her because of one or two reasons come marry another girl. if she curse him will it work?

Guy see ehh some girls get spirits wey de follow them,some will curse e go work ooo
Just pray u don’t clash

ThePussiologist:
there's no evidence, just he say she say and that doesn't stand in court.

You mean there is no witness to it nor any written message (WhatsApp, Facebook etc.) ?

chiddyok:

Seriously he deserves it. The one person that did that to me, I’ve not cursed him. All I know is, one day my God will deliver him to my hand for all the shame and tears he put me through.

so sorry about your bad experience. I dunno but I think we can be friends. Maybe we exchange contacts. What do you think?

ThePussiologist:
Guys if a guy promises a girl and later abandoned her because of one or two reasons come marry another girl. if she curse him will it work?

If you understand how the universe works, you will know that nothing can just happen except someone or something caused it to happen.
And there is one iron law of the universe:
The Law Of Cause And Effect.

When you said because one or two reasons, you sound weak and guilty.

You are already afraid of what you have done and what is coming. Yes. Whether you like it, believe or not, something will come to you in the same proportion that you created it.

If what you created was good, nothing can stop it. Good will come to you. If otherwise, bad will surely come to you.

You ask and I quote " If the girl curse you will it work? "

Now, let me tell you: the girl don't need to curse you for you to suffer for your wrong doings.

Don't even think that anyone can curse you and it will work.
No. Nobody can curse you.
You are the only one that can curse yourself.


And if you curse yourself, don't blame anybody for your sufferings.

The same one or two reasons why you marry another girl is the same one or two reasons why you will bring the penalty to you.

The only time that you will pay no penalty for a girl you promise to marry and didn't marry her again is if:

1. She breaks the promise herself by leaving you to marrying another man. In this case, the penalty will follow her.

2. You catch her cheating on you. In this case, it is not your fault. You are free to end it right there. And no reasonable girl will blame you for leaving her in this case.

3. If she change her mind. That is, she decided not to marry you again on her own without any fault from you.

4. She turned from the good girl you use to know and become something else. And refused to to change after several talks, complains and maybe warnings from you.


Anything outside of these and you deliberately promise a girl for marriage only to deceive her later to marry another girl, you created a negative energy in the universe and it will follow you. You don't need extra curse.

ThePussiologist:
Guys if a guy promises a girl and later abandoned her because of one or two reasons come marry another girl. if she curse him will it work?

Don’t make promises you can’t keep. If some people cry to the universe and you start getting bad luck you will start blaming village people. When some people cry, God hears. Don’t do to other women what you wouldn’t want to be done to your sister or mother

CosmicJames:


If you understand how the universe works, you will know that nothing can just happen except someone or something caused it to happen.
And there is one iron law of the universe:
The Law Of Cause And Effect.

When you said because one or two reasons, you sound weak and guilty.

You are already afraid of what you done and what is coming. Yes. Whether like it, believe or not, something will come to you in the same proportion you created it.

If what you created was good, nothing can stop it. Good will come to you. If otherwise, bad will surely come to you.

You ask and I quote " If the girl curse you will it work? "

Now, let me tell you: the girl don't need to curse you for you to suffer for your wrong doings.

Don't even think that anyone can curse you and it will work.
No. Nobody can curse you.
You are the only one that can curse yourself.


And if you curse yourself, don't blame anybody for your sufferings.

The same one or two reasons why you marry another girl is the same one or two reasons why you will bring the penalty to you.

The only time that you will pay no penalty for a girl you promise to marry and didn't marry her again is if:

1. She breaks the promise herself by leaving you to marrying another man. In this case, the penalty will follow her.

2. You catch her cheating on you. In this case, it is not your fault. You are free to end it right there. And no reasonable girl will blame you for leaving her in this case.

3. If she change her mind. That is, she decided not to marry you again on her own without any fault from you.

4. She turned from the good girl you use to know and become something else. And refused to to change after several talks, complains and maybe warnings from you.


Anything outside of these and you deliberately promise a girl for marriage only to deceive her later to marry another girl, you created a negative energy in the universe and it will follow you. You don't need extra curse.

Wisdom. For every action there’s a reaction. People forget this.

donbachi:
U took advantage of her,using marriage.and she fell for it.u come dey knack front and back,without condoms,that was accompanied with aborted pregnancies...paddyman,make i tell u the truth.e go work.and for u to ask dis kind question wen u never brush ur mouth.e be like e don dey see the signs.

donbachi:
U took advantage of her,using marriage.and she fell for it.u come dey knack front and back,without condoms,that was accompanied with aborted pregnancies...paddyman,make i tell u the truth.e go work.and for u to ask dis kind question wen u never brush ur mouth.e be like e don dey see the signs.

baddest guy, see yabs.

donbachi:
U took advantage of her,using marriage.and she fell for it.u come dey knack front and back,without condoms,that was accompanied with aborted pregnancies...paddyman,make i tell u the truth.e go work.and for u to ask dis kind question wen u never brush ur mouth.e be like e don dey see the signs.

donbachi:
U took advantage of her,using marriage.and she fell for it.u come dey knack front and back,without condoms,that was accompanied with aborted pregnancies...paddyman,make i tell u the truth.e go work.and for u to ask dis kind question wen u never brush ur mouth.e be like e don dey see the signs.

baddest guy, see yabs.

HeavenlyCherub:


Don’t make promises you can’t keep. If some people cry to the universe and you start getting bad luck you will start blaming village people. When some people cry, God hears. Don’t do to other women what you wouldn’t want to be done to your sister or mother

does that also apply to women who will eat a guy's money,cheat and still leave him for a richer man

Tillatalk:
If curse work must of these politicians who been dead

dem dey Re-enforce and they belong to cults. It is the curse that increase their wealth, because their next generation must suffer it.

Reex12:
does that also apply to women who will eat a guy's money,cheat and still leave him for a richer man

Yes. Life is a balance

CosmicJames:


If you understand how the universe works, you will know that nothing can just happen except someone or something caused it to happen.
And there is one iron law of the universe:
The Law Of Cause And Effect.

When you said because one or two reasons, you sound weak and guilty.

You are already afraid of what you have done and what is coming. Yes. Whether you like it, believe or not, something will come to you in the same proportion that you created it.

If what you created was good, nothing can stop it. Good will come to you. If otherwise, bad will surely come to you.

You ask and I quote " If the girl curse you will it work? "

Now, let me tell you: the girl don't need to curse you for you to suffer for your wrong doings.

Don't even think that anyone can curse you and it will work.
No. Nobody can curse you.
You are the only one that can curse yourself.


And if you curse yourself, don't blame anybody for your sufferings.

The same one or two reasons why you marry another girl is the same one or two reasons why you will bring the penalty to you.

The only time that you will pay no penalty for a girl you promise to marry and didn't marry her again is if:

1. She breaks the promise herself by leaving you to marrying another man. In this case, the penalty will follow her.

2. You catch her cheating on you. In this case, it is not your fault. You are free to end it right there. And no reasonable girl will blame you for leaving her in this case.

3. If she change her mind. That is, she decided not to marry you again on her own without any fault from you.

4. She turned from the good girl you use to know and become something else. And refused to to change after several talks, complains and maybe warnings from you.


Anything outside of these and you deliberately promise a girl for marriage only to deceive her later to marry another girl, you created a negative energy in the universe and it will follow you. You don't need extra curse.

What if the girl that left the guy that promise her marriage? what of the girls that leaves the guy after he must have trained her through school? what happens to these folks?

chiddyok:

Seriously he deserves it. The one person that did that to me, I’ve not cursed him. All I know is, one day my God will deliver him to my hand for all the shame and tears he put me through.

my friend relax, God won't deliver anyone to you. you two just dated and moved on but you choose not to move on and held unto grudges. Marriage promises can be broken with reasonable considerations. Make u comot mind from that innocent guy matter and move on

ThePussiologist:
my friend relax, God won't deliver anyone to you. you two just dated and moved on but you choose not to move on and held unto grudges. Marriage promises can be broken with reasonable considerations. Make u comot mind from that innocent guy matter and move on

God will. He will deliver him to me because he got married on the day of our introduction. God will deliver him back to me.

hmm that would depend on the reasons.
If one promise marriage for the purpose of satisfying his urge or using her to his advantage and later break up or cancel the plan because he's done. That would be a dishearten thing to do.
This is not a gender base thing, a girl can also be cursed by using or taking advantage of a man being it creating false emotional attachment or wasting her children (killing them via abortions).
The parents/relative/elderly can also lay curses to a man who defile a child or steal from a homeless person.


It all depends on the degree of reasons or circumstances for curses to take place.

ThePussiologist:
What if the girl that left the guy that promise her marriage? what of the girls that leaves the guy after he must have trained her through school? what happens to these folks?

It is easy to know these things once you understand the laws upon which this universe is built.

One cannot be happy making others unhappy. Such is not the law.

It will just be a matter of time for the negative energy that such people created to start manifesting in their lives.

Instead of marital bliss, they will be experiencing marital crisis.
And when it starts, they will blame it on others, accusing witches and wizards.
When in reality, it is a product of their own creation.

They have previously taken away others happiness and peace of mind. Therefore, they are unfit to be happy and to have peace of mind.

Most of the problems we are having in the world today including in marriages are man made.

To be happy, make others happy. That's the law.

Here is a life expo:

"To get what you want, help enough other people get what they want"

If you understand this simple yet powerful statement, then you will know that if you want to be happy in your life, then you have no business making others unhappy.