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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Korllami007: 9:09pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
u give money to a girl here she will feel offended and ask u weda u think she"s a prostitute cheesy. any girl u see taking money from a guy here is a hooker.thats how we know dem here cheesy.

LOL. The the thing wey those people over there see as prostitution, so na relationship for naija.
I talk am. grin grin grin grin

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Baddestguyp(m): 9:10pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
warris dis?
I thought I was the only one who saw that...
O.p is a big time simp... I await his thread on front-page when he trains a girl in school and she ends up leaving him for another guy
Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by helinues: 9:15pm On Jun 20, 2020
SLAP44:


If she makes me more productive by supporting me and making sure I am happy, she deserves all the things I surprise her with, don't you think so?

Nothing bad in that

Making sure I am happy

I didn't get that part
Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Mrlucky81(m): 9:23pm On Jun 20, 2020
SLAP44:

I hope you are taking good care of your loved one?
If i don't who will
Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Haywhymido(m): 9:44pm On Jun 20, 2020
victorian:







Don't mind the single guy.

Reno omokri is happily married and enjoying the warmth of his wife and possibly side chicks somewhere with the soft laughter of his kids, while he's advising rubbish online to single guys not to spend a dime on their gfs.
No problem. Let the guys not spend.

At least there are still guys who give their babes treats

No wonder ladies run after married men and rich guys. In fact fighting over them.

Let them keep living in la la land.
If Linda ikeji the billionaire blogger could end up as a baby mama cos she desired a billionaire husband? But got played by her desires.
If Tiwa savage could also desire a rich bigger boi and even announced it online, that if u are not rich don't holla.

Then who are we not to desire guys who are ready to spoil us silly with money and gifts?

Let the single stingy guys keep deluding themselves. Las las if they don't spend in their young age, they will spend times 5! In old age, Like ned nwoko , who pampers his wives and gfs with loads of money.
Na ur body go suffer am. In all you wrote here, I didnt see a part where u wrote that you gave your man a treat not even once.If you cant work,spend and take care of urself then shame on u.

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by ImaIma1(f): 9:49pm On Jun 20, 2020
lefulefu:
u give money to a girl here she will feel offended and ask u weda u think she"s a prostitute cheesy.any girl u see taking money from a guy here is a hooker.thats how we know dem here cheesy.


After comparing dating a Nigerian and dating a foreigner, you will now still end up getting married to the same Nigerian that you are badmouthing.

If you want to compare both climes, do it well. The women you are praising there, marry them first and mess up, that is when you will be praising Nigerian women who take all the bullshit from their men.

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Haywhymido(m): 9:50pm On Jun 20, 2020
helinues:


See no be about stingy matter... How much is massage session that person go dey waste money on GF wey fit dey sleep around for free self

Mtceeeew. I keep my money, you keep yours or I give you part of my money while you will also give me yours when in need .
gbam, u landed well

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Haywhymido(m): 9:57pm On Jun 20, 2020
ImaIma1:


After comparing dating a Nigerian and dating a foreigner, you will now still end up getting married to the same Nigerian that you are badmouthing.

If you want to compare both climes, do it well. The women you are praising there, marry them first and mess up, that is when you will be praising Nigerian women who take all the bullshit from their men.
It is a universal truth, foreign ladies are better than most if not all nigerian ladies. Deal with it

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Nobody: 10:02pm On Jun 20, 2020
ImaIma1:


After comparing dating a Nigerian and dating a foreigner, you will now still end up getting married to the same Nigerian that you are badmouthing.

If you want to compare both climes, do it well. The women you are praising there, marry them first and mess up, that is when you will be praising Nigerian women who take all the bullshit from their men.
anyway i dont have a nigerian girlfriend so i dont see how i will be coming back to naija to marry one cheesy.if i marry one at all it will be the one around here oo.i no dey do all dose arrangee relationship cheesy

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by ImaIma1(f): 10:07pm On Jun 20, 2020
Haywhymido:
It is a universal truth, foreign ladies are better than most if not all nigerian ladies. Deal with it


Are you comparing the bad eggs here with the good eggs there?

Or you believe all the ladies there are perfect? You must be naive. But I am not surprised. Most Africans see foreigners as gods...acting sheepish and blushing around them.

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jun 20, 2020
Baddestguyp:
I thought I was the only one who saw that...
O.p is a big time simp... I await his thread on front-page when he trains a girl in school and she ends up leaving him for another guy
it must be jazz that was talking i think..it wasnt really him

Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Nobody: 10:19pm On Jun 20, 2020
Korllami007:


LOL. The the thing wey those people over there see as prostitution, so na relationship for naija.
I talk am. grin grin grin grin
see guy on a normal day how will a girl come to ur place and the spend the night with u and the next morning you give her money and u go call dat a girlfriend.how dat one take be girlfriend cheesy.u reason am cheesy.

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by seanwilliam(m): 10:33pm On Jun 20, 2020
Well, one thing I'm 100% sure of is that, any man that fails to adhere to the rules of redpillsm, he would regret it directly or indirectly later in life

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Haywhymido(m): 10:37pm On Jun 20, 2020
ImaIma1:


Are you comparing the bad eggs here with the good eggs there?

Or you believe all the ladies there are perfect? You must be naive. But I am not surprised. Most Africans see foreigners as gods...acting sheepish and blushing around them.
I never said they are all prefect, going forward any man that wanna encounter true love shd try them(foreign ladies). Conditional love is what's being professed by Nigerian ladies. Also, they are spontaneous while most Nigerian ladies are monotonous following some damned laid down rules. It is not about ass licking them they are simply better no need fighting it out. Most Nigerian ladies cant start a conversation with a guy, maintain a conversation, you lots like being spoon fed. Finally, they have this silly idea of entitlement, greedness $ stinginess and that all men want to get into their pants. This is not meant to downgrade you lots but just bringing it to the fore to see it for what it is

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Queenslander(f): 10:53pm On Jun 20, 2020
Is everything about money? I don't think money is really important in a relationship.. Except you guys are planning on getting married.. Well it doesn't mean the guy should be Stark broke.. At least you guys should be on the same financial level..

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by ImaIma1(f): 10:59pm On Jun 20, 2020
Haywhymido:
I never said they are all prefect, going forward any man that wanna encounter true love shd try them(foreign ladies). Conditional love is what's being professed by Nigerian ladies. Also, they are spontaneous while most Nigerian ladies are monotonous following some damned laid down rules. It is not about ass licking them they are simply better no need fighting it out. Most Nigerian ladies cant start a conversation with a guy, maintain a conversation, you lots like being spoon fed. Finally, they have this silly idea of entitlement, greedness $ stinginess and that all men want to get into their pants. This is not meant to downgrade you lots but just bringing it to the fore to see it for what it is


First and foremost, you have mingled tooo much with low class ladies that it has formed your opinion and mindset. Many men will tell you they meet intelligent Nigerian ladies.

Secondly, do you have a close friend that is married to a foreigner there? I am not talking about all those social media pictures or "guy you dey miss" types. I mean having first hand knowledge of how their relationship is. If they are so perfect, why is there so much divorce even with their men that are more mannered and respectful than our Nigerian men? Their divorce rate is higher than ours.

If there are so good, why do Nigerians who have lived there still opt to marry these "unfit" Nigerian women? Look at Nigerian footballers who have stayed abroad for years, past and present, how many of them married foreigners? What is the percentage?

Didn't you learn the concept of "all that glitters is not gold?" There is more to stuff that meets the eye.

Every woman home and abroad has their flaws, good aspects and peculiarities. No region is better than the other. So all this Ronaldo is better than Messi syndrome should remain in soccer.

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by TalkTalkTwins(m): 11:49pm On Jun 20, 2020
victorian:






Thanks dear kiss


Courtesy of a wise boyfriend that knows soup wey sweet, na money kill am!

He does not need to be told.

Thank God he likes the attention of being noticed with a beautiful lady by his side when we go on dates.

Guys envy him, while ladies rush to seek his attention online and offline . We are both happy. It's a win-win.

You are also pretty my dear kiss

I like your smile smiley

Lol...lemme not talk shaa, before someone will say that I insulted her.

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by helpfindbolu: 12:13am On Jun 21, 2020
Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by makeherscream(m): 12:46am On Jun 21, 2020
Broke hungry lazy stupid Nigerian girls everywhere .

Do you know most of them don't want to work anymore they depend on their pussy .all this bitches self . Ritualist nor dey see all bitches abi ritualist nor dey Nigeria again

Two months ago I meet one stupid bitch in a restaurant I approach her and she gave me her number . Just two weeks into the relationship the bitch said I should rent her an apartment that she doesn't like the one she's staying anymore. I ask what happened if anybody body offended her in the compound she said no she just want to change location. That was the moment I ask her what she do for a living . She was like everybody know that I'm a student why are you asking me that question. I was like you know that I'm a student too so where do you expect me to get the money . She was like I know you work and you have the money so stop all this drama. I just tell her that I don't have the money for that she should go and ask her sugar daddy .

Person wey dey say she na student so na iPhone 11 she dey use if you enter her apartment na heaven on Earth her junior brother dey stay with her and na she dey take care of him need and all that .and she nor dey work oo. anytime I ask her where she dey get the money wey she take dey buy all those things she go change the topic .

Nigerian girl are something else

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Haywhymido(m): 12:50am On Jun 21, 2020
ImaIma1:


First and foremost, you have mingled tooo much with low class ladies that it has formed your opinion and mindset. Many men will tell you they meet intelligent Nigerian ladies.

Secondly, do you have a close friend that is married to a foreigner there? I am not talking about all those social media pictures or "guy you dey miss" types. I mean having first hand knowledge of how their relationship is. If they are so perfect, why is there so much divorce even with their men that are more mannered and respectful than our Nigerian men? Their divorce rate is higher than ours.

If there are so good, why do Nigerians who have lived there still opt to marry these "unfit" Nigerian women? Look at Nigerian footballers who stayed abroad for years, past and present, how many of them married foreigners? What is the percentage?

Didn't you learn the concept of "all that glitters is not gold?" There is more to stuff that meets the eye.

Every woman home and abroad has their flaws and good aspects. No region is better than the other. So all this Ronaldo is better than Messi syndrome should remain in soccer.

I wont go back to that 'perfect or not' issue since you have chosen to be myopic. With years spent in university, Nysc and travelling for business,If i had mingled with low class ladies that means most Nigerian ladies are. Go around ask a MAN not a p*ssy whipped boy about Nigerian ladies, the result will bring tears to your eyes. Also, i never said all Nigerian ladies but majority. i reaffirm my stand that the unintelligent ones outnumbered the intelligent ones at a ratio of 5:1 and stop twisting my words to raise an agenda.

Are you saying you are oblivious of the numerous stories of how it ended in tears for most of such men, that came to seek Nigerian women as wife after years of living in abroad, turning hardworking and honourable men to homeless men, turning their children against them in a foreign land, threats upon threats on daily basis just to cower them to serve their insatiable wants.

Sis. the earlier you people stop seeing yourselves as the next best thing after oxygen the better. There are lots of things that excite men other than ladies. why should we only look at Nigerian footballers? They are MADE remember? And we all know when money is involved you (Nigerian ladies) hardly let go. why dont we take a look at the average Nigerians in the foreign land. Divorce rate, seriously? visit a district court in your area you will have a change of view. I dont see theirs out weighting ours.

I would have liked to go along with your last paragragh but an average Nigerian woman flaws outweight that of a foreigner. Let's call a spade what it is,the meaning of a spade shouldnt vary due to the person holding it.

You people should work on yourselves especially these areas: Sense of entitlement, greedness and stinginess, sense of missing out , improve your communication skills esp. with opposite sex, not gossiping around every time and spend more time on enhancing yourselves with knowlege, skills rather than on instagram and all other whatnot. Guys want the best for you all and would really appreciate you for it.

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by makeherscream(m): 12:57am On Jun 21, 2020
Haywhymido:

I wont go back to that 'perfect or not' issue since you have chosen to be myopic. With years spent in university, Nysc and travelling for business,If i had mingled with low class ladies that means most Nigerian ladies are. Go around ask a MAN not a p*ssy whipped boy about Nigerian ladies, the result will bring tears to your eyes. Also, i never said all Nigerian ladies but majority. i reaffirm my stand that the unintelligent ones outnumbered the intelligent ones at a ratio of 5:1 and stop twisting my words to raise an agenda.

Are you saying you are oblivious of the numerous stories of how it ended in tears for most of such men, that came to seek Nigerian women as wife after years of living in abroad, turning hardworking and honourable men to homeless men, turning their children against them in a foreign land, threats upon threats on daily basis just to cower them to serve their insatiable wants.

Sis. the earlier you people stop seeing yourselves as the next best thing after oxygen the better. There are lots of things that excite men other than ladies. why should we only look at Nigerian footballers? They are MADE remember? And we all know when money is involved you (Nigerian ladies) hardly let go. why dont we take a look at the average Nigerians in the foreign land. Divorce rate, seriously? visit a district court in your area you will have a change of view. I dont see theirs out weighting ours.

I would have liked to go along with your last paragragh but an average Nigerian woman flaws outweight that of a foreigner. Let's call a spade what it is,the meaning of a spade shouldnt vary due to the person holding it.

You people should work on yourselves especially these areas: Sense of entitlement, greedness and stinginess, sense of missing out , improve your communication skills esp. with opposite sex, not gossiping around every time and spend more time on enhancing yourselves with knowlege, skills rather than on instagram and all other whatnot. Guys want the best for you all and would really appreciate you for it.
you're so on point bro
Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by MajorOvakporaye(f): 1:19am On Jun 21, 2020
victorian:







Don't mind the single guy.

Reno omokri is happily married and enjoying the warmth of his wife and possibly side chicks somewhere with the soft laughter of his kids, while he's advising rubbish online to single guys not to spend a dime on their gfs.
No problem. Let the guys not spend.

At least there are still guys who give their babes treats

No wonder ladies run after married men and rich guys. In fact fighting over them.

Let them keep living in la la land.
If Linda ikeji the billionaire blogger could end up as a baby mama cos she desired a billionaire husband? But got played by her desires.
If Tiwa savage could also desire a rich bigger boi and even announced it online, that if u are not rich don't holla.

Then who are we not to desire guys who are ready to spoil us silly with money and gifts?

Let the single stingy guys keep deluding themselves. Las las if they don't spend in their young age, they will spend times 5! In old age, Like ned nwoko , who pampers his wives and gfs with loads of money.

hmmm
na wa oh
Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by obataokenwa(m): 2:45am On Jun 21, 2020
victorian:






Thanks dear kiss


Courtesy of a wise boyfriend that knows soup wey sweet, na money kill am!

He does not need to be told.

Thank God he likes the attention of being noticed with a beautiful lady by his side when we go on dates.

Guys envy him, while ladies rush to seek his attention online and offline . We are both happy. It's a win-win.

You are also pretty my dear kiss

I like your smile smiley
if you're not married, you have a problem sha. With this ur picture I see, you shouldn't be single by now cos you're abt 40+ in this ur pics sha. All the best
Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by obataokenwa(m): 2:48am On Jun 21, 2020
Anuoluwa1234:
Thanks ma'am . smiley smiley
Hope you're married, if not, you're in prayer house stage right now. I would advice u change ur picture and begin to reason like one that want to be a mother. Just an advice...you're above 35 in this ur pics. all the best
Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by obataokenwa(m): 2:58am On Jun 21, 2020
SLAP44:


Bros we know that massage is massage, being with your woman has its own different feel, the laughs, the Jokes, the late night talks and the companionship has its own quality.

If the GF dey sleep around, you can change her lifestyle with more love.
Some men feel that it makes them less of a man to allow a woman they love to be spending on them.
your parents will not be proud of you as a son. Any girl that cheats on u while u date her, will never stop if you marry her. You don't know what's love

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by elpochas: 3:55am On Jun 21, 2020
The truth is once you got a good pretty girl that loves you very much,my brother's you just need to do your best no matter how little you have.If only we guys know the kind of temptations our babes and wifes face both from men and lesbian ladies.Women tend to love guys that care for them,let no one decive you o before you loose a good girl because of one stupid advice from a married man.
Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Churchill6767: 4:58am On Jun 21, 2020
SLAP44:


Bros we know that massage is massage, being with your woman has its own different feel, the laughs, the Jokes, the late night talks and the companionship has its own quality.

If the GF dey sleep around, you can change her lifestyle with more love. Some men feel that it makes them less of a man to allow a woman they love to be spending on them.

Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Lordswazz(m): 6:52am On Jun 21, 2020
ImaIma1:


First and foremost, you have mingled tooo much with low class ladies that it has formed your opinion and mindset. Many men will tell you they meet intelligent Nigerian ladies.

Secondly, do you have a close friend that is married to a foreigner there? I am not talking about all those social media pictures or "guy you dey miss" types. I mean having first hand knowledge of how their relationship is. If they are so perfect, why is there so much divorce even with their men that are more mannered and respectful than our Nigerian men? Their divorce rate is higher than ours.

If there are so good, why do Nigerians who have lived there still opt to marry these "unfit" Nigerian women? Look at Nigerian footballers who have stayed abroad for years, past and present, how many of them married foreigners? What is the percentage?

Didn't you learn the concept of "all that glitters is not gold?" There is more to stuff that meets the eye.

Every woman home and abroad has their flaws, good aspects and peculiarities. No region is better than the other. So all this Ronaldo is better than Messi syndrome should remain in soccer.
Forget matter of low class. Mooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooost naija girls na money for hand back for ground. the few that don't demand are the exception.

What shocks guys about the foreign girls they meet in lots of the countries they travel to after spending so much time here is that the majority of them don't need your kobo; the chemistry and affection is enough. I don't know if it's the culture of lack that causes it in this country or just an innate trait.
Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by Nobody: 7:44am On Jun 21, 2020
Read what u typed, honestly dost it make any sense to you, if so the believe me, something is wrong with you.
And mind you, so be it for you, and every females related to you by blood, as you HV wished be in Jesus name, amen.
obataokenwa:
Hope you're married, if not, you're in prayer house stage right now. I would advice u change ur picture and begin to reason like one that want to be a mother. Just an advice...you're above 35 in this ur pics. all the best

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by ImaIma1(f): 10:23am On Jun 21, 2020
Haywhymido:

I wont go back to that 'perfect or not' issue since you have chosen to be myopic. With years spent in university, Nysc and travelling for business,If i had mingled with low class ladies that means most Nigerian ladies are. Go around ask a MAN not a p*ssy whipped boy about Nigerian ladies, the result will bring tears to your eyes. Also, i never said all Nigerian ladies but majority. i reaffirm my stand that the unintelligent ones outnumbered the intelligent ones at a ratio of 5:1 and stop twisting my words to raise an agenda.

Are you saying you are oblivious of the numerous stories of how it ended in tears for most of such men, that came to seek Nigerian women as wife after years of living in abroad, turning hardworking and honourable men to homeless men, turning their children against them in a foreign land, threats upon threats on daily basis just to cower them to serve their insatiable wants.

Sis. the earlier you people stop seeing yourselves as the next best thing after oxygen the better. There are lots of things that excite men other than ladies. why should we only look at Nigerian footballers? They are MADE remember? And we all know when money is involved you (Nigerian ladies) hardly let go. why dont we take a look at the average Nigerians in the foreign land. Divorce rate, seriously? visit a district court in your area you will have a change of view. I dont see theirs out weighting ours.

I would have liked to go along with your last paragragh but an average Nigerian woman flaws outweight that of a foreigner. Let's call a spade what it is,the meaning of a spade shouldnt vary due to the person holding it.

You people should work on yourselves especially these areas: Sense of entitlement, greedness and stinginess, sense of missing out , improve your communication skills esp. with opposite sex, not gossiping around every time and spend more time on enhancing yourselves with knowlege, skills rather than on instagram and all other whatnot. Guys want the best for you all and would really appreciate you for it.


All I can see here is playing the blame game and pot calling kettle black.

Years from now after spending years abroad, you will still marry a Nigerian woman. Till then, all this is just talk.

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Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by ImaIma1(f): 10:24am On Jun 21, 2020
Lordswazz:

Forget matter of low class. Mooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooost naija girls na money for hand back for ground. the few that don't demand are the exception.

What shocks guys about the foreign girls they meet in lots of the countries they travel to after spending so much time here is that the majority of them don't need your kobo; the chemistry and affection is enough. I don't know if it's the culture of lack that causes it in this country or just an innate trait.


Ok.
Re: For Guys Who Claims Not To Spend On Girls by SLAP44: 4:01pm On Jun 21, 2020
Is this a case of poverty?

What could be the reason for our men becoming irresponsible to the extent of denying their age old responsibility of taking care of the women they sleep with?

Our ancestors were proud people, they even fought wars to defend their space and protect their territory and maintain their harem.

Our fathers worked their socks off feeding and protecting their women who in turn carried back goodies from the farms and the market while our daddies enjoyed their looks after buying them clothes and large chunks of meat.

Our own generation has become irresponsible, and even trying to push their responsibility to the women folk. I saw one Nigeria guy who was living with a Jamaican babe here, feeding and knacking freely for months before he got his feet on the ground.

What happened to our pride, why have we become this shameless as to expect to shy away from our responsibility to the women we love.

Again, is this a case of poverty?

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