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she is just not enthusiastic about anything. She waits for life to hand her something instead of going after it. I don't know if I can go ahead with this arrangement any more.

Well they said cooking, submission,cleaning and giving sex are the only qualifications of being a good wife in Nigeria so enjoy what your brothers have created.

gamblering:
she is just not enthusiastic about anything. She waits for life to hand her something instead of going after it. I don't know if I can go ahead with this arrangement any more.

Thats because you were never her friend. You went ahead to date her without knowing who she is and without being ready to help her first before dating her.

You too were hasty. Now you are stuck and no one can help you.

gamblering:
she is just not enthusiastic about anything. She waits for life to hand her something instead of going after it. I don't know if I can go ahead with this arrangement any more.

If she is like this with her friends and family, she might be battling depression.

Also check if she believes men should be the goal getters while women should wait for life to happen to them.

Are you a rehabilitation center for broken women?

I bet you got with her because she is very curvy and looks fertile.
What is her story? Maybe she is tired of trying and now depressed. Try and find out before you discontinue with the arrangement

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Ladylite:
Thats because you were never her friend. You went ahead to date her without knowing who she is and without being ready to help her first before dating her.

You too were hasty. Now you are stuck and no one can help you.

What do u mean by he's stuck,even married people are not stuck. There is always an out

Ladylite:
Thats because you were never her friend. You went ahead to date her without knowing who she is and without being ready to help her first before dating her.

You too were hasty. Now you are stuck and no one can help you.

I knew the kind of person she is before I moved to date her. I guess I thought she would change. or that I could change her. Or that her circumstance would change things.

bukatyne:
If she is like this with her friends and family, she might be battling depression.

Also check if she believes men should be the goal getters while women should wait for life to happen to them.

No, she is not battling depression. But yes, she believes men should go out and get things. She is preparing to be a housewife, though she knows that doesn't go down well with me.

albertatrina:
I bet you got with her because she is very curvy and looks fertile.
What is her story? Maybe she is tired of trying and now depressed. Try and find out before you discontinue with the arrangement

She is not depressed

gamblering:
she is just not enthusiastic about anything. She waits for life to hand her something instead of going after it. I don't know if I can go ahead with this arrangement any more.

Your story is missinh the fillings necessary to help us here. What is her backstory? Was she always like this or did she only recently become this way?

gamblering:
She is not depressed

how do you know for sure that she is not depressed?

gamblering:
No, she is not battling depression. But yes, she believes men should go out and get things. She is preparing to be a housewife, though she knows that doesn't go down well with me.

was she raised to believe it is the way it ought to be because is female?

Or is she a woman who believes herself a queen to be taken care of?

gamblering:
I knew the kind of person she is before I moved to date her. I guess I thought she would change. or that I could change her. Or that her circumstance would change things.

Oh! You have known of this all along but you wanted to change her with your magical charms anyway?

So she is not the problem. Why are you here making it seem the woman is to blame then?
She didn't lie to you. You lied to her that you were ok with who she is.

Romangalactic:
Are you a rehabilitation center for broken women?

comedy forum...

gamblering:
No, she is not battling depression. But yes, she believes men should go out and get things. She is preparing to be a housewife, though she knows that doesn't go down well with me.

If that is what she wants and you don't, then leave.
You're not the man for her simple.
How do you inspire her if I may ask? What is she passionate about?

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Never go into a relationship with the mindset of changing anyone! If things are not working between the two of you, take a break and find out what you really want in a relationship, there are lots of women out there that can fit in. Don't ruin things for yourself even before you start.

gamblering:
No, she is not battling depression. But yes, she believes men should go out and get things. She is preparing to be a housewife, though she knows that doesn't go down well with me.

The lady you want to marry wants to be an housewife.

You don't like it; on what basis are you progressing the relationship?

is she ethuastic about you?

such women make best faithful housewife.
she will stick by u evenbif u cheat on her

tobechi20:
such women make best faithful housewife.

she will stick by u evenbif u cheat on her

Na wa o

You are already making contingency plans for adultery.

tobechi20:
such women make best faithful housewife.

she will stick by u evenbif u cheat on her

You are obviously a mistake of a man, because you just said exactly what you'd do when married.

gamblering:
No, she is not battling depression. But yes, she believes men should go out and get things. She is preparing to be a housewife, though she knows that doesn't go down well with me.

gamblering:
I knew the kind of person she is before I moved to date her. I guess I thought she would change. or that I could change her. Or that her circumstance would change things.

Her goal in life is to be a housewife, it obviously doesnt align with yours so let her be, go look for someone that will share bills with you.

gamblering:
No, she is not battling depression. But yes, she believes men should go out and get things. She is preparing to be a housewife, though she knows that doesn't go down well with me.

So why are you engaged to someone who doesn’t believe in the same things you do and what do you want us to do about it?
Worse still, you knew all this and went ahead to get engaged to her.

Let me guess, she meets the physical criteria that got you attracted, probably wowed you with her ‘homely and wifely’ skills but the thought of providing for the specifications you want is daunting to you.

What's wrong with preparing to be a housewife?

Acidosis:
What's wrong with preparing to be a housewife?

They can't walk together if there is no agreement on the type of roles they should have in the home.

bukatyne:
They can't walk together if there is no agreement on the type of roles they should have in the home.

That's true sha

What is wrong with waiting for life to hand you things? We can't all be goal getters. If she is supportive of you and not a leech then I see no problem.
People should realise that we are all very different. Is she a good person? Does she have strong values? If she isn't what you want then leave. Don't give her a bad name.

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Fountainofyouth:
Her goal in life is to be a housewife, it obviously doesnt align with yours so let her be, go look for someone that will share bills with you.

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Fountainofyouth:
You are obviously a mistake of a man, because you just said exactly what you'd do when married.

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