I sometimes get confused about this love and trust of a thing regarding relationship.
I have to google the difference between both. Here is what I go


The ultimate universal truth is that we should trust someone that we love. To have a healthy relationship or an overall healthy life, we must take the risk in believing in someone or something. Too often, we mistaken love as being the one thing that conquers all. Sadly, this gives us a false hope and forces us to accept the harsh reality that love is NOT enough. Two individuals may love each other with all their hearts, but they both know that the relationship has been damaged due to the lack of trust. Here are 7 truths to why trust is more valuable than love:

1. Trust is the foundation of love. If you don’t trust a person, how can you love them? Trust precedes love; we can only truly love someone that we can trust. Trust is something that is earned through actions. It is the sense of security that allows both parties to expose themselves fully without any judgments or fears. If someone can break your trust in any way, shape, or form, it isn’t true love.

2. Trust is enough; love is NOT enough. Trust is enough because trust is an attribute of love. Trust enhances love. We can love someone because we once trusted him or her, but as soon as that trust is destroyed, that initial love that was built on trust, isn’t enough.

3. Trust is NOT blind; love is blind. Trust, initially, is an emotional act. We must be vulnerable and trust that someone will accept us and learn to love us. However, once the trust that is built is destroyed, it is based more on a logical and intuitional act. Trust will not blind us from the facts. Love, on the other hand, is blind. Because we are accustomed to trusting someone and thinking he or she will never break our trust, our emotions get the best of us and do not allow us to face the sad truth. The love we have for a person clouds our judgment and instills fear within us; the broken trust allows us to see the harsh reality of the situation and face that fear.

4. No relationship will survive without trust. Trust is the central pillar supporting any real relationship. Building trust in a relationship takes hard work and commitment. Trust requires that we listen and communicate our wants and needs to our partner. Above anything else, trust requires honesty. Once trust is built, it should be maintained throughout. Once that trust is broken, it is almost impossible to go back to the way things were without the doubt and the fear of trust being broken again. A relationship that thrives on lack of trust will infuse uncertainties and insecurities in the relationship, either causing both parties to hate one another or the overall relationship to self-destruct.

5. Trust allows us to believe. Trust not only allows us to believe others, but it allows us to believe in ourselves. We do not believe in ourselves until someone else puts his or her trust in us. If he or she makes us believe that we are capable of doing anything, then we start to believe it ourselves.

6. Trust allows us to love, again. Trust always leads to love. After our trust has been broken, we are more cautious about whom to trust again. Better yet, whom to love again. This doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t trust anybody. It simply means that we are aware that trusting someone is a risk, and that risk can either create an everlasting love or destroy it.

7. There simply is no ‘us’ without Trust.


Is it possible for there to be love without trust
Or trust without love

Emotional maturity is even more key and bedrock to trust

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see de way dat one jxt fix eyes on that fone

See how men keep deceiving themselves. Who told you that love and trust must always go together? Loving someone doesn't mean you must trust the person. The idea that love and trust must go together is just a manipulative tactic that uses your feelings for a woman to make you an unsuspecting sheep to her and her manipulations. If you think I am wrong, then I dare you to do the following:
(1) Never get a DNA test on your kids because you trust your wife/babymama since you love her.
(2) Don't ever check her phone and social media accounts when you have the chance because you trust her since you love her.
(3) If you have money, take her overseas, marry her there with a marriage license, live there, and expect her not to torment you and use the misandric system and family courts against you. Do all these because you trust her since you love her. Mteww.
(4) If she says she is a virgin, keep spending on her and don't verify her claims until on the wedding night (that's if she lets a silly beta cùck like you service her promise land) because you trust her since you love her.
(5) Grant your wife/ babymama/gf unsupervised and unrestricted access to your bank accounts and property documents, and even buy (or change) all your properties in her name and except not to be screwed over in future because you trust her since you love her. Some of you can't even trust your kids with your bank accounts yet you think love and trust must go together.

I can go on and on. As I have said, love and trust are independent of each other. The romantic love a man has toward a woman is based on his feelings and perception of the woman. On the other hand, trust is based on evidence and reasoning except where you can't help it. A teacher can only trust a student to ace WAEC if his/her academic record has been outstanding; such trust is not based on his love for his student. If you tow this path of "trust and love go together," you are setting up yourself for brutal manipulation and grief. Ask men before you. As I have said the idea that love and trust go together is just a manipulative tactic that uses your feelings for a woman to make you an unsuspecting sheep to a her and her manipulations. There is a reason why fraudsters and scammers try to elicit trust from their potential victims: they want you to be an unsuspecting sheep so you can be too easy to deceive.

lilfort:
women hav probs small
see de way dat one jxt fix eyes on that fone

A woman seeks honesty, trust and loyalty from a man, but she can't reciprocate. It's for the same reason why scammers seek these things from their potential victims but can't reciprocate.