BREYZ:
Way back in secondary school, dad promised to get me a bicycle after he got one for our last born, he said next week, omo next week turned to months and years, it's been like 8 years now . I am now an Adult, living all by myself in another city but the truth still remains: I have the best parents & Each time I remember these experiences, It always made me smile. Mom & Dad, even if you never got me the bicycle, I am going to buy you G-wagon 2022 model

buy G wagon with mouth abi abeg face front

I begged my dad to buy me a bicycle for many years. From when I had sense in primary school and my early years in secondary school, I begged for a bicycle. He always promised me a bicycle if I came back with a good result. I did my best, came back with several good results but no bicycle. He would rather buy other indoor toys.

I eventually stopped asking him for a bicycle because I grew older and my priorities changed. I asked him when I was older why he never bought me a bicycle even after begging for so many years. He told me he was scared. He knew if i had the bicycle, I will want to ride it on the street and that the street was not safe because a car could hit me. He did not know how to tell me that he was never going to buy me a bicycle.

Maybe he should have told me back then so that I will not keep begging when he had already made up his mind.

AkuOlisa:
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Chaiii
O boy this your matter come dey pain me pass you. Na Wahoo

I don forgive them sha

XshegzzyeeiX:

Please "older siblings" cannot go together. It should be siblings.

Interesting, so how do you pass the message across you're not referring to your younger ones? Since just "siblings" could be ambiguous, you wouldn't know if twas younger or older...

EzzyCarter:


Interesting, so how do you pass the message across you're not referring to your younger ones? Since just "siblings" could be ambiguous, you wouldn't know if twas younger or older...

You are right.
There is older and younger sibling(s).

Was it a revealing clothes?

ibkayee:
I had chosen an outfit for my sibling’s birthday party that I was REALLY excited about wearing and my mum changed it without me knowing a day before the party so we couldn’t even go back to change. Omo I was so hurt, even thinking about it now makes me angry

Mom once chased me out from the house because I flog my step brother for gambling

alphaRego01:
Theres no need to start saying anytin here coz if i begin write,space no go de.i give glory To God they are still alive and healthy tho.




Na just say na this lockdown show me de main de main inside life.parents scam their chidren like nigerian government. And they are really good at it

The bless wey God go bless you for talking my mind ehn. Every single word!

IbrahimSkiba:



Sometimes I feel so alone.
Sometimes I really get sad and ask so many questions.
Sometimes I am meant to believe that love doesn't actually really exist.
Sometimes I really get scared of being a failure, even after graduating and also serving, but no job.

Now Op is asking what's the thing your parents has done that you now that you won't ever forget.

Now here mine. My dad

I'll always be grateful to God for giving him the grace to see me through school.
I'll forever be indebted to him.


Now here's why I can never forgive my dad
Prior to this day, I've always endured harsh treatment from my dad but I never thought he would go to this extent to show his level of hatred for me and my siblings
So two months ago, my dad and his wife had me and my siblings locked up for a crime we didn't commit, she told my dad that we took her pant, I know it sounds absurd,, I actually thought he was joking, when he said, we would confess. before I knew it, four Red beret officers arrived and told us that we were under arrest, shuoo

Na so dem bundle us go lock us up. At the end the truth came out. I left home. I promised never go to back home.

Now to my mom.
We agreed on selling a piece of land, and from the proceed, I intended on starting a small business from my own share of the money, which was supposed to be 500k, but can you believe that, my mom sold the land for 2.5m and she didn't tell us. .and now ever since then, he line has been switched off
She doesn't pick up calls anymore.

I heard she used the money to get herself a ride. Without considering her children.

I vow to make it big in this life.

I don't care the means.. I must make it.

You sound like an entitled child. "A" piece of land. You say "A" as if the land has no owner. Is it yours or hers? She can do what she wants with her land. She has raised you people and you lots are supposed to be giving and not trying to collect her hardwork at your age. Be a man and grow up.

andrewtosin:


Was it a revealing clothes?

Lol nah not at all, and I was like 10

My dad abandoned contributing to our financial needs before I was born.

Coolcalmcollect:
Used his position as an oga of an office to get jobs for people ignoring me cos I didn't read engineering....now he's retired, those ones he helped no longer follow him or even acknowledge him, they all earn 6figure salary.... While I'm here doing sales.... And he sends me daily morning devotion never to give up... Smh

That's bad. He must be regretting it now.

This one was from my mom and it hurt really bad,I had health issues when I was in my early teens and my mom being the religious type wanted to take me to her church(we attended different church).I refused and one night after trying to convince me time and again she resorted to mocking me about my sickness.I slept with tears in my eyes DAT night.I know she never meant it but still it hurt then.

Hehe... You were still kid then. There was probably something wrong with the clothes. Maybe it wasn't fit for the event or otherwise reasons.

What if she did it to you now what would you do?

ibkayee:

Lol nah not at all, and I was like 10

LaJose78:


yeah got no main ish wt my parents only siblings prob especially my junior sis.....

Guy...what my sis did to me? People were asking if she was really my sister?

I can never forgive them for this

loveyou123:
Mine is my father wrongly accusing me of stealing his money not once not twice and there is nothing you can do convince him that you are not the one because in his mind he is always right , as a emotional person it hurts a lot.

I can't wait to graduate and run from his place before he destroy my self esteem, I just pray we shouldn't have any big issues before I leave him, I still want to be in good terms with him.

Just because I am not a very religious person anything bad happened in the house he will be pointing fingers at me, well God know the best.

Must you be praying everyday or going to church always to be a good person?

Please share yours, if you have any hurtful experience with any of your parents

We are on the same boat man.

SouthNigerian:
The most painful my parent did me?

My Mum who seperated with my Dad when I was only 3 accused me of being a thief less than a year after reunion of 7yrs seperation.

Crazy enough, I became a hardened thief due to that one false allegation by my Mom. I broke the thieving habit in the long run though, thanks to JAH.

Thank God for healing your heart

StrayCat:
My mum accused me of following boys and poured pepper in my privates. My eyes. My armpit.
I was still without a boyfriend and didn't even know what boyfriend and girlfriends do... though my uncle abused me as a kid.
After that incidence, I went wild.
I thank God for Christ.
She has knelt to beg me... I have forgiven her.
But it hurts.
It burns anytime I remember.
I am crying now.
She said because she saw a boy walking with me.
And he was following me and I ignored him.
I was barely 15 then

Sorry for ur experience. Just try to burn the past u will be fine ���.

Praylove:




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I've forgiven them, but a part of me still hurts from that singular decision my parents made till this day...
See folks, no matter how hard or difficult life turns out, never, I repeat, never ever allow your kids go live with anyone, even some family members can not be trusted.. I've been there, and I know, my life changed because of that decision...
The darkest phase of my life, was staying with a very wicked aunty. She stole my childhood and I almost lost my confidence and self esteem as a teenager and most of all, I lost a very precious gift under her watchful eyes... Lol... But thank God. I turned out to be a purposeful woman and I know I'm still in the making... But when I look back, I just know that I have a lot to be thankful for...it was a necessary evil... Today, a lot of people come to me for counseling and I am able to do it because, I've been through it all...

U are strong. I heart u Sis.

LaJose78:

this ur own experience nawao...sorry nne

Thanks

Yangami:
Pathetic. But trust me you will conquer your odds with consistency and tenacity.

Amen and thanks

Iseoluwani:



I feel ur pain most especially ur mum issue.

Thanks

Geeflow:


sorry bro, I really feel for you.

Thanks. But I'm not a bro.

Yabaleft:


Your parents are fantastic

Abi

MISSCONGENIALITY:
God will bless your hustle. Your parents will come looking for you and make sure you show them that you are a better person than them. You will be fine. God is your father and your mother and he has heard your cry.

Thanks dear

[quote author=paulolee post=91071813]1.my mom always making me reject monetry gifts and food from my relatives which made me thought thier hands aint clean and they are all winches and wizards
4.lastly, was nearly depressed and cried all night when ronke the popular street runs girl, came to our compound one Saturday morning crying along with her mum that am responsible for her pregnancy, can't deny i do gist with her, but i have never even seen the colour of her pant before, and she was seriously accusing me wrongly with tears in her
Forgiving will do you more good. Forgiveness gives u inner peace

Hmm, This is a strong and serious topic. I commend the Op for creating this thread. I've only told this to one person and I've been carrying this one for 9 years now.
This might turn out to be a little long, so bear with me. When I was 17, a few days to my first WAEC, I was reading in the living room when my mom walked in and falsely accused me of sleeping with my own Dad... Oh, I'm a guy btw and I'm not gay. She claimed she saw my Dad touching me and that he slept with me. I was stunned. I went through different ranges of emotions. At first, I wanted to curse her, then I wanted the ground to swallow me up for real, then I wanted to cry, and then I wanted to scream, tears just filled my eyes, and the first thing that came out of my mouth was "Why are you doing this?" and then she just walked out. I just sat there losing my mind, I knew it was untrue because there's no way you would penetrate a guy without him feeling it, right? Not to mention the fact that I have no memory of this ever happening. And yet she claimed she saw this happening, if that was true, why didn't she stop it? Long story short, that was the day my life got turned upside down by my own Mom. The not so funny thing is, she never once brought up that issue again since then, and yet she never apologized for it (not that I'd ever forgive her anyway). Dad has no clue about this issue, by the way.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


Guy...what my sis did to me? People were asking if she was really my sister?

I swear most time na see finish dey cause am

henrysolution:

it's called closure

Which kain yeye closure. All the ones wey u don your parents nko?

thariodamaniac:
there is no such thing as instigating hate... Whatever you read here has always been in their minds... Its like saying someone creates anoda person's fear.... Not possible

Then you're stirring up past memories.
What about the sacrifices of parents for their children.

Igbojihadist:
buy G wagon with mouth abi abeg face front

STOP BEING STUPID MR MAN. ITS MY COMMENT JUST READ AND PASS AND STOP SOUNDING PAINED. THOSE THAT BUY DO THEY HAVE TWO HEADS? ABEG SHIFT