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Vulcanheph:
In a way i agree with the op.... There was a this female collegue of mine that got very close to me, what complicated the whole situation was that she was dating the manager at our workplace, and the manager was seriously Suspecting me, it took a while for the guy to understand that i never wanted to bang the girl, because if i had wanted to, it would have been very easy because the girl in question got so comfortable around me that the girl can change Clothes in my presence......although at first i really wanted to Screw her but as our friendship grew i started seeing her as a sister and i had already given the guy my word that i had nothing in mind for the girl, the both of them are married with a kid now......bottom line is people of opposite genders can just be friends but it rarely happens, because in most cases "na bestie Dey Shift Pants pass", As a wise old man once told me "Keeping a woman as your best friend is like keepin a chicken as a pet, because one day you'll have to Eat it"

thank God u confessed that you *wanted but latter changed mind.

you also said if u *wanted, it would be much more easier for you to straf

your boss who was close monitored you guys was major reason you let go of her. ....you fear negative consequences.

lesson learnt;;;;;;;;; man and woman who re not blood related have no reason to be best friends except if they intend to go into relationship.

lefulefu:
even if he is a enuch dont rtrust him still.he could be giving her cunninlingnus

Chai... no be lie oo

urchcoded:
i have a lot of close female friends and we are not sexually engaged in any form. But what do you mean by you have a lot of besties? One can have only one best friend.

Forget that liar. His aim is to look good before NL girls in hopes of getting some

victorian:
Lefu Lefu, not all girls think like her.

There are ladies who appreciate their bfs who spends. Don't mind her.

She will regret her words later in life. I can bet she's either 19years or early 20s.

She never see life with that her unfortunate bestie. The bestie should be in his 20s while her bf in his 30s.

It's not hard to figure.

Anyways how u dey jare

lol i dont think it has anything to do with age cos some older ladies still make fun of men who look after them financially and tag them as mumu behind their back .i remember one incident then in naija i was in a barbing saloon and one girl nearby came to change her phone in the saloon cos there was no light.the girl started sounding off and boasting to the guy was barbing my hair on how her guy takes care of her..that the guy is the one who rented the place where she is staying and it was the guy who bought this phone for her.that the guy is an ND2 student and also doing yahoo but the guy is not her type and he's ugly and when she has eaten his money she is going to dump him.i had to look at her through the mirror to get a good view of the girl who was sounding all this rubbish.She was kinder chubby, looked matured,not beautiful and had quite a dark complexion.In my mind i was now thinking why will a guy be spending money on this one but then i had another thought that some guys tend to be foolish .When she left the barber just shook his head and said he felt for the guy who was dating the girl .

victorian:
Anyways how u dey jare

am fine good afternoon

dairykidd:
Forget that liar. His aim is to look good before NL girls in hopes of getting some

such format of trying to look good towards a girl no dey work again .i can bet u with my last fiver that most girls here know he"s lying .

lefulefu:
lol i dont think it has anything to do with age cos some older ladies still make fun of men who look after them financially and tag them as mumu behind their back .i remember one incident then in naija i was in a barbing saloon and one girl nearby came to change her phone in the saloon cos there was no light.the girl started sounding off and boasting to the guy was barbing my hair on how her guy takes care of her..that the guy is the one who rented the place where she is staying and it was the guy who bought this phone for her.that the guy is an ND2 student and also doing yahoo but the guy is not her type and he's ugly and when she has eaten his money she is going to dump him.i had to look at her through the mirror to get a good view of the girl who was sounding all this rubbish.She was kinder chubby, looked matured,not beautiful and had quite a dark complexion.In my mind i was now thinking why will a guy be spending money on this one but then i had another thought that some guys tend to be foolish .When she left the barber just shook his head and said he felt for the guy who was dating the girl .

Wow!
She has not seen life that's why.

Everything has always been rosy for and shes the type without conscience.

It's rather unfortunate Or fortunate I have seen life inside out, I know the value of money. I know what it takes to earn every little cent. It's not easy, it's not a walk in the park even na yahoo. It's not easy. So ladies who tend to label their helpers as mugu. Their own dey wait for them for front.
It's simply karma.
I thank God for my life anyways. Let them keep mocking their helpers for helping them, until there will be none to help them when they are in dire need of money to solve life threatening situations.

Na dem sabi. They over try o.

I have my own life to live I can't thank God enough Biko.
And I can't thank my destiny helper enough. He's a great man in this life and many many years to come. God will keep blessing him forever in Jesus name Amen o. And by Gods grace our story will end in great praise. I thank God. Upon all my wailing on my failed relationships with demons in male clothing all these past years. Mehn I thank God for this one.

So
Na the girls sabi o.

lefulefu:
am fine good afternoon

Goodevening

Happy weekend.

I say make I hail u!

I'm loyal o

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