DenreleDave:


She won... 1k

1k isn't a trophy.

NevetsIbot:


I wouldn't say this one was wayward... But to an extent.. Maybe

maybe? I see you've got church mind,good for you thou

HomerTimpson:
maybe? I see you've got church mind,good for you thou

I.. Church mind? If only you knew me.

NevetsIbot:

I.. Church mind? If only you knew me.

LOL G

Everytime broke girls yen yen yen. So u opened this thread because of 1k. The girl may not be broke. She may just be pretending. I do that a lot

Trayceey:
Everytime broke girls yen yen yen. So u opened this thread because of 1k. The girl may not be broke. She may just be pretending. I do that a lot

SMH.. You still didn't get that it wasn't about the money... Aunty. Go and read it again.


And wtf do I do with the info that you do it a lot?

NevetsIbot:


SMH.. You still didn't get that it wasn't about the money... Aunty. Go and read it again.


And wtf do I do with the info that you do it a lot?

you guys make it seem like only girls re broke. Guys are broke too. One broke guy is on my neck right now. Everytime he's crying broke broke broke. I already helped him with 20k but seeing the way you guys condemn girls on nairaland, I'm putting a stop to it. Was planning to give him 150k to start a business, but right now, I change my mind

FreakDesign:
Few of them are wise, the rest hungry! Really hungry!

Go and blame buhari. But d Op babe was simply inconsiderate. Too bad

u said she always hangs out in hotels..thats a runzgirl nau.u pay a runzgirl for giving you her time...thats how it is.If you not interested in her demanding nature just let her go and face her street hustle

Trayceey:
you guys make it seem like only girls re broke. Guys are broke too. One broke guy is on my neck right now. Everytime he's crying broke broke broke. I already helped him with 20k but seeing the way you guys condemn girls on nairaland, I'm putting a stop to it. Was planning to give him 150k to start a business, but right now, I change my mind

Are u his mom? Lemme guess, na Abuja guy?

SweetCunt97:
Are u his mom? Lemme guess, na Abuja guy?

no be Abuja guy o. Although his excuse is that the lockdown affected his job

SweetCunt97:
Go and blame buhari. Plus these ladies see their fathers cater for all their mother's needs so that mentality is born. So Blame parents for not instilling d spirit of independence, common sense, self worth and pride in them... But then economy hard, even full grown men be acting entitled these days.

talking of entitled men i recall one guy on facebook on a sunday afternoon hassling me for money.bros has never talked to me before or anything.he asked for 70k and wen i said i had no such money he said i was selfish and dat if he was a girl i would give him the 70k then he also said that the God he served i will forever remain hungry and broke through my life then he quickly blocked me .mad ppl full social media abeg .dude looked like a pastor when i went through he was profile..was wearing one fine looking suit with tie and well polished shoes.i was now wondering why such prosperous looking dude was asking for money

Trayceey:
you guys make it seem like only girls re broke. Guys are broke too. One broke guy is on my neck right now. Everytime he's crying broke broke broke. I already helped him with 20k but seeing the way you guys condemn girls on nairaland, I'm putting a stop to it. Was planning to give him 150k to start a business, but right now, I change my mind

If you let the post of someone online stop you from helping someone because of his gender ion think you really wanted to help him.

My post is not about her being broke alone... But being broke and inconsiderate... I ran into a debt and all she could care a was her subscription.... That's the crux of the matter.

lefulefu:
u said she always hangs out in hotels..thats a runzgirl nau.u pay a runzgirl for giving you her time...thats how it is.If you not interested in her demanding nature just let her go and face her street hustle

Actually na Virgin o... After I got there and found out.. I paused and decided against breaking it. She was begging for it but nah. Won't be the guy to go through the clinginess after...

I've had enough personal experience

lefulefu:
talking of entitled men i recall one guy on facebook on a sunday afternoon hassling me for money.bros has never talked to me before or anything.he asked for 70k and wen i said i had no such money he said i was selfish and dat if he was a girl i would give him the 70k then he also said that the God he served i will forever remain hungry and broke through my life then he quickly blocked me .mad ppl full social media abeg .dude looked like a pastor when i went through he was profile..was wearing one fine looking suit with tie and well polished shoes.i was now wondering why such prosperous looking dude was asking for money

Lol. Such prosperous guy!! Puhahahahaha.

I've met broke guys too who feel entitled and I put them in their place too.... Imagine a friend stylishlomoving in with me and living on my food daily and even having the guys to talk about what should and not be cooked for breakfast or dinner.. I kicked his azz out.

NevetsIbot:


Actually na Virgin o... After I got there and found out.. I paused and decided against breaking it. She was begging for it but nah. Won't be the guy to go through the clinginess after...

I've had enough personal experience

what is she always doing in hotels? ..business confrence? or what?.u said she always swim there but guy i bet u thats where she gets her clients.her hassling you for money after u met her should tell u she is a street girl nau.forget the virgin stuff.there are girls who are virgins but still collect it through the backdoor.There is one popular porn actress who is a virgin and only does backdoor scenes ..have forgotten her name.If u really interested in her then pay for her services nau..wich one are u preaching epitles to her

NevetsIbot:


Lol. Such prosperous guy!! Puhahahahaha.

I've met broke guys too who feel entitled and I put them in their place too.... Imagine a friend stylishlomoving in with me and living on my food daily and even having the guys to talk about what should and not be cooked for breakfast or dinner.. I kicked his azz out.

thats the right treatment to give them .u no drop money for food and u still having mind to dictate wich food should be cooked and wich one should not be cooked.some ppl too foolish abeg

Broke girls are a societal nuisance.

At least when a guy is broke, he just goes his way focused on how to get some money.

Trayceey:
no be Abuja guy o. Although his excuse is that the lockdown affected his job

OH well, if you know him well enough, u can assist.

NevetsIbot:
This is a heads up for any feminist or gender bias person thinking I'm here taking a swing at the female folks... You're grossly mistaken.

I met this girl... 22yrs of age.. Should could converse well although most of the undertones of her sentences were always that of "manipulation".

She's damn good swimmer who spends a lot of her time at hotels that have pools. That was where we met cos I'm pretty big on swimming too. After constant contacts... She loved up and one thing led to another. She dances actually and I did my part to show her to offer her skills as a service to anyone who wants her and her crew to dance for their music videos.

Two months down the line - She was demanding almost 24hrs of my time - I was not going to give any woman the luxury of my whole day - when there was money to be made. She had to adjust.

So then - I ran at a loss at one of my trades yesterday which will mean I'll have to refund a friend of a huge sum. I got online, saw she Had dropped a text for me... She was asking for money for subscription (Can you be so broke at 22yrs that you can't manage to subscribe for yourself?) I ignored it and proceeded to tell her the mess that just happened.. I was about to take up my small phone to load her line .... Next thing she said was "SHA DO MY SUB"

Anger mixed with disappointments and rage but I chose to ignore her messages. Then she came with the barrage of slight insults saying I was ignoring her cos of 1k. And she went on ranting.

Told her how inconsiderate she was and how dissaponted I was at her. The money was not even the issue, it was her inability to not see my own loss just for her gains.

Bottom line - she said stuffs like "You know I have never asked you for anything, when have you ever told me to send my account number as a compensation for me not asking you for money?" - LIKE I WAS OBLIGATED TO REWARD HER FOR NOT ASKING ME FOR SHIT!

I asked her this " If I were Hot and I came to you for sex and you told me you just developed a stomach ache and I shrug if off and say "Sha lie down and let me do my thing"...... Would you not find it offensive that I totally ignored what was wrong with you? "

NOTE : We ain't had sex yet cos I just didn't want to.

She still maintained she was right - That was when I knew she was a lost cause and not the type worth my rebranding efforts.

Egbami... Ordinary 1k....how many mins does it even take a 15yr old to spend 1 thousand naira. And here was a 22yr old ignoring that her boyfriend made a very bad trade and lost a lot of money for it... ONE THOUSAND NAIRA..... O WRONG NAU. O WRONG!

I reloaded the airtime she needed on her line as her severance package... If 1k is more important than your boyfriends wellbeing , take it and go.


who's at fault?.. I obviously am for letting myself down and going for a girl way below my worth..... I'm not gonna let myself down anymore.

Working class ladies all the way from now

I'm angry with the girl myself, please leave her. I wouldn't do that to even someone I do not love, she doesn't love you please and she's not even human enough to know shes supposed to comfort you during distmoney.
If someone owes me 5k, and I want to ask him to give me 1k out of it, if she start conversation like that, I won't bother to ask her the money till I comfort her to a level I feel he would be fine enough to give me the money
Avoid people that are not human

rockstarB:

Alright. I've just being seeing post recently broke shaming ladies so I didnt bother reading the OP.
If ladies should come out with their experience with an entitled broke dude, even you will be surprised.
So it's not a womans thing, tho it might be higher on womens side than men.
I'll share my personal experiences.
1) my first boyfriend; I dated him for over 5 years as a student. I was the one always giving him money, supporting his career as a good lady would do. By the time I left the relationship this guy was owing me over 200k which I didnt get back.
2)my encounter with one other guy; after I started working, he always talked about how much i was earning bla bla bla, the last time we saw he still talked about it. That's a subtle sign of a financially irresponsible man.
3)we were still in talking stage, he started from 2k, upgraded to 5k which I didnt borrow him. I realised he only talked to me when he needed money. I had to block him the last time he asked for help. I've not even entered the relationship you're already tasking me
4) talking stage too, he said he wanted to rent a house, his friend chased him out. Me wey don hear of Abuja guys and their gist. I japa for him straight up.
All these in space of less than 2 years and I'm not even the definition of a big girl, imagine what girls that earn huge will be facing, especially when you're in the marriage able stage and they sense youre desperate.
The only difference is men are subtle and intentional about their gold digging, women are mostly not. I think what young ladies needs are education about finance and empowerment. Let them know they can get whatever material thing they desire with their own money. Its beginning to seem like a culture rather than entitlement.

Sis, this behaviour is bad
Its good to be nice but please don't overdo it, when human beings see that you are too simple and too nice, they would want to take advantage of you. Please never ever give any guy any money until he gives you first.
Make him pay for Taxi, make him pay at the restaurant, make him pay everywhere, let him understand you appreciate men that spend for their wives, it doesn't mean you are wicked or anything, once he get used to him being the money caregiver, you can also help him out. But if you bring that hand first, you will just notice all the men would turn parasitic.

According to Op, it's working class ladies or nothing. Good thinking. But there's a problem. It doesn't work in Nigeria.

In Nigeria of today, once you ask a lady to tell you her name or give you her phone number, you already owe her. And age doesn't matter here. Older women are even worse.

rockstarB:

Firstly, you dont have to be insultive to drive home your point If a woman isnt doing a broke guy a favour by marrying or dating him then what is your problem with a woman wanting to be with a rich man? Since she isnt doing a rich man a favour too there is liberty to be with whoever you choose to be with, it is not a criminal offence to want to be with a rich man.
I didnt read the original post BTW, there are gold digging women as much as gold digging men. There are good women and men as well, good things are not easy to come by.

Seems you didn't't get the trend,the girl was inconsiderate and selfish

ModestGal:

Sis, this behaviour is bad
Its good to be nice but please don't overdo it, when human beings see that you are too simple and too nice, they would want to take advantage of you. Please never ever give any guy any money until he gives you first.
Make him pay for Taxi, make him pay at the restaurant, make him pay everywhere, let him understand you appreciate men that spend for their wives, it doesn't mean you are wicked or anything, once he get used to him being the money caregiver, you can also help him out. But if you bring that hand first, you will just notice all the men would turn parasitic.

Thank you.

DenreleDave:


She won.. U still lost 1k

I will rather buy suya with that money dan sending it.

fuwaski:
I will rather buy suya with that money dan sending it.

Thank u

Trayceey:
you guys make it seem like only girls re broke. Guys are broke too. One broke guy is on my neck right now. Everytime he's crying broke broke broke. I already helped him with 20k but seeing the way you guys condemn girls on nairaland, I'm putting a stop to it. Was planning to give him 150k to start a business, but right now, I change my mind

haaa .. 150k to open a business? . Was he planning to be a wholesaler of donut?

NevetsIbot:
This is a heads up for any feminist or gender bias person thinking I'm here taking a swing at the female folks... You're grossly mistaken.

I met this girl... 22yrs of age.. Should could converse well although most of the undertones of her sentences were always that of "manipulation".

She's damn good swimmer who spends a lot of her time at hotels that have pools. That was where we met cos I'm pretty big on swimming too. After constant contacts... She loved up and one thing led to another. She dances actually and I did my part to show her to offer her skills as a service to anyone who wants her and her crew to dance for their music videos.

Two months down the line - She was demanding almost 24hrs of my time - I was not going to give any woman the luxury of my whole day - when there was money to be made. She had to adjust.

So then - I ran at a loss at one of my trades yesterday which will mean I'll have to refund a friend of a huge sum. I got online, saw she Had dropped a text for me... She was asking for money for subscription (Can you be so broke at 22yrs that you can't manage to subscribe for yourself?) I ignored it and proceeded to tell her the mess that just happened.. I was about to take up my small phone to load her line .... Next thing she said was "SHA DO MY SUB"

Anger mixed with disappointments and rage but I chose to ignore her messages. Then she came with the barrage of slight insults saying I was ignoring her cos of 1k. And she went on ranting.

Told her how inconsiderate she was and how dissaponted I was at her. The money was not even the issue, it was her inability to not see my own loss just for her gains.

Bottom line - she said stuffs like "You know I have never asked you for anything, when have you ever told me to send my account number as a compensation for me not asking you for money?" - LIKE I WAS OBLIGATED TO REWARD HER FOR NOT ASKING ME FOR SHIT!

I asked her this " If I were Hot and I came to you for sex and you told me you just developed a stomach ache and I shrug if off and say "Sha lie down and let me do my thing"...... Would you not find it offensive that I totally ignored what was wrong with you? "

NOTE : We ain't had sex yet cos I just didn't want to.

She still maintained she was right - That was when I knew she was a lost cause and not the type worth my rebranding efforts.

Egbami... Ordinary 1k....how many mins does it even take a 15yr old to spend 1 thousand naira. And here was a 22yr old ignoring that her boyfriend made a very bad trade and lost a lot of money for it... ONE THOUSAND NAIRA..... O WRONG NAU. O WRONG!

I reloaded the airtime she needed on her line as her severance package... If 1k is more important than your boyfriends wellbeing , take it and go.


who's at fault?.. I obviously am for letting myself down and going for a girl way below my worth..... I'm not gonna let myself down anymore.

Working class ladies all the way from now

You are in ondo right? You fall my hand big time. Why dafuq would you give her 1k as severance package for fuq sakes? Seemed the loss on business deal no hit you well,otherwise you for realize that you don't even any package,severance or perseverance.

To me,you have done what she asked from you and so she won. I'd never kowtow or even give her any attention after 'SHA DO MY SUB'. It's bye bye Felicia for me. I wont reply her texts or calld or messages and that is how it would be till the end of time.

I hate leeches and very entitled women.


N.B: i could help you teach her some lessons bro. No leech gets a kobo from me

Trayceey:
you guys make it seem like only girls re broke. Guys are broke too. One broke guy is on my neck right now. Everytime he's crying broke broke broke. I already helped him with 20k but seeing the way you guys condemn girls on nairaland, I'm putting a stop to it. Was planning to give him 150k to start a business, but right now, I change my mind

Yinmu.


You helped a guy with 20k? In ur dreams!!!


You wanna give him 150k??

See liar oooooo....