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ModestGal:
Sis, this behaviour is bad
Its good to be nice but please don't overdo it, when human beings see that you are too simple and too nice, they would want to take advantage of you. Please never ever give any guy any money until he gives you first.
Make him pay for Taxi, make him pay at the restaurant, make him pay everywhere, let him understand you appreciate men that spend for their wives, it doesn't mean you are wicked or anything, once he get used to him being the money caregiver, you can also help him out. But if you bring that hand first, you will just notice all the men would turn parasitic.

luminouz:
You are in ondo right? You fall my hand big time. Why dafuq would you give her 1k as severance package for fuq sakes? Seemed the loss on business deal no hit you well,otherwise you for realize that you don't even any package,severance or perseverance.

To me,you have done what she asked from you and so she won. I'd never kowtow or even give her any attention after 'SHA DO MY SUB'. It's bye bye Felicia for me. I wont reply her texts or calld or messages and that is how it would be till the end of time.

I hate leeches and very entitled women.

rockstarB:
Alright. I've just being seeing post recently broke shaming ladies so I didnt bother reading the OP.
If ladies should come out with their experience with an entitled broke dude, even you will be surprised.
So it's not a womans thing, tho it might be higher on womens side than men.
I'll share my personal experiences.
1) my first boyfriend; I dated him for over 5 years as a student. I was the one always giving him money, supporting his career as a good lady would do. By the time I left the relationship this guy was owing me over 200k which I didnt get back.
2)my encounter with one other guy; after I started working, he always talked about how much i was earning bla bla bla, the last time we saw he still talked about it. That's a subtle sign of a financially irresponsible man.
3)we were still in talking stage, he started from 2k, upgraded to 5k which I didnt borrow him. I realised he only talked to me when he needed money. I had to block him the last time he asked for help. I've not even entered the relationship you're already tasking me
4) talking stage too, he said he wanted to rent a house, his friend chased him out. Me wey don hear of Abuja guys and their gist. I japa for him straight up.
All these in space of less than 2 years and I'm not even the definition of a big girl, imagine what girls that earn huge will be facing, especially when you're in the marriage able stage and they sense youre desperate.
The only difference is men are subtle and intentional about their gold digging, women are mostly not. I think what young ladies needs are education about finance and empowerment. Let them know they can get whatever material thing they desire with their own money. Its beginning to seem like a culture rather than entitlement.

Neverlosemoney:
Hmmm. You have been smirked with bad omen, don't worry it will eventually wear off.

luminouz:
Yinmu.


You helped a guy with 20k? In ur dreams!!!


You wanna give him 150k??

See liar oooooo....

Trayceey:
so the 20k looks like 20million to you.

Trayceey:
so the 20k looks like 20million to you.

NevetsIbot:
This is a heads up for any feminist or gender bias person thinking I'm here taking a swing at the female folks... You're grossly mistaken.

I met this girl... 22yrs of age.. Should could converse well although most of the undertones of her sentences were always that of "manipulation".

She's damn good swimmer who spends a lot of her time at hotels that have pools. That was where we met cos I'm pretty big on swimming too. After constant contacts... She loved up and one thing led to another. She dances actually and I did my part to show her to offer her skills as a service to anyone who wants her and her crew to dance for their music videos.

Two months down the line - She was demanding almost 24hrs of my time - I was not going to give any woman the luxury of my whole day - when there was money to be made. She had to adjust.

So then - I ran at a loss at one of my trades yesterday which will mean I'll have to refund a friend of a huge sum. I got online, saw she Had dropped a text for me... She was asking for money for subscription (Can you be so broke at 22yrs that you can't manage to subscribe for yourself?) I ignored it and proceeded to tell her the mess that just happened.. I was about to take up my small phone to load her line .... Next thing she said was "SHA DO MY SUB"

Anger mixed with disappointments and rage but I chose to ignore her messages. Then she came with the barrage of slight insults saying I was ignoring her cos of 1k. And she went on ranting.

Told her how inconsiderate she was and how dissaponted I was at her. The money was not even the issue, it was her inability to not see my own loss just for her gains.

Bottom line - she said stuffs like "You know I have never asked you for anything, when have you ever told me to send my account number as a compensation for me not asking you for money?" - LIKE I WAS OBLIGATED TO REWARD HER FOR NOT ASKING ME FOR SHIT!

I asked her this " If I were Hot and I came to you for sex and you told me you just developed a stomach ache and I shrug if off and say "Sha lie down and let me do my thing"...... Would you not find it offensive that I totally ignored what was wrong with you? "

NOTE : We ain't had sex yet cos I just didn't want to.

She still maintained she was right - That was when I knew she was a lost cause and not the type worth my rebranding efforts.

Egbami... Ordinary 1k....how many mins does it even take a 15yr old to spend 1 thousand naira. And here was a 22yr old ignoring that her boyfriend made a very bad trade and lost a lot of money for it... ONE THOUSAND NAIRA..... O WRONG NAU. O WRONG!

I reloaded the airtime she needed on her line as her severance package... If 1k is more important than your boyfriends wellbeing , take it and go.


who's at fault?.. I obviously am for letting myself down and going for a girl way below my worth..... I'm not gonna let myself down anymore.

Working class ladies all the way from now

NevetsIbot:
It's just simple.. She might not grow past seeing 1k as big money ever.. So.. For all her troubles.. I got my sanity back and that's all that matters to me now.

She'll be in my dm soon enough. E sure me.

It's just 1k.. I'm unbothered.. She'll be back. Lol

Trayceey:
Everytime broke girls yen yen yen. So u opened this thread because of 1k. The girl may not be broke. She may just be pretending. I do that a lot

rockstarB:
Firstly, you dont have to be insultive to drive home your point If a woman isnt doing a broke guy a favour by marrying or dating him then what is your problem with a woman wanting to be with a rich man? Since she isnt doing a rich man a favour too there is liberty to be with whoever you choose to be with, it is not a criminal offence to want to be with a rich man.
I didnt read the original post BTW, there are gold digging women as much as gold digging men. There are good women and men as well, good things are not easy to come by.

Danielfx:
What i observe from this thread is amusing...

OP you are broke and frustrated, that's the reason you consider a lady asking you for 1k as a broke girl....

When some of us talk about broke girls, we don't actually mean girls that ask for 1k or 5k or ask for money once in a while. We actually refer to ladies that are financially irresponsible, like asking for money at all times and for most times on elements which are inconsiderate. More like, asking for 100k to fix hair when she has no money or even asking for money all the time.... A lady that ask you for money and once in a while is a good lady, learn to appreciate women. If you can't foot her bills, then opt for ashawo, they are cheaper.. [b]Do you think she gets sanitary pads for free ?, [/b]Do you think she steals pants or work in mtn office ?...

You have to stop acting up. My friend that just executed a project changed his girlfriend phone for over 70k ( even though he had 200k then in his account), changed the old one he bought her three months back. He took her shopping along side with i and my girlfriend. That is common sense and maturity. I even blame the ladies that agree to go into relationship with a mentally retarded guys...


2) You are a thief..... You are looking for someone to respect and love you and you're not ready to earn it. Treat your woman right so that you can present her to homies around. You see a good looking well dressed lady outside and you admire her and wish you have her, a girl that another man is branding. Go and make your lady everyman's desire kind of person. There is a way you act, a lady will find it hard to leave you even if she catches you cheating.... Maturity is needed in a relationship. I will create a thread and use your thread as a reference.

luminouz:
All the men? Where y'all get this generalisation baffles me!!!

The best part of your post is 'its good to be nice but don't overdo it'. The rest sounds like something a naija female is known for. Women from other African countries can't be this bad biko

Danielfx:
What i observe from this thread is amusing...

OP you are broke and frustrated, that's the reason you consider a lady asking you for 1k as a broke girl....

When some of us talk about broke girls, we don't actually mean girls that ask for 1k or 5k or ask for money once in a while. We actually refer to ladies that are financially irresponsible, like asking for money at all times and for most times on elements which are inconsiderate. More like, asking for 100k to fix hair when she has no money or even asking for money all the time.... A lady that ask you for money and once in a while is a good lady, learn to appreciate women. If you can't foot her bills, then opt for ashawo, they are cheaper.. Do you think she gets sanitary pads for free ?, Do you think she steals pants or work in mtn office ?...

You have to stop acting up. My friend that just executed a project changed his girlfriend phone for over 70k ( even though he had 200k then in his account), changed the old one he bought her three months back. He took her shopping along side with i and my girlfriend. That is common sense and maturity. I even blame the ladies that agree to go into relationship with a mentally retarded guys...


2) You are a thief..... You are looking for someone to respect and love you and you're not ready to earn it. Treat your woman right so that you can present her to homies around. You see a good looking well dressed lady outside and you admire her and wish you have her, a girl that another man is branding. Go and make your lady everyman's desire kind of person. There is a way you act, a lady will find it hard to leave you even if she catches you cheating.... Maturity is needed in a relationship. I will create a thread and use your thread as a reference.

Danielfx:
What i observe from this thread is amusing...

OP you are broke and frustrated, that's the reason you consider a lady asking you for 1k as a broke girl....

When some of us talk about broke girls, we don't actually mean girls that ask for 1k or 5k or ask for money once in a while. We actually refer to ladies that are financially irresponsible, like asking for money at all times and for most times on elements which are inconsiderate. More like, asking for 100k to fix hair when she has no money or even asking for money all the time.... A lady that ask you for money and once in a while is a good lady, learn to appreciate women. If you can't foot her bills, then opt for ashawo, they are cheaper.. Do you think she gets sanitary pads for free ?, Do you think she steals pants or work in mtn office ?...

You have to stop acting up. My friend that just executed a project changed his girlfriend phone for over 70k ( even though he had 200k then in his account), changed the old one he bought her three months back. He took her shopping along side with i and my girlfriend. That is common sense and maturity. I even blame the ladies that agree to go into relationship with a mentally retarded guys...


2) You are a thief..... You are looking for someone to respect and love you and you're not ready to earn it. Treat your woman right so that you can present her to homies around. You see a good looking well dressed lady outside and you admire her and wish you have her, a girl that another man is branding. Go and make your lady everyman's desire kind of person. There is a way you act, a lady will find it hard to leave you even if she catches you cheating.... Maturity is needed in a relationship. I will create a thread and use your thread as a reference.

biz1998:
YOUR friend had 200k and bought a girl a 70k phone, you supported it and still even thinking of creating a thread?
How will this friend grow?

You even sound like you keep spending recklessly on girls so as to make them presentable, according to you.

You must be wet behind the ears. So much learning to do.


martiñez39s, ubuñja, pañsophist, evilfòrest, please help me talk to this nigga before he comes back here to cry.

scottyoloye:
Instead of that your friend to reinvest with the 70k, he's doing big boy upandan... I wonder what's wrong with our generation... Full of youths with misplaced priorities......

biz1998:
YOUR friend had 200k and bought a girl a 70k phone, you supported it and still even thinking of creating a thread?
How will this friend grow?

You even sound like you keep spending recklessly on girls so as to make them presentable, according to you.

You must be wet behind the ears. So much learning to do.


martinez39s, ubunja, pansophist, evilforest, please help me talk to this nigga before he comes back here to cry.

Danielfx:
What i observe from this thread is amusing...

OP you are broke and frustrated, that's the reason you consider a lady asking you for 1k as a broke girl....

When some of us talk about broke girls, we don't actually mean girls that ask for 1k or 5k or ask for money once in a while. We actually refer to ladies that are financially irresponsible, like asking for money at all times and for most times on elements which are inconsiderate. More like, asking for 100k to fix hair when she has no money or even asking for money all the time.... A lady that ask you for money and once in a while is a good lady, learn to appreciate women. If you can't foot her bills, then opt for ashawo, they are cheaper.. Do you think she gets sanitary pads for free ?, Do you think she steals pants or work in mtn office ?...

You have to stop acting up. My friend that just executed a project changed his girlfriend phone for over 70k ( even though he had 200k then in his account), changed the old one he bought her three months back. He took her shopping along side with i and my girlfriend. That is common sense and maturity. I even blame the ladies that agree to go into relationship with a mentally retarded guys...


2) You are a thief..... You are looking for someone to respect and love you and you're not ready to earn it. Treat your woman right so that you can present her to homies around. You see a good looking well dressed lady outside and you admire her and wish you have her, a girl that another man is branding. Go and make your lady everyman's desire kind of person. There is a way you act, a lady will find it hard to leave you even if she catches you cheating.... Maturity is needed in a relationship. I will create a thread and use your thread as a reference.

GrossPrice:
Can u imagine. 200k only ...

rockstarB:
Thank you

Danielfx:
What i observe from this thread is amusing...

OP you are broke and frustrated, that's the reason you consider a lady asking you for 1k as a broke girl....

When some of us talk about broke girls, we don't actually mean girls that ask for 1k or 5k or ask for money once in a while. We actually refer to ladies that are financially irresponsible, like asking for money at all times and for most times on elements which are inconsiderate. More like, asking for 100k to fix hair when she has no money or even asking for money all the time.... A lady that ask you for money and once in a while is a good lady, learn to appreciate women. If you can't foot her bills, then opt for ashawo, they are cheaper.. Do you think she gets sanitary pads for free ?, Do you think she steals pants or work in mtn office ?...

You have to stop acting up. My friend that just executed a project changed his girlfriend phone for over 70k ( even though he had 200k then in his account), changed the old one he bought her three months back. He took her shopping along side with i and my girlfriend. That is common sense and maturity. I even blame the ladies that agree to go into relationship with a mentally retarded guys...


2) You are a thief..... You are looking for someone to respect and love you and you're not ready to earn it. Treat your woman right so that you can present her to homies around. You see a good looking well dressed lady outside and you admire her and wish you have her, a girl that another man is branding. Go and make your lady everyman's desire kind of person. There is a way you act, a lady will find it hard to leave you even if she catches you cheating.... Maturity is needed in a relationship. I will create a thread and use your thread as a reference.

Neverlosemoney:
You are welcome. Now that I have cheered you up. I need a token amount of money. I won't take no for answer.

NevetsIbot:
Your moniker befits you.

scottyoloye:
Oga didn't you read the part where he mentioned the fact that he was about sending the money and she replied with a text that turned him off As for the bolded, so, you're saying it's a boyfriend's duty to buy sanitary pads right.. weldone o awon eyan sanitary section.... Instead of that your friend to reinvest with the 70k, he's doing big boy upandan... I wonder what's wrong with our generation... Full of youths with misplaced priorities......

Neverlosemoney:
You are welcome. Now that I have cheered you up. I need a token amount of money. I won't take no for answer.

GrossPrice:
Can u imagine. 200k only ...

Neverlosemoney:
Millennials kids.....they are just amusing , I so much feel for these generation when they become obsolete.

Danielfx:
What i observe from this thread is amusing...

OP you are broke and frustrated, that's the reason you consider a lady asking you for 1k as a broke girl....

When some of us talk about broke girls, we don't actually mean girls that ask for 1k or 5k or ask for money once in a while. We actually refer to ladies that are financially irresponsible, like asking for money at all times and for most times on elements which are inconsiderate. More like, asking for 100k to fix hair when she has no money or even asking for money all the time.... A lady that ask you for money and once in a while is a good lady, learn to appreciate women. If you can't foot her bills, then opt for ashawo, they are cheaper.. Do you think she gets sanitary pads for free ?, Do you think she steals pants or work in mtn office ?...

You have to stop acting up. My friend that just executed a project changed his girlfriend phone for over 70k ( even though he had 200k then in his account), changed the old one he bought her three months back. He took her shopping along side with i and my girlfriend. That is common sense and maturity. I even blame the ladies that agree to go into relationship with a mentally retarded guys...


2) You are a thief..... You are looking for someone to respect and love you and you're not ready to earn it. Treat your woman right so that you can present her to homies around. You see a good looking well dressed lady outside and you admire her and wish you have her, a girl that another man is branding. Go and make your lady everyman's desire kind of person. There is a way you act, a lady will find it hard to leave you even if she catches you cheating.... Maturity is needed in a relationship. I will create a thread and use your thread as a reference.

scottyoloye:
Oga didn't you read the part where he mentioned the fact that he was about sending the money and she replied with a text that turned him off As for the bolded, so, you're saying it's a boyfriend's duty to buy sanitary pads right.. weldone o awon eyan sanitary section.... Instead of that your friend to reinvest with the 70k, he's doing big boy upandan... I wonder what's wrong with our generation... Full of youths with misplaced priorities......