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Love can be blinding.
You meet someone. They're cool, super funny, really hot. And before you know it, you've pulled your heart out of your chest and handed it over. this, Ladies and Gents, is Love.

I won't say I have regrets in the love I had because I don't. Each experience, each feeling and each horrible word exchanged taught me something. These lessons that helped me grow, validate my worth and see that I deserve better are not regrettable but valuable.

Things I learned from my past relationships are; Honesty and communication are essential to a good relationship, Family and Friends comes first and Always be yourself.

Matured Minds, Share yours too.

women do love wholeheartedly
but jelous friends fuc.k it all up , Oh Nlanders redpillers too are turning men to jerks to our women ,
Redpilling in the future would Bleep up boy girl relationship




Maturity is what you need not red pills and start isulting women on threads , Take red pill and be mature about it that's what makes you 'you'



Btw the Word Alpha male , came from Alpha Wolf that leads a pack , it was signified as a hoax when the writter/explorer , noticed it was not a leading Alpha wolf wolf but the Father and his family , though he wrote a book to disprove the fact that there was no such thing as Alpha , nobody listened as the world Alpha wolf had made name and fame ,
No one is an Alpha or Beta male ,
Y'all should read , Free thinkers can't be the only ones opening y'all up , Read read and Re-read .

Raeheemwayne:
Love can be blinding.
You meet someone. They're cool, super funny, really hot. And before you know it, you've pulled your heart out of your chest and handed it over. this, Ladies and Gents, is Love.

I won't say I have regrets in the love I had because I don't. Each experience, each feeling and each horrible word exchanged taught me something. These lessons that helped me grow, validate my worth and see that I deserve better are not regrettable but valuable.

Things I learned from my past relationships are; Honesty and communication are essential to a good relationship, Family and Friends comes first and Always be yourself.

Matured Minds, Share yours too.

never date a Naija women
unpleasant creatures!

As a girl, all your male friends wanna phuck you.

am I lying? it's the truth. no true friends in guys.

Expect anything , because smiles in a moment turn to tears.

I learnt alot oh
The babe showed me pepper, I had to become someone else because of love. me that can make a dead body laugh, I became a quiet person, me that can encourage anyone at anytime, I began to discourage people, just because my girlfriend (ex) thinks I'm too seductive and attractive. her jealousy turned everything up side down.
I learnt alot but the hard way
*Never make anyone think without them you can't survive*
(drops mic)

delectablegyal:
As a girl, all your male friends wanna phuck you.


am I lying? it's the truth. no true friends in guys.

no some men do have self discipline

delectablegyal:
As a girl, all your male friends wanna phuck you.


am I lying? it's the truth. no true friends in guys.

Well done! You have just learnt something most ladies cant phantom. A lady can be friends with a guy, church mind, but a guy just a friend to a lady, na by mistake e enter friend zone.

Raeheemwayne:
Love can be blinding.
You meet someone. They're cool, super funny, really hot. And before you know it, you've pulled your heart out of your chest and handed it over. this, Ladies and Gents, is Love.

I won't say I have regrets in the love I had because I don't. Each experience, each feeling and each horrible word exchanged taught me something. These lessons that helped me grow, validate my worth and see that I deserve better are not regrettable but valuable.

Things I learned from my past relationships are; Honesty and communication are essential to a good relationship, Family and Friends comes first and Always be yourself.

Matured Minds, Share yours too.

Lesson learnt; trust no one completely and always follow your instinct. If something tells you she is cheating, my nigga do research before you confront.

Move on early if you don't see the relationship heading anywhere, no point wasting her time

delectablegyal:
As a girl, all your male friends wanna phuck you.


am I lying? it's the truth. no true friends in guys.

not all but majority like say 80%

never believe any guy or girl love you...... dey value u bcoz of Wetin dey wan collect now... lol

What I learned is that you can actually make millions by telling a story about your past relationship and teaching men and women how to do it.

Anyway, ever since I understood women and how they work in 2009—2010, I have never had a bad relationship. Distance is always the terminator and not fight or cheating. Though, we always remain friends.

I can't really hate women and women can't really hate me. When you know how to press the right ESCOFi mumu buttons, you'll smile in your relationship when others are crying and asking God why?

So, relationship is fun when you understand the opposite gender.

Lesson for wise people is

1. Failed relationship = book = money
2. Successful relationship = more books = more money = more happiness

Lesson for unwise people

1. Failed relationship = anger, revenge, and depression
2. Successful relationship = start cheating until it fails

So, the final takeaway is: Learn how relationships and the opposite gender work from books before you go into it or go into it and learn from experience, then teach others.

Vaguelyirration:
Lesson learnt; trust no one completely and always follow your instinct. If something tells you she is cheating, my nigga do research before you confront.

So Aptly put.

I learnt to stop doing conditional relationships(tit for tat) if the person is not the end game then its a forked up relationship... Relationship is an end not a means to an end... I get heartbroken, i try and date again, try to be better this time if it happens again I learn and life continues.... There is nothing wrong in giving it ur all in a relationship and it is never easy.

TheSourcerer:
women do love wholeheartedly
but jelous friends fuc.k it all up , Oh Nlanders redpillers too are turning men to jerks to our women ,
Redpilling in the future would Bleep up boy girl relationship




Maturity is what you need not red pills and start isulting women on threads , Take red pill and be mature about it that's what makes you 'you'



Btw the Word Alpha male , came from Alpha Wolf that leads a pack , it was signified as a hoax when the writter/explorer , noticed it was not a leading Alpha wolf wolf but the Father and his family , though he wrote a book to disprove the fact that there was no such thing as Alpha , nobody listened as the world Alpha wolf had made name and fame ,
No one is an Alpha or Beta male ,
Y'all should read , Free thinkers can't be the only ones opening y'all up , Read read and Re-read .

Men too love wholeheartedly; Myself inclusive.
I don't see any wrong in being an Alpha. but, alot of Nlers misuses the word and act contrary to the traits of an Alpha.
Nice Input though.

thariodamaniac:
I learnt to stop doing conditional relationships(tit for tat) if the person is not the end game then its a forked up relationship... Relationship is an end not a means to an end... I get heartbroken, i try and date again, try to be better this time if it happens again I learn and life continues.... There is nothing wrong in giving it ur all in a relationship and it is never easy.

Conditional love affairs will always end in premium tears.
I'll always advice each spouses to; love their partners for who they are and not what they are or things they can offer, such relationships is so intoxicating.
Nice input.

iLegendd:
What I learned is that you can actually make millions by telling a story about your past relationship and teaching men and women how to do it.

Anyway, ever since I understood women and how they work in 2009—2010, I have never had a bad relationship. Distance is always the terminator and not fight or cheating. Though, we always remain friends.

I can't really hate women and women can't really hate me. When you know how to press the right ESCOFi mumu buttons, you'll smile in your relationship when others are crying and asking God why?

So, relationship is fun when you understand the opposite gender.

Lesson for wise people is

1. Failed relationship = book = money
2. Successful relationship = more books = more money = more happiness

Lesson for unwise people

1. Failed relationship = anger, revenge, and depression
2. Successful relationship = start cheating until it fails

So, the final takeaway is: Learn how relationships and the opposite gender work from books before you go into it or go into it and learn from experience, then teach others.

You speak like someone with alot of experiences coupled with maturity.
BTW; I'm more of a public speaker and a dreamer than a writer.

Kyngfarabale1:
never believe any guy or girl love you...... dey value u bcoz of Wetin dey wan collect now... lol

Lol. I respect your opinion.

womenareapes:
never date a Naija women
unpleasant creatures!

I respect your opinion. but, you don't have to generalize it.
The easiest way to loss in an argument, is when you generalize.

delectablegyal:
As a girl, all your male friends wanna phuck you.


am I lying? it's the truth. no true friends in guys.

Pete Edochie once said and I quote; keeping a girl as a bestfriend is like rearing a chicken, you'll end up eating it.
do you have any issues when it comes to making love with your boyfriend?

Talk is cheap , never believe anyone 100% even if they sound so convincing and lastly follow your instincts.
There is nothing like unconditional love in Nigeria.

dannyrhymes600:
I learnt alot oh
The babe showed me pepper, I had to become someone else because of love. me that can make a dead body laugh, I became a quiet person, me that can encourage anyone at anytime, I began to discourage people, just because my girlfriend (ex) thinks I'm too seductive and attractive. her jealousy turned everything up side down.
I learnt alot but the hard way
*Never make anyone think without them you can't survive*
(drops mic)

Lol. I don't know why I find this funny.
BTW; Jealousy is the mother of hatred. Never in your life settle down with a jealous partner because they're Evil.

Love is scam. I believed in it and followed it, guys may cheat buh they love with their heart, girls flirt, cheat, lie and love with their brains which makes it look like a contract. It's disheartening and it's a lesson to guys never to sell themselves in d name of love.

doris4u:
Talk is cheap , never believe anyone 100% even if they sound so convincing and lastly follow your instincts.
There is nothing like unconditional love in Nigeria.

I just checked your profile, You must had been through alot, to come to this conclusion.
I respect your opinion though.

I learnt that every girl has a bitchy side no matter how godly or composed they are. I also learnt that every woman has a price

never to fall in love while broke and never do long distance relationship

No matter how much you think you love each other there's some things your partner won't tell you.

You shouldn't base your relationship on money but thoughtful gifts go a long way.

Long distance relationships don't work.

Looks matter.

TheSourcerer:
women do love wholeheartedly
but jelous friends fuc.k it all up , Oh Nlanders redpillers too are turning men to jerks to our women ,
Redpilling in the future would Bleep up boy girl relationship




Maturity is what you need not red pills and start isulting women on threads , Take red pill and be mature about it that's what makes you 'you'



Btw the Word Alpha male , came from Alpha Wolf that leads a pack , it was signified as a hoax when the writter/explorer , noticed it was not a leading Alpha wolf wolf but the Father and his family , though he wrote a book to disprove the fact that there was no such thing as Alpha , nobody listened as the world Alpha wolf had made name and fame ,
No one is an Alpha or Beta male ,
Y'all should read , Free thinkers can't be the only ones opening y'all up , Read read and Re-read .

Redpill comes in phases some people are still in their anger phase.

Never ever date a broke lady

How to make empty promises, fvck and runaway

Raeheemwayne:
I respect your opinion. but, you don't have generalize.
The easiest way to lost in an argument, is when you generalize.

hey! whatever you are!
I stated my opinion, you can either accept or leave.

by the way! who got time winning or losing an argument with imbec1les?

my opinion is a fact, take it of leave it.