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Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Apeshy101(m): 5:01am On Jun 30, 2020
A popular UK based Nigerian Medical Doctor and Twitter Influencer, Dr Harvey Olufunmilayo, simply identified as Dr Funmilayo has been accused of rape by another female medical doctor, News9naija reoprts.

The Lady, @bola_aseyan, also a medical doctor in the UK took to the the micro blogging platform, Twiter, to call him out for sexually and emotionally abusing her in the UK.

@bola_aseyan alleged that Dr Funmilayo has sexually and emotionally abused her for so long but she hid it in order not to be in the news for the wrong reasons.

On while she didn’t press charges against him for rape, she said, “I didn’t press charges, only because you would lose your license to practise, and I cannot bear to carry that much guilt in my heart. Even with everything that you’ve done, I’m still not a mean spirited person. I leave you to God to judge you, and my head will judge you!!”

She went to share screenshot of her chat with another lady who claimed Dr Funmilayo attempted to rape her.

At the time of filing this report, Dr Funmilayo has not commented on the alleged rape saga, read details as she posted below.

A woman can only tolerate so much abuse from a man. A completely different persona online, and a truly horrible man in person, an abuser to say the least, both sexually and emotionally. A human can only tolerate so much!

I have proof all these madness. And God in heaven knows I dread the negative type of attention but people deserve to know what a horrible human being this man is!!!! Horribly terrible!!!!

Now you are calling people to call me and speak to me ba?!!! You are calling frantically. When you were sexually and emotionally abusing, you didn’t know it would resort to this. Because Bola doesn’t air dirty laundry, Bola is private, you think I’m stupid??!

Your fav influencer has sexually and emotionally abused me for so long, and I’ve been hiding it. I didn’t want to say anything because I DESPERATELY didn’t want to be in the news for anything bad here. I kept telling myself it would be over soon. I cannot take it anymore!

Everyone is telling me to consider his profession and not say anything, i shouldn’t say anything. How about how I feel? Everytime. I’m tired. I haven’t done a thing to deserve this. I have lodged a formal complaint with the police today! I cannot and will not take this anymore!

We are both doctors. Both of us. And I’ve been too nice just because I thought it would end soon. You bully me everytime. You know I hate social media issues and you have a lot of followers so it’s okay to do all these to me ba? Right!!

I didn’t press charges, only because you would lose your license to practise, and I cannot bear to carry that much guilt in my heart. Even with everything that you’ve done, I’m still not a mean spirited person. I leave you to God to judge you, and my head will judge you!!!

I am irritated to say the least at those who think my life occurrence is a gist that’s waiting to happen. You think I’m tweeting with eagerness and happiness. You think I want to be in this position or it’s a joke. I am hurting.I am sad and I’ve never thought it’ll resort to this

I use God to beg our fellow medical doctors in my DM asking me not to tweet or let it go. Please and please, they won’t abuse your children. Pls don’t give me unsolicited advise. I didn’t press charges even though the cops here in the UK asked me to, don’t push it.

Your favorite online influencer also a medical doctor in the UK who always has an opinion on every topic on Twitter, he is morally upright on the Internet, yet does the exact opposite of what he preaches online, preaching against rape and doing the exact opposite in person.

I’m not the victim in this case thankfully!!! The women who went through same in the hands of this doctor and didn’t have the courage to come out. Those are the real victims. Undermining my privacy for gullibility was his first mistake.

Online Bullies are the reason a lot of people do not narrate their ordeals in the hands of their so called favorite influencers.They have 150K+ followers,the fear of taking their supporters on dissuades people from coming forward. I have filed a complaint legally and done my part

Dr FUNMILAYO is the accused!


https://mobile.twitter.com/bola_aseyan/status/1277766379840643073

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Apeshy101(m): 5:02am On Jun 30, 2020
https://www.news9naija.com.ng/2020/06/30/dr-funmilayo-accused-of-rape/

She went to share screenshot of her chat with another lady who claimed Dr Funmilayo attempted to rape her.

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Temitopemo6e6(m): 5:11am On Jun 30, 2020
Fear woman using the threat of revealing or publicizing either substantially true or false information about a person or people unless certain demands are met. It is
often damaging information, and may be
revealed to family members or associates rather
than to the general public.

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Omihanifa: 5:25am On Jun 30, 2020
It's a two way thing

Either the guy got tired of the phussy and moved on and the girl is bitter
or the guy is truly a phussy Bandit ( rapist)

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Juliusmomoh: 5:53am On Jun 30, 2020
After god fear woman.. But i no fit lie 4 the man sha

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by tydi(m): 6:09am On Jun 30, 2020
shocked

99% of consensual sex are termed rape now by these confused women.
Did she say her head will judge him? The same head and mouth she used to always swallow d!ck. She should go and rest anointing no dey her head.

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Nobody: 6:13am On Jun 30, 2020
rape everywhere,a medical doctor for that matter.Most doctors are very randy

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Nackzy: 6:16am On Jun 30, 2020
His own have finish, after he did savings and bought a house and a car last year.. This year them knack am accusation...in hushpuppys mouth.."them wan bring me down

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by JeffreyD1(m): 6:22am On Jun 30, 2020
Why is it that every rape ish comes with

I never want to speak out

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by saheedbadmus(m): 6:25am On Jun 30, 2020
Madam report him jare ..

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Jumlek2411: 6:31am On Jun 30, 2020
This randy doctor is in for a serious issue. Am so sorry for him for he is going to loose his license to practice.

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by majamajic(m): 6:37am On Jun 30, 2020
Am here to just read comments

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Goldenkrezi: 6:37am On Jun 30, 2020
E don be for this Doc ooo...grin
Let justice be put into play here

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by GOFRONT(m): 6:41am On Jun 30, 2020
Breed awon Biodun Fatoyinbo..

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by tillaman(m): 6:44am On Jun 30, 2020
E be things oo!!
Something is really wrong with this year
Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by ruggedtimi(m): 6:50am On Jun 30, 2020
Which one be your 'favourite influencer"?..lady they generalize like say na everybody favourite.

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Wasky101: 6:54am On Jun 30, 2020
All this clout chasers, what nonsense is the second girl saying? He made a pass at you, you said no and he left you alone. How is that attempted rape? Abi I no understand.
Someone needs to deal with all this clout chasers so that only real victims can tell their story.
NB:
Issue of consent is a different in thing. Nigerian girls that where born in the 70's-80's never gave consent for sex(@least on the first time). It was believed that to avoid being seen as a cheap hoe u had to put up a front. They are the generation of saying NO while shifting her hips for pant to be removed.Going by today's standard of rape allegations a large no of girls in that category have been raped and a large no of men should have been ex-convicts by now.
My personal experience, there was this Neighborhood cheap skate when we were growing up, everybody had a ride, when it was my turn I found out that the girl will start crying whenever you make a move so I cldnt bring myself to do the do. Went back to friends and they said"naso she dey always do" just keep caressing her. I followed instructions next time, nah for where she dey cry I dey suck boobi, nah for where she dey cry she unzip my Jeans bring out JT and gave me first ever mouth action I never dreamt of having. Anyways the cry ended with penetration .

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Nobody: 7:06am On Jun 30, 2020
They should drag the hell out of that guy, he is fond of dragging others without listening to their own side of the story.

It's such a shame that he may likely end up losing his license but that should not stop justice for prevailing if he is guilty.

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Nobody: 7:10am On Jun 30, 2020
Eeyah..another nigga is gone too soon cool
Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Blitz888(m): 7:11am On Jun 30, 2020
This randy doctor without self control will now let his raging hormone and unbridled libido bring him down...

#saynotorape

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by fr3do(m): 7:16am On Jun 30, 2020
Na wa o, I feel sorry for the doctor.
Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by traihit: 7:35am On Jun 30, 2020
I understand how some women would use somebody to trend and so on but seriously, men need to stop thinking they can have their way around any woman because they have wealth, confidence or popularity. That's not what masculinity is all about. Men don't pursue wealth to have women flowing round about them like the waters at the beach. It's becoming a huge cultural misrepresentation of men. You may say that the man didn't have his way but what should we say when you invite a lady and the next thing is to have a carnal knowledge of her even when communications between you haven't suggest that. It's really gross!

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Ishilove: 8:01am On Jun 30, 2020
There is nothing in the text message that indicates the second lady was raped. Since when did 'necking' become rape? Fine, you didn't want that kind of attention and you shouted and he stopped. Since when did that become rape? If us ladies should cry rape at all the men who have tried to sleep with us then more than half of the men walking around will be charged to court.
A randy man making passes at you doesn't mean he is a rapist.

I'm also not sure what her grouse is precisely: emotional abuse or rape??

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Nobody: 8:09am On Jun 30, 2020
Please is there a new definition for rape now? Very soon looking at a babe will be considered rape/ emotional abuse.... mtcheeew undecided

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Kriss216: 8:12am On Jun 30, 2020
Ishilove:
There is nothing in the text message that indicates the second lady was raped. Since when did 'necking' become rape? Fine, you didn't want that kind of attention and you shouted and he stopped. Since when did that become rape? If us ladies should cry rape at all the men who have tried to sleep with us then more than half of the men walking around will be charged to court.
A randy man making passes at you doesn't mean he is a rapist.

I'm also not sure what her grouse is precisely: emotional abuse or rape??
God bless you, Head of Love

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by luminouz(m): 8:14am On Jun 30, 2020
Ishilove:
There is nothing in the text message that indicates the second lady was raped. Since when did 'necking' become rape? Fine, you didn't want that kind of attention and you shouted and he stopped. Since when did that become rape? If us ladies should cry rape at all the men who have tried to sleep with us then more than half of the men walking around will be charged to court.
A randy man making passes at you doesn't mean he is a rapist.

I'm also not sure what her grouse is precisely: emotional abuse or rape??

Like i.always said, you have a good head on your shoulders.

Glad someone here could be objective and logical.

She needs more concrete evidence to make her case stick,not those emo-writeups!!

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by Ishilove: 8:17am On Jun 30, 2020
luminouz:


Like i.always said, you have a good head on your shoulders.

Glad someone here could be objective and logical.

She needs more concrete evidence to make her case stick,not those emo-writeups!!
I'm no supporter of rape but these acccusation just no follow. He was probably making passes at her or touching her inappropriately (I'm certain this is the case) but that doesn't make him a rapist. There are real rapists out there so there should be a clear separation when accusing someone. Rape is not a light accusation.

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Re: Dr Funmilayo Accused Of Sexual Assault By Bola Aseyan by luminouz(m): 8:18am On Jun 30, 2020
Ishilove:

I'm no supporter of rape but these acccusation just no follow. He was probably making passes at her or touching her inappropriately (I'm certain this is the case) but that doesn't make him a rapist. There are real rapists out there so there should be a clear separation when accusing someone. Rape is not a light acccusation.

You nailed it!!!

I have nothing to add again.

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