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Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by rasheylaw(m): 5:02pm On Jul 03, 2020
What we don't know in this generation is if the youth should be called for a national orientation program to teach them how to sustain relationship because different different palava keeps springing up every single day.



We already know that insecurity is an integral part of a healthy relationship but what we can't comprehend is the extent some contemporary youth can go to be sure that their partner is loyal or not.

In this leaked WhatsApp conversation that is generating reactions on Twitter, a boyfriend with the name Ebube wanted to test the loyalty of his girlfriend by hiring his friend to sleep with his girlfriend.

When the girl found out, she didn't take it lightly with him as that was the last straw that broke the camel's back of the relationship.

It's apparent that relationship that's not built on trust is bound to fail in no time. Trust is the pillar that hold a relationship and make it stand the test of time. When there's no trust, there's no need for a relationship.

What do you think about the girl's decision? And how far can you go to determine if your partner is loyal to you or not?

See the conversation below.

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by decatalyst(m): 5:07pm On Jul 03, 2020
The tester that is not qualified to even pass in front of the examination hall grin



But this your "ebube" no get profile picture abi? All these cock and bull stories sef

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by rasheylaw(m): 5:07pm On Jul 03, 2020

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by SweetCunt97(f): 5:12pm On Jul 03, 2020
The guy does not deserve her at all.

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by elipheleh(m): 7:46pm On Jul 03, 2020
Abeg this guy did nothing wrong. Even God tested faithful Job, does it mean He didn't trust Job? No He even boasted about Job.

My verdict is that girl is unfaithful and she's angry that the guy even suspected her. And she would have fallen when tested with her type of man. Shikena.

Besides that guy should just end this thing. A girl who discusses her guy's joblessness and still be friends with people who mock and disrespect him is not a good wife. Abeg Gutman just dodged a bullet.

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by Sixfeetbelle: 7:52pm On Jul 03, 2020
This matter tie gele ooh. See loyalty test ooh shocked
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by elipheleh(m): 7:54pm On Jul 03, 2020
Clear conscience fears no test nor accusations.
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by Sixfeetbelle: 8:01pm On Jul 03, 2020
elipheleh:
Abeg this guy did nothing wrong. Even God tested faithful Job, does it mean He didn't trust Job? No He even boasted about Job.

My verdict is that girl is unfaithful and she's angry that the guy even suspected her. And she would have fallen when tested with her type of man. Shikena.

Besides that guy should just end this thing. A girl who discusses her guy's joblessness and still be friends with his people who mock her guy is not a good wife. Abeg Gutman just dodged a bullet.

Apparently, the "herd mentality" must be so strong among guys that you'll stand by the guy even when it's clear that he's wrong. Mtcheww.

It's like you didn't see where she said he cheated twice and she forgave him. How many can forgive once, not to mention twice? You didn't see where she stayed with him when he had nothing. How many ladies can do that today? You purposefully missed all that point that proves she is loyal, only to focus on the part where she talked about speaking with her friends. Is she an island cause she's in a relationship? But you failed to see that the guy sought the advice of a friend to plan this shit with her. And I'm glad it failed.

You know, it's blatant from your writeup how insecure you sound. Hope you don't ruin a good thing by thinking like Ebube.

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by elipheleh(m): 8:28pm On Jul 03, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Apparently, the "herd mentality" must be so strong among guys that you'll stand by the guy even when it's clear that he's wrong. Mtcheww.

It's like you didn't see where she said he cheated twice and she forgave him. How many can forgive once, not to mention twice? You didn't see where she stayed with him when he had nothing. How many ladies can do that today? You purposefully missed all that point that proves she is loyal, only to focus on the part where she talked about speaking with her friends. Is she an island cause she's in a relationship? But you failed to see that the guy sought the advice of a friend to plan this shit with her. And I'm glad it failed.

You know, it's blatant from your writeup how insecure you sound. Hope you don't ruin a good thing by thinking like Ebube.

Young man abi woman. You I guess you know nothing about life. Some facts:
1. Any person who screams don't flash torch on me is doing something suspicious. A clean employee doesn't fear auditors, he is always happy because his promotion is at hand cos he'll surely pass.
2. You don't throw stones when you live in a glass house. You don't blackmail people with the sins you forgave them. You too will fail under tight scrutiny.

That you forgave my sins doesn't exempt you or I from future scrutiny any day anytime.

Sure you've helped me some months and that's what friends do and don't brag about it. I'm sure the guy must have helped her more when the going was good.

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by Sixfeetbelle: 8:36pm On Jul 03, 2020
elipheleh:


Young man abi woman. You I guess you know nothing about life. Some facts:
1. Any person who screams don't flash torch on me is doing something suspicious. A clean employee doesn't fear auditors, he is always happy because his promotion is at hand cos he'll surely pass.
2. You don't throw stones when you live in a glass house. You don't blackmail people with the sins you forgave them. You too will fail under tight scrutiny.

That you forgave my sins doesn't exempt you or I from future scrutiny any day anytime.

She didn't blackmail him with anything, not until after she found out this shit he attempted on her. An employee won't mind an auditing, but if you throw the person under the bus, even after they have given you reasons to trust them, it shows you don't deserve their loyalty. Further scrutiny doesn't mean setting them up in a situation that can ruin them psychologically.

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by gunners160(m): 8:38pm On Jul 03, 2020
elipheleh:


Young man abi woman. You I guess you know nothing about life. Some facts:
1. Any person who screams don't flash torch on me is doing something suspicious. A clean employee doesn't fear auditors, he is always happy because his promotion is at hand cos he'll surely pass.
2. You don't throw stones when you live in a glass house. You don't blackmail people with the sins you forgave them. You too will fail under tight scrutiny.

That you forgave my sins doesn't exempt you or I from future scrutiny any day anytime.

Sure you've helped me some months and that's what friends do and don't brag about it. I'm sure the guy must have helped her more when the going was good.
are you for real?
did you really read the whole chart?
why is it that Nairaland guys are just a pain in the ass? if a gal is supportive she is an harlot , if she is not then she is a leech and a gold digger.
Say a big Amen to this simple prayer. May it be unto your sister or daughter just as what this young lady passed through

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by luminouz(m): 8:41pm On Jul 03, 2020
SweetCunt97:
The guy does not deserve her at all.

Lol..fake story
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by luminouz(m): 8:42pm On Jul 03, 2020
gunners160:

are you for real?
did you really read the whole chart?
why is it that Nairaland guys are just a pain in the ass? if a gal is supportive she is an harlot , if she is not then she is a leech and a gold digger.
Say a big Amen to this simple prayer. May it be unto your sister or daughter just as what this young lady passed through

Are you not a NL guy? You just abused yourself too. An ass pain
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by gunners160(m): 8:48pm On Jul 03, 2020
luminouz:


Are you not a NL guy? You just abused yourself too. An ass pain
but at least I have conscience. a lady became a baby mama for one useless guy, she went has far as being supportive and yet all what she received was "lack of trust"
haba, we are all humans na

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by gunners160(m): 8:49pm On Jul 03, 2020
luminouz:


Are you not a NL guy? You just abused yourself too. An ass pain
I don't insult , in fact I rarely do it. I only told you to say Amen to a simple prayer. Let it be unto you just the way you wished for her. A lady became a baby mama for one useless guy, she went has far as being supportive and yet all what she received was "lack of trust"
haba, we are all humans na

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by kingreign(m): 9:16pm On Jul 03, 2020
elipheleh:
[s]Abeg this guy did nothing wrong. Even God tested faithful Job, does it mean He didn't trust Job? No He even boasted about Job.

My verdict is that girl is unfaithful and she's angry that the guy even suspected her. And she would have fallen when tested with her type of man. Shikena.

Besides that guy should just end this thing. A girl who discusses her guy's joblessness and still be friends with people who mock and disrespect him is not a good wife. Abeg Gutman just dodged a bullet.[/s]
What sort of senseless is this?
This level of senseless is legendary.
E be like say you been forget your brain and sense for backyard, fowl and lizard come chop am. angry

Dande55:
[s]This is why I can never sacrifice shit for any guy besides my father and brothers. These rapists aren't worth it[/s].
Trash!
You highly unimportant opinion has been noticed. Now go back to bed.

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by elipheleh(m): 10:06pm On Jul 03, 2020
gunners160:

are you for real?
did you really read the whole chart?
why is it that Nairaland guys are just a pain in the ass? if a gal is supportive she is an harlot , if she is not then she is a leech and a gold digger.
Say a big Amen to this simple prayer. May it be unto your sister or daughter just as what this young lady passed through

Stop getting emotional. Get the point. People don't be uptight! Some things are minor and shouldn't be a reason for a problem in relationship. And this test is one of such little things.
Some people need to stop takimg life too seriously.
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by gunners160(m): 10:12pm On Jul 03, 2020
elipheleh:


Stop getting emotional. Get the point. People don't be uptight! Some things are minor and shouldn't be a reason for a problem in relationship. And this test is one of such little things.
Some people need to stop takimg life too seriously.
are you shidding me ? you call this nitwit test "minor"? you call a guy who has trust issue " saint" abegi this is totally uncalled for. Why won't she take life serious after all she has been through. The guy deserves a nitwit like him. what kind of stupid test is that, abegi make the guy go mop ocean jor
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by elipheleh(m): 10:14pm On Jul 03, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


She didn't blackmail him with anything, not until after she found out this shit he attempted on her. An employee won't mind an auditing, but if you throw the person under the bus, even after they have given you reasons to trust them, it shows you don't deserve their loyalty. Further scrutiny doesn't mean setting them up in a situation that can ruin them psychologically.

Trust is an ever ongoing process. The more point you accumulate, the better you are trusted. Don't expect to be given automatic trust just for being in a loving relationship. trust is earned and progressive. It never ends. Even parents trust their children unequally at one time or the other.

Don't fault people from checking on you. I laugh whenever my girl keeps checking my phones. She plays with it as she wants. Nothing to hide and no offense ever taken for checking on me. No flesh is perfect to deserve unreserved everlasting trust
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by elipheleh(m): 10:17pm On Jul 03, 2020
gunners160:
I don't insult , in fact I rarely do it. I only told you to say Amen to a simple prayer. Let it be unto you just the way you wished for her. A lady became a baby mama for one useless guy, she went has far as being supportive and yet all what she received was "lack of trust"
haba, we are all humans na

Baby mama/ Baby Daddy, both of them are silly. Irresponsible peeps. I can't trust those sets of people to be trust worthy. Have decency, do the right things. A well trained couple won't be baby mamma/ baby daddy. Their life their choice, has no bearing on the topic. Marriages of decades with grown kids still cheat.
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by gunners160(m): 10:30pm On Jul 03, 2020
elipheleh:


Baby mama/ Baby Daddy, both of them are silly. Irresponsible peeps. I can't trust those sets of people to be trust worthy. Have decency, do the right things. A well trained couple won't be baby mamma/ baby daddy. Their life their choice, has no bearing on the topic. Marriages of decades with grown kids still cheat.
Nobody is perfect and shit happens at time but one should not judge so that u may not nw judged. Truth be told , if this story is actually real, that guy really broke that
ladies hope and not just heart
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by timifakay(m): 6:44am On Jul 04, 2020
gunners160:
I don't insult , in fact I rarely do it. I only told you to say Amen to a simple prayer. Let it be unto you just the way you wished for her. A lady became a baby mama for one useless guy, she went has far as being supportive and yet all what she received was "lack of trust"
haba, we are all humans na

She was mothering the guy... She didn't give birth to any baby...

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by timifakay(m): 6:47am On Jul 04, 2020
elipheleh:


Young man abi woman. You I guess you know nothing about life. Some facts:
1. Any person who screams don't flash torch on me is doing something suspicious. A clean employee doesn't fear auditors, he is always happy because his promotion is at hand cos he'll surely pass.
2. You don't throw stones when you live in a glass house. You don't blackmail people with the sins you forgave them. You too will fail under tight scrutiny.

That you forgave my sins doesn't exempt you or I from future scrutiny any day anytime.

Sure you've helped me some months and that's what friends do and don't brag about it. I'm sure the guy must have helped her more when the going was good.

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by Dande55: 6:57am On Jul 04, 2020
This is why I can never sacrifice shit for any guy besides my father and brothers. These rapists aren't worth it.

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by tunize(m): 7:19am On Jul 04, 2020
elipheleh:


Young man abi woman. You I guess you know nothing about life. Some facts:
1. Any person who screams don't flash torch on me is doing something suspicious. A clean employee doesn't fear auditors, he is always happy because his promotion is at hand cos he'll surely pass.
2. You don't throw stones when you live in a glass house. You don't blackmail people with the sins you forgave them. You too will fail under tight scrutiny.

That you forgave my sins doesn't exempt you or I from future scrutiny any day anytime.

Sure you've helped me some months and that's what friends do and don't brag about it. I'm sure the guy must have helped her more when the going was good.
Nor dey support bad thing, just show u can even do worst. when u see a good woman like this hold her well and besides who still do such silly and childish things this days.

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by gunners160(m): 7:25am On Jul 04, 2020
elipheleh:


Baby mama/ Baby Daddy, both of them are silly. Irresponsible peeps. I can't trust those sets of people to be trust worthy. Have decency, do the right things. A well trained couple won't be baby mamma/ baby daddy. Their life their choice, has no bearing on the topic. Marriages of decades with grown kids still cheat.
in as much as I really hate that baby mama and baby daddy stuff I will not at thesame time be too quick to judge them. You can't call them irresponsible becos they had a child out of wedlock,and shit happens at times. No be every body get the mind to abort. Anyways that is not even the topic now.
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by gunners160(m): 7:27am On Jul 04, 2020
tunize:

Nor dey support bad thing, just show u can even do worst. when u see a good woman like this hold her well and besides who still do such silly and childish things this days.
exactly. U just said the fact
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by Obakashdee(m): 9:06am On Jul 04, 2020
Always resist that urge to test your gf if you don’t trust her.

Insecurity is really a problem oo
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by kenfarm(m): 9:29am On Jul 04, 2020
I don't know y, but after reading thru I just can't stop laughing grin

Once a woman safe a man ass once, d man is indepted to her for life with his unconditional loyalty grin

Lesson: don't take anybody for a ride
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by Humanoid01(m): 9:51am On Jul 04, 2020
elipheleh:
Abeg this guy did nothing wrong. Even God tested faithful Job, does it mean He didn't trust Job? No He even boasted about Job.

My verdict is that girl is unfaithful and she's angry that the guy even suspected her. And she would have fallen when tested with her type of man. Shikena.

Besides that guy should just end this thing. A girl who discusses her guy's joblessness and still be friends with people who mock and disrespect him is not a good wife. Abeg Gutman just dodged a bullet.
If God's reason for testing Job was not His distrust for him, then that means that He wanted Job to know the kind of person he [Job] is. He wanted to bring out something Job probably didn't know he had. Job's case is very different from this because the Tester already knew the tested was going to pass, you can't say the same for the guy.

From the chat, there was nothing that suggested that the lady was cheating. Even the guy never said he was suspecting her. Yet he decided to put her to test. That is humiliating. The fact that she passed doesn't justify his action. Don't be sentimental about this, the guy was wrong. He messed up pretty bad, and he didn't dodge any bullet. To think that he even cheated on her more than once shows that he is very selfish.

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Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by DrFunmisticGlow: 10:02am On Jul 04, 2020
Humanoid01:

If God's reason for testing Job was not His distrust for him, then that means that He wanted Job to know the kind of person he [Job] is. He wanted to bring out something Job probably didn't know he had. Job's case is very different from this because the Tester already knew the tested was going to pass, you can't say the same for the guy.

From the chat, there was nothing that suggested that the lady was cheating. Even the guy never said he was suspecting her. Yet he decided to put her to test. That is humiliating. The fact that she passed doesn't justify his action. Don't be sentimental about this, the guy was wrong. He messed up pretty bad, and he didn't dodge any bullet. To think that he even cheated on her more than once shows that he is very selfish.

the devil did, not God.
Re: Boyfriend Hired Friend To Sleep With His Girlfriend As Loyalty Test, She Reacted by Humanoid01(m): 10:08am On Jul 04, 2020
DrFunmisticGlow:
the devil did, not God.
God tested, the devil tempted.

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