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4Ebiscoo:
Things have changed. Unlike the archaic traditions where women mingling with men was a taboo, today couples enjoy the freedom of being wherever they want and whoever they want. Marriage has become so easy and become a platform where people practice whatever they see or have heard of.

In the past there was fear if one saw you private parts and man used leaves to cover her important parts.Today even some walk naked in the name of fashion and dynamic society.

Here is why you should never bath with your wife.

Lowers interest for conjugal rights.

In the same bathroom and both of you ready to shower. At some point it might be interesting as the two of you enjoy splashing water at each other. Seeing your partners tools might become so obvious that you even lack interest when it comes to conjugal rights. This at times might force one to try and find a different person hence encourages infidelity.

Creates fear

Some people are shy.Remember not everybody has the confidence you may have. With teachings from community and religion the value of one's organs might create fear if you force or want to have a bath with them.One might not enjoy the act for s/ he fears that somebody is enjoying the view of their body.

It can lead to differences or fear of water,"kupiga passport".

Lowers one esteem

If someone has knowledge about one of your weaknesses, then you lose confidence in yourself. Even if they are your partner and are continuously, daily, seeing your unclothedness, you will have a low esteem.Some people might use the advantage to investigate your body and find out points to attack you whenever you request for favors and thus lowers one's self worth.

Can lead to unpleasant behavior.

Evident in social media among most celebrities. The digital era has brought about high focal lens cameras in phones that can record, store and share videos. Taking photos or videos in the bathroom might be good for you at the moment but as well bad when things fall apart.If the two of you differ, one can post your photo to instill more pain into you and show how worthless you are.

With social media, anybody who is familiar with you can have the information and it is just embarrassing.

https://www.mcebiscoo.com/why-you-should-not-bath-with-your-partner/

Are you confused....


Also, what do you mean by walking naked these days

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
who is gonna clean/rub your back if you dont take shower with your partner?!?

lowers interest in your partner because you see them nekkid? bwaaaaaaah! what wont we read on NL?! i guess wifey should now hide away while undressing in the bedroom too, right?

as for you saying that it bring Fear/lowers one esteem in a union, obviously this is for people married to the wrong person. if you have any problem with being nekkid in front of your partner, then there is definitely something wrong in your r/ship, and need to find someone else!

Please educate him....what sort of fear....

It brings more confidence

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It's more than dumb.....

I can't even understand the rationale from where he's coming from

4Ebiscoo:
Things have changed. Unlike the archaic traditions where women mingling with men was a taboo, today couples enjoy the freedom of being wherever they want and whoever they want. Marriage has become so easy and become a platform where people practice whatever they see or have heard of.

In the past there was fear if one saw you private parts and man used leaves to cover her important parts.Today even some walk naked in the name of fashion and dynamic society.

Here is why you should never bath with your wife.

Lowers interest for conjugal rights.

In the same bathroom and both of you ready to shower. At some point it might be interesting as the two of you enjoy splashing water at each other. Seeing your partners tools might become so obvious that you even lack interest when it comes to conjugal rights. This at times might force one to try and find a different person hence encourages infidelity.

Creates fear

Some people are shy.Remember not everybody has the confidence you may have. With teachings from community and religion the value of one's organs might create fear if you force or want to have a bath with them.One might not enjoy the act for s/ he fears that somebody is enjoying the view of their body.

It can lead to differences or fear of water,"kupiga passport".

Lowers one esteem

If someone has knowledge about one of your weaknesses, then you lose confidence in yourself. Even if they are your partner and are continuously, daily, seeing your unclothedness, you will have a low esteem.Some people might use the advantage to investigate your body and find out points to attack you whenever you request for favors and thus lowers one's self worth.

Can lead to unpleasant behavior.

Evident in social media among most celebrities. The digital era has brought about high focal lens cameras in phones that can record, store and share videos. Taking photos or videos in the bathroom might be good for you at the moment but as well bad when things fall apart.If the two of you differ, one can post your photo to instill more pain into you and show how worthless you are.

With social media, anybody who is familiar with you can have the information and it is just embarrassing.

https://www.mcebiscoo.com/why-you-should-not-bath-with-your-partner/

You, brainless Dumbo, are a waste of sperm.

I mean, your parents would cringe in utter horror and shame to realize what they sired came up with this shiii.
That you couldn't get a girl to share your bed isn't enough reason to become what you are. You can always jerk off.
Such pitiful tripe

Joshphine:
I personally think that it is not a good idea bathing with your partner,it is not like they will get married at the end of it all....it is not really advisable��

pls don't make me laugh...how about sex...sex is done before marriage but bathing with one's partner is bad...Africa......

Must I read everything in NL

engrtee:
IT IS GOOD WHEN THERE IS WATER SCARCITY AND YOU WANT TO MANAGE WATER..
YOU POUR ONE BOWL OF WATER ON HER.SHE POURS HALF BOWL OF WATER ON YOU.IF WATER FINISH, CLEAN HIM. WITH TOWEL.THANK ME LATER

Ayanma

Why you shouldn't have post this in 2020

1. One pandemic at a time

2. Let's people assumed you are stupid

3. Don't open your mouth to confirm no2

4. Blogging is not your calling, why not try shoe making?

5. It's too early to be stupid

rubbish talk

Joshphine:
I personally think that it is not a good idea bathing with your partner,it is not like they will get married at the end of it all....it is not really advisable��

but u can eat together, go swimming, kiss, have sex and yet na the bathing own come get issue abi? Hmmm the other scenerios did not make y'all vulnerable abi na d bathing part alone? Issorite

kalufelix:
Op you made a lot of sense...all these small children just dey rush to comment...some of them don dey bath with their girlfriend from university...taking shower with your partner shouldn't be a routine...it should happen on special occasions.

like on her birthday and wedding anniversary right?
Smh some people ehnnn

EmmySparky:
pls don't make me laugh...how about sex...sex is done before marriage but bathing with one's partner is bad...Africa......

noooo dem dey off light when dem won av sex lol Liv dis pple ooo Dia thinking will Liv u stunned

Fokosobo:
lol, but honestly religion must have influenced his write up. ...it is only religion that can make people reason that way.

infact if not that sex is crucial for reproduction, religious folks would have condemned it completely and ban people from engaging in it, either married or not. .....even as it is, some religious folks still see sex as a sin and believe it was created by the devil. They believe marriage is for the weak and chastity is the best option.

see guy, Liv religion out of this, the op is acting on his own, no where does religion suggest that, me way b Christian I neva see wia we're taught to do only missionary style during sex or oral is evil, this is when men mix their own philosophy with core religious acts this is what u get my guy. Many people are just extremists.

RealEzee:
like on her birthday and wedding anniversary right?
Smh some people ehnnn

You know as e dey be naa...you can't be torch lighting your partners something every time...maybe on weekends or on days that you plan to make love...then you shower together and proceed to the other room or you shower together after the action has ended...

kalufelix:
You know as e dey be naa...you can't be torch lighting your partners something every time...maybe on weekends or on days that you plan to make love...then you shower together and proceed to the other room or you shower together after the action has ended...

Dat one na u, see if Bae get her way she go rather dey naked with man pikin even if na to gist talkless of shower sef na da one bae like pass, make she dey gist while bathing


Well all na bliss

RealEzee:
see guy, Liv religion out of this, the op is acting on his own, no where does religion suggest that, me way b Christian I neva see wia we're taught to do only missionary style during sex or oral is evil, this is when men mix their own philosophy with core religious acts this is what u get my guy. Many people are just extremists.

you are not a born again Christian. Hardcore Christians wont agree with you. some time ago, one pastor said husband and wife should only engage in missionary style. any style apart from missonary is from the devil and you will goto hell.

https://www.nairaland.com/2151048/missionary-only-holy-sexual-position

https://www.nairaland.com/4470246/pastor-says-sex-position-apart

MouthAction is also forbidden. pastor adeboye preached against it some years ago.

Fokosobo:
you are not a born again Christian. Hardcore Christians wont agree with you. some time ago, one pastor said husband and wife should only engage in missionary style. any style apart from missonary is from the devil and you will goto hell.

https://www.nairaland.com/2151048/missionary-only-holy-sexual-position

https://www.nairaland.com/4470246/pastor-says-sex-position-apart

MouthAction is also forbidden. pastor adeboye preached against it some years ago.

oga no where in the scriptures does it suggest that, obvious you missed it completely, that's what I said earlier, men mixing their philosophy with faith, nothing like hard-core Christian, smack down Christian ni.

Absolutely nowhere mehn, no where does it suggest missionary style none I still repeat none, alot of religious folks are just extremist

Xavfra:
Please educate him....what sort of fear....

It brings more confidence

exactly... i guess he expects wifey to lie in the bedroom naked (wide open in all her glory) before sex, but as soon as sex is over, he doesnt want to see her nekkid any longer, lol!

MrBrownJay1:
exactly... i guess he expects wifey to lie in the bedroom naked (wide open in all her glory) before sex, but abs soon as sex is over, he doesnt want to see her nekkid any longer, lol!

Na wetin I been Dey reason

RealEzee:
oga no where in the scriptures does it suggest that, obvious you missed it completely, that's what I said earlier, men mixing their philosophy with faith, nothing like hard-core Christian, smack down Christian ni.

Absolutely nowhere mehn, no where does it suggest missionary style none I still repeat none, alot of religious folks are just extremist

i doubt if you visited those links i gave you before rushing to reply me.

Xavfra:
Na wetin I been Dey reason

probably that person is very shy or uncomfortable around unclothedness (unless they are h0rny)

MrBrownJay1:
probably that person is very shy or uncomfortable around unclothedness (unless they are h0rny)

But there's no difference.....

Infact should they both do it, they'll both get greater feelings and respect and confidence for each other

Xavfra:
But there's no difference.....

Infact should they both do it, they'll both get greater feelings and respect and confidence for each other

i guess these are the people that would probably ask the "light to be off", lol!

OMG!!...wetin I no go see for Nairaland

4Ebiscoo:
Things have changed. Unlike the archaic traditions where women mingling with men was a taboo, today couples enjoy the freedom of being wherever they want and whoever they want. Marriage has become so easy and become a platform where people practice whatever they see or have heard of.

In the past there was fear if one saw you private parts and man used leaves to cover her important parts.Today even some walk naked in the name of fashion and dynamic society.

Here is why you should never bath with your wife.

Lowers interest for conjugal rights.

In the same bathroom and both of you ready to shower. At some point it might be interesting as the two of you enjoy splashing water at each other. Seeing your partners tools might become so obvious that you even lack interest when it comes to conjugal rights. This at times might force one to try and find a different person hence encourages infidelity.

Creates fear

Some people are shy.Remember not everybody has the confidence you may have. With teachings from community and religion the value of one's organs might create fear if you force or want to have a bath with them.One might not enjoy the act for s/ he fears that somebody is enjoying the view of their body.

It can lead to differences or fear of water,"kupiga passport".

Lowers one esteem

If someone has knowledge about one of your weaknesses, then you lose confidence in yourself. Even if they are your partner and are continuously, daily, seeing your unclothedness, you will have a low esteem.Some people might use the advantage to investigate your body and find out points to attack you whenever you request for favors and thus lowers one's self worth.

Can lead to unpleasant behavior.

Evident in social media among most celebrities. The digital era has brought about high focal lens cameras in phones that can record, store and share videos. Taking photos or videos in the bathroom might be good for you at the moment but as well bad when things fall apart.If the two of you differ, one can post your photo to instill more pain into you and show how worthless you are.

With social media, anybody who is familiar with you can have the information and it is just embarrassing.

https://www.mcebiscoo.com/why-you-should-not-bath-with-your-partner/

In other words you're saying it leads to 'see finish'

MrBrownJay1:
i guess these are the people that would probably ask the "light to be off", lol!

Or maybe the man will just bring out his dick and shift her skirt and pant then move in and out rythmically

Xavfra:
Or maybe the man will just bring out his dick and shift her skirt and pant then move in and out rythmically

...while her bra still on, lol!

MrBrownJay1:
...while her bra still on, lol!

Yeah it's possible.....

The shyness can prevent him from touching her boobs ....he doesn't want to seem like a bad child

This OP ehhn!! Sense is very far away from you.


Those pics you added there, don't it turn you on?

Don't you like what you saw in those pics?

Fokosobo:
i doubt if you visited those links i gave you before rushing to reply me.

guy I went thru it and most of the comments support my stand on it been religious extremism, no scripture to back up their claim why missionary style is the only style permitted man, like I said this is what you get when men mix their philosophies with faith.

Nothing they clergymen said can be sourced exclusively from the scriptures man, you might want to go through it yourself, no where either to back up the claim that if you doggy with ur wife you're going to hell nor missionary is the only style man, if you side those clergymen then you missed it like them, cos that's not hardcore Christianity in any way man.

CAPSLOCKED:
FROM JANUARY UP TILL DECEMBER, THIS IS OFFICIALLY THE DUMBEST THREAD OF 2020.

Not just 2020 even 2021 sef

op I don't know for others, but you are a wise man