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cococandy:
You don’t hate rape. Stop lying to yourself. Apologist

Keep going nude and we waiting for someone to accuse of rape.

Ever ready to flaunt dirty things in the name of ass, boobs when your equals are researching.
You think I have time for s3x? I don't waste time on shits. If you like go nude, show all your horse shoes, it is not my business and has nothing to do with me.

I am only talking for those that have your time. If they like, let them rape ya all, non of my business

Queenslander:
Oh please, you can say whatever you like.. I'm not going to go into a battle of wits with you.. As you've set aside this special time to humiliate yourself in public. you're obviously having delusions of competence.. Next!!

Filterlander what's up

xelly:
I hate rape. No one should rape another. A girl, woman a boy or a man no one deserve to be raped.

The question is, why do ladies prefer to appear nude? Go round the city, you will see naked people walking round. I am 101% sure they do that to seduce a man. Maybe a targeted guy but in most case the wrong guy gets seduced and when he falls, it becomes a rape.

I have seen people dressed that their entire pussy is shown to the public, some their breast will be all out, some wangle their ass to cause commotion. As a people, it is not the best thing to demonise rape without addressing some of the causes. A known cause. On this same Internet, we have seen horse shoes as they call it. Action in a place could trigger reaction in another place. It is a known fact that people take advantage where they have strenght (Child rape)

I move a motion that indecent dressing should be a punishable offence. Those sharing nude pictures should be traced and punished either by fine 500k and above or 3 years imprisonment.

Any one found producing, promoting or sharing any form of sexual content should be punished.

truth is some of this people that are victims of rape were not particularly badly dressed in any way as to cause lustful exertions.
If you as an individual can't control your boisterous libido,then there is a big problem
And about those nudes you were talking about,just forget it. People still watch porn.

Rape is rape,say no to rape,don't become a rape apologist

Iceyjayz:
Filterlander what's up

May I have the pleasure of your absence? At least for once, please!!

s4cs:
truth is some of this people that are victims of rape were not particularly badly dressed in any way as to cause lustful exertions.
If you as an individual can't control your boisterous libido,then there is a big problem
And about those nudes you were talking about,just forget it. People still watch porn.

Rape is rape,say no to rape,don't become a rape apologist

My dear, in a sane society, there are things one shouldn't do. How will someone post nude pictures and turn to the other side to stand against rape?

If you read between line, you will understand that I said something about the weak. That's the minor. Someone may dress like that and trigger a rapist who will carryout his action on a minor.

I totally stand against indecent dressing. Sometimes I ask ladies their intention for putting on such dress and the response will marvel you.

If I have my way, I will pass laws against indecent dressing and make the penalty for rape and indecent dressing equal.

I hate the madness I see daily

xelly:
My dear, in a sane society, there are things one shouldn't do. How will someone post nude pictures and turn to the other side to stand against rape?

If you read between line, you will understand that I said something about the weak. That's the minor. Someone may dress like that and trigger a rapist who will carryout his action on a minor.

I totally stand against indecent dressing. Sometimes I ask ladies their intention for putting on such dress and the response will marvel you.

If I have my way, I will pass laws against indecent dressing and make the penalty for rape and indecent dressing equal.

I hate the madness I see daily

As much as i don't like skimpy sorts of dressings,i still think that is not the real problem.
Now a guy can after going online to stream porn,leave his house with a lustful appetite and prey on other ladies that could possibly be decently dressed..
And i don't even understand why such guys won't patronise brothels and satisfy themselves instead of raping. Like,i mean with as little as #300 one can get a quickie over here,but no,they'll rather force themselves on an innocent girl

BossDante:
Shut up and stop trying to bully him to silence, where did he say what you are putting on him? Please show us.. Lair! You are the no different from those girls that falsely accuse men of rape.

He made VERY GOOD POINTS. This whole end rape campaign isn't really about rape.. it has been taken over by you silly feminist, finding all means to reduce men to nothing while making everything about you. Why not discuss every aspect of rape and sexual assault, including false accusations, instead of turning a blind eye to other important stuffs cos you feel it won't benefit your gender. You ladies must learn to take responsibilities for your actions.

That's how one of your kind wrote on her whatsapp status- "Even If I Come To your Room Naked, It Doesn't Mean Consent".. you must be very stupid, why would you come to my room naked? Is that not the same sexual assault and harrasment we are talking about? Or because it's from a female gender, the definition of the crime changes? If you come to my room naked as a female, it's either of two (2) things:

1. You are interested in having sex with me ; or
2. You are mad..

From the above premise, if you say it's not number 1, that it's not consent, then it's definitely number 2 and its ok to treat you like a mad person and slap the hell out of you off my room.. I'm only defending myself.. mad people act irrationally.. make you no go bite me before I take actions.

Peace

If your sister walks into your room naked would you rape her?
Ig your mum walks into your room naked would you rape her?
If your daughter walks into your room naked would you rape her?
If a baby walks into your room naked would you rape her?
If your hommie walks into your room naked would you rape him?
If a mad woman walks into your room naked would you rape her?

So why would you see it as Consent when an (according to you) indecently dressed lady walks into your room.

Go teach yourself self control.

xelly:
My dear, in a sane society, there are things one shouldn't do. How will someone post nude pictures and turn to the other side to stand against rape?

If you read between line, you will understand that I said something about the weak. That's the minor. Someone may dress like that and trigger a rapist who will carryout his action on a minor.

I totally stand against indecent dressing. Sometimes I ask ladies their intention for putting on such dress and the response will marvel you.

If I have my way, I will pass laws against indecent dressing and make the penalty for rape and indecent dressing equal.

I hate the madness I see daily

You need to change your mindset. Your indecent dressing is another person normal, your extravagant lifestyle is another person's normal, your too pretty is another person's normal, your indecent hairstyle and tattoos are another person's normal. Learn and encourage self control, this path you are on would lead to only sorrow and pain.

As for your "indecent dressing" and rape, one is a crime the other isn't, one is intended to hurt the other isn't, one instills terror and rage the other doesn’t.

post=91390364:
The girl in Jigawa that experienced rape at the hands of 11 men on different occasions; did not do anything wrong. She did not dress in a revealing manner. In fact, she is just a 12-year-old girl. To those people looking for a reason to blame the victim, sorry, she did nothing wrong.

Furthermore, the gruesome rape and murder of Uwaila Omozuwa in a church shows that no place is indeed safe. No one can blame her for being at the wrong place. No one can blame for going to ‘his’ place at night. She was reading in a church. A place of refuge, a place she felt most secured. However, she underestimated the fact that a beast was lurking around. So sad.

The dastardly rape and brutal murder of Uwa has invalidated all claims and views about rape. How could she have prevented what happened?

If her parent had called that day and she told them she was reading in a church; they would have had no reason to be concerned. However, they got the worst news a parent could ever get. ‘Your daughter is dead, raped and killed in a bloody church.’


A girl/woman is constantly vulnerable to rape. As a toddler, she is at risk of rape from people most trusted by her parents. At the risk of family members or relatives raping her. In school, her teacher could be a beast in human form. Even her friend’s or boyfriend’s place is also a dangerous place?

So where is safe for her?

The truth is that a girl/woman should not be in constant fear. Everywhere and every place should be safe for her. She is not responsible for caging those perverts. That’s the job of society.

Maybe all men are potential rapists that need to undergo some sort of therapy. We owe it to our daughters, wives, and mothers to immediately commence a national awareness on rape. Organize therapy sessions to purge traits of rape in everyman.

Because the animals that perpetrate rape are not products of immaculate conception. Indeed, they are born by women, perhaps have female siblings, and maybe even female children (Lord have mercy).

Rape is indeed a pandemic, a never-ending pandemic.
According to a National Survey carried out in 2014 on Violence Against Children in Nigeria; it was confirmed that one in four females reported experiencing sexual violence in childhood; with approximately 70% reporting more than one incident of sexual violence.
In the same study, it was found that 24.8% of females aged 18 to 24 years experienced sexual abuse; prior to age 18 of which 5.0% sought help, with only 3.5% receiving any services.

These statistics are grim enough. Unfortunately, rape is under-reported. People, due to stigmatization don’t want to report rape. We have a justice system that makes reporting rape seems like adding extra burden on the victim. The same police that victims are supposed to report to allegedly raped sex workers with sachet water nylon in Abuja not too long ago.

Even at that, there is a need to have a system that can guarantee justice; for both the accused and the victim without destroying both in the process.

I understand that there is a national outrage in the wake of the sad incident involving Uwa. People are angry. Personally, I am livid. But the anger should be directed at creating a solution. Changing the existing legislation, awareness on rape and most importantly; everyone needs to create that safe environment for girls/women.

If you hear a troubling sound from your neighbour, knock on that door and ask questions. If you see a man or a boy getting too cozy with a little girl; poke your nose in the matter. In fact, your little “amebo” could help prevent rape or molestation.

Parents, take time to talk to your sons and male wards that a girl’s body is her absolute right with her total discretion on whom and when to give. Consent is hers to give and withdraw at will. In fact, she can give at first round and withdraw it at second. More so, she has the right to withdraw such consent in the middle of the action.

Also, parents, you should be your daughters’ confidant. Let her be able to talk to you. Father, sex talk with your daughter is not gross. Let her be able to talk to you.

There is nothing like settling it within the family. If punishing perpetrators of rape would shatter the family, then let it be. If the animal had thought about the family, he would not have done it.

As tempting as it is to talk about rape and molestation of boys also, I will refrain from it. Today is all about girls and women. The only hope would be that we would not have to wait until tragedy strikes again; before raising a voice.

False rape accusation

Creating a rape-free society as elucidated earlier involves getting everyone behind it. Most importantly men, not just because the main transgressors are of our gender. But because the victims are our siblings, mothers and children.

Also, we are vulnerable to false accusations. Creating a better justice system that will guarantee justice for victims in rape cases; will also help people facing false accusations.

This is not just a time for rage. It is a time to work in creating that system which works for all victims. The lack of a reliable system has made people turn to social media for settling or seeking justice on rape-related cases.

However, social media has shown that it is not equipped for the endeavour. As a court of opinion, yes, but a court of justice, no.

It is in everyone’s best interest to create a safe environment for our girls and women. But most importantly, on the rare occasion that some beat the safety net; there should be a place for swift and fair justice.

S.O.

but you want to wait for tragedy to strike again before you address Raping of boys. anyways thank God you have brothers/sons.

as parents are teaching their male wards how to respect women don't you think they need to teach the girl child how to respect men also?

if women can pay hoodlums to rape other women, if women can stab their husbands/boyfriends or cut off their PENIS. IF humans can kill just for PAYBACK don't you think RAPE can also be a way to get back at people for their crimes?

BOTTOM LINE. STOP MAKING IT SOUND AS IF IT'S COURTESY IT'S ONLY MEN THAT COMMIT THIS CRIME(RAPE/CHILD ABUSE) DON'T FORGET TO TELL PEOPLE TO DESIST FROM CRIMES THEY COMMIT AGAINST FELLOW HUMANS. THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT WILL PAY BACK ANYWAY THEY DEEM FIT. JUNGLE JUSTICE CAN ATTEST TO THAT.

WE ALL SAW HERE HOW A 24 YEARS OLD LADY SEXUALLY ABUSED A 4 YEAR BOY IN PORTHARCOURT. NO ONE CALLED FOR HER HEAD ON A SPIKE WHAT PICTURE DO U THINK U ARE PAINTING IN THE BOY'S MIND?

NOT UNTIL WE FIGHT RAPE AND NOT MEN, WE ARE GOING NO WHERE

Dinvictus:
You need to change your mindset. Your indecent dressing is another person normal, your extravagant lifestyle is another person's normal, your too pretty is another person's normal, your indecent hairstyle and tattoos are another person's normal. Learn and encourage self control, this path you are on would lead to only sorrow and pain.

As for your "indecent dressing" and rape, one is a crime the other isn't, one is intended to hurt the other isn't, one instills terror and rage the other doesn’t.

oga shut up.
stop sounding stupid in the name of civilization

my indecent dressing is another person's normal HOW COME YOU DIDN'T KEEP MUHAMMED SALAH HAIRSTYLE IN SECONDARY SCHOOL? HOW COME GIRLS DIDN'T WEAR SHOW ME YOUR BREAST IN SECONDARY SCHOOL?
HOW COME UNIVERSITIES LIKE COVENANT HAVE DRESS CODE?

OGA WEN U SEE INDECENT DRESSING U GO KNOW. U NO BLIND.

IT'S NOT AN EXCUSE FOR RAPE. E STILL GET LITTLE ROLE

THE FACT THAT IT'S NOT AN EXCUSE FIR RAPE DOESN'T MEAN U SHOULD TYPE RUBBISH JUST BECAUSE U WANT TO PROVE TO THE WORLD HOW MUCH U STAND AGAINST RAPE.

NO MATTER HOW YOU CLAIM TO BE CIVILIZED U NO FIT WEAR NIGHT CLUB OUTFIT GO CHURCH/MOSQUE OR WORKPLACE/JOB INTERVIEW

N U CLAIM NOT TO KNOW WHAT INDECENT DRESSING IS. IBEG SHIFT

Dinvictus:
You need to change your mindset. Your indecent dressing is another person normal, your extravagant lifestyle is another person's normal, your too pretty is another person's normal, your indecent hairstyle and tattoos are another person's normal. Learn and encourage self control, this path you are on would lead to only sorrow and pain.

As for your "indecent dressing" and rape, one is a crime the other isn't, one is intended to hurt the other isn't, one instills terror and rage the other doesn’t.

What you call bad becomes bad. You can't say A is a crime and B isn't.

You can not turn evil to good. Indecent dressing, displaying of horse shoe is evil and it is a crime.

s4cs:
As much as i don't like skimpy sorts of dressings,i still think that is not the real problem.
Now a guy can after going online to stream porn,leave his house with a lustful appetite and prey on other ladies that could possibly be decently dressed..
And i don't even understand why such guys won't patronise brothels and satisfy themselves instead of raping. Like,i mean with as little as #300 one can get a quickie over here,but no,they'll rather force themselves on an innocent girl

The point is clear, the attitude of ladies promote rape. If we reduce focus on physical appearance, boobs and ass flaunting, attention will shift from sex.

Even if one is getting sex for N5, what's the use of it?

Now you see, even the musician are promoting rape. How you may ask. Check the content of their music. No one censors it. Anything is delivered for public consumption. Funny enough even minors have them in their phones.

If we are serious, we can change the society. If we keep padding evil, we will keep getting the result in different ways.

Queenslander:
May I have the pleasure of your absence? At least for once, please!!

This is a public forum, the only way you can feel my absence is when you deactivate your moniker.

Dinvictus:
If your sister walks into your room naked would you rape her?
Ig your mum walks into your room naked would you rape her?
If your daughter walks into your room naked would you rape her?
If a baby walks into your room naked would you rape her?
If your hommie walks into your room naked would you rape him?
If a mad woman walks into your room naked would you rape her?

So why would you see it as Consent when an (according to you) indecently dressed lady walks into your room.

Go teach yourself self control.

You don't have sense,,
I said it means she wants sex or she's mad.. and you must to be stupid if your siblings and mad people sexually turn you on in anyway.. very shallow argument.. why would a sane individual walk naked into a room of an opposite gender WHO ISN'T HER RELATIVE if the she's not mad or doesn't want sex..

Go teach yourself how to stop being a desperate harlot.. I wish you sense too

Iceyjayz:
This is a public forum, the only way you can feel my absence is when you deactivate your moniker.

Um, don't you have a terribly empty feeling in your skull?

Queenslander:
Um, don't you have a terribly empty feeling in your skull?

I don't have no atom of feelings for runs girls.

Iceyjayz:
I don't have no atom of feelings for runs girls.

your a person of rare intelligence,. You rarely show any,. Have you considered suing your brains for nonsupport??

Queenslander:
your a person of rare intelligence,. You rarely show any,. Have you considered suing your brains for nonsupport??

And you are obviously a person with low IQ and brain size of a fish, have you considered asking your parents why you are too dumb? or perhaps, it's genetic.

Iceyjayz:
And you are obviously a person with low IQ and brain size of a fish, have you considered asking your parents why you are too dumb? or perhaps, it's genetic.

Are you simply stupid, or are you possessed by a retardedd ghost? Tell me, cause your stupidity is outta this world..

Queenslander:
Are you simply stupid, or are you possessed by a retardedd ghost? Tell me, cause your stupidity is outta this world..

You are just too dumb and stupid for my liking! I really pity the miserable guy that will end up with you, cuz you sucks from your head to toe. jeez!


oh you have even removed your over edited and filtered picture, Hahahahahah.

Iceyjayz:
You are just too dumb and stupid for my liking! I really pity the miserable guy that will end up with you, cuz you sucks from your head to toe. jeez!


oh you have even removed your over edited and filtered picture, Hahahahahah.

you said what you thought,. You'd be speechless though,. I'd explain it to you, but I don't have any crayons with me right now.. Your just mad cause I'm cuter than the girl that's with you.. I can talk about it cause I know I'm pretty.. Now that's a fact... Whether you like to admit it or not..

Queenslander:
you said what you thought,. You'd be speechless though,. I'd explain it to you, but I don't have any crayons with me right now.. Your just mad cause I'm cuter than the girl that's with you.. I can talk about it cause I know I'm pretty.. Now that's a fact... Whether you like to admit it or not..

Lol the truth hurts though.

Queenslander:
you said what you thought,. You'd be speechless though,. I'd explain it to you, but I don't have any crayons with me right now.. Your just mad cause I'm cuter than the girl that's with you.. I can talk about it cause I know I'm pretty.. Now that's a fact... Whether you like to admit it or not..

Stop deceiving yourself

Iceyjayz:
I don't have no atom of feelings for runs girls.

could you stop calling me that? Please,. I'm not finding it funny anymore!! Thank you..

Queenslander:
could you stop calling me that? Please,. I'm not finding it funny anymore!! Thank you..

Hahahaha the truth is that if you are not you won't let it get to you, can I ask you something? alright..are you a virgin be honest.

Iceyjayz:
Hahahaha the truth is that if you are not you won't let it get to you, can I ask you something? alright..are you a virgin be honest.

jeez, how stupid can you be? I am amazed at your audacity to ask,. Boy you have crossed all boundaries, it's none of your business.. Ugh!!

Queenslander:
jeez, how stupid can you be? I am amazed at your audacity to ask,. Boy you have crossed all boundaries, it's none of your business.. Ugh!!

Then you are what you are, a piece of satisfaction toy to random negroes.

Iceyjayz:
Then you are what you are, a piece of satisfaction toy to random negroes.

thank you.. Do you have female relatives? Just a quick question?

Queenslander:
thank you.. Do you have female relatives? Just a quick question?

Jeez! I just wonder how wide that place would be now, so disgusting!

Iceyjayz:
Jeez! I just wonder how wide that place would be now, so disgusting!

goodnight!!

Queenslander:
goodnight!!

C'mon talk to me, why are you running away? I asked you a simple question and you couldn't answer? at least just try and be honest with me for once.