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Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Endymi: 9:42am On Jul 11, 2020
Please I need advice!
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by jawalis(m): 9:44am On Jul 11, 2020
You might not end up getting the best advice here. Reason been that everyone on Nairaland has different mentality, different backgrounds, different orientation about marriage, different financial orientations, different locations in different part of the world etc.
So to begin with: 50k to some men on Nairaland might be a chicken change that they spend in just an outing to the beach, mall, parks and centers so what advice are you expecting from such individuals? He’ll definitely tell you no and not go into marriage while 50k to some people is something though not enough but at least, you can get something together with it. Therefore advices here will either discourage you or push and stimulate your intention.
Now here’s my personal advice like you sought for. Ask yourself these questions and answer them in accordance to your lifestyle.

1. Where do you stay? I mean your city/town/village. If you stay in places like Lagos here. Pls don’t start a family yet cos it might not go far considering expenses we face daily even as singles. How much more if you are with kids and a wife.

2. How old are you? You know how age runs faster these days so if you are below 30, pls chill and try more to ensure you get other source of income. You can safe up to get something fixed or other means you consider better for yourself.

3. Your position in your family and that of your prospective wife? This matters a lot because siblings from your side and even from your wife side will surely come to you once you are married and settled.

4. Do you have any plan of upping your income?

5. Is your wife working? This is very necessary, ensure she has a job of her own cos your own income can’t settle every of the finances.

If you are able to provide positive answers to those questions, then you are good to go but otherwise! Pls kindly stay back for the main time to avoid stories that’ll touch hearts. She might be telling you lots of encouraging words now like “don’t worry-we will be fine, let’s start small blah blah blah”. Pls use your head. She’ll cheat on your face and disrespect you if you aren’t able to secure the home later. Don’t be carried away by the “I love you” poem you hear now.

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by 77Craze: 9:44am On Jul 11, 2020
No oooo he can not marry, in fact he should remain single, nonsense question!
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Avast(m): 9:48am On Jul 11, 2020
77Craze:
No oooo he can not marry, in fact he should remain single, nonsense question!
Lol, naso
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Avast(m): 9:50am On Jul 11, 2020
Hideraoluwa

Hide buy God
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Geeksamir(m): 9:50am On Jul 11, 2020
Nawa ooo
U wan dey collect millions b4 u marry abi?
My advise Sha is don't marry a liability so that ur 50k can serve
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Endymi: 9:51am On Jul 11, 2020
77Craze:
No oooo he can not marry, in fact he should remain single, nonsense question!

Lol Why do you say so please.
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Elgorny(m): 9:52am On Jul 11, 2020
Save for the future. Family issue is bigger than 50k. Seat back and think well. The bag of rice is more than 20k currently. Do you think naira has value? 50k is just $120-130 if am correct. Don't let love decieve u at all

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Endymi: 9:53am On Jul 11, 2020
Elgorny:
Save for the future. Family issue is bigger than 50k. Seat back and think well. The bag of rice is more than 20k currently. Do you think naira has value? 50k is just $120-130 if am correct. Don't let love decieve u at all

Thanks,but I have a savings of 500k.

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Ningen(m): 9:57am On Jul 11, 2020
Ofcourse you can get married with that income.
But you'll be very uncomfortable and unhappy.

50K is not enough to foot the bills. It'll never be.
Unless your wife will take care of herself.

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Thelannister: 9:58am On Jul 11, 2020
Pls if you like wait till you earn millions, kanji and body go tell


I beg, I want to fix my hair and I’m fucking broke now, don’t mind if someone generous enough can fix my bill,
Call me directly Nifemi 0817 164 7938

Thanks

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Endymi: 10:03am On Jul 11, 2020
Thelannister:
Pls if you like wait till you earn millions, kanji and body go tell


I beg, I want to fix my hair and I’m fucking broke now, don’t mind if someone generous enough can fix my bill,
Call me directly Nifemi 0817 164 7938

Thanks


Thanks
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by phorget(m): 10:05am On Jul 11, 2020
Ningen:
Ofcourse you can get married with that income.
But you'll be very uncomfortable and unhappy.

50K is not enough to foot the bills. It'll never be.
Unless your wife will take care of herself.

No amount is enough to foot any bills, the more money the more problems. 50k is a good amount as long as the op can learn to cut his clothes according to the materials available.

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Martinez39s(m): 10:06am On Jul 11, 2020
I all honesty, someone with 50k/month shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Even if you want to marry, try and get your money up first.

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by kalufelix(m): 10:06am On Jul 11, 2020
No way!.. Don't try it... The team make money are coming for you
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by phorget(m): 10:08am On Jul 11, 2020
Elgorny:
Save for the future. Family issue is bigger than 50k. Seat back and think well. The bag of rice is more than 20k currently. Do you think naira has value? 50k is just $120-130 if am correct. Don't let love decieve u at all

No amount will ever solve any family issue. What marriage requires is just a steady income no matter how little it might be just make sure it's steady.

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Elgorny(m): 10:12am On Jul 11, 2020
Try invest your money wisely. next year you will surely apriciate me. Think of renting and other issues that will empty ur account at the end of weding

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Elgorny(m): 10:18am On Jul 11, 2020
phorget:


No amount will ever solve any family issue. What marriage requires is just a steady income no matter how little it might be just make sure it's steady.
no matter what 50k is still 50k try to double your income to at least to 6 digit b4 i will consider mariage. Am not in a hurry. The future is koko
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Angelacruz: 10:22am On Jul 11, 2020
If u are not staying in a rented apartment,if u dnt reside in lagos n if ur partner is working.Then u are good to go.

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Endymi: 10:31am On Jul 11, 2020
Angelacruz:
If u are not staying in a rented apartment,if u dnt reside in lagos n if ur partner is working.Then u are good to go.
. thanks
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Endymi: 10:31am On Jul 11, 2020
Angelacruz:
If u are not staying in a rented apartment,if u dnt reside in lagos n if ur partner is working.Then u are good to go.

Thanks
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by CAPSLOCKED: 1:26pm On Jul 11, 2020
Endymi:
Please I need advice!

YOU CAN BE MAKING MILLIONS AND STILL HAVE A TERRIBLE MARRIAGE.
BEST FOR YOU IS TO GET INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE YOU LIVE IN PEACE WITH. IF PEACE IS MISSING FROM YOUR MARRIAGE YOU'RE DONE FOR.

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by CAPSLOCKED: 1:29pm On Jul 11, 2020
Martinez39s:
I all honesty, someone with 50k/month shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Even if you want to marry, try and get your money up first.

MORE THAN 20 PERCENT OF MARRIED PEOPLE IN NIGERIA DON'T SEE 50K MONTHLY.
LET'S LEAVE THIS FORUM AND LOOK AROUND THE COUNTRY FOR ONCE.

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Karleb(m): 1:32pm On Jul 11, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:


MORE THAN 20 PERCENT OF MARRIED PEOPLE IN NIGERIA DON'T SEE 50K MONTHLY.
LET'S LEAVE THIS FORUM AND LOOK AROUND THE COUNTRY FOR ONCE.

I would increase that stat to 45 per cent.

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by icenti: 1:53pm On Jul 11, 2020
Endymi:


Thanks,but I have a savings of 500k.

Please that's still nothing
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Endymi: 1:54pm On Jul 11, 2020
Karleb:


I would increase that stat to 45 per cent.

Wow,is not that I want to marry now,but I am just contemplating,and I have a savings of 500k, please I need the best advice please.
I don't want my generation to suffer,I have suffered more than doormat!
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Martinez39s(m): 1:56pm On Jul 11, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:
MORE THAN 20 PERCENT OF MARRIED PEOPLE IN NIGERIA DON'T SEE 50K MONTHLY.
LET'S LEAVE THIS FORUM AND LOOK AROUND THE COUNTRY FOR ONCE.
I am aware of this, but it doesn't make it a sound choice. However, it's not advisable for a man to take the huge responsibilities of marriage with 50k/month... except he will make much later.
Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Lexusgs430: 2:00pm On Jul 11, 2020
Yes, if you wife is earning 150K+ and prepared to contribute adequately to your household.......

Because very soon, pickins go enter....... Having pickins is a very expensive business......... wink

The more plenty, the more expensive....... cheesy That 50K no go do am....... smiley

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Lexusgs430: 2:03pm On Jul 11, 2020
Endymi:


Thanks,but I have a savings of 500k.

So when you begin chop inside the 500K, how would it grow back...........

Just have a very low key wedding (if your wife go gree)....... cheesy

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Lexusgs430: 2:06pm On Jul 11, 2020
Thelannister:
Pls if you like wait till you earn millions, kanji and body go tell


I beg, I want to fix my hair and I’m fucking broke now, don’t mind if someone generous enough can fix my bill,
Call me directly Nifemi 0817 164 7938

Thanks


Would be much cheaper to visit a barber (very low maintenance)........... wink

Thank me later......... grin

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Nobody: 2:11pm On Jul 11, 2020
Thelannister:
Pls if you like wait till you earn millions, kanji and body go tell


I beg, I want to fix my hair and I’m fucking broke now, don’t mind if someone generous enough can fix my bill,
Call me directly Nifemi 0817 164 7938

Thanks
This is just wonderful. On another levels...So u girls have now graduated from billing the brothers singularly to community billing cheesy

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Re: Please Can A Guy Earning 50k In A Month Marry by Endymi: 2:15pm On Jul 11, 2020
Lexusgs430:


So when you begin chop inside the 500K, how would it grow back...........

Just have a very low key wedding (if your wife go gree)....... cheesy

You are very correct.

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