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This one weak me oo.
No mind my English o
So there is this young lady in my compound who i normally gist with.
One day,she was not feeling fine and i helped with some drugs from my house. Since then, she has become fond of me.We have discussed many things from her family to her previous relationships.. I have only one weakness"i listen alot and people both genders take advantage of it.
Some weeks ago, she complained of another tenant,a lady and after critical analysis of the situation,i told her to avoid fight. Not to long from the day of my advice, fight don burst ..i was annoyed but na her life nah. Babe started asking her friend to beg me..wait ..i told her, i am annoyed but i am okay oo.
The lady came with her face full of shame n regret to my corner for our normal discussion which i accepted.
"I am in love with you" she said"Pls be mine" Told me how she loves my ebony colour, height, statue and pretty eyes.
Me self i try small sha

Chaii, my people i weak to my bones..which kind wahala be this nah.
This is the reason i try not to listen too much. This is not the first time i have sensed this from female folks but this one is the first to open up.
I like her as a friend..Person cant be friends in peace. I dont have a girlfriend and i am not ready for any ENTANGLEMENT..
How do i handle this matter?
Pls share your own matter if you have experienced this kind issue and how you handled it.
This lady is the shy type and pretty..i dont want to cause someone to be depressed.

See opportunity. Tell her you love her too but you want you both to start as friends first but that you promise to be nice and close to her. No go promise Marriage yet o..it's dangerous for you. The essence is just to have a statement you can refer to later that all u promised was friendship. As she has become all emotional about you, no time to waste again.

Find one day tell her you're not feeling fine and you need her company. When she comes, tell her to stay till daybreak. When day break, tell her to wait and cook for you. When u chop finish, tell her you want to sleep and wake up to see her by ur side. When night reach, tell her to wait till the next daybreak.. before you know, 5 rounds don pass. Na so u go dey do am small small.

Thank me later!

If a guy friendzone a girl omo na die o

JOACHINpedro:
If a guy friendzone a girl omo na die o

I just wish she kept it to herself a little longer.. See as i come dey feel somehow..
This caring habit of Mine is not helping in this matter

Mtcheew

she gt boyfriend ni so wetin she dey find

khengxlei:
she gt boyfriend ni so wetin she dey find

None for now sha..

Oluromantic:
See opportunity. Tell her you love her too but you want you both to start as friends first but that you promise to be nice to her and be close to her. No go promise Marriage or love yet o..it's dangerous for you. The essence is just to have a statement you can refer to later that all u promised was friendship. But she has become all emotional about you, no time to waste again.

Find one day tell her you're not feeling fine and you need her company. When she comes, tell her to stay till daybreak. When day break, tell her to wait and cook for you. When u chop finish, tell her you want to sleep and wake up to see her by ur side. When night reach, tell her to wait till the next daybreak.. before you know, 5 rounds don pass. Na so u go dey do am small small.

Thank me later!

This is journey of no return oo
Thank you..i cant wait for later oo

wiseone208:
I just wish she kept it to herself a little longer.. See as i come dey feel somehow..
This caring habit of Mine is not helping in this matter

Ladies are too emotional, they don't actually know what they want.
If you bad they go love you die, if you come dy caring with no strings attached they go begin fall in love without any support.

JOACHINpedro:
If a guy friendzone a girl omo na die o

She go begin malice with you. And dem sabi friendzone men die

JOACHINpedro:
Ladies are too emotional, they don't actually know what they want.
If you bad they go love you die, if you come dy caring with no strings attached they go begin fall in love without any support.

No be small thing oo

Oluromantic:
She go begin malice with you. And dem sabi friendzone men die

Na this thing i dey avoid. I just want to keep her around..friends with benefit but no relationship matter

Oluromantic:
See opportunity. Tell her you love her too but you want you both to start as friends first but that you promise to be nice and close to her. No go promise Marriage yet o..it's dangerous for you. The essence is just to have a statement you can refer to later that all u promised was friendship. As she has become all emotional about you, no time to waste again.

Find one day tell her you're not feeling fine and you need her company. When she comes, tell her to stay till daybreak. When day break, tell her to wait and cook for you. When u chop finish, tell her you want to sleep and wake up to see her by ur side. When night reach, tell her to wait till the next daybreak.. before you know, 5 rounds don pass. Na so u go dey do am small small.

Thank me later!

see your life outside

Fidelismaria:
what a joke
Wise one wey they ask for advice you ain't so wise after all

no one knows it all

wiseone208:
Na this thing i dey avoid. I just want to keep her around..friends with benefit but no relationship matter

this is the part i expected you to add in the first epistle...don't do it 1)you'd loose your dignity as a man (thou you don't care) 2)GOD fraun at such

Can't you just tell her how you really feel? You shouldn't hide anything from her since you said you like her as a friend and nothing more! Its quite painful tho! But if she is reasonable she will understand you are only trying to protect her.

wiseone208:
None for now sha..

believe that at your own peril

Oluromantic:
See opportunity. Tell her you love her too but you want you both to start as friends first but that you promise to be nice and close to her. No go promise Marriage yet o..it's dangerous for you. The essence is just to have a statement you can refer to later that all u promised was friendship. As she has become all emotional about you, no time to waste again.

Find one day tell her you're not feeling fine and you need her company. When she comes, tell her to stay till daybreak. When day break, tell her to wait and cook for you. When u chop finish, tell her you want to sleep and wake up to see her by ur side. When night reach, tell her to wait till the next daybreak.. before you know, 5 rounds don pass. Na so u go dey do am small small.

Thank me later!

looooool. Baddest

Fidelismaria:

what a joke

Wise one wey they ask for advice
you ain't so wise after all

Oga softly on me nah..
I know what to do which is to turn her down but na how to do it..i never see girl too emotional like this girl..too fragil

HomerTimpson:
this is the part i expected you to add in the first epistle...don't do it 1)you'd loose your dignity as a man (thou you don't care) 2)GOD fraun at such

I just want to maintain d friendship..nothing more

lammylam:
Can't you just tell her how you really feel? You shouldn't hide anything from her since you said you like her as a friend and nothing more! Its quite painful tho! But if she is reasonable she will understand you are only trying to protect her.

Na d wahala be dis oo..she is too emotional oo..girl dey cry anyhow oo.

Onira147:
believe that at your own peril

U may be right..girl likes talking about her immediate ex.. Me self tire for d hearing until i hear confession of love.. I need to tell her no n still keep d friendship

HomerTimpson:
this is the part i expected you to add in the first epistle...don't do it 1)you'd loose your dignity as a man (thou you don't care) 2)GOD fraun at such

frown

Oluromantic:
See opportunity. Tell her you love her too but you want you both to start as friends first but that you promise to be nice and close to her. No go promise Marriage yet o..it's dangerous for you. The essence is just to have a statement you can refer to later that all u promised was friendship. As she has become all emotional about you, no time to waste again.

Find one day tell her you're not feeling fine and you need her company. When she comes, tell her to stay till daybreak. When day break, tell her to wait and cook for you. When u chop finish, tell her you want to sleep and wake up to see her by ur side. When night reach, tell her to wait till the next daybreak.. before you know, 5 rounds don pass. Na so u go dey do am small small.

Thank me later!

Bro you are carried!!!

Oluromantic:
See opportunity. Tell her you love her too but you want you both to start as friends first but that you promise to be nice and close to her. No go promise Marriage yet o..it's dangerous for you. The essence is just to have a statement you can refer to later that all u promised was friendship. As she has become all emotional about you, no time to waste again.

Find one day tell her you're not feeling fine and you need her company. When she comes, tell her to stay till daybreak. When day break, tell her to wait and cook for you. When u chop finish, tell her you want to sleep and wake up to see her by ur side. When night reach, tell her to wait till the next daybreak.. before you know, 5 rounds don pass. Na so u go dey do am small small.

Thank me later!

And at the end he wins a trophy or what? That is the kind of advice a person that his brain is surrounded around the private area of a woman. That is all they thinks about.
No shame no dignity.

Oluromantic:
See opportunity. Tell her you love her too but you want you both to start as friends first but that you promise to be nice and close to her. No go promise Marriage yet o..it's dangerous for you. The essence is just to have a statement you can refer to later that all u promised was friendship. As she has become all emotional about you, no time to waste again.

Find one day tell her you're not feeling fine and you need her company. When she comes, tell her to stay till daybreak. When day break, tell her to wait and cook for you. When u chop finish, tell her you want to sleep and wake up to see her by ur side. When night reach, tell her to wait till the next daybreak.. before you know, 5 rounds don pass. Na so u go dey do am small small.

Thank me later!

funny af

ok

swaqq:
frown

NOTED

wiseone208:
I just want to maintain d friendship..nothing more

then apply for a maintainance job

lammylam:
Can't you just tell her how you really feel? You shouldn't hide anything from her since you said you like her as a friend and nothing more! Its quite painful tho! But if she is reasonable she will understand you are only trying to protect her.

Why for closure?