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Sexual talk is almost taboo in most Nigerian households, and most especially for women. Many of us didn’t get the ‘bird and the bees’ talk beyond being bought a sanitary pad when our periods started and being told to stay away from boys. When one comes from a Christian home, with a reserved mother, the issues are compounded.

Whether male or female, deciding to remain a virgin till your marriage is a good thing for many reasons, including Christian morals. However, things really go south when some prudes use the bible to instil fear and revulsion for s*x within their young charges, usually female. And this must stop!

Bride of one year, Lola Akindele Busari made a vow to herself and God to reserve s*x for marriage, but her experience of overcoming her fear of s*x almost made her honeymoon a disaster.

She is now calling for churches to institute real s*x education for young women and would-be brides – a platform for open and honest talk that recognises s*x as natural, beautiful, and a pleasurable part of marriage.

She shared her story with BN, and the relevant parts are excerpted below.

Losing my Virginity......

Source: https://livelystones.ng/2020/07/14/wedding-night-sx-as-a-virgin-bride-shares-her-experience-one-year-after/

virginity is over hyped there are now different kind of virgins
1 real virgins: this are the unf.cked ones not been with man but have seen what a dick looks. but have not held it or been smooched by it.

2. technical virgins: have not been f.ck too. bit have seen d.ck not held it. they have been smooched but have never gone fully naked.

3. medical virgins. have done all s.x practice but have not been penetrated... they are just claiming virgins but they have done all.

4.conditional virgins. this ones have been penetrated thru anal sex. but the Hem on their virginal is still there

5. narrative virgins: this ones have had enuf s.x. they do it on daily or weekly basis but they will tell u that they are virgins just to fool u.

so guys wen u say virgin let us know the one u talk about

madone:
virginity is over hyped there are now different kind of virgins
1 real virgins: this are the unf.cked ones not been with man but have seen what a dick looks. but have not held it or been smooched by it.

2. technical virgins: have not been f.ck too. bit have seen d.ck not held it. they have been smooched but have never gone fully naked.

3. medical virgins. have done all s.x practice but have not been penetrated... they are just claiming virgins but they have done all.

4.conditional virgins. this ones have been penetrated thru anal sex. but the Hem on their virginal is still there

5. narrative virgins: this ones have had enuf s.x. they do it on daily or weekly basis but they will tell u that they are virgins just to fool u.

so guys wen u say virgin let us know the one u talk about

In summary, being a virgin is relative.

We are all virgins to whoever we haven't had sex with.

I dislike that work, After lots of experience.

phr33man:



In summary, being a virgin is relative.

We are all virgins to whoever we haven't had sex with.

you are just correct

This one off me. lol

gift2xl:
I dislike that work, After lots of experience.

Who is this wan again?..

Hilarious

Everyone is technically a virgin

no virgin anymore unless kids

U don't know what you just said.poor u

illicit:
no virgin anymore unless kids

Rabbi4real:

yeah

sex has been commercialized

toto tok too much for nairaland

illicit:
no virgin anymore unless kids

I won't call myself a kid. Not everybody though.

6) Secondary virgins: those who have had sex before but stopped (usually on religious grounds) and plan to resume sex on wedding night .

They always avoid answering the question; are you a virgin or not.

7) Almost Virgins: these people have heard sex once or twice before but always claim it was once by 'rape' and have vowed never to do it again till wedding night.

They easily get offended when you doubt that they are non-virgins.

madone:
virginity is over hyped there are now different kind of virgins
1 real virgins: this are the unf.cked ones not been with man but have seen what a dick looks. but have not held it or been smooched by it.

2. technical virgins: have not been f.ck too. bit have seen d.ck not held it. they have been smooched but have never gone fully naked.

3. medical virgins. have done all s.x practice but have not been penetrated... they are just claiming virgins but they have done all.

4.conditional virgins. this ones have been penetrated thru anal sex. but the Hem on their virginal is still there

5. narrative virgins: this ones have had enuf s.x. they do it on daily or weekly basis but they will tell u that they are virgins just to fool u.

so guys wen u say virgin let us know the one u talk about

oyatz:
6) Secondary virgins: those who have had sex before but stopped (usually on religious grounds) and plan to resume sex on wedding night .

They always avoid answering the question; are you a virgin or not.

7) Almost Virgins: these people have heard sex once or twice before but always claim it was once by 'rape' and have vowed never to do it again till wedding night.

They easily get offended when you doubt that they are non-virgins.

8.lesbian virgins: does who do girls once . and feel since they have not tasted dick they are virgins. they are the goddess the feminist. the men are scum crusaders.

madone:

8.lesbian virgins: does who do girls once . and feel since they have not tasted dick they are virgins. they are the goddess the feminist. the men are scum crusaders.

No be small thing

yes ooh

Sososo:
No be small thing

mine is clockwise virgin since a clock can never go anti Clockwisely.. then i remain a virgin.

habsydiamond:
mine is clockwise virgin since a clock can never go anti Clockwisely.. then i remain a virgin.

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