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Klass99:


Lol Thunder fire you there!

TB Joshua ke! Fall pregnant like Ikeji ke! It will not happen o!

But let me even ask you - why do you want kids? Answer me truthfully

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mariahAngel:
Only witches hate kids so...

The OP is a witch. Do not say you heard this from me.

Klass99:


Lol Thunder fire you there!

TB Joshua ke! Fall pregnant like Ikeji ke! It will not happen o!

But let me even ask you - why do you want kids? Answer me truthfully

I dodged it!


Truthfully Yes! Same sex identical twins Twice!
First set should be males with their fathers exact faces and yes they will rock his hairstyle and wear matching outfits with him. Dude should get prepared for that.

Second set should be Female with my face. And yes we will be rocking same styles. Beautiful isn't it?

I want Kids because I love them .

APCNig:


The OP is a witch. Do not say you heard this from me.

As far as I'm concerned, this is what I read: #@%&-";+-*:!;-:""#%@'&%¢¥π•¢¥™×•`¥°€¢®©

Sleepaway:
The young lady wrote on her page on Facebook:


As a girl it's norm to always love and want kids but in my case it's different. I always thought I liked kids until I turned 15 and then I started living with my aunt and her triplets, I know you'd probably be thinking it's cause triplets are normally snakes and pests and they often unite to cause havoc in general but no, funny but they don't even like each other, they always fight themselves and whenever you try to be friendly they immediately start being friendly then they start doing abnormal things just to get you into trouble or just to have something to say to their mum and dad. Aunt did this and that. Not that their parents pay any attention to them or their reports it was just frustrating at that time and it got me thinking. At some point I slapped the shit out of one of them and I felt no atom of pain or pity I felt that murderous hatred I almost torn him into pieces I just walked into my room and shut the door cause I was ready to kill, flashback to presently my crelatives have been talking to me about kids and I don't know how to tell them that I do not want to have kids, I fear I might be a terrible mother and well I don't know I just don't want them. When I think about all the things I've done to children without any pity it just bugs me and I know for a fact kids and me don't equal wellness it equals pure unpitied self-centered disastrous HATE.
Now is it normal for me to feel thatway, are there others like me or am i just a freak that needs help??

Hmmm nairalanders

It's one thing to dislike kids . . . It's okay to feel irritated with their messiness and they mind games .. . . It's even okay not to want any kids .

But hate? To the point of considering harming them? Even to kill them? I'm sorry, but it's not normal.

Young adult are generally not patient and tolerant with Children. When you were young you lives with children and you probably didn't see them for the children that they were. You judged them harshly, perhaps they even deserved it. But you need to snap out of it.

They are young and stupid and incredibly cunning. But they are innocent and precious. You need to learn to be more forgiving and accommodating.

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sisisioge:
You dont need any deliverance, you are simply true to self. You dont love kids, no grey area. For now, please keep off them. Maybe you may fall in love with them in the future but please completely keep off them until you have that change of heart.

If only a lot of women who maltreat children in their care were as true to self as you, child abuse will be a lot minimal. Cheers maami.

Do you think those women who hurt children are completely normal?

I think anyone who would consiciously inflict pain on a harmless child, in the ways we've been reading online recently, if mentally deranged and belongs in a psychiatric institution.

I have the same level of worry for the OP.

It is just not normal to harm people physically, even to the point of considering killing them, and not feel any form of remorse, talk more or children who are harmless and defenseless. That is a clear sign of psychosis and needs to be taken seriously.

Klass99:


Lol by the time you have the first set of twins. Na you go say, oga I no do again.

So love and rocking matching outfits, are your reasons. No wahala

Lol i know where you are heading with your questions and honestly it's the reason I don't criticize you for your choice.

Truth is no matter how we look at it, we only bring children to the world for selfish reasons. For the love of children or not ,the reasons are always kind of self centered. So i intentionally dodged your question.

bukatyne:


My sermon is directed to the OP who claims to hate kids.

And seriously, I have never seen anyone who doesn't want even 1 or hates their own kids.

I know people who can't stand the kids of others.

This is not a debate for me: just stating my observations.

You've not been following the front page news lately where one women abuses her own daughter at will? There are several women who shouldn't even near kids biko. I'm sure if people like that are allowed their choice without societal prejudice, they would say no to having kids.

As for me, I love them like kilode...but I have seen enough to respect those that do not love kids. How can a sane human screw a nail to a child's head? Or bath a child in hot water, or make a child eat shit, or lock starve a child, Etc? Let whoever can't stand the leave them alone biko, maternity isn't for everyone jare.

sisisioge:


You've not been following the front page news lately where one women abuses her own daughter at will? There are several women who shouldn't even near kids biko. I'm sure if people like that are allowed their choice without societal prejudice, they would say no to having kids.

As for me, I love them like kilode...but I have seen enough to respect those that do not love kids. How can a sane human screw a nail to a child's head? Or bath a child in hot water, or make a child eat shit, or lock starve a child, Etc? Let whoever can't stand the leave them alone biko, maternity isn't for everyone jare.

Is it hatred for kids or hatred for the father, natural wickedness to all humans etc?

I agree with you that those who abused those kids are truly insane.

Whatever rocks everyone's boat.

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Klass99:


Lol by the time you have the first set of twins. Na you go say, oga I no do again.

So love and rocking matching outfits, are your reasons. No wahala

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Klass99:


I don't even want 1 child, I am simply not interested.

Did you see a front page story where a lady called her mum and her mum was harsh over the phone asking the daughter why are you calling me? Are they not feeding you where you are? The daughter was crushed.

That may not be hate but it's indifference. Indifference has always felt worse to me, it means someone doesn't like you and they don't dislike you either. They simply have no feelings towards you. As in, whether you exist or not, doesn't matter to them - which is what that girl's mother demonstrated.

You know you can argue for Africa that's why I said make we no debate my own matter

A Hahahahahahaha @argue for Africa.

I need to level up to the Universe.

As you like it maami.

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UjuJoan2:


Do you think those women who hurt children are completely normal?

I think anyone who would consiciously inflict pain on a harmless child, in the ways we've been reading online recently, if mentally deranged and belongs in a psychiatric institution.

I have the same level of worry for the OP.

It is just not normal to harm people physically, even to the point of considering killing them, and not feel any form of remorse, talk more or children who are harmless and defenseless. That is a clear sign of psychosis and needs to be taken seriously.

Hmmmm...do you know that some people prefer to have pets to having kids? They would rather spend their time, emotions and money nurturing a dog to a child? Would you call them deranged? Their choice. Do you know that some people would rather be single while some would rather be married, they aren't deranged. Do you know that some people would rather have one child while others prefer a multitude... Another choice there. We are distinct in our ways.

While I believe that those people abusing children are in the same range with robbers, kidnappers, murderers and the other evils of the earth, I still think if they do not have access to kids by way of birth or nurture, they wouldn't have the chance to hurt then. Picture our OP's experience that turned her against kids so much so that she got to the point of hitting one of badly....continual exposure would have brought out even worse in her. Solution, keep off children please! Issue resolve. You can't fix issues like that fa.

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Klass99:


Babe, I swear I wasn't heading any where with my question or trying to trap you into a war of words.

I was honestly trying to understand the desire and motivation most women have for children, because I don't feel it and I don't have the same motivation.

So, I am truly perplexed by it the same way I imagine other women are perplexed by me.

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Klass99:


Babe, I swear I wasn't heading any where with my question or trying to trap you into a war of words.

I was honestly trying to understand the desire and motivation most women have for children, because I don't feel it and I don't have the same motivation.

So, I am truly perplexed by it the same way I imagine other women are perplexed by me.

Oh my overactive imagination at work then. So sorry about that

Well I believe it's a natural thing because I've never even thought of "Why"? Myself. All I know is I wish and will love to have kids someday. Well mothers will do better in answering that question. Perhaps they can explain their before childbirth and after childbirth experience and the joy that comes with MOTHERHOOD.

Chim oooo,ndi nairaland jiri nu nwayo bikonu.kedu nke bukwa "I don't love kids" anyway,Ife n'eme!!!!

Hmmn.

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sisisioge:


Hmmmm...do you know that some people prefer to have pets to having kids? They would rather spend their time, emotions and money nurturing a dog to a child? Would you call them deranged? Their choice. Do you know that some people would rather be single while some would rather be married, they aren't deranged. Do you know that some people would rather have one child while others prefer a multitude... Another choice there. We are distinct in our ways.

While I believe that those people abusing children are in the same range with robbers, kidnappers, murderers and the other evils of the earth, I still think if they do not have access to kids by way of birth or nurture, they wouldn't have the chance to hurt then. Picture our OP's experience that turned her against kids so much so that she got to the point of hitting one of badly....continual exposure would have brought out even worse in her. Solution, keep off children please! Issue resolve. You can't fix issues like that fa.

My problem is with the word HATE. Of course a lot of people don't want children, it's not bad, but to HATE them?

It's absolutely normal for children (adolescents) to have little tolerance for babies and younger children. We all were that way. But you get an age when you understand that they are children and really don't know any better. You are realise that the things they did that riled you were done out of their little sense of reasoning, not because they knew any better.

The OP didn't experience anything out of the ordinary. I'm sure a lot of people had really annoying younger ones and relatives. At that age, yes you would think you hated them. But then you grow up and understand why they were that way . . . Because they were kids.

But for a fully grown adult to still blame a child for being a child, and let their actions instil hatred strong enough to want to kill them . . . That person is just not normal.

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Blacckrod:
It is psychological and a lot of people feel the same way but are too ashamed to say it. The same people who will bash you here often beat the hell out of their younger relations so don't feel bad

Children can be loud and messy and trying to control them can be frustrating and tiring especially the ill-mannered children parents raise these days.

Please do not hit or punish other people's children and try to keep a reasonable distance from them.

Most of the people who beat kids like their life (or death) depends on it may not HATE kids exactly, most of them are just lunatics they haven't noticed it yet is all. But there are some people who just don't like kids (like yours truly), ion hate them or anything, but I most definitely don't like them
Nice way to hide your face at dp tho

UjuJoan2:


My problem is with the word HATE. Of course a lot of people don't want children, it's not bad, but to HATE them?

It's absolutely normal for children (adolescents) to have little tolerance for babies and younger children. We all were that way. But you get an age when you understand that they are children and really don't know any better. You are realise that the things they did that riled you were done out of their little sense of reasoning, not because they knew any better.

The OP didn't experience anything out of the ordinary. I'm sure a lot of people had really annoying younger ones and relatives. At that age, yes you would think you hated them. But then you grow up and understand why they were that way . . . Because they were kids.

But for a fully grown adult to still blame a child for being a child, and let their actions instil hatred strong enough to want to kill them . . . That person is just not normal.

Ok...this makes sense.

Surely, OP must be exaggerating about wanting to kill them...haba nau. I am even of the opinion that her stance would change as she gets older. Children are delightful, they practically make situations feel better.

light099:
You're one of the freaks suffering from a mental disorder known as 'Misopedia', which is a sadistic disorder.
Like I use to say, life is a compound mixture. It's a weird wild world.
The only thing each person can wish for is not to be on the wrong side of nature.
Now that you found yourself on a wrong side, the next thing is to find a way out.

The first step is to stay away from kids, because from your narrative, it shows you enjoy tormenting kids with no regrets. Further asking if you needed help in itself is freaky. Do you still have to doubt your psychological instability at this stage?
Get help and stay away from kids, so you wouldn't end up as the next Beverley Allitt. If I ever come across your freaky ass anywhere, tormenting kids, I might be the first person to pull the trigger.


Alright, you're very right. Since kids are not lovable to you, I think your greatest effort in life should be, how to find a way to go back in time to your childhood, so you could pull the trigger on the numb skull of the kid you were.

who is this?

Klass99:


Lookatchu you go follow me train the child, pay school fees and all?

Kids are beautiful, I will rather admire yours than have one of my own. Oya go and start laying

If you were with me the day, that child was displaying you go first slap her before me sef. Tolerance get levels o! As I no beat her that day, I know sey I get self control

have you considered getting sterilised?

DeeMain:
There are people who are like that but because they know it shouldn't be they may not own up to this fact.

There are people who struggle to carry new born babies and become restless and edgy after a little while. They look for every reason on earth to give you back the baby. Some can't play with children or can only play with them for a limited time as they would get exhausted and overwhelmed if the play get extended. Some don't want children around them at all. They feel irritated. Some only feel pain and anger around children. Subconscious things... Some beat them without mercy.

Men and women alike.

Dysfunction and baggage plenty. Mental illness come in different shades and shapes. The roots may be childhood trauma somewhere.

Some girls that have this problem will not tell you unless they really trust you. They know they shouldn't have kids but societal pressures and expectations will push them to marry and have them.

God save you if you wife such. The name of your kids will be sorry.

How is not wanting kids a mental illness?

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Klass99:


Oh yes, I have. I haven't acted on the thought though for

1. Fear of going in for a simple procedure and coming out with more than I bargained for, in terms of complications.

2. Abstinence and celibacy has served me well so far, so.......

3. Nigerian Doctors turn into preachers when a woman wants something like this. I can very well do without the lecture.

Number 2, is still my preferred mode of family planning . It saves me a lot of stress and baggage too.

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