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This is how I choose to see relationships nowadays

No, my dear. That's an absolutely wrong mindset to have about relationships.

Relationships are meant to provide succour, peace, well being to us. It is the coming together of two selfless people to care, support and be good to each other.

If two genuine people are focused on being good to each other, there would be no room for competition or trying to outsmart each other. Such thought would never even cross your mind.

Choose to see relationships this way and you would enjoy your partner instead of thinking of how to outsmart him/her.

Ruby458:
No, my dear. That's an absolutely wrong mindset to have about relationships.

Relationships are meant to provide succour, peace, well being to us. It is the coming together of two selfless people to care, support and be good to each other.

If two genuine people are focused on being good to each other, there would be no room for competition or trying to outsmart each other. Such thought would never even cross your mind.

Choose to see relationships this way and you would enjoy your partner instead of thinking of how to outsmart him/her.

How about if only one is being genuine, and the other a yahoo boy?

PoliteActivist:
How about if only one is being genuine, and the other a yahoo boy?

We always have a choice to make in everything we do.

If you're genuine in your actions and the other person is a yahoo person, then you make a choice to stay or not to stay; to continue or not to continue.

Make a choice and stand by it.

Ruby458:
We always have a choice to make in everything we do.

If you're genuine in your actions and the other person is a yahoo person, then you make a choice to stay or not to stay; to continue or not to continue.

Make a choice and stand by it.

What do u mean, choice? You don't know they are Yahoo. You are being generously genuine and they are being Yahoo