YES! And even take permission from your wife before your parents drink water and also before sex.

integritylady:
Should a man take permission from his wife before sending his parents money?

this is a good question?
so if the if the wife's parent needs money.whose permission do we need?

You dont have to, you can even give ur mama without letting ur wife know, that's it

integritylady:

Are you married?

If only u were a man, u would understand his perspective. Nevertheless, the first poster has 'relaxed' the matter.

Women hardly asks for permission. Once, you notice a 'drop', and you inform them if they send money to someone, they often come up with this statement, "Honey, I was going to tell you...."

You say permission as if its slavery not marriage.
Before both husband and wife send money or stuff like that, it is adviced they discuss with each other. Its about the trust they share. If trust no dey toh na wahala b dat.

integritylady:
Should a man take permission from his wife before sending his parents money?

No, he can send to them whenever he wants, they deserve it, they raised him, did his wife do that no, comparing a guardian angel with a leach

Wow what a dumb question

integritylady:
Should a man take permission from his wife before sending his parents money?

On no condition should a man take permission from his woman to use his money? That's beta behaviour.

integritylady:
Should a man take permission from his wife before sending his parents money?

permi wetin? You don’t need permission to do so. You only need to inform her by letting her know. It is good she knows before you send because she may bring you to remembrance of something you may be missing or have forgotten but we don’t call it permission. We call it signaling.
You don’t need anyone permission.

Martinez39s:
On no condition should a man take permission from his woman to use his money? That's beta behaviour.

It goes for anyone not just the man. It is only necessary we inform our partner of things we plan to do just incase they may have advice for us. But the judgment and the ball still reside in our individual court

hashtagged:


No, he can send to them whenever he wants, they deserve it, they raised him, did his wife do that no, comparing a guardian angel with a leach

you mean your wife is a leach?

GboyegaD:
No but it all depends on the type of financial structure you maintain.

As a way of illustration:
If you do 100% joint account, then you need explain what you spend money on if it is bulky otherwise, there might not be need.

If you do certain percentage (say 70% for example), and parents allowance is not part of what you agree to spend your family income, then, you can give them out of your 30% and it would be nice if you mention it to your wife. You need not mention the amount. However, if parents allowance is part of it, then either party can do the transfer.

Most importantly, there is no clear cut way to do such. Just find what works for your family.

how many bottles do you drink sir and what brand?

stanliwise:
you mean your wife is a leach?

I don't think i would partake in a conversation with someone who's iq cant process a simple figure of speach

stanliwise:
It goes for anyone not just the man. It is only necessary we inform our partner of things we plan to do just incase they may have advice for us. But the judgment and the ball still reside in our individual court

Agreed. Man or woman, seeking permission from others before you can use your property is all shades of wrong.

hashtagged:


I don't think i would partake in a conversation with someone who's iq cant process a simple figure of speach

I ask you that question knowingly. Is it fair to compare your wife and your parent since both their role are important in your life and cannot be replaced nor interchange by any of other??
Your wife is your wife and your parent is your parent. That part of your statement should be checked again.

Ariza:
Did your parents take permission from her before they trained you?


Kini gbogbo ibeere katikati yii nitori olorun?

Permission is too much of a word to use. Op should have use the word “inform”. Which is more acceptable.

stanliwise:
how many bottles do you drink sir and what brand?

I do iced tea or water.

GboyegaD:


I do iced tea or water.

Haba for such a “wisdomic” and mature post like dat?

You’re blessed sir.

So every month he'll be telling me about sending his parents money? I already know where's an amount for parents so no need telling me. Unless something serious comes up that needs extra attention.

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I don't think i would partake in a conversation with someone who's iq cant process a simple figure of speach

He asked a valid question Mr Man. You see wives as leeches so yours must be a big time leech

stanliwise:
Haba for such a “wisdomic” and mature post like dat?

You’re blessed sir.

Amen and you too.

It depends on the kind of wife. You need to study her body language.

take permission from ur wife to send ur own parents money?
complete madness

paulolee:
it depends and I think the wife needs to know because being married is unity but the problem lies when the wife starts complaining or tries stopping him for other reasons.

any wife that complains when u helping out ur own parents is an evil woman

#ILMOVON [color=#990000][/color]
#Attitude
#Bliv.

Only a simp of a man would take permission from his wife before doing so..
Well, not all that are called men are really men.. Some just get only dick no masculinity

lefulefu:
any wife that complains when u helping out ur own parents is an evil woman

Fact you stated bro...
Even in my years of being a guest in nairaland, I know you to be amongst the few sensible folks here..
Much Regards from me.

If we both work for the money I fit tell her, not permission. But if na my money, Lol.. I dey vex sef

integritylady:
Should a man take permission from his wife before sending his parents money?

Should a woman take permission before sending money to her parents?

SweetCunt97:
He asked a valid question Mr Man. You see wives as leeches so yours must be a big time leech

I think ill just ignore idi0ts who butt into conversations they are too dull to understand

stanliwise:
I ask you that question knowingly. Is it fair to compare your wife and your parent since both their role are important in your life and cannot be replaced nor interchange by any of other??
Your wife is your wife and your parent is your parent. That part of your statement should be checked again.

Parents are primal, they cannot be replaced your wife can always be replaced or divorced or just leave

Is just like taking permission from her before I eat
OP this question is.......oh jeez ok

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Parents are primal, they cannot be replaced your wife can always be replaced or divorced or just leave

Don’t ever find reasons to compare your mother and your wives or even family. They are two different people in different place. I see a lot of peeps always do this.