| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by CAPSLOCKED: 6:48pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Poseidon000:
Some guys are mindlessly stupid when they see women. JUST INCASE THEY'LL BE ALLOWED A CHANCE TO EJACULATE. 29 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by SweetBuns(f): 6:50pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
MJBOLT:
sweetbuns,what do you have to say? 
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| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Angelacruz: 6:52pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.
Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.
That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.
Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.
I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.
Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.
That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.
What's your take on this?
so true...how about reason with me?? 1 Like |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Martinez39s(m): 7:17pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by DontBullshitMe: 8:37pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat. Fuçk. 4 Likes |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by lanrenzo(m): 9:00pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
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| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Omar09(m): 9:02pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.
Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.
That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.
Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.
I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.
Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.
That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.
What's your take on this?
I can't believe I had the thought of getting married at the age of 25 or latest 28. But as I grew older, I've realized what you said here even before coming across it from you or any place here. Life ain't worth being in privation and bringing in kids or even adding extra burden to on one's neck. My take is this, it's better to be comfortable before dabbling into marriage. 45 Likes |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by starstaz(m): 9:39pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
merieam16:
Okay buh d truth is d poor will always b among u. at least u helped out dat wat matters
You can choose 2 remain poor by nt doubling ur hustle buh der some people hustle or no hustle dey er destined 2 b poor.Not everytime u see a poor person nd u say he or she is lazy or hasnt taken steps buh time nd chance happen 2 dem all. They will still av 2 get married nd do wat oda people do cos dey are still humans
ti o ban ri se, ma se pe padi e lo lè Nice one mariamee 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Hollasmall: 9:40pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Omar09:
I can't believe I had the thought of getting married at the age of 25 or latest 28. But as I grew older, I've realized what you said here even before coming across it from you or any place here. Life ain't worth being in privation and bringing in kids or even adding extra burden to on one's neck.
My take is this, it's better to be comfortable before dabbling into marriage. Exactly jare. Don't fall for any societal pressure 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Omar09(m): 9:42pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Hollasmall:
Exactly jare. Don't fall for any societal pressure Never. I'm looking at between the age of 35 and 40. I have to have strong financial foundation before anything. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by wiseone28: 9:45pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
[s] kestolove95:
Don't blame them, they wia brainwashed by the lies in the Bible dat says "he who find a wife has found a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord" that is the favour his obtaining from d Lord now.. [/s] Why not face your Quran? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Hollasmall: 9:50pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Omar09:
Never. I'm looking at between the age of 35 and 40. I have to have strong financial foundation before anything. No need to set age bro just do it when you're financially stable and you can boast of a stable income in four different ways. You'll enjoy married life when fiance is not a problem. God bless us all 27 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by 0neal(m): 10:20pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Poseidon000:
That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men
What's your take on this?
With all the odds we are facing and graciously surviving through every blessed day, it baffles me why one with eyes wide open, will still add more to the challenges already on ground. Damn! Stories like this dey vex every fiber of my being, poverty no dey tire some people?  11 Likes |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by ZiriMane(m): 10:32pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Marriage is not a Scam! The moral of the story is "don't rush" into one when you are not "sustainably independent" . 28 Likes |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Poseidon000: 10:53pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:
JUST INCASE THEY'LL BE ALLOWED A CHANCE TO EJACULATE. Risible! They sicken me to the gut. 1 Like |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Nobody: 11:09pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.
Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.
That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.
Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.
I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.
Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.
That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.
What's your take on this?
Bros, this your English ehn  You are right. Financial Maturity is a must before one can embark on a sojourn of Marriage!! May God bless our hustle(Amen)!! 19 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Poseidon000:
It's better to marry at your own time and pace, irrespective of age.
This is the part I understand in your post.. It is very true!! 5 Likes |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Nobody: 11:16pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
merieam16:
Okay buh d truth is d poor will always b among u. at least u helped out dat wat matters
You can choose 2 remain poor by nt doubling ur hustle buh der some people hustle or no hustle dey er destined 2 b poor.Not everytime u see a poor person nd u say he or she is lazy or hasnt taken steps buh time nd chance happen 2 dem all. They will still av 2 get married nd do wat oda people do cos dey are still humans
ti o ban ri se, ma se pe padi e lo lè Motivational Speaker 1 Like |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Nobody: 11:19pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
ublight:
that guys grand parents were not paying tithes to a certain mininstry. His parents too were not paying tithes to that certain ministry. If this guy wants his life to transform, let him start paying tithes to that certain ministry.
I believe his life is tight because he does nt pay tithe.
Please be sure u have sense b4 u quote me. |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Poseidon000: 11:19pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Omar09:
I can't believe I had the thought of getting married at the age of 25 or latest 28. But as I grew older, I've realized what you said here even before coming across it from you or any place here. Life ain't worth being in privation and bringing in kids or even adding extra burden to on one's neck.
My take is this, it's better to be comfortable before dabbling into marriage. My brda. I wish guys will see things from your panoramic perspective, instead of succumbing to peer pressure and societal dogma. So, what's the age benchmark you set for marriage? 6 Likes |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Nobody: 11:20pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Angelacruz:
so true...how about reason with me??
If I no get today, I go get tomorrow E no easy for... |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Tsolutionifede(m): 11:23pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
merieam16:
Okay buh d truth is d poor will always b among u. at least u helped out dat wat matters
You can choose 2 remain poor by nt doubling ur hustle buh der some people hustle or no hustle dey er destined 2 b poor.Not everytime u see a poor person nd u say he or she is lazy or hasnt taken steps buh time nd chance happen 2 dem all. They will still av 2 get married nd do wat oda people do cos dey are still humans
ti o ban ri se, ma se pe padi e lo lè and give birth to the nuisance, robbers and kidnappers, which comes from inability to cater for there children. If you wan marry, that is good, but bringing children into precarious poverty. Is wickedness on the part of the children 11 Likes |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by merieam16(f): 11:31pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Tsolutionifede:
and give birth to the nuisance, robbers and kidnappers, which comes from inability to cater for there children. If you wan marry, that is good, but bringing children into precarious poverty. Is wickedness on the part of the children so er u sayin people born into poverty dont make it in life or becos dey er poor dey should die cos dey ve suddenly become an outcast? 3 Likes |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by sorority11(m): 11:37pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
Dear Poster,
You made a point in your Story but added mud to it at the end of the post.
The man was born into poverty and the man never mentioned he is religious or so at least religion is not the cause of his poverty. The bible you quoted says "Any man that will not work let him not eat".
" whosoever findeth a wife findeth a good thing"
If a wife is not a good thing is it a bad thing?
I wonder how you people think sometimes baffles me. The man got married was not to fulfill any biblical law but because he wanted a companion since he has nothing, and he wanted children to bear his name, since he had nothing to his name.
Blame the society and not the scripture. Blame his desire and his longing to be loved as he is unloved and poor, Blame his desire to be looked up to as a father because no one look up to him because he is poor. Blame the society for not providing child care and support.
This thread is only made to bash religion I suppose
Giving him 10k was a nice humanitarian work though but, you can go further by introducing him to someone to do menial jobs 49 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Prof0fficial: 11:45pm On Jul 19, 2020 |
"someone that wishes to be alone should remember his old age days"... 25 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Kobicove(m): 12:11am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.
Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.
That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.
Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.
I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.
Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.
That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.
What's your take on this?
I agree with you completely 2 Likes |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Omar09(m): 1:20am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Poseidon000:
My brda.
I wish guys will see things from your panoramic perspective, instead of succumbing to peer pressure and societal dogma.
So, what's the age benchmark you set for marriage?
35yrs. |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Omar09(m): 1:21am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Hollasmall:
No need to set age bro just do it when you're financially stable and you can boast of a stable income in four different ways. You'll enjoy married life when fiance is not a problem. God bless us all You are quite right. |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by AfroKnight: 1:42am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Stable income is important. Very important. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Nobody: 4:49am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.
Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.
That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.
Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.
I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.
Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.
That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.
What's your take on this?
U have said it all.
Dis is exactly what I scream everyday on NAIRALAND.
I hate POVERTY....
I hate BEGGING....
I have always tried to program myself in such a way that I will be the last person to beg on earth.
Do you know why...?
The ANSWER is simple:
I am always contented with what I have.
..... and I always try to save.
Always envisage the number of kids you plan to have. Stop having unnecessary erections as a man.
MY ADVICE:
As a struggling hard working man, never never marry a Lady who lacks vision compounded with enormous BURDEN.
No matter how beautiful she is, just avoid her.
I can assure you that, you will never see that beauty again 2 months into your marriage with her.
It's better to marry a visionary WIDOW than marry an empty beautiful VIRGIN.
IF you Fail to PLAN, you have already planned to FAIL. 80 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Olawrites: 5:40am On Jul 20, 2020 |
Poseidon000:
Sup guys. I've something that have always earned the acme of my discountenance. And that's how men crudely jump into marriage in other to conform to societal dictate or for some selfish satisfaction.
This have gotten me pensive and I'll make no ado in getting to the nucleus of the issue.
Yesterday, I was headed toward gwarimpa, and on my way I noticed a disheveled young guy around Efab estate trekking by the express.
As a rule, I always give such guys 'lift,' because i was once with a female colleague in a lonely path that seldom have cars coming our way, suddenly one private car stopped and when I tried entering after my female colleague boarded, the SIMPson bounced me out and zoomed off with an empty back seat.
That incident birthed in me a sense of solidarity and understanding of what men go through just for being men, but yesterday, I was so incensed by a botch job my mechanic did that I drove past. After about 4 hours when I had everything sorted and was heading back, I saw the same guy heading toward my direction again(it's a dual carriage way) and he was sweating profusely, so I beckoned on him to enter. We got talking and I inquired why he's trekking such a long distance. He said: he went to look for a job that wasn't successful and he's going back to Arab road.
But this is just a miniscule of the guy's travail. He grew up in abject poverty.In fact, they gave birth to him and his sister in an uncompleted building. His dad died in that building, his sister got pregnant for some riffraff and they started what we call "abuja marriage", his mom subsequently fell sick and died in the same uncompleted building. Then the owner of the building decided to complete it, and drove him away.
Now, this guy was able to get another uncompleted building to stay, and as I'm typing this, he's with wife and kids. This is a person that don't have food at home and can not afford N150 to and fro.
I gave him 10k but I was so mad with him; I mean, I was disconcertingly appalled that this guy will think of marriage in his privation. Why not be a little bit comfortable before considering marriage, instead to face life with the dignity of a breadline.
Sadly, this is the same mistake lot of guy's have been making thinking they'll fall into some stupendous money as soon as they marry, and this is mostly perpetuated by religious charlatans who say; a man's destiny is predicated on his future wife, that as soon as he gets married, the special blessing tied to marriage will start opening way for him.
That's a mendacious twaddle that will leave you in a precarious situation. Please guys, have 'comfort' afoot before you dabble into marriage.
What's your take on this?
Stop misleading people with your nasty view. You failed at marriage doesn't mean others will. ... Are you God that determines when one should marry or not? My bro married when he has nothing. Today he is Madly in wealth. Just so you know, marriage give you this hustling mindset to be on your toes. Look for someone understanding,and plan towards a future. There's some certain age man will seek companionship God determines one's destiny.. Sh.it happens in a jiffy. 28 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: How Guys Use Marriage To Plunge Themselves Into Perpetual Poverty. by Olawrites: 5:45am On Jul 20, 2020 |
EVILFOREST:
U have said it all.
Dis is exactly what I scream everyday on NAIRALAND.
I hate POVERTY....
I hate BEGGING....
I have always tried to programmed myself in such a way that I will be the last person to beg on earth.
Do you know why...?
The ANSWER is simple:
I am always contented with what I have.
..... and I always try to save.
Always envisage the number of kids you plan to have. Stop having unnecessary erections as a man.
MY ADVICE:
As a struggling hard working man, never never marry a Lady who lacks vision compounded with enormous BURDEN.
No matter how beautiful she is, just avoid her.
I can assure you that, you will never see that beauty again 2 months into your marriage with her.
It's better to marry a visionary WIDOW than marry an empty beautiful VIRGIN.
IF you Fail to PLAN, you have already planned to FAIL. Eggxactly... Lol If you're 30 years old, you should marry a visionary lady and start your life in peace. No be say you go come dey useless going to beer parlor, brothel and hotel unto say you dey form single man till money come. Marriage is companionship 17 Likes |
