We are of the same tribe and different religion am a muslim and she is an christain,we truly love each other but my mother remains the obstacle i can't cross apart.am 19 and she is 20 our reletionship has lasted two years now but my mother is not signing it i don't know why on earth she is saying no to it,and the most painfull part is that her father is forcing her to bring out her permanet lover if not he is going to marry her to one of his friend son which is not going to be fine if it happens.we are both in great sorrows and pains she thinks am avoiding her but am not i love her till now,i try explaining to my mother but all in vain my love stroy is going into sorrow am confused and unconsiouse pls any advice or help?

At 19, you are opening threads cos of woman. Shame on you!

Hmmm

19 years

Love

Marrying

Religion

Before any other thing you need to answer some questions
1) Are you done with your school
2) Are you ready for marriage
3) Are you financially buoyant
4) do you want her to present you because her Dad insist she should provide someone
5) Is she schooling or 6
6) what's her plan towards future

If your story is not cook up
Many things are wrong

It's not a custom for Christians to forcefully marry out their 20yr old daughter.....


And I am not in support of your entanglement with her... You should go and look for your Muslims sisters to marry....


Some years back, I was trying to follow a Muslim girl and I was warned by every silly boy that sees me standing with her.... They weren't dating her or related to her... But, they just don't want Christians having feelings for their women...

Here you are, enjoying my Christian sister free of charge!!!

DONT GIVE UP YOUR LOVE CAUSE OF YOUR MOTHER！ YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO MAN,BRACE UP AND GO ON IF YOU BOTH TRULY LOVE EACHOTHER. SO SAD THE WAY THIS RELIGION THIBG KEEPS BREAKING US APART,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

Kriss216:
At 19, you are opening threads cos of woman. Shame on you!

is he suppose to open thread about you？

forget age sir！life's changed

kingvick09:


is he suppose to open thread about you？

forget age sir！life's changed

Enjoy your Life's changed , Nna.

Kriss216:
Enjoy your Life's changed , Nna.

you too

When I was schooling in bauchi state. There's a Muslim girl always laughing to my dry jokes. I was seriously warned by some Muslim boys to stay clear from her. Muslim to Muslim. Christian to christan

yanabasee1:
It's not a custom for Christians to forcefully marry out their 20yr old daughter.....


And I am not in support of your entanglement with her... You should go and look for your Muslims sisters to marry....


Some years back, I was trying to follow a Muslim girl and I was warned by every silly boy that sees me standing with her.... They weren't dating her or related to her... But, they just don't want Christians having feelings for their women...

Here you are, enjoying my Christian sister free of charge!!!

BROTHER love bind us together religion is no obstacle to lovers

Raymeskey:
Hmmm

19 years

Love

Marrying

Religion

Before any other thing you need to answer some questions
1) Are you done with your school
2) Are you ready for marriage
3) Are you financially buoyant
4) do you want her to present you because her Dad insist she should provide someone
5) Is she schooling or 6
6) what's her plan towards future

If your story is not cook up
Many things are wrong

WE are both in uni(2)all most(3)yes(4)i can't allow someone do that as long am a live(5)yes she schooling(6)a lawyer

Ghen ghen....

If to say na otedola daughter u bring come home, shey your mama go reject am??

This life no just balance

aprilwise:
When I was schooling in bauchi state. There's a Muslim girl always laughing to my dry jokes. I was seriously warned by some Muslim boys to stay clear from her. Muslim to Muslim. Christian to christan

which area in bauchi did you lived am in bauchi now

ThiagoKid:
Ghen ghen....

If to say na otedola daughter u bring come home, shey your mama go reject am??

This life no just balance

guy d thing tire person

JOBgame:
WE are both in uni(2)all most(3)yes(4)i can't allow someone do that as long am a live(5)yes she schooling(6)a lawyer

She is in school, @ 20, staying law and her Dad is pressurising her to bring husband home..... Something is wrong somewhere
I don't know what your mum see neither did you that she's not accepting the relationship. The best person to figure that out is you. Talk to your mum, give her the reasons you sees in this girl and your future plans with her and also let her give you the reason she sees in her that could not lead to your marriage. From there we can tell how genuine the reasons are.
I can't tell you to go against your mum or accept her opinion right now without any reason.
There is always a reason for doing or saying anything.
You can't tell me she (mum) don't have a reason neither did you not have a reason for loving her. Both of you should table the reasons

Raymeskey:

She is in school, @ 20, staying law and her Dad is pressurising her to bring husband home..... Something is wrong somewhere
I don't know what your mum see neither did you that she's not accepting the relationship. The best person to figure that out is you. Talk to your mum, give her the reasons you sees in this girl and your future plans with her and also let her give you the reason she sees in her that could not lead to your marriage. From there we can tell how genuine the reasons are.
I can't tell you to go against your mum or accept her opinion right now without any reason.
There is always a reason for doing or saying anything.
You can't tell me she (mum) don't have a reason neither did you not have a reason for loving her. Both of you should table the reasons

guy i don try tire she intend cursing me if i try to act wise and you know it wont be good for me if she curse me

JOBgame:
which area in bauchi did you lived am in bauchi now

I'm not in bauchi again I left there since 2017 after I graduated from atbu.

bad