Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 12:21am On Jul 23, 2020 |
kizyalex10: thats the curse of staying abroad,once u relocate eh,it will be like ur facebook has entered friend request default,girls will flood ur facebook especially nurses advertising themselves,u will mistake that for love, but they re only looking for escape route to poverty ,u will see a local nurse eliza that u will manage to bring out from obscurity use ur hard savings to train her to a qualified nurse amd when she is done then she will remember that she is earning more than u or u re a cab driver or security etc nd overnight d same quiet innocent girl turna a tiger trying to devour you,calling d shots here nd there all in an attempt to fustrate ur life for divorce,and once u divorce her,she moves on with another man and with ur little peanut u still pay child support nd she enjoy free dicks while u pay nd with ur meager money,u cant afford to have another relationship or marriage.if u leave them in Nigeria out of d fear i stated above,most will still use ur hard earned money,nd d fleet of cars nd house u left for them behind to flirt with fuckboys ,and if they re brainwashed very well, they might even kill u on arrival nd elope with their lover.such is d curse of people living abroad,it takes only a God fearing woman which is very scarce in our country to get such a woman dat will be humble nd reciprocate all d sacrifice u sacrificed for her all this will be easily if those nigerian men in the US swallow their pride and marry a western woman or a yankee based nigerian lady.at least those ones are already in the system and will love you for who u are only if u treat them with love and care and then you will have your peace of mind and enjoy your marriage. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by TheStarsAlign: 1:09am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Sad events. The ultimate end of speed without caution is destruction/death. May we not be tempted or faced with situations beyond us (applicable to both husbands & wives). Speechless really...
Even love is in need of love in the world today. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by kizyalex10(m): 1:27am On Jul 23, 2020 |
lefulefu: all this will be easily if those nigerian men in the US swallow their pride and marry a western woman or a yankee based nigerian lady.at least those ones are already in the system and will love you for who u are only if u treat them with love and care and then you will have your peace of mind and enjoy your marriage. its too long to explain..wish i can break it down to u 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 1:45am On Jul 23, 2020 |
kizyalex10: its too long to explain..wish i can break it down to u e no long brotherly ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) .many of these men are just selfish minded and want a woman they can enslave ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) ..unfortunately the home based ladies they bring into the US are wiser and exploit the american marital laws ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) to their own advantage. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by onadana: 1:54am On Jul 23, 2020 |
bukatyne:
Sad sad dad.
How is your brother holding up? He is carrying his cross. |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by jojoseph(m): 2:44am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Ayo8: The reason for the killings...![](/faces/huh.png)
Imagine someone you empowered legally collecting everything you worked 30years of your life...including your kids. Everything!!!
Those that remained married until the murder are only trying to salvage what is left because they know they will loose everything if they opt for divorce.
Frustrated that his formerly malleable wife had suddenly become such a “terror” to him to the point of asking for in court and getting virtually everything for which he had worked since coming to the US thirty years prior, the husband got in his vehicle and drove a few hundred miles to Dallas to settle the scores. He found her in her SUV, adorned in full Nigerian attire on her way to the birthday bash organized in her honor.
. Each time the couple argued, the police forced the husband to leave the house whether he had a place to sleep or not. On many occasions, Mr. Nwodo spent days in police cells. Upon divorcing his wife, Mr. Nwodo lost to his wife the house he had owned for almost 20 years before he married her. He also lost custody of their three children to her, with the court awarding him only periodic visitation rights.
I knew this guy, he died in prison about 3years ago.
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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by kizyalex10(m): 2:58am On Jul 23, 2020 |
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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by sweetilicious(f): 3:02am On Jul 23, 2020 |
This life eh! Mental disorder is a sickness we don't pay attention to.Just like that? People are going through depression o |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 3:08am On Jul 23, 2020 |
kizyalex10: bro most of these men cant really woo someone already based or established in America because they do meager work and our sisters who find their way to america themselves always look for big boys who re in medical line etc and sees an average guy as a nobody,thats d fact.while an average guy in the US is seen as a big boy here in nigeria and will want to bring a girl he can afford there in America and upgrade them to the standard of women they want so they can earn real big nd support the family,the truth is that women abuse power alot so they take advantage of the fact that the western world gave them the whole powers to frustrate the man lol i get ur point ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) .I have an elder cousin who moved to the uk in the mid eighties.He"s still there till now.While he was there he didnt upgrade himself but was doing one menial job or the other there.Till now it is the HND in art that he had in nigeria before he moved to the uk that he still has.He paints and does other art jobs then with some small menial job.While he was there members of the family back home in nigeria were urging to come back home and marry a home based woman..some were even looking for home base to arrange for him as wife to marry but he refused.he eventually married a british yoruba lady.You know all those nigerians whose parents are immigrants and gave birth to them in the uk but they have never been to nigeria.members of the family were disappointed when he married her but some were happy.They still married till now and he has big dauther who is a graduate.Maybe if this my elder cousin had listened and brought a home base with him to uk he would be amongst these nigerian men crying and wailing cos their home based wife has played them a fast one ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) .But then this my elder cousin wasnt a doctor or doing some big time job there but he was still able to get a good woman there who married him. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 3:10am On Jul 23, 2020 |
kizyalex10: bro most of these men cant really woo someone already based or established in America because they do meager work and our sisters who find their way to america themselves always look for big boys who re in medical line etc and sees an average guy as a nobody,thats d fact.while an average guy in the US is seen as a big boy here in nigeria and will want to bring a girl he can afford there in America and upgrade them to the standard of women they want so they can earn real big nd support the family,the truth is that women abuse power alot so they take advantage of the fact that the western world gave them the whole powers to frustrate the man even a gas attendant in the US if im come naija he will be regarded as hushpuppy or mopha ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) .na cos our naira no get value thats why.just convert 100 dollars to naira and money go full every wia. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by jojoseph(m): 3:13am On Jul 23, 2020 |
GboyegaD:
Aunty, it is better to move on than had I know. Freedom is way better than wearing an orange uniform for live. More so, he can buy a small unit in a condo if he is so concerned about property. That's what you think. It's not easy to start all over again in U.S. once you get to certain age, it's not like Nigeria where miracles happened. Miracles don't happen in U.S. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by jojoseph(m): 3:20am On Jul 23, 2020 |
bukatyne:
True.
Maybe these men should do the nursing themselves/polish themselves so they don't need to ship mailorder brides to the US.
That way, they can pick their type of women over there. It's very difficult for Nigerian based to understand what's happening in U.S. the system is so sophisticated that only those with third eyes can see through this system. You can't understand it unless you live here yourself. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by jojoseph(m): 3:30am On Jul 23, 2020 |
EgunMogaji2:
Folks it’s possible and I’ve seen it happen.
Nigeria holds people back. That dunce village girl will most certainly thrive in the USA academically.
Informal nursing schools liter the USA and they churn out nursing assistants regularly. If a nurse gets into my ex company like that then in six months they’ll start paying for her schooling.
Are you based in Nigeria or U.S. Please don't be annoyed I'm just curious.
Don’t underestimate the opportunity that living in a sanish society provides.
Like I’ve said I’ve seen it first hand, personally. |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by GboyegaD(m): 3:31am On Jul 23, 2020 |
jojoseph:
That's what you think. It's not easy to start all over again in U.S. once you get to certain age, it's not like Nigeria where miracles happened. Miracles don't happen in U.S. It all depends on what the individual thinks. A divorce doesn't mess your credit if you do the right thing so why can't you start again? It is the system, I know it, and it isn't about miracles happening. |
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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by FRANKOSKI(m): 3:37am On Jul 23, 2020 |
MARRY YOUR FRIEND |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mrchineke: 3:40am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Wolgrace:
Most of white male precisely. The occult system is given to women because "the woman listened to the devil in the beginning." America system is programmed to alter God's marriage and family order, and enthrone women as the head AS EVE TOOK OVER ADAM'S HEADSHIP AFTER LISTENING TO THE DEVIL. Fear America system o! A sick system indeed!
Satan is all-eye and torch light bearer of the America. America's secrets can't be hidden (jer 23:23-24), so never believe any quack manipulated and brainwashing stories how their forefathers who planned and built America were Christians bla bla bla. A stolen land for that matter lol? Most shocking thing is that Rome through Roman Catholic and Vatican Jesuits) is behind it all (rev 17).
Some of us know and have their secrets in our palms... Almighty God is watching them all. This ALMIGHTY is sitting down watching evil reign all over the world. Are we sure he is there at all? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by EgunMogaji2: 3:47am On Jul 23, 2020 |
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I’m based in Ibadan, Nigeria.
I don’t get annoyed on Nairaland. Here things are par for the course. |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Honcho1: 3:47am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Foolish men! |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by EgunMogaji2: 3:51am On Jul 23, 2020 |
GboyegaD:
It all depends on what the individual thinks. A divorce doesn't mess your credit if you do the right thing so why can't you start again? It is the system, I know it, and it isn't about miracles happening. For the average non Bezos type divorce, it will mess up your credit big time. Unless of course you don’t have debts and you don’t have children. |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by EgunMogaji2: 3:52am On Jul 23, 2020 |
jojoseph:
It's very difficult for Nigerian based to understand what's happening in U.S. the system is so sophisticated that only those with third eyes can see through this system. You can't understand it unless you live here yourself. I agree. |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mrchineke: 3:52am On Jul 23, 2020 |
wany:
Authority without money.park well abeg Don’t mind them. Nigerian men are stupid and weak, if not what do they need marriage for? Our men need to learn to leave women alone. Marriage is a burden and a better bondage. |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by jojoseph(m): 3:54am On Jul 23, 2020 |
kizyalex10: thats the curse of staying abroad,once u relocate eh,it will be like ur facebook has entered friend request default,girls will flood ur facebook especially nurses advertising themselves,u will mistake that for love, but they re only looking for escape route to poverty ,u will see a local nurse eliza that u will manage to bring out from obscurity use ur hard savings to train her to a qualified nurse amd when she is done then she will remember that she is earning more than u or u re a cab driver or security etc nd overnight d same quiet innocent girl turna a tiger trying to devour you,calling d shots here nd there all in an attempt to fustrate ur life for divorce,and once u divorce her,she moves on with another man and with ur little peanut u still pay child support nd she enjoy free dicks while u pay nd with ur meager money,u cant afford to have another relationship or marriage.if u leave them in Nigeria out of d fear i stated above,most will still use ur hard earned money,nd d fleet of cars nd house u left for them behind to flirt with fuckboys ,and if they re brainwashed very well, they might even kill u on arrival nd elope with their lover.such is d curse of people living abroad,it takes only a God fearing woman which is very scarce in our country to get such a woman dat will be humble nd reci
procate all d sacrifice u sacrificed for her Man, you're 100% right. I think it's better for a man to know what he wants in life and that way he can plans for his life. Majority of Nigerians don't understand American's system regardless how long they have lived in U.S.. Most Nigerians in U.S. don't know what they want in life and that's why they live a care free life as if they are still in Nigeria. The system is so sophisticated that only those with third eyes can see through this system. And that's 95% of Nigerians will die in U.S. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mrchineke: 4:03am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Kobojunkie: That is what this crime is all about. He wanted to control the outcome of it all. Shut up idiot, most of these men become DEADLY only when they have lost everything, acquired over 2/3 decades to the woman. All these control BS is rubbish. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mrchineke: 4:09am On Jul 23, 2020 |
Ishilove:
Your sisters and your other female relatives may be goldigging wh0res but I know I'm not. You sound very bitter. Were you duped by a lady smarter than you?
Going by your satanic generalisation, the answer is a resounding 'YES'.
Fvck off for life.
Foolish men! What do they need marriage for when you can get everything you want from a marriage without getting married? Foolish weak men, I cook my own food, clean my own house, nurse myself, keep myself company and spend my money on myself. I will live longer and healthier than these mumu marriage-seeking Nigerian men. They are idiots. |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by GboyegaD(m): 4:12am On Jul 23, 2020 |
EgunMogaji2:
For the average non Bezos type divorce, it will mess up your credit big time. Unless of course you don’t have debts and you don’t have children. Depending on the debt. That said, how does it affect your credit because not all your income goes to her and you can restructure the main ones, that is, if it is not considered when judgment is passed. Whatever it is, one can always start but I feel many of us have the mindset that we can't live some certain live again. |
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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mrchineke: 4:14am On Jul 23, 2020 |
victorian:
I have extended my explanation about men and their selfish wicked longer throat.
Most marry village women Anyways.
While the ones who married graduates and entrepreneurs like us, want us to hand over all the proceeds of our hard work and buisness to them, because they are doing us a huge favour to marry abi? When I was suffering and trying to make headway, where are they? Smhhhh
If I be God of thunder? Only God knows what I would have done to greedy wicked men! ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png)
Chai! Only God knows! What do you need marriage for? |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by EgunMogaji2: 4:18am On Jul 23, 2020 |
GboyegaD:
Depending on the debt. That said, how does it affect your credit because not all your income goes to her and you can restructure the main ones, that is, if it is not considered when judgment is passed. Whatever it is, one can always start but I feel many of us have the mindset that we can't live some certain live again. I post from personal experiences but It’s great that you’ve figured it out. Enjoy. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mrchineke: 4:54am On Jul 23, 2020 |
hammer8:
MY BEST ADVICE TO MEN IS UNDERSTAND THAT WHICHEVER WOMAN U MARRY IS YOUR BOSS.
NA SO SHE TAKE UNDERSTAND IT, ESPECIALLY AS THEY GETTING OLDER IN THE MARRIAGE.
YOUR BEST BET IS TO MARRY YOUNG, HIT THE GYM AND MAKE SURE SHE UNDERSTAND U ARE A STRONG MAN ESPECIALLLY IN THE BEDROOM.
WEN SHE DONE TIRE, EVEN IF YOU ARE TIRED, TELL HER E REMAIN SMALL, DIG DEEP AND LASH HER AGAIN.
THEN ON ROAD, BE VERY TEMPERMENTAL WITH ALL THE MEN THAT GET IN YOUR WAY.
THEN TAKE HER TO THE GYM AND FOR A RUN AND TRAIN HER TO BE FIT.
SHE GO FEAR ABI NA RESPECT U AUTOMATICALLY.
ALSO MAKE MONEY BEFORE U MARRY.
You no get sense! |
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Kobojunkie: 4:59am On Jul 23, 2020 |
mrchineke: Shut up idiot, most of these men become DEADLY only when they have lost everything, acquired over 2/3 decades to the woman. All these control BS is rubbish. Are you at all sane? ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) 1 Like 2 Shares |