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Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Alien001(op): 11:39am On Jul 25, 2020
I truly love this girl wholeheartedly and but she said something confusing yesterday that "she doesn't even know if I truly loves her yet, that not until she start seeing the signing, she wouldn't believe that I'm truly inlove with her" please can you enlighten me on this, I'm literary confused. What did she want me to do to proof this??
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by thorpido(m): 11:43am On Jul 25, 2020
Do you give her money?If not you don't truly love her. Just kidding


Basically,women look for signs of honesty,openness,thoughtfulness,showing interest in her and her activities,making out time for here and of course TELLING her you love her.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by chatinent: 11:44am On Jul 25, 2020
It means nothing, be yourself; no cause for alarm. Don't forget, don't ever spend what you wouldn't spend on your mum.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by donbachi(m): 11:45am On Jul 25, 2020
She is manipulating u..she want u to propose to her against ur timing.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Alien001(op): 11:50am On Jul 25, 2020
thorpido:
Do you give her money?If not you don't truly love her. Just kidding
I'm just a busy type though, I do send her money whenever she is in need, but attention giving, I don't guarantee that being a busy type guy.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by KevinDein: 11:53am On Jul 25, 2020
She wants you to invest more in the relationship; your attention and most importantly your money. But you have to understand that whoever invests more in a relationship stands to lose more when it doesn't work, this gives the other person power and control as they know their partner will do everything it takes to make the relationship work.

Nothing wrong in investing in your relationship but make she is also bringing something (not just pussy) to the table.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by themaestro08(m): 11:53am On Jul 25, 2020
Just be genuine and allow things flow naturally, however, in your bid to prove your love to her you might end up messing things up. So take time and tread with caution.

Not an expert Just my humble opinion.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by thorpido(m): 11:53am On Jul 25, 2020
Alien001:
I'm just a busy type though, I do send her money whenever she request but seeing each other's rate is just 30/100
You've got to work on that.Attention na women food....... after money.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by McBrooklyn(m): 11:54am On Jul 25, 2020
Alien001:
... but she said something confusing yesterday that "she doesn't even know if I truly loves her yet, that not until she start seeing the signing..
Wait, which signing is she talking about here?? Abi you be one of those agents in charge of transfer market?? huh
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Otisker(m): 11:56am On Jul 25, 2020
Una never understand. The girl wants the guy to come and kill himself in the name of proving that he loves her. She wants u to start spending money and time on her.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Ishilove: 12:17pm On Jul 25, 2020
Alien001:
I truly love this girl wholeheartedly and but she said something confusing yesterday that "she doesn't even know if I truly loves her yet, that not until she start seeing the signing, she wouldn't believe that I'm truly inlove with her" please can you enlighten me on this, I'm literary confused. What did she want me to do to proof this??
This your English get as e be...
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by stanliwise(m): 12:19pm On Jul 25, 2020
Alien001:
I truly love this girl wholeheartedly and but she said something confusing yesterday that "she doesn't even know if I truly loves her yet, that not until she start seeing the signing, she wouldn't believe that I'm truly inlove with her" please can you enlighten me on this, I'm literary confused. What did she want me to do to proof this??
she is testing you jare. Don’t bite the bait. She wants you to start putting her on the pedestal.

Just tell her confidently you care about her. Women like when you say things out sometimes.
Best you can do is give some surprises like when in party you can introduce her to your friends.

Things you shouldn’t do.
Don’t let her activate your mumu button (Control you).
Keep a close eye on your pocket( incase she is materialistic).

I have spoken.

Disclaimer: Don’t take my advice too serious
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Funkyswagzz(m): 12:24pm On Jul 25, 2020
Alien001:
I truly love this girl wholeheartedly and but she said something confusing yesterday that "she doesn't even know if I truly loves her yet, that not until she start seeing the signing, she wouldn't believe that I'm truly inlove with her" please can you enlighten me on this, I'm literary confused. What did she want me to do to proof this??
Bro don't take that babe serious unless u wan2 say had I know.. obviously she's lookin to milk u dry.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by luminouz(m): 12:29pm On Jul 25, 2020
Please delete your moniker.

It belongs to me...


Thats all I care about
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by luminouz(m): 12:30pm On Jul 25, 2020
Ishilove:
This your English get as e be...
Wicked geh
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by cooooooks(m): 2:25pm On Jul 25, 2020
It's good to make time for her but realistic time.

If you work everyday, of course you won't be able to make time for her every single minute.

Is she working too? Because it's when she's jobless that she'll have the time to be counting hours.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Starz825(m): 3:06pm On Jul 25, 2020
As boys dey mumu on top girl matter this days dey baffle megrin
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jul 25, 2020
then show her signs and prove that you love her with everything you get
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Barzinime(m): 4:54pm On Jul 25, 2020
Use your head carry the remaining...winch grin
Ishilove:
This your English get as e be...
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by nexta007(m): 4:58pm On Jul 25, 2020
Well, what she said isn't a mystery. You may have not done enough to convince her that you truly love her. I think you are either speaking a love language she doesn't understand or you don't know her love language. Either ways, you have to step up your game.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jul 25, 2020
Zzor:
then show her signs and prove that you love her with everything you get
Here you have it in the bolded, bro.

...with everything you've got including your ATM card, its pin number and your house's spare key.
Follow this advice and prove to the girl that you love her. grin grin
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jul 25, 2020
J111333:
Here you have it in the bolded, bro.

...with everything you've got including your ATM card, its pin number and your house's spare key.
Follow this advice and prove to the girl that you love her. grin grin
not bad if you do that sis lol, shebi men too wants women to be totally submissive,submission goes both ways
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Christiano25(m): 5:04pm On Jul 25, 2020
Word ���
chatinent:
It means nothing, be yourself; no cause for alarm. Don't forget, don't ever spend what you wouldn't spend on your mum.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jul 25, 2020
Starz825:
As boys dey mumu on top girl matter this days dey baffle megrin
The Op wan taste her cunt but the lady never gives him...my brother, if one puna no work another puna go work....punas are now cheap than cartoons of Noodles.....
Puna liters every street around the country....ic you are lucky some ladies will even pay you for servicing their punas for them....because it needs to be serviced all the time....if I lie, ask your sisters....
The lady that will take me to play is not.yet born...
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Nobody: 5:08pm On Jul 25, 2020
You're supposed to ask her not coming here to tell us
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jul 25, 2020
thorpido:
Do you give her money?If not you don't truly love her. Just kidding


Basically,women look for signs of honesty,openness,thoughtfulness,showing interest in her and her activities,making out time for here and of course TELLING her you love her.
You've already said the main thing the rest that follows is bullshit grin
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by merieam16(f): 5:34pm On Jul 25, 2020
Know her love language nd use it
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by oluwaleinad(m): 5:38pm On Jul 25, 2020
Place her where she belongs and treat her the same way she treat..
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Pjay09(m): 5:48pm On Jul 25, 2020
Alien001:
I'm just a busy type though, I do send her money whenever she is in need, but attention giving, I don't guarantee that being a busy type guy.
oga most a times wat women wnt in a relationshp is pure unadulterated attention. Try 2 d best of ur ability 2 find time 2 listen,joke,play nd show her u care with not only words but with actions. U knw what they say abt "ACTION"..D volume loud die.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by Pjay09(m): 5:52pm On Jul 25, 2020
Nothing wrong in investing in your relationship but make she is also bringing something (not just pussy) to the table.[/quote]Dis 1 go weigh u scarra.
Re: Please I Need Your Advice, I'm Confused About Her by lagusboyyy(m): 8:00pm On Jul 25, 2020
She's not relying only on sweet words, she wants action.
Show her love by doing things that will make her happy.
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