I met this girl in Lagos, we date for 2weeke before i returned back to my state. though will be coming to see her by next month but I'm totally tired of her attitude. I love this girl so much but whenever we are chatting she only replies okay, awww or I love you darling. I do all the chatting and calling whilst she's not reciprocating back my love or chat. no proper communication even when I call her, I will be the only one talking why she will keep mute. she says she love me but I dunno if she's serious with our relationship, guys please I need advice, I have seen many of her chats in Facebook group chatting guys ,asking them to accept her friend request.
I have started minimizing my chats and calls with her

Booked

Maybe she's into Facebook than WhatsApp or she's not into your as you think. I'll advice you to study her.

if the good side does not outweighs the bad side then my friend u need to find the nearest trash can & dump such relationship...

I don't even understand what this one just said

[quote author=LarryBee1k post=70978516]Maybe she's into Facebook than WhatsApp or she's not into your as you think. I'll advice you to study her. [/quote

Pls what's the difference between Facebook chat and watsapp chat.

I need to learn]

Na wa oo.

whenever a girl replies me with okay. conversation don end oo. and if i wait two days she no try chat me up again. i don delete her number. No time

BTW she's giving you silent treatment. I don't know why but yes. If someone gives you a straight and short reply it means she's not really interested in the conversation. Healthy relationship stands out good communication. I ask you dump her.

Dude shot fired she's not interested. Maybe the relationship is boring, maybe you're ugly, its called silent treatment. Dump her ASAP

seen nxt.....

Amaniro , you sabi talk nonsense

loricara:
I love this girl so much but whenever we are chatting she only replies okay, awww or I love you darling. I do all the chatting and calling whilst she's not reciprocating back my love or chat. no proper communication even when I call her, I will be the only one talking why she will keep mute. she says she love me but I dunno if she's serious with our relationship, guys please I need advice, I have seen many of her chats in Facebook group chatting guys ,asking them to accept her friend request.
I have started minimizing my chats and calls with her

Baba if u really like her and u aint in a hurry then you'll give her time. U gat to be patient..my ex was like dat, she would be laughing and playing with her friends but wen she sees me she cold.. Call her and tell wat u've noticed and how you feel.
sometimes its due to low self esteem or the background she's from. Her type can be jealous if u move attention from her to anoda lady

Airforce1:
Amaniro , you sabi talk nonsense

Everyone let's welcome the most hated nairalander

amaniro:



Everyone let's welcome the most hated nairalander

Dude , you stopped cooking
Whatsup

stop chatting with her for now. if she is interested, she'll initiate communication

Airforce1:


Dude , you stopped cooking Whatsup

Don't get you

Op, understand this, a lady can be lively, jovial and chatty on a forum but be reserved when it comes to personal chats (one on one).


However a lady in love or that wants something serious with you will call or text regularly. But then 2 weeks is just too short to get serious with anyone these days. With lots of fake love and lies everywhere the lady might be cautious in her dealings with you.

I suggest you have a lengthy and meaningful one on one talk with her. know where you stand in her life.

So in two weeks you had already established a relationship? When did you actually get to know her?
There lies your problem. You became infatuated and now reality is slowly rearing it’s head.

Calm down bro... come nd see her dis month end first den bleep her for like 2hours... immediately u cum, delete her number!!
Except u dey sell credit n data

people enter into relationships without due diligence and it almost always end badly

Eberechi24:
stop chatting with her for now. if she is interested, she'll initiate communication

Eberechi24:
stop chatting with her for now. if she is interested, she'll initiate communication

loricara:
I met this girl in Lagos, we date for 2weeke before i returned back to my state. though will be coming to see her by next month but I'm totally tired of her attitude. I love this girl so much but whenever we are chatting she only replies okay, awww or I love you darling. I do all the chatting and calling whilst she's not reciprocating back my love or chat. no proper communication even when I call her, I will be the only one talking why she will keep mute. she says she love me but I dunno if she's serious with our relationship, guys please I need advice, I have seen many of her chats in Facebook group chatting guys ,asking them to accept her friend request. Take the marriage process slow to find out more about her attitude towards you
I have started minimizing my chats and calls with her

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Take the marriage process slow to understand her attitude towards you

I can emphatically tell you that she is not into you. The 'I love you' you are getting from her is an automatic and unthinking response to keep you faithfully orbiting around her, massaging her ego while she has fun with boys that interest her. Furthermore, the fact that you have pronounced love so quick is unmasculine, unmysterious, makes you predictable, and that will high likely kill any potential feelings she might develop. Also, that you live in a different state doesn't encourage for the flourishment of a healthy relationship.

The best you can do is to move on, yes, MOVE ON. Romantic feelings are something that is very hard to suppress. If she desires you, she will strike communication. She will be concerned about why she has lost value in your eyes, and why you ignored her. Giving her time like other said is consolatory, it's like waiting for an apple tree to produce orange, it doesn't work that way. In fact, your patience will further evidence your low value as a man with fewer options, and women instinctively do not want such men. The feeling of unrequited love is hard to bear, I know, but that is what it is. Learn from it, and get better at your game next time.

Sorry for being the carrier of bad news.

that reminds me,Nlders please were is Susan404? the girl that almost scam me,a thief or has she changed moniker ni

loricara:
I met this girl in Lagos, we date for 2weeke before i returned back to my state. though will be coming to see her by next month but I'm totally tired of her attitude. I love this girl so much but whenever we are chatting she only replies okay, awww or I love you darling. I do all the chatting and calling whilst she's not reciprocating back my love or chat. no proper communication even when I call her, I will be the only one talking why she will keep mute. she says she love me but I dunno if she's serious with our relationship, guys please I need advice, I have seen many of her chats in Facebook group chatting guys ,asking them to accept her friend request.
I have started minimizing my chats and calls with her

Free her. She's not yours.

pansophist:
I can emphatically tell you that she is not into you. The 'I love you' you are getting from her is an automatic and unthinking response to keep you faithfully orbiting around her, massaging her ego while she has fun with boys that interest her. Furthermore, the fact that you have pronounced love so quick is unmasculine, unmysterious, makes you predictable, and that will high-likely kill any potential feelings she might develop. Also, that you live in a different state doesn't encourage for the flourishment of a healthy relationship.

The best you can do is to move on, yes, MOVE ON. Romantic feelings are something that is very hard to suppress. If she desires you, she will strike communication. She will be concerned about why she has lost value in your eyes, and why you ignored her. Giving her time like other said is consolatory, it's like waiting for an apple tree to produce orange, it doesn't work that way. In fact, your patience will further evidence your low value as a man with fewer options, and women instinctively do not want such men. The feeling of unrequited love is hard to bear, I know, but that is what it is. Learn from it, and get better at your game next time.

Sorry for being the carrier of bad news.

very cogent and apt...sense will not kill you...lol

please don't break up with your girlfriend, I will advice you to read my post about woman and lizard , check my profile

Let me tell you the reason girls smell guys who have a lot of time in their hands as broke and unromantic. Granted you might doing your bit in terms of taking care of her but i would advise you do more to increase your financial base. Create less time for chatting and do more hustle. Let making money be your girlfriend and your babe your second in the list. You will even get better offer from more appealing girls. Summary make all efforts for dem to rush you.

loricara:
I met this girl in Lagos, we date for 2weeke before i returned back to my state. though will be coming to see her by next month but I'm totally tired of her attitude. I love this girl so much but whenever we are chatting she only replies okay, awww or I love you darling. I do all the chatting and calling whilst she's not reciprocating back my love or chat. no proper communication even when I call her, I will be the only one talking why she will keep mute. she says she love me but I dunno if she's serious with our relationship, guys please I need advice, I have seen many of her chats in Facebook group chatting guys ,asking them to accept her friend request.
I have started minimizing my chats and calls with her

She is a lesbian milking you for money.

loricara:
I met this girl in Lagos, we date for 2weeke before i returned back to my state. though will be coming to see her by next month but I'm totally tired of her attitude. I love this girl so much but whenever we are chatting she only replies okay, awww or I love you darling. I do all the chatting and calling whilst she's not reciprocating back my love or chat. no proper communication even when I call her, I will be the only one talking why she will keep mute. she says she love me but I dunno if she's serious with our relationship, guys please I need advice, I have seen many of her chats in Facebook group chatting guys ,asking them to accept her friend request.
I have started minimizing my chats and calls with her

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SaintHilary:
Calm down bro... come nd see her dis month end first den bleep her for like 2hours... immediately u cum, delete her number!!
Except u dey sell credit n data

2hrs? Jesus!

Have you ever thought that maybe she’s just a quiet babe?