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lagusboyyy:
You cant force a relationship that either of the parents are against. Its even more difficult now that the lady has fallen out of love with you.

The bitter truth is this,that lady is not coming back to you.

Just MOVE ON.

It's still funny. Could it be that she had no other option?

So you where the first person to buy a land in a community means you are now the owner of the community?

do you intend getting married to her now? i said now not talking about planning to in the future wen u feel you are okay, if not my guy let her marry nau shuuuuuuui.

She doesn't hate you not at all she jst tire for inability to understand wats she is into.



MOVE ON.

Charlesdmw:
It's still funny. Could it be that she had no other option?

bro,women works with emotions,once shes fallen out of love with you,nothing can be done again.

Thats why its very easy for a cheating wife to kill her husband,unlike men that cheat and still love,women cant.

Only one man can occupy their heart at a time.

lagusboyyy:
You cant force a relationship that either of the parents are against. Its even more difficult now that the lady has fallen out of love with you.

The bitter truth is this,that lady is not coming back to you.

Just MOVE ON.

Thank you .. But could it be so much pressure that made her take such decision?
She's just a 300l girl, no work or anything and is thinking about marriage?
To me , guys value and accord stable ladies more in relationships..i don't want her to go and suffer in that guy's house

lagusboyyy:
bro,women works with emotions,once shes fallen out of love with you,nothing can be done again.

Thats why its very easy for a cheating wife to kill her husband,unlike men that cheat and still love,women cant.

Only one man can occupy their heart at a time.

Hmm mm.Thank you .. But could it be so much pressure that made her take such decision?
She's just a 300l girl, no work or anything and is thinking about marriage?
To me , guys value and accord stable ladies more in relationships..i don't want her to go and suffer in that guy's house

tunize:
So you where the first person to buy a land in a community means you are now the owner of the community?

do you intend getting married to her now? i said now not talking about planning to in the future wen u feel you are okay, if not my guy let her marry nau shuuuuuuui.

She doesn't hate you not at all she jst tire for inability to understand wats she is into.



MOVE ON.

Thank you .. But could it be so much pressure that made her take such decision?
She's just a 300l girl, no work or anything and is thinking about marriage?
To me , guys value and accord stable ladies more in relationships..i don't want her to go and suffer in that guy's house

Charlesdmw:
Hmm mm.Thank you .. But could it be so much pressure that made her take such decision?
She's just a 300l girl, no work or anything and is thinking about marriage?
To me , guys value and accord stable ladies more in relationships..i don't want her to go and suffer in that guy's house

yes! The mum's pressure could also contribute.

But just believe shes not yours,she fell out of love with you too easily.
You dont have to think about her suffering,we all have our decisions to make in life,she had made her's,just wish her well and MOVE ON.

ecstasy357:
She doesn't hate you, she hates the fact that you act like your life revolves around her.

That capitalized phrase is almost laughable Did anybody tell you that taking that stuff guarantees you anything!!!

Anyway, let her go. She blocked you, accept it. Dont call, dont text, dont visit her... and if by chance she bumps into you, greet her and go on ya own merry little way.

Difficult to do, I know....but guy, get your self respect back and more importantly focus on developing you, she will come around..... they always do (I AM NOT SAYING YOU SHOULD PUT YOUR LIFE ON PAUSE WAITING FOR HER TO COME BACK, I'M SAYING THAT YOU SHOULD MOVE ON, abi na she disV you

OP just follow this advice jejely

lagusboyyy:
yes! The mum's pressure could also contribute.

But just believe shes not yours,she fell out of love with you too easily.
You dont have to think about her suffering,we all have our decisions to make in life,she had made her's,just wish her well and MOVE ON.

Not telling her not to move on but why the hatred when we never fought? Like i don't understand

SavageBoy:
OP just follow this advice jejely

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ecstasy357:
Wow! You really think she is after money? He already narrated to us how she turned down guys with exotic cars and you still think money is all she is after.

Girl 1o1: Girls are naturally looking for security. This can be

Emotional security which the OP can provide,

financial security which he cant provide,

Stability I.e ability to remain centred in her moment of crisis. Girls will always have their ups and downs, their moments of uncertainty and they expect their man to be unmoved, but our dear op caved starts acting like he doesn't know himself or his worth.


Tell me dearie, how do feel when a group of guys are arguing and shouting then one guy with a calm voice spoke and everyone listens. Does that guy instantly becomes interesting to you or not?

Ability to remain stable is what most guys do not have

If you are interested in learning more about how to remain stable, let me know. I might talk more about it

Better oil dey your head

Charlesdmw:
Thank you .. But could it be so much pressure that made her take such decision?
She's just a 300l girl, no work or anything and is thinking about marriage?
To me , guys value and accord stable ladies more in relationships..i don't want her to go and suffer in that guy's house

Bro speak for urself she isn't going to suffer. besides u nvr can tell wat awaits her. waitn concern woman concern work for marriage matter? The man should be more concerned about having a job not the woman cos she's only there to assist. financial stability is cool but is not a determinant wen it comes to ladies and marriages except for some few career determined women.

Let the girl b. are you ready to get married asking for the second time. she knows wat she wants and i believe her parents do also. LET HER BE AND MOVE ON...road still far tink of how tinz go use arrange for u.

Charlesdmw:
Not telling her not to move on but why the hatred when we never fought? Like i don't understand

have told you in my earlier post.

Once a woman loves another man,she automatically deletes you in her heart,if shes a mean lady(she would hate you).

tunize:
Bro speak for urself she isn't going to suffer. besides u nvr can tell wat awaits her. waitn concern woman concern work for marriage matter? The man should be more concerned about having a job not the woman cos she's only there to assist. financial stability is cool but is not a determinant wen it comes to ladies and marriages except for some few career determined women.

Let the girl b. are you ready to get married asking for the second time. she knows wat she wants and i believe her parents do also. LET HER BE AND MOVE ON...road still far tink of how tinz go use arrange for u.

.wow.. This comment sweet me...the only question y the hatred. I don't think i can stand someone hating on me for no reason

lagusboyyy:
have told you in my earlier post.

Once a woman loves another man,she automatically deletes you in her heart,if shes a mean lady(she would hate you).

Oh ..grabbed..thanks a lot

Charlesdmw:
Oh ..grabbed..thanks a lot

you are welcome.

Charlesdmw:
.wow.. This comment sweet me...the only question y the hatred. I don't think i can stand someone hating on me for no reason

She doesn't hate you mayb she is trying to cut all ties wit u and u as a guy ought to understand and stop been to pushy this i guess she hates. if she for u, she'll come around.

tunize:
She doesn't hate you mayb she is trying to cut all ties wit u and u as a guy ought to understand and stop been to pushy this i guess she hates. if she for u, she'll come around.

Oh i think so

Hausa minds?
Now this is tribalistic and personal.

She even cried cos she didn't wanna leave me at school when the lockdown started but she had to go home..

Excuse me, was she living with you in school? If yes, this is when you lost it. It's wrong to cohabit.
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Pls i need your advise on this..don't ignore.. [b]REMEMBER I TOOK HER VIRGINITY [/b]but she insisted her mom would never accept a Yoruba boy

I must say, you have no respect for God, humanity and womanhood specifically; just see how you make a sin seem it's a trophy.

People should learn that most school relationships end upon graduation. Na Naija we dey so date in school for dating sake, if it works out, then go ahead but bear in mind that it's when Naija guys graduate from school that real life starts. At that point, marriage will be the last thing on your mind.