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A friend of mine poured out her heart to me and I am at a loss on what to tell her.

Her long term boyfriend isn't treating her right and she is not happy in the relationship despite being in love with him. She has been with him when he had nothing, now he owns his house, two cars and a business and job. He is also handsome so I guess that gets into his head.

Ever since he became financially stable his attitude changed. Video calling girls in her presence, not respecting her, emotionally abusive and stingy (according to her). He still stocks up his house with food so she never lacks but whenever the topic of marriage comes up. She gets shouted down on and tells her she's in his plans.

I guess love is really blind. But the fact that she isn't financially independent is more reason why she is still with him IMO.

Should she leave him or wait it out incase he changes?.. Love is really wierd asf.

Chelsea should kiss the champions league spot goodbye

Wolves would demolish them today.

Manure will continue playing in Europa.


Leicester fans, where art thou?

abdeiz:
A friend of mine poured out her heart to me and I am at a loss on what to tell her.

Her long term boyfriend isn't treating her right and she...

Should she leave him or wait it out incase he changes?.. Love is really wierd asf.

Adults do not change... move on with your life or stay and continue suffering!

Pubichairs:


Chelsea should kiss the champions league spot goodbye

Wolves would demolish them today.

What a waste of FTC

abdeiz:
A friend of mine poured out her heart to me and I am at a loss on what to tell her.

Her long term boyfriend isn't treating her right and she is not happy in the relationship despite being in love with him. She has been with him when he had nothing, now he owns his house, two cars and a business and job. He is also handsome so I guess that gets into his head.

Ever since he became financially stable his attitude changed. Video calling girls in her presence, not respecting her, emotionally abusive and stingy (according to her). He still stocks up his house with food so she never lacks but whenever the topic of marriage comes up. She gets shouted down on and tells her she's in his plans.

I guess love is really blind. But the fact that she isn't financially independent is more reason why she is still with him IMO.

Should she leave him or wait it out incase he changes?.. Love is really wierd asf.

i think she should cut her losses and move on. Next she would know better than to build up a grown man.

She should leave. People don't easily change. The chances of such a man to be committed are very slim. If she leaves him, she would avert a lot of sorrows.

Manutd Vs Leicester

2 ----------- 1



FT.....

abdeiz:
What a waste of FTC

ur only achievement??

Chelsea 0-2 Wolves

abdeiz:
A friend of mine poured out her heart to me and I am at a loss on what to tell her.

Her long term boyfriend isn't treating her right and she is not happy in the relationship despite being in love with him. She has been with him when he had nothing, now he owns his house, two cars and a business and job. He is also handsome so I guess that gets into his head.

Ever since he became financially stable his attitude changed. Video calling girls in her presence, not respecting her, emotionally abusive and stingy (according to her). He still stocks up his house with food so she never lacks but whenever the topic of marriage comes up. She gets shouted down on and tells her she's in his plans.

I guess love is really blind. But the fact that she isn't financially independent is more reason why she is still with him IMO.

Should she leave him or wait it out incase he changes?.. Love is really wierd asf.

While he was building his businesses, house and jobs, what was she doing with her life.
Set awon useless girls.

Relationship is not a do or die affair. Let her Count her loss and move on.

If they are made for each other, the guy will surely come for her

Not your friend but you

Pubichairs:

Chelsea should kiss the champions league spot goodbye
Wolves would demolish them today.

Leicester city will drown man utd by 5 goals

pretydiva:
Relationship is not a do or die affair. Let her Count her loss and move on.

If they are made for each other, the guy will surely come for her

the only that will make the guy come back is either he gets broke again or any of his new gfs ditch him (meaning he is looking for rebound)

What exactly was your friend doing to develop herself when the boyfriend was busy transitioning between being broke and being buoyant?

Or, should we give a standing ovation for a partner that simply existed in your life as a testimony of your past poverty?

If your friend is not happy in the relationship, she should leave. No man/woman owes you any damn thing in this life. And it is strange the way you guys tell your stories without mentioning what your person might have done wrong.... In essence you're saying a man that used to love your friend just woke up one day because he was now rich, and started ignoring your friend.... Here is a type of lady that would later claim the boyfriend had raped her.

abdeiz:
A friend of mine poured out her heart to me and I am at a loss on what to tell her.

Her long term boyfriend isn't treating her right and she is not happy in the relationship despite being in love with him. She has been with him when he had nothing, now he owns his house, two cars and a business and job. He is also handsome so I guess that gets into his head.

Ever since he became financially stable his attitude changed. Video calling girls in her presence, not respecting her, emotionally abusive and stingy (according to her). He still stocks up his house with food so she never lacks but whenever the topic of marriage comes up. She gets shouted down on and tells her she's in his plans.

I guess love is really blind. But the fact that she isn't financially independent is more reason why she is still with him IMO.

Should she leave him or wait it out incase he changes?.. Love is really wierd asf.

Kobicove:
Adults do not change... move with your life or stay and continue suffering!

Same thing I've told her now. I hope she listens

Saintmary:
While he was building his businesses, house and jobs, what was she doing with her life.
Set awon useless girls.

Apparently she also runs her own business too.

dafeoroyo:
Not your friend but you

Lol

baralatie:
the only that will make the guy come back is either he gets broke again or any of his new gfs ditch him (meaning he is looking for rebound)

He has money and flexing it well. She jus isn't relevant in his life any more

bizme:
What exactly was your friend doing to develop herself when the boyfriend was busy transitioning between being broke and being buoyant?

Or, should we give a standing ovation for a partner that simply existed in your life as a testimony of your past poverty?

If your friend is not happy in the relationship, she should leave. No man/woman owes you any damn thing in this life. And it is strange the way you guys tell your stories without mentioning what your person might have done wrong.... In essence you're saying a man that used to love your friend just woke up one day because he was now rich, and started ignoring your friend.... Here is a type of lady that would later claim the boyfriend had raped her.

Ah ahn.. You didn't have to drag rape inside this one na.. Yeah she has her failings but life isn't that rosy. Sometimes you try so hard and yet nothing works.

Saintmary:
While he was building his businesses, house and jobs, what was she doing with her life.
Set awon useless girls.

this made me burst out in laughter. You are not nice o.

abdeiz:
Apparently she also runs her own business too.

Tell her to chin up, and walk away.
Plenty fish in the ocean.

Nukubib:
this made me burst out in laughter. You are not nice o.

Never mind jare.
A lot of these girls will stay with their boyfriends for years, even with the horrible treatment they are getting, waiting for their reward for a meritorious service, proposal.

The guy is financially stable nd want to enjoy his life as a single man b4 he settles. If u can wait fine, if nt pls dont waste time move on asap