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Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by DissTroy(m): 12:02pm On Jul 29, 2020
SAMBARRY:
All these mummy's boys sef wey their brain still dey under their mummy's armpit lipsrsealed

No maturity from the boy at all.cant he respectfully Tell his Mom to move back for peace to reign? undecided

Awon my mummy said men.... tufiaaaaaa

See them all over the thread spewing rubbish undecided

No common sense, they cannot make independent decisions without asking what mummy thinks about it.soon they still ask their mummy what part of the v@gyn@ they should put their preek inside undecided

Sambarry, I'd tell you the truth: This post of yours explains why you are a SINGLE MOTHER. From all indications, after your many failed attempts at enjoying nuptial permanency, you still haven't learnt your lessons and have instead devolved into a hate-driven, vile being always at the vanguard of destroying the very foundation of the society - family (and, by inclusion, marriage).

Stereotypical examples like yourself who abound all over the cyberspace make it difficult for cultured single mothers to genuinely find love and happiness in relationships that might lead to marriage.

Those who frequent the Nairaland Family Section aren't surprised. Not one bit. smiley
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Quelme: 12:04pm On Jul 29, 2020
Biofil84:
my friend there is nothing like mummy's boy here, the wife lack respect and I for one will not take it from her. This is me and my woman knows already, the first position of any woman in my life is my mother, my wife takes the 2nd position when my mum passes away at old age my wife takes that position ..I mean what I said.

You see when I was starked broke ladies avoided me like a plague but mum was there for me never left me once, consoled me and always assured me that things will be fine.

God forbid things go sour your wife can just wake up and run away, but mama will never run away, she is always there irrespective of situation..

Your wife can divorce you over a simple matter but mama can never leave she is mama till death.

You can get another wife but you can never get another mama.

Check it even armed robbers who are facing firing squad mama will still be there crying her eyes out but it will take the grace of God for wifey to be on ground.

My Mama remains my number one anyday anytime ...it doesnt diminish the love I have for my woman.
well said bro. You don't owe that cow any explanation. You are a real niggarrr!
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Omoejigbahe(m): 12:06pm On Jul 29, 2020
Nothing wey dollars no go see for ganduje agbada
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by ggood: 12:08pm On Jul 29, 2020
correct brother we can't trade our mother with anything
Biofil84:
my friend there is nothing like mummy's boy here, the wife lack respect and I for one will not take it from her. This is me and my woman knows already, the first position of any woman in my life is my mother, my wife takes the 2nd position when my mum passes away at old age my wife takes that position ..I mean what I said.

You see when I was starked broke ladies avoided me like a plague but mum was there for me never left me once, consoled me and always assured me that things will be fine.

God forbid things go sour your wife can just wake up and run away, but mama will never run away, she is always there irrespective of situation..

Your wife can divorce you over a simple matter but mama can never leave she is mama till death.

You can get another wife but you can never get another mama.

Check it even armed robbers who are facing firing squad mama will still be there crying her eyes out but it will take the grace of God for wifey to be on ground.

My Mama remains my number one anyday anytime ...it doesnt diminish the love I have for my woman.
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by myles16(m): 12:08pm On Jul 29, 2020
richie240:


'Equality' and 'disrespect/unsubmissiveness' are like 'words and opposite'

Any society that promotes the former shd not wail over the latter!
cool

Words!!!
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by stayclearofme: 12:10pm On Jul 29, 2020
festacman:
Absolute lack of commonsense from the wife. If she and her mother-in-law were about to enter the car together, the wife sits with her husband in the front with mama at the back. But in this case, the mama was already in front seat before stopping on the way to pick the wife, commonsense would have inspired the wife to respectfully go to the backseat and even say no if mama offers to move, . But obviously, the wife lacks wisdom!
Guy are right but you don't know African American women...hmmmm they are the most disrespectful and arrogant specie on earth...yet they are nothing.
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Chris2863(m): 12:12pm On Jul 29, 2020
SAMBARRY:
All these mummy's boys sef wey their brain still dey under their mummy's armpit lipsrsealed

No maturity from the boy at all.cant he respectfully Tell his Mom to move back for peace to reign? undecided

Awon my mummy said men.... tufiaaaaaa

See them all over the thread spewing rubbish undecided

No common sense, they cannot make independent decisions without asking what mummy thinks about it.soon they still ask their mummy what part of the v@gyn@ they should put their preek inside undecided
Men should run away from you
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by jacoik(m): 12:18pm On Jul 29, 2020
samincredible44:
nothing ganduje no go see for Edo billboard
lolxxxxx hahahaha guy can you meet me at third mainland bridge by 12 30 midnight today I have a massage for you
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by micflo28(m): 12:19pm On Jul 29, 2020
Nothing UK doctors no go see for Buhari brain

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Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by meccuno: 12:19pm On Jul 29, 2020
Stallione:
Didnt u look closely to that old woman,it shows u dat they dnt parley well and she deliberately did that,the girl's reaction shows its an accumulated anger.The woman looks troublesome.
No amount of anger would make a wife disrespect the mother of her husband. It speaks alot about her and even the man no knowing how to manage situations like these.
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Playermayweda(m): 12:20pm On Jul 29, 2020
Daft black american girls any opportunity and they will show their stupidity,Not all of them tho,But they always feel entitled to something,even overly emotional white girl are more responsible than these ghetto like black girls
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by jacoik(m): 12:22pm On Jul 29, 2020
Biofil84:
my friend there is nothing like mummy's boy here, the wife lack respect and I for one will not take it from her. This is me and my woman knows already, the first position of any woman in my life is my mother, my wife takes the 2nd position when my mum passes away at old age my wife takes that position ..I mean what I said.

You see when I was starked broke ladies avoided me like a plague but mum was there for me never left me once, consoled me and always assured me that things will be fine.

God forbid things go sour your wife can just wake up and run away, but mama will never run away, she is always there irrespective of situation..

Your wife can divorce you over a simple matter but mama can never leave she is mama till death.

You can get another wife but you can never get another mama.

Check it even armed robbers who are facing firing squad mama will still be there crying her eyes out but it will take the grace of God for wifey to be on ground.

My Mama remains my number one anyday anytime ...it doesnt diminish the love I have for my woman.
may God Almighty bless you more for this. that boy is so stupid. he is the kind of person that will sell his mum because of girlfriend
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by jesmond3945: 12:27pm On Jul 29, 2020
That's why I would never train my children in the west
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by agabusta: 12:27pm On Jul 29, 2020
Jdbrasco2:
Wife should have sacrificed front seat for one day naa. Mother in-law won't go out with them everyday.

Simple!
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Samfloxin(m): 12:28pm On Jul 29, 2020
SAMBARRY:
I'm not saying he should be disrespectful to his Mom but he should be able to MANAGE THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN HIS MOM AND HIS WIFE.men rarely care about that part of their relationship.everything must always revolve around ME,MY NEEDS,MY EGO, WHAT I WANT, WHAT MAKES ME FEEL IMPORTANT.me,me,me.thats their only central focus.If men can manage the relationship between both parties all this unnecessary mil vs Dil fight will not even arise because everyone knows Their place but carrying mummy on top of the head can be very annoying




Nobody is disputing the fact that mummy didn't eat so that you will Go to school, mummy sold her jewelry so that you will eat and all those tales but you too turn the situation around if you have a lady that is always my mummy this,my mummy that,won't you be irritated?

Meanwhile this is the kind of behaviour that will be making some women pray or wish their MIL dies before they get married because of your statement :MY MOTHER TAKES THE 1ST PLACE IN MY HEART AND MY WIFE TAKES THE 2ND POSITION.HOWEVER AFTER SHE DIES SHE CAN TAKE THE 1ST POSITION.so her brain will be like ok so until her MIL before he can place greater value on her.ok.let her pray for her MIL TO DIE
Most women are not manageable including you ( if you are a woman)
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Elsueno: 12:33pm On Jul 29, 2020
Kizzygentle:
Well the wife rightfully owns d front seat, there shouldn't be a debate on that. The moment a man marries, his wife becomes his first priority. You all that try to use mum to blackmail guys about how your mum should be over your wife are all unserious people. Don't you know your wife is also a mother to him and the children? What a wfie does to d husband, the mum can never do that. The mums role finishes d moment her son gets married though the mum still has her place as the biological mother which is normal.
But the lady should d have just allowed d mother be in d front seat since she was already there. Its just courtesy.

Ur mom should always be ur number one piority no matter what. Even if the whole world will turn against you, am very sure moms will always stand on ur side.

Let me tell you something eh...dont kid urself, To ur wife, You ain't the number one piority, but her momsy & then kids, then finally comes you grin



stop kidding urself grin

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Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Samfloxin(m): 12:33pm On Jul 29, 2020
DirtyGold:
Slay mama palavar undecided
Once a woman contributes to the house, she'll begin to kako bi chicken... everything go turn fight angry
"The fxcking car is hers" because she knows the law favours her any which way!

Conversely, it's possible mama also did the same thing as a slay queen too and she's simply reaping lipsrsealed
Las las, women na problem angry angry angry grin

What's tha business?
That's why I will never move my family abroad,we may visit and come back. Once Naija woman adapts to Western culture she becomes tiger of frustration to the husband.

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Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by stayclearofme: 12:35pm On Jul 29, 2020
SAMBARRY:
All these mummy's boys sef wey their brain still dey under their mummy's armpit lipsrsealed

No maturity from the boy at all.cant he respectfully Tell his Mom to move back for peace to reign? undecided

Awon my mummy said men.... tufiaaaaaa

See them all over the thread spewing rubbish undecided

No common sense, they cannot make independent decisions without asking what mummy thinks about it.soon they still ask their mummy what part of the v@gyn@ they should put their preek inside undecided

Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by kalvoken(m): 12:39pm On Jul 29, 2020
imiski:
If I were the husband I'ld drive off and leave my wife there. Her attitude shows lack of respect for the husband.


The man is an arshole!

While did he have to come down to plead with her. My wife nursing that thought is a taboo for her not to mention vomiting it out.

Imagine the nerves, I'm in. Your life now, so why is she still there?
Like dude should divorce his mum because he married you or what exactly.?

my favorite quote to my wife: YOU CAN BECOME. MY EX WIFE, but I xan never have an ex brother, sister, or parents! so, RESPECT MY FAMILY MORE THAN YOU DO TO ME.

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Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by jovijovi: 12:42pm On Jul 29, 2020
Movie scene I think.
Cos you can't claim you love your partner and hate drag anything with his mum.


Mean while I sell waist trainer and other body shapers. We deliver Nationwide. Check my signature for my contact
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Investnow2017: 12:44pm On Jul 29, 2020
THE BITTER TRUTH
Once you are married, the first person in your life, apart from God, is your wife. Your mother has her own husband. But a wife who openly challenges her mother-in-law disrespects her own husband not just her husband's mother. A wise wife would not do that if you truly love and see your husband as your head.
In this circumstance, the wife ought to have sat at the back and protested privately to her husband later.
I was with my younger brother two weeks ago and we were to drive out to see a family member down town along with his wife. My brother beckoned on me to sit in the front with him. I declined, and said no, your wife should sit with you in the front. The woman was amazed! Even when she insisted, "brother sit with your brother". I insisted and sat in the back seat. The woman's respect for me since then grew, and all of us enjoyed the peace before my departure.
In this case however, the MIL was already seated, so what was the fuss about she having to come down for wife to take front position? How long was the journey going to be? It would seem there had been a brewing matter between the mother-in-law and the wife prior to this moment. But one would have expected the wife to display some maturity and just hop into the back seat while the journey continued. But if it were to be a long journey, one would expect the mother in law to have sat at the back knowing that they would be picking her daughter soon on the way. The wife here shows lack of wisdom, deliberately subjecting her husband to an uncomfortable position, knowing that every man has a soft spot for their mother. If you ask me, the wife's rebellion here was not so much for her mother-in-law as it is against her own husband. I don't see love and respect for husband to be at work here.
But mother-in-law insisting too does not make matters easy. But some mother-in-law would not mind to play the fool because of their love for their son. But a wife who behaves like this gets less of everything from their husband and from everyone, including her own children, if care is not taken.
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Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 12:44pm On Jul 29, 2020
offset67:
You just open your mouth waaaaaaaaa and talk rubbish.
Must you appear in all the thread on nairaland forum
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by offset67(m): 12:46pm On Jul 29, 2020
UDOKABESTLUV:
Must you appear in all the thread on nairaland forum
Kill yourself
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Nigerianization(m): 12:46pm On Jul 29, 2020
If the daughter in-law is not as stupid as someone on this thread, what is front seat to warrant abusing your mother in-law?

Women and their wahala.... Why don't we have such unhealthy rivalries between husbands and father in-laws?

Women should help themselves by themselves
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 12:47pm On Jul 29, 2020
offset67:
Kill yourself
Offset67, how much do you want
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by offset67(m): 12:50pm On Jul 29, 2020
UDOKABESTLUV:
Offset67, how much do you want
1m
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jul 29, 2020
Marriage is not an investment... Stop saying I want to get money and be married.
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Origin(f): 12:50pm On Jul 29, 2020
Irrelevant situation.... What is in the front seat.


What she should focus on is the sister beside her who brought out her two breasts just to see her get into her husband's car....


Fear that one.... Fear it!
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 12:52pm On Jul 29, 2020
offset67:
1m
Go And Sell your papa farm land, you will thank me later.
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Nigerianization(m): 12:54pm On Jul 29, 2020
Investnow2017:
THE BITTER TRUTH
Once you are married, the first person in your life, apart from God, is your wife. Your mother has her own husband. But a wife who openly challenges her mother-in-law disrespects her own husband not just her husband's mother. A wise wife would not do that if you truly love and see your husband as your head.
In this circumstance, the wife ought to have sat at the back and protested privately to her husband later. A mature mother-in-law would not reduce herself to this level. My mother would not do a thing like this.
I was with my younger brother two weeks ago and we were to drive out to see a family member down town along with his wife. My brother beckoned on me to sit in the front with him. I declined, and said no, your wife should sit with you in the front. The woman was amazed! Even when she insisted, "brother sit with your brother". I insisted and sat in the back seat. The woman's respect for me since then grew, and all of us enjoyed the peace before my departure.
On this matter, both wife and mother are mad, but mother did not show enough maturity. If she had come with her son's father who would have sat in the front seat since the front seat matters so much to them? What is your answer?
If turbulence arises in the home as a result of this shameless show of immaturity, who pays the price? The answer to this question should have been foremost on the mind of the immature mother-in-law
.


Thanks for this
Oil dey your head

But just a little correction based on the current scenario...... The woman was already seated in the car and it is disrespectful in my view to force her to relocate to the back... And just like someone earlier pointed out, even if the mother in-law wants to relocate, a respectful wife should decline and sit at the back just for that time... What is yours is yours except what transpired was as a result of other salient issues that we are not aware of.
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by offset67(m): 12:54pm On Jul 29, 2020
UDOKABESTLUV:
Go And Sell your papa farm land, you will thank me later.
grin
Re: Wife & Mother-In-Law Fight Over Who Will Sit In Front Of Her Husband's Car by Nairalandmonika: 12:56pm On Jul 29, 2020
SAMBARRY:
All these mummy's boys sef wey their brain still dey under their mummy's armpit lipsrsealed

No maturity from the boy at all.cant he respectfully Tell his Mom to move back for peace to reign? undecided

Awon my mummy said men.... tufiaaaaaa

See them all over the thread spewing rubbish undecided

No common sense, they cannot make independent decisions without asking what mummy thinks about it.soon they still ask their mummy what part of the v@gyn@ they should put their preek inside undecided
Who sits in the front or back doesn't really matters, it all depends on the situation they are at that moment.

From what I see, the boy n his mom went to pick up the wife meaning the mom was already at the front, the wife could have just entered the back without causing all this stress.
There are important things to think about rather than who sits in the front or back.

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