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My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 5:46am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed Advice needed Don't mind my typo errors. My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house. Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them. Is my sister doing the right thing? 228 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by hosemujica: 5:51am On Aug 10, 2020 |
It depends on a lot of things. Man and woman should leave their parents house to live together as husband and wife. Anything other than that for a start is a bad foundation. The way I'm seeing it, the guy is a mummy's boy, as such won't want to leave his mums side, otherwise the best thing to do is to first of all use the funds for the wedding to get himself accommodation before the wedding proper. She should try and convince him that nothing comes out of a married guy living in his mother's house with his wife, if the mother comes to visit him every once in a while that's manageable but outrightly sharing the same roof is a recipe for disaster. Meanwhile suspension of the wedding while they talk things over is better than outrightly cancelling it. 443 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Powerfly(f): 5:53am On Aug 10, 2020 |
I dunno oo. let's just wait for the Alpha~male elders to arrive.. I'm sure they will have what to say, and advice to give.. the only problem is.. They might call the guy wanting to marry your sister a simp! 123 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 5:59am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Yea, your sister is doing the right thing. The man should at least kill his mum or chase her away before planning to get married so as not to discomfort his wife. Biko advise your sister to keep waiting on the Lord for a good man. 294 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by StandardJohn(m): 6:01am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Hmmmm this matter stong o, let me wait for the elders. But your sister is right anyways, if the man can't get a house before the marriage, he should rather use the money for the house then the marriage. 19 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 6:01am On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:Not even his father's house. Abeg make dem postpone the wedding. 26 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 6:03am On Aug 10, 2020 |
She's doing the right thing 209 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by zed7: 6:06am On Aug 10, 2020 |
The question should be is the husband going to take the right decision? Your sister has made her choice. Is the man going to be smart enough to let her go without begging her? You can't love me and not love my family, there's no point. It's not like they are going to stay there forever, probably to save up some money first. No man who doesn't like his independence, it circumstances that makes people take some decisions. I'm not saying your sister doesn't have a right to her decisions, the man just has to be wise enough to let her go to avoid future problems. 81 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 6:11am On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:your sister did the right thing 124 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Timbers(m): 6:14am On Aug 10, 2020 |
The man shouldn't be a SIMP and do what the entitled old hag wants he should dump her ass as quickly as possible Don't know why SIMPs still view marriage as something important when it clearly favors women MAY THE PATRIARCHY RULE 44 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by sexy74(m): 6:24am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Your sister never ready marry. She should try and know the reason why the guy wants it that way and try to reach a compromise. The guy has known his mother all his life and there might be a strong bond between both of them., she cannot just come and destroy it because he wants to marry her. That your sister will chase the guys family from him. Your sister has pride let her keep it to herself . 49 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 6:34am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Real mummy's boy....He said he can't do without his mum 33 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 6:36am On Aug 10, 2020 |
hosemujica:he said he can't do without his mum |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 6:39am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Powerfly:Don't mind them 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 6:40am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Squillaci:she's a single mother 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 6:44am On Aug 10, 2020 |
zed7:The man is financially okay.My sister loves his family. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 6:45am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Timbers:HMMMM.... 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 6:49am On Aug 10, 2020 |
sexy74:He said he don't want his mum to feel lonely and his mum won't be free if she comes to stay in his appartment 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by hosemujica: 7:16am On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:Then your sister did the right thing. Nothing good comes out of that arrangement at all 124 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Timbers(m): 7:33am On Aug 10, 2020 |
OluwaLina1:Ogun kill you and Hmmmm there 12 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Mgtowmonk: 7:36am On Aug 10, 2020 |
....... 76 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Abso1uteZero(m): 7:39am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk: 26 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Abso1uteZero(m): 7:40am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Husband no easy to find o. She should weigh her options carefully. 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 7:47am On Aug 10, 2020 |
He should try to get an apartment He get why 11 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by paulolee(m): 7:48am On Aug 10, 2020 |
it depends mayb ur sister have other options because this days girls de find marriage badly but i think that guy isnt serious with that house ides because his excuse sounds too childish.. 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by jeph19(m): 8:12am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Yea! she did the VERY RIGHT THING. bros should live alone b4 bringing a lady into his life. with the way mothers are trying to control their children's home, it is advisable to separate yourself from your extended family; while laying the foundation 4 ur nuclear family. 95 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by PapaNnamdi: 8:13am On Aug 10, 2020 |
if I get the guy number, I for tell am, to stop calling that your sister or seeing her for 2months, and see who looses, marriage favours women only, he will get an apartment now, and 6months later the woman floods the house with her own family members including OP, all surviving on the man, rubbish and hushpuppy 111 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 8:14am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Timbers:Bros,me and you no get issue before nah 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 8:18am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Mgtowmonk:The issue is that the man don't want to leave his mum place 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ABANGWABOI(m): 8:27am On Aug 10, 2020 |
J111333: #ILMOVON #Attitude #Bliv You took the words outta my mouth bro The man is a weakling and a simpleton .. Na him suppose cancel the marriage on her refusal to do as he said not she cancelling it.. DT girl na toxic fellow .. I pity the weak men clowns of this generation.. 20 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Vyzz: 8:31am On Aug 10, 2020 |
She is doing what suits her and that's what matters.... And to me, I think she is right though.... 18 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 8:34am On Aug 10, 2020 |
Ur Sister Is A Fool. I Would Advise Dat U Advise Her 2 Accept D Marriage Proposal. She Should Excercise Patience, Otherwise She Would Regret. 7 Likes |
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