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Two wrong can't make right.u HV gone far by beating her,if d process she died what will u say, because death can come at anytime,but I support you not to marry such lady even ur mother will not enter ur house

Intrepid01:
Laughing at indomie generation....I bet you won’t have the nerve to talk to me if you meet me in real life...but I’m still laughing at you. In some years to come you’ll look at your comments on this issue and you’ll wish you didn’t type them��
@pocohantas

guy calm down, if u see me self u go bend to greet me.

Intrepid01:
Laughing at indomie generation....I bet you won’t have the nerve to talk to me if you meet me in real life...but I’m still laughing at you. In some years to come you’ll look at your comments on this issue and you’ll wish you didn’t type them��
@pocohantas

guy calm down, if u see me self u go bend to greet me.

YelloweWest:
Just thank God you are in Nigeria. If not you'd be in jail by now. You yourself are just as bad or even worse thsn your girlfriend...

You are happy to say that you beat up someons daughter to the point of bleeding as retaliation for a knock? Shame on you! You could have simply asked her to leave!!!

if I knock your daughter.. I hope you will remember that it's just a knock and leave me? Mumu

Abasman008:
even you... Madam codemn the wrong and stress the right... Say she could match him, you'd be happy she beat him? Your problem is that's it's the other way around? Ah madam I respect you o.. but you have failed me today

Gerrawayu. I have condemned all the condemnables from both sides

Ishilove:
Driving her from your home or quitting the relationship will nip her abusive tendencies in the bud, but almost killing her before she even gets to that level you have described makes you a worse person than her. It means you will settle every differences in your relationship, marital or otherwise with your fists.

She has felt the PAIN of physical abuse. She'll think twice next time before inflicting pain on a Minor... If she wants to abuse or become a wicked aunty to another minor she'll remember the last time she tried it , e carry am enter hospital she'll just behave... She was given her own very dose. If she wants to fight or abuse she should enter market her fellow craze women full there.

alramon:
third party in the marriage

Can one divorce in a family?

But one can divorce in a marriage!

Which one is really for life?

kolade560:
Not bigotry but what's obtainable.
you women are wicked.
am not gender biased oo.
Be a good wife when u eventually marry, u hear?
next time don't tell a man like me who is old enough to be ur husband to shut up.

I had to put you in your place, i hate it when people relate everything to tribe, it's annoying. Sorry if i sounded rude

yettymuse:
you are very stupid for that mention! Son of a Gun!

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That shows how bittered your life is. I wish the man well in coping with you. Is ring now an award simple.

pocohantas:
I swear, that is the next level. I know how daughters of Eve operate. Ishi, e be like you done do this thing before?

Lol. We all know how the Daughters of Eve operate

adanny01:
Can one divorce in a family?
But one can divorce in a marriage!
Which one is for life?

divorce is not a good thing, u are one !

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

Breaking up with her is an excellent decision.

You shouldn't have beaten her up though...two wrongs don't add up to a right

na2016:
Advice number 4 is onpoint.
Advice number 5, if your wife cant accomodate your immediate family, then no marriage.
Advice number 1, cohabitating is bad but you have to find a way a know the person you want t o marry.

thanks

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

Dumping that girl is the best decision you have ever made in your life! RUN!

Lightangel65:
When you knack 35 go and join your mates at shiloh or you fit rape mad man, like your mother did to get belle for you, so go find where you go dey just leave this thread your foolishness dey smell like mess

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Hmmmmmm that was harsh

alramon:
I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.

3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually

4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...


shikena!

i think d fact she was staying with him made him know that shes not d family type of girl.

I don’t know why after reading this thread mynd44 keeps coming to my mind or is it because I sawed her with a swollen face this morning

Ishilove:
Gerrawayu. I have condemned all the condemnables from both sides

ishi sha

skyhighweb1:
i think d fact she was staying with him made him know that shes not d family type of girl.

yeah that's true but
living together without marrying is bad

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

Thank goodness you got to know her true colours before walking down the aisle with her. The whole idea behind marriage is for both families to be united and not for unnecessary animosity ...


Op, you also need to learn how to control yourself when angry. Beating her was way oberboard.

Chukapage:
She has felt the PAIN of physical abuse. She'll think twice next time before inflicting pain on a Minor... If she wants to abuse or become a wicked aunty to another minor she'll remember the last time she tried it , e carry am enter hospital she'll just behave... She was given her own very dose. If she wants to fight or abuse she should enter market her fellow craze women full there.

i beg to disagree, the girl will not change. There are some girls that do not want to see any of their husbands family members in their homes

alramon:
I love the fact that u said insults are welcome because u urself know that u need to be insulted....

how old are u self in the first place

let me just point out some things for u here:


1.u are not married yet and u are already living together and she has been doing house chores, u have been doing the other night play together. U need to be flogged urself on this.

2. there are ways of resolving things when things go wrong in marriage (u are even cohabiting self) rather than beating. u have started beating her, so when u marry her u will kuku kill her if she does something worse than that.

3. don't marry that woman as it is obvious that she is a lazy woman(girl). You are seeing her true colors gradually

4. In case u see another responsible lady and u finally marry, don't give that ur niece audacity to think she can do anything in ur house because of the bonding.

5. the truth is just that, no woman likes a third-party in their house, so know how to handle things easily with them...


shikena!

What nonsense are you saying?
From your narrations, it showed you are a kid and still living in the 18th century. The lady did the abominable by beating a family member of the husband-to-be and thus deserve to be beaten.

Just a dirty slap could've reset her brain

No need of beating to bleeding



But you can marry her if she decides to change, cos your niece won't be living with you forever.

She might have learnt her lesson

If she's proving strong head give her red card

your decision to end the relationship is good by me... and I think is even better to have time to study who u want to marry, if its possible live with her or him for sometime.....
its not sound good to beat women...

Juliearth:
Thank goodness you got to know her true colours before walking down the aisle with her. The whole idea behind marriage is for both families to be united and not for unnecessary animosity ...


Op, you also need to learn how to control yourself when angry. Beating her was way oberboard.

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I have always said it. Their is no manual to how people will react when threatened or abused.

1759ademola:
What nonsense are you saying?
From your narrations, it showed you are a kid and still living in the 18th century. The lady did the abominable by beating a family member of the husband-to-be and thus deserve to be beaten.

I disagree 100% with that.
u don't beat ur wife to be....

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Anigreat:
What baffles me is that most of you ladies do not see the ill treatment she meted to my niece.

what if my niece have collapse and die too with the knock she gave her?

Please, delete that your signature, it's the opposite of you.

Let me give you an advice, don't wait for issues to deteriorate before addressing them. It never gets better, only worse. Address things as soon as they come and live a life of peace.

If you had sent the "wife" back home immediately she started maltreating your niece, we won't be here advising you.

But no, her vj was sweeting you. You put yourself first before the safety of your niece- selfishness.

Then you decided to stop being selfish and became a monster. And now because of vagina memories, you still brought her matter here.

Why are you telling us the story? Do you expect us to praise you or give you reasons to take her back? Which one is it? Like Acidosis wrote, you need to check your foundation, it is faulty.

yettymuse:
Alaye say na Insults are welcome

I’m more concerned about a woman living with a man that is yet to put a ring on it.

These women go learn hard!

But again, if she wasn't living with him, he wouldn't have seen this toxic side of hers, and she wouldn't have seen that side of him too.

I'd say this proves the importance of a trial cohabitation. Lmao.

pocohantas:
Aunty leave his wife alone! Which kind wahala be this. Face his posts and leave his family out of this please.

You should have followed their back and forth first.

rafindo:
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I have always said it. Their is no manual to how people will react when threatened or abused.

There actually is a manual: walking away.

Sixfeetbelle:
You should have followed their back and forth first.

I did. She dragged his wife in first. Did I miss something, Belle?

Nuttella:
I just want to tell you who you are, if other Nairalanders are scared to tell you, I am not, in a full summary, you are violent, psychotic and you battery your wife, I don't care if you are a proud dad or not, any idi.ot can have a child, even mad people have children, I'm only concerned about the woman that is doing forever with you, you are making her life miserable and I feel for her, I really do, she deserves better. End of story. Kindly stay off my mention.

......Chai. you need a good dick to make you happy. But I can't help cause as a faithful and loving husband,I don't keep side chicks if not,I would ve managed you.