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Nuttella:
There is no contradiction whatsoever in what I said, I am against domestic violence with all my heart and soul cause I have lost a lady friend through it, she died, , that is why I am taking my time to comment on this thread, I Usually dont bring out my time to comment on threads.

Domestic violence was first meted on the poor niece. that was so cruel ...
I took minutes to reply cos I found your comment one-sided else I hardly comment.
When it come to being a gentleman, sure we would but when it comes to correcting an evil attitude, I would never be found wanting.

chatinent:
First, it's wrong to cohabit with sb you are not married to.
Second, your beating her didn't make any positive impact.
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I don't justify your fiancee's actions but it's advisable to learn how to settle issues without violence.
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You are welcome.

False. What's wrong with a fully matured man and a fully matured woman cohabiting before they marry? Do you expect a woman in her 30s or 40s to be living with her parents and then take permission from her parents before she goes to her boyfriend's or fiancee's house?

She is a wicked lady ,....sure she is from mbaise Imo

brian91:
Domestic violence was first meted on the poor niece. that was so cruel ...
I took minutes to reply cos I found your comment one-sided else I hardly comment.
When it come to being a gentleman, sure we would but when it comes to correcting an evil attitude, I would never be found wanting.

It was just a KNOCK, even our parents sometimes knocked us while growing up, you guys are exaggerating this knock, as if she knocked off her teeth or pressed a hot iron on her chest or beat her till she bled like the op beat his girlfriend.

Anigreat:
Keep foaming in the mouth

I don't even think you have a sister that matches my standard as i don't settle for the less. So don't even think of that, we'll never cross path.

God forbid the worst dregs date a coward and insensitive dot like you. You don't deserve to live with humans let alone women. My sisters identifies real men and marry and not a shameless cohabiting coward. Your place is with wild animals. A shameless man that brought his niece to watch him as he fvcks his girlfriend. Says alot about your class. Spits!!
My last word to you irritating be@$t .

Wow,you are a indeed senile, totally devoid of wisdom,you acted in the most immature manner possible. So you expected your girlfriend to be the one doing the chores while your teenage niece watched Tv? and for giving your niece a knock,you had to beat her up till she landed in the hospital, instead of correcting or scolding her. You shouldnt think of marriage at all till you are mature enough to control your bloody temper.

Nuttella:
I'm even more shocked that a married man in this forum is in support of the beating and is advocating for more beating to be added to it. Women don suffer sha. We see these signs during courtship and we ignore it.

Lol... Don't mind Johnny, I bet he's just being emotional today. He's one of the sane ones we have here, and I doubt if he beats his wife or if he would. Sometimes people here type what they think is right, but do what they know is right offline. That's why I pity whoever takes everything thing he or she reads here into practice offline.

Whoever see such signs and ignored them is a Fool. I have never been pinched by a guy before, do you think I won't raise brows if a guy pushes me out of his way because he is angry? Nah push he dey take start before you know it, he will raise hand to threaten you, then real slap will enter before real beating.. Ladies should try and do better for themselves too, so the nonsense wey them go take no go much.

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

Not only did you gladden my heart I also learnt one or two things that is
1. Test ur fiancee and her level of accommodation not only to Family members but outsiders to

2. You don't appear to weak to women in a context of Love they'd abuse it

You have done well bro and those insulting you are rather stupid and daft. God bless you jare

Nuttella:
It was just a KNOCK, even our parents sometimes knocked us while growing up, you guys are exaggerating this knock, as if she knocked off her teeth or pressed a hot iron on her chest or beat her till she bled like the op beat his girlfriend.

Really!!! Just a knock, right... perhaps I grew up with a soft body to knowing how that 'just a knock, could be so painful to bear.
you funny, Lady. would like to see the face behind that moniker

Nuttella:
It was just a KNOCK, even our parents sometimes knocked us while growing up, you guys are exaggerating this knock, as if she knocked off her teeth or pressed a hot iron on her chest or beat her till she bled like the op beat his girlfriend.

Such just a knock can land you in jail for child abuse in the US. What gave her the rights to knock another person's child?

wirinet:
False. What's wrong with a fully matured man and a fully matured woman cohabiting before they marry? Do you expect a woman in her 30s or 40s to be living with her parents and then take permission from her parents before she goes to her boyfriend's or fiancee's house?

Sorry uncle, it's rather religious.
You are welcome.

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

God I thank you for my wife o!

You won't even differentiate between her and my people. My niece is currently in my house as she is doing her IT, you will think they are two sisters.

I love your type bro!

Palema007:
Lol... Don't mind Johnny, I bet he's just being emotional today. He's one of the sane ones we have here, and I doubt if he beats his wife or if he would. Sometimes people here type what they think is right, but do what they know is right offline. That's why I pity whoever takes everything thing he or she reads here into practice offline.

Whoever see such signs and ignored them is a Fool. I have never been pinched by a guy before, do you think I won't raise brows if a guy pushes me out of his way because he is angry? Nah push he dey take start before you know it, he will raise hand to threaten you, then real slap will enter before real beating.. Ladies should try and do better for themselves too, so the nonsense wey them go take no go much.

You made a good point, I really hope jonnyspute is not who he portrayed to be today cause this topic is a very sensitive topic, we dont know who is reading and who is taking notes, we should be mindful of what we say online.

flyingpig:
I bet it was not deliberate. Just an anger reflex. He should have the remorse to regret it. I can only beat a woman when she is offensive against me; trying to go physical with me. Because even in court of law it is called self-defence.

OP, you shouldn't have beat her. You should have urged her by the side and separately to apologise to your niece in your absence, and also desist from en-slaving her with chores. She can de-list some chores to your niece while she handles the others. That would have been mature and wise from her. Sometimes we don't meet the perfect wife material, we can only mould them to our taste. But if they resist to be moulded or don't make deliberate attempts to change for the better, that's where I call it QUITS!

a box load of crap or have you forgotten ur dealing with Nigerian women

wirinet:
Such just a knock can land you in jail for child abuse in the US. What gave her the rights to knock another person's child?

Well we are in Nigeria now, aren't we?

brian91:
Really!!! Just a knock, right... perhaps I grew up with a soft body to knowing how that 'just a knock, could be so painful to bear.
you funny, Lady. would like to see the face behind that moniker

Dont bother

victorazyvictor:
God I thank you for my wife o!

You won't even differentiate between her and my people. My niece is currently in my house as she is doing her IT, you will think they are two sisters.

I love your type bro!

You love who? Stop supporting evil.

Dande55:
The useless coward and his gang of irresponsible he-goats know where they belong. He has sensed that the lady has no one to help her in such situation reason he raised his filthy hands on her. If he knew thay the lady's family is well to do, I bet he wouldn't try such. Most of them are cowards.
I hope the girl takes up this case.

Wetin see Finish dey cause be that. The lady sold herself cheap, well I don't know how things are for her so I shouldn't judge. However it is still not right to offer a guy everything on a platter of Gold. But op picked his victim well.

Lol, free the guy already before he vex throw you grenade o.

Nuttella:
Dont bother

See

Nuttella:
Dont bother

Anyway, no pun intended... Be safe and happy

Nuttella:
Dont bother

See

Nuttella:
Dont bother

Anyway, no pun intended... Be safe and happy

junique629:
Wow,you are a indeed senile, totally devoid of wisdom,you acted in the most immature manner possible. So you expected your girlfriend to be the one doing the chores while your teenage niece watched Tv? and for giving your niece a knock,you had to beat her up till she landed in the hospital, instead of correcting or scolding her. You shouldnt think of marriage at all till you are mature enough to control your bloody temper.

So because his niece is holidaying with them, she should turn to a house help. If the girl was her own child would she make her do all the house chores, and then knock her head?

I hope your future husband is reading this to know how you intend to treat him family.

OP and his fiancé are a perfect match. Don't cancel the wedding. You are made for each other. Just don't bring children into your environment.

chatinent:
Sorry uncle, it's rather religious.
You are welcome.

Yes. Not everyone follows your religious doctrines.

Nuttella:
You love who? Stop supporting evil.

If na me I go blind the girl eye, thank God I never marryam.

victorazyvictor:
If na me I go blind the girl eye, thank God I never marryam.

Haha.. kilode.. way too much, Oga

Nuttella:
You made a good point, I really hope jonnyspute is not who he portrayed to be today cause this topic is a very sensitive topic, we dont know who is reading and who is taking notes, we should be mindful of what we say online.

You are right about that.

Anigreat:
I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

Insults are welcome.

Bro, I'm 1 million times in support and Happy of you.
But be very careful because she can poison the food or use knife on u or ur niece.

I would suggest you stylishly tell her to go and see her family members for the mean time.

God almighty is ur strength bro.

Nuttella:
Well we are in Nigeria now, aren't we?

And that makes it right abi? Have you not been reading the horrible injuries such scornful women have been inflicting on minors in their care lately in the news?

womenareapes:
shut up you piece of trash!

no woman can ever mess with my family because I don't take shit from them like you simps!

Nigeria women are so overated in this country. there value is worth comparing to 5naira note

useless set of black species with entitlement mentality.

the more we guys realise that women are not to be treated like human the more you will have a peaceful life.

I treat women like piece of shiit.

I fully support you Bro

Michelle55:
You literally do not have any rights whatsoever to lay your hands on a woman.. She maliciously punished your niece and you did same to her, now tell me, what's the difference between you two?
You could have simply walk away from the relationship seeing the red flags already.

Cohabiting is a big NO and shouldn't have happened, then your niece coming into the picture wasn't advisable at all. You are only teaching her that cohabiting with a man who isn't her husband yet is acceptable and good.

Well, cancelling the wedding is the right thing to do.. You both don't deserve each other because from the look of things you're a man who finds it easy to beat a woman when provoked and not feel remorseful about it and she's a woman who doesn't know the value of one's family and a trouble personified woman.

Both of you should go your separate ways to avoid reading on social medias how a man either ended up in jail for beating his wife to death or how a woman poisoned her husband's niece.

Shut ur mouth and fvck off

victorazyvictor:
If na me I go blind the girl eye, thank God I never marryam.

Go and blind your wife's eyes when she offends you.

Na for woman side you dey get muscle.

Abasman008:
if I knock your daughter.. I hope you will remember that it's just a knock and leave me? Mumu

I'll defend my child but I wont land anyone in the hospital. Especially if am a man against a woman!

wirinet:
And that makes it right abi? Have you not been reading the horrible injuries such scornful women have been inflicting on minors in their care lately in the news?

I never said what she did was right, don't misquote me.