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| Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by davidhobo: 5:33pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
So i have this ex who hates me with a passion, when i ssy hate, i mean it can only be hatred, i dont think it can be anything else. We have broken up for about a year now, and because we stay around the same side of town, we do run into each other, every once in awhile. Her hatred for me is just mind boggling.its almost raw hate. Can a woman hate a man she once woke upto and dated for almost 2 or 3years that much? Is it normal? I am still trying to understand this mentality or pyschology. We lived together (for some months) and yes, we both offended ourselves yes, and she packed up and left. We were supposed to have married had some projects i had lined up fell into place, till everything hit the rocks, not because i dumped her, but because she walked. I even apologized to her, despite not understanding how much more of blame i had than her, but she's had none of it. She's 28 and i am in my mid 30's for context. She often said I was veey wicked (from my own interpretation, because i wont suck up to her or tolerate some of her excesses), yet if I had 10naira, i was willing to give her 6naira and keep 4naira. I never hit her, never even shouted at her once, never cheated on her,- but in her own mind, I am sure she convinced her self i did all these.. I did try to treat her nice in my own way. Yet, post break up, her rage is unquenchable. Is such vitriol or hate normal, for women? 1 Like |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by GreatMage: 5:41pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Welcome to the world... 6 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Nobody: 5:44pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Why bother yourself over irrelevant issue like this? Allow her to hate... I also have an ex like her. Right now, the only expertise she offer to other upcoming bitter girls is "How not to end up like me" She's gradually becoming an emergency feminist all because of her hatred towards me, BUT i care less. LET HER HATE. 16 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by MAGG0T(m): 5:47pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Then u have no worries. You actually dated a kid Not a big deal here 3 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Paulscholari(m): 5:48pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Fùck all exes!! 2 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Officialgarri: 5:48pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Explain the hate. Has she sent men to rob and beat you up yet? Has she embarrassed you in public yet? Has she sent you messages like once each month just to swear for you? Has she called you in the middle of the night just to start swearing for you? 4 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by heendrix(m): 5:52pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
davidhobo: The truth is you have to be manly for girls to respect you and that's where the Problem is....You got too nice and kind to the one that don't deserve it. How would you even Apologize to her knowing fully well she was the one at fault  Basically, Girls generally don't value guys who treats them nicely. I learnt the hard way and I've changed now1 Like |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by aminusodiq(m): 5:55pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Explain the hatred  |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by davidhobo: 5:57pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Officialgarri: Lol, no. Nothing like that. But we do run into each other once, once.. I should just chin up and do like I dont know her? Childish in my estimation, and since i cant try to snob her or do like i dont know her.i try saying hello to her, if you see the way she will shout and cuss and try to bring the roof down..you'l be shocked. I called her up, once or twice to try to maks up with her, if you hear the shade and sub (not direct insults but bad enough). I did love her and actually wanted to worl out things with her, but her hostility Both familes were aware of the relationship, so it was not like a fly by night kinda arrangement. She also keeps trying to shade me always on her social media, though she has blocked me every other place. 2 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by ednut1(m): 6:01pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
There is no issue here. Move on 1 Like |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:14pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
why would you even care what an ex thinks of you. its the past, and so long as she isnt directly/indirectly in contact with you. MOVE ON! we men, can/wont ever understand women. you cant use your reasoning/mind to try to make sense of what a woman does OR what she thinks. you guys were not compatible and parted ways. basta! 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Nobody: 6:18pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
I know your type,you emotionally wrecked her completely and didn't see anything wrong with that.You have to seek her forgiveness else the guilt won't ever leave you 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by davidhobo: 6:26pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Zzor: Women solidarity.. Now you sound like her. So maybe she loved me once upon a time, but I loved her even more. Thats why even post break up, I tried to get back with her, only for her to keep trying to embarass me and refused to forgive m. She, still rants and cusses one year on, anytime i try to get a conversation going with her. Who has wrecked the other emotionally? I jist try to stay strong and grounded despite all her taunts. I didnt treat her bad, perhaps not Nollywood or Hollywood goodness, but I did try, but her insecurities and trust issues (she has admitted this herself) kept making her pick faults in everything I did or didnt do,bringing quarrel all the time. She's not a bad person, but her entitlement mentality made her think that because she is so beautiful, men will always fall at her feet and keep doing her bidding for ever. Why so much hatred, when you walked? 3 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by mployer(m): 6:26pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
The spirit in her hates you. My thought tho. |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by punisha: 6:47pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Nothing to be worried about. Someone women are just plain mad. Thats how one sent me SMS 5years later saying she has forgiven me. Ediot and I are couldn't marry because of genotype issues. There was nothing she didn't preach about (bone marrow transplant for the child) etc me I refused o. So not bringing a child into this world that will suffer. I have married and moved on only to see text 5years later saying I forgive u lol. Beetch pls...i can't even remember u and ur selfish self. Imagine someone who walked out on u is still mad at u... Move on jare and forget her. 15 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Abia1111: 6:56pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
[s] Officialgarri:[/s] |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Preciousgirl(f): 7:25pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
The only solution is: Kneel down and repropose love to her |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by paulolee(m): 7:41pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
my gee free dt bea abeg |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Twelfthman: 7:55pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Yoooo bro. You stuck. Trying to understand her actions won't do you good... Women are that complicated and it takes a lifetime to understand them. If things didn't work out between you two that doest mean it won't work someone else. The sooner you move on with your life the better for you. |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Sam0(m): 7:56pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
She hasn't gotten over you.she still loves you even when u have moved on 2 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by here: 8:02pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Will how she feel add 10Naira to your investment? |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Nobody: 8:07pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Preciousgirl:
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| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Lightangel65: 8:09pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Zzor: Shut up fat pig |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Nobody: 8:12pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
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| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Lightangel65: 8:12pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Sam0: Exactly what i thought she still loves him and it pains her so much cause she cant be with him again. As for the OP leave that toxic bitch to rot 2 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Lightangel65: 8:13pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Zzor: Who get time to dey fight with this one, your posts are senseless just like a pig i was stating facts |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by MANNABBQGRILLS: 8:33pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Learn to love yourself. |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Angelacruz: 8:41pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
pele 1 Like |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by Nicepoker(m): 8:43pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Preciousgirl:You think this is a movie shot in Philippines. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by joviegghead: 10:54pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Hmm! Girls are weird. I think op hurt her bad. But she still loves you down there I had a girl back then, who pushed for a break up. I had broken up with her once or twice before but she was emotionally wrecked, because I was her first ever. When we broke up(her idea) , mehn, her hatred for me had no bound. I was confused. Na you break up. And I agreed. But I knew she still loved me deep down. She was just frustrated and feels I used her and easily let her go without fighting. But the hatred eh. Even on GC(WhatsApp) , she's ready to spoil me. Girls have that touch of confusion and madness in them Op, talk to that girl, one on one 2 Likes |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by doris4u(f): 11:33pm On Aug 07, 2020 |
Maybe she left u for someone else and wen it didn't work out between she and the person anger has taken over her. |
| Re: Is Her Hatred For Me Normal? It Runs So Deep by NevetsIbot(m): 12:14am On Aug 08, 2020 |
For her to hate you this much.. Is it not that you have broken this woman to shambles?? Sit back and think... If you haven't and she's just acting this way.. Guy.... Next time you see her, tell her she can pack out of the area if she hates you this much 1 Like |
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