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Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by Bmaster(m): 12:36pm On Aug 09, 2020
Akapito:
It's time for sensible humans to rise up and speak for the Devil.

God is a criminal and responsible for all evil going on in the world.


Unless God is helpless and powerless
Guy,it's you that knows which God you are referring to o.
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by Nobody: 12:37pm On Aug 09, 2020
Lack of fear of God
Greed and covetousness
Selfishness
Lust... These things are the enemies of the 21st century marriage.
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by membranus: 12:59pm On Aug 09, 2020
Akapito:
It's time for sensible humans to rise up and speak for the Devil.

God is a criminal and responsible for all evil going on in the world.


Unless God is helpless and powerless
I pity you.

The spirit of blasphemy has taken over you, satan is leading you to the edge of the pit where all hopes is lost.

Fight this!! fight for your life!!! don't give in to satan; God loves you.

Ask for forgiveness, and reclaim the peace and love of God.
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by ArisingStorm: 1:02pm On Aug 09, 2020
AustineJohn908:
you always find excuses
which god is Ronaldo serving?
it means all of us that are Successful serve different gods na
Alright
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by Danniedpastor(m): 1:05pm On Aug 09, 2020
Akapito:
How are we sure it wasn't God that crumbled it?

God is like APC, always trying to lie and blame Satan for what he knows nothing about.


God is responsible for all the wrongs/evils going on in the world because He claims to be Omnipotent, Omniscient and Omnipresent.

It's either God is a Nonentity or just Evil!



BLASPHEMY
THERE IS ARE CONSEQUENCES O.
I Pray that God's mercy should locate you in Jesus name amen.
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by Danniedpastor(m): 1:08pm On Aug 09, 2020
Akapito:
It's time for sensible humans to rise up and speak for the Devil.

God is a criminal and responsible for all evil going on in the world.


Unless God is helpless and powerless



May God's mercy locate you...
So that you won't condemn yourself to eternal doom.
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by HeavenShield: 1:23pm On Aug 09, 2020
There is only one life to Live.

"I present to you this day, Life(righteousness) and death(sin), I commend you, choose Life and not death, but as for me and my house, we shall serve the Lord Jesus Christ and live"

Jesus Christ is Love!

Do not let his death and resurrection be a waste and nothing to you.

Accept Him.

God bless you.
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by KingDavidjnr: 1:27pm On Aug 09, 2020
what of prayer houses na Dem de spoil marriage pass
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by Nobody: 1:39pm On Aug 09, 2020
Kalatium:

God created the family concept as the cornerstone of His Church & Kingdom on earth . The children of a “healthy family” stand a much better chance at procreating and producing the next generation of healthy families and healthy productive societies.

Healthy families make disproportiately larger contributions to society. Economic growth, pay more taxes, moral stability, love, joy & peace in the Holy Spirit, the internet is FULL of evidence that children from broken families suffer terribly & generally under achieve.

Satan wants to destroy this corner stone of a healthy society. He sets out to destroy and who are more vulnerable than the youths. He entices us with premarital sex through social media, news, movies, erotic books, articles etc. Our young guys and young girls see it as a status quo, children of 10 years are even experimenting.

Youths want to feel among, within their peers. A guy feels he has arrived and starts chasing anything under skirts, whenever he is able to have his way with a girl, he is applauded. On the other end, especially in SS class A Girl feels she is very hot and can get any guy, she sees sex as an adventure and fun. This becomes worst in higher institutions.

This is how the devil is gradually succeeding. She starts sleeping with different guys in the name of fun, any guy who underperforms is seen as a disgrace and not man enough. This pressure guys into taking all kinds of substance such as Vega(sildenafil), aphrodisiacs and miscellaneous just to last long in bed and give her the best orgasm.

Adverse effects of promiscuity/premarital sex
As a Christian you already know premarital sex is a sin against God. This is the spiritual aspect of it, i do not want to repeat what you must have known before. Here i will like you to see the Physical and Medical Adverse effects of such lifestyle.

Psychological effects
As people keep having premarital sex they see themselves catching fun and getting the pleasure they want. However, they do not understand something in going on within them. In Promiscous individuals, brain chemicals such as PhenyEthylAmine & Oxytocin are depleted after 3 or 4 sexual unions, which make them physically incapable to deeply bond with their future spouse.

Risk of Infection
In their youthful exuberance young people enjoy diving raw but never seems to think about the repercussion. Although you might probably be lucky enough to escape any deadly disease but prevention is better than cure. Don’t destroy your good health with Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Herpes, or the dreaded HIV/AIDS.

Complications
Abstenance is the best contraception. No matter the contraceptives, the safest sex is marital sex. Contraceptives have the following side effects such as Intermenstrual spotting= Breakthrough vaginal bleeding common between expected periods, Nausea, Breast tenderness, Headaches and migraine, Weight gain, Mood changes, Missed periods etc

Many ladies end up having countless abortion some died, some nearly died while others end with a damaged womb leading to childless marriage.

Unwanted pregnancy
As far as a sex happens and a man ejaculates, pregnancy should be expected. Some guys get girls Pregnant and run away leaving her to be a single mum. Some ladies in the process gets pregnant and in fear of losing their womb after multiple abortions decides to keep the baby, this leads to unwanted pregnancy further leading to unwanted marriage.

Most times they never planned to get married, they end up being frustrated. Most times the guy is yet ready and is not capable of being a father. A pastor was shared a story of how he tried to make his wife to abort their first born child because he was not ready to marry, all the pills his wife took didn't work and she ended up giving birth. He had to marry her.

Lies
As a lady gets older, her biological clock kicks resulting in sudden decline of male suitors at this point she is pressured to marry. A Promiscuous lady seeing that her lifestyle has not attracted men with the intention of marrying her will decide to “change her ways” and become “conservative” in the hope of snarring a “nice man”, good provider & good father.

She then LIE about her Sexual Past, because she wants to be loved for the “Changed Person she is NOW” She becomes sister Nkechi who is a prayer warrior and attends every church program.
This is to lure in a man to marry her. Some will go to the entend of lying they are virgins only for the husband to marry her and be shocked. The Marriage then falls apart in one week because of lies. Or he later founds out she can't give birth because she destroyed her womb through abortions.

Unsatisfied sexual life
Sometimes she may not lie she is a virgin but pretends she never had multiple partners. The Husband being deceived she is decenr will feel the luckiest man alive. However, when wify finally has sex with her husband., she is bored out of her mind with his performance in bed, because Every Single Previous Lover outperforms her pathetic husband .
She begins to miss..
Makanaki: “who could go at it all night”
John: “who could give her multiple orgasms”
Zaddy: “who was better endowed”
Paul: “who was much more experience”
Or Falz: “who gave her WILD SEX . . . a preference that Hubby is totally unaware of.

Risk of extramarital affairs
Some wives start affairs, because of the Dead Bedroom Husband “my husband cannot meet my sexual needs I FELT the need to FEEL ALIVE AGAIN "," my husband is a 5minutes man". Affair is guaranteed to give her the endomorph rush that she craved during her promiscuous years. She then begins to cheat with her ex or a Neighbour and then refuse the Husband sex.
And there you have it, the emasculated husband caught in a sexless marriages i.e satan’s plan for marriages.

In the other end, the man gets married but his wife is boring in bed, he wants all the sexual styles he can think of but she is not willing to give in to his denands. He then gets a side chick to fulfill his sexual fantasies.

Unhappy marriage/seperation/divorce
Inevitably satan bides his time for an opportunity to expose her lies at the time in her marriage, she either gets caught cheating or the truth about her past gets revealed leading to cataclysmic consequences for her & the children (if there is).
The Husband then realizes his Entire Marriage was a big scam by this time he is sexually frustrated and very resentfull of his frigid wife the knowledge & MENTAL IMAGES that his wife had threesomes at college – One Night Stands with random guys, is psychologically too much for him to bear and he starts to cheat as revenge/ or seperate from his wife.

A man due to his previous excapades during his premarital life may want to taste other women because he is getting bored with having only one woman, he then ends up inpregnating a side chick or ends up contracting a disease.

As you can see premarital sex puts you at a disadvantage not only spiritually but physicially and healthwise.

Therefore brethren, abstain from premarital sex.


Trash
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by saraki2019(m): 1:45pm On Aug 09, 2020
Akapito:
How are we sure it wasn't God that crumbled it?

God is like APC, always trying to lie and blame Satan for what he knows nothing about.


God is responsible for all the wrongs/evils going on in the world because He claims to be Omnipotent, Omniscient and Omnipresent.

It's either God is a Nonentity or just Evil!

God made humans, satan and angels, gave satan power and angels power, and humans the power tomake choices, set out principles , if you follow you win and if you fail satan win against you. in ISLAM
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by mentored: 1:48pm On Aug 09, 2020
Kalatium:

God created the family concept as the cornerstone of His Church & Kingdom on earth . The children of a “healthy family” stand a much better chance at procreating and producing the next generation of healthy families and healthy productive societies.

Healthy families make disproportiately larger contributions to society. Economic growth, pay more taxes, moral stability, love, joy & peace in the Holy Spirit, the internet is FULL of evidence that children from broken families suffer terribly & generally under achieve.

Satan wants to destroy this corner stone of a healthy society. He sets out to destroy and who are more vulnerable than the youths. He entices us with premarital sex through social media, news, movies, erotic books, articles etc. Our young guys and young girls see it as a status quo, children of 10 years are even experimenting.

Youths want to feel among, within their peers. A guy feels he has arrived and starts chasing anything under skirts, whenever he is able to have his way with a girl, he is applauded. On the other end, especially in SS class A Girl feels she is very hot and can get any guy, she sees sex as an adventure and fun. This becomes worst in higher institutions.

This is how the devil is gradually succeeding. She starts sleeping with different guys in the name of fun, any guy who underperforms is seen as a disgrace and not man enough. This pressure guys into taking all kinds of substance such as Vega(sildenafil), aphrodisiacs and miscellaneous just to last long in bed and give her the best orgasm.

Adverse effects of promiscuity/premarital sex
As a Christian you already know premarital sex is a sin against God. This is the spiritual aspect of it, i do not want to repeat what you must have known before. Here i will like you to see the Physical and Medical Adverse effects of such lifestyle.

Psychological effects
As people keep having premarital sex they see themselves catching fun and getting the pleasure they want. However, they do not understand something in going on within them. In Promiscous individuals, brain chemicals such as PhenyEthylAmine & Oxytocin are depleted after 3 or 4 sexual unions, which make them physically incapable to deeply bond with their future spouse.

Risk of Infection
In their youthful exuberance young people enjoy diving raw but never seems to think about the repercussion. Although you might probably be lucky enough to escape any deadly disease but prevention is better than cure. Don’t destroy your good health with Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Herpes, or the dreaded HIV/AIDS.

Complications
Abstenance is the best contraception. No matter the contraceptives, the safest sex is marital sex. Contraceptives have the following side effects such as Intermenstrual spotting= Breakthrough vaginal bleeding common between expected periods, Nausea, Breast tenderness, Headaches and migraine, Weight gain, Mood changes, Missed periods etc

Many ladies end up having countless abortion some died, some nearly died while others end with a damaged womb leading to childless marriage.

Unwanted pregnancy
As far as a sex happens and a man ejaculates, pregnancy should be expected. Some guys get girls Pregnant and run away leaving her to be a single mum. Some ladies in the process gets pregnant and in fear of losing their womb after multiple abortions decides to keep the baby, this leads to unwanted pregnancy further leading to unwanted marriage.

Most times they never planned to get married, they end up being frustrated. Most times the guy is yet ready and is not capable of being a father. A pastor was shared a story of how he tried to make his wife to abort their first born child because he was not ready to marry, all the pills his wife took didn't work and she ended up giving birth. He had to marry her.

Lies
As a lady gets older, her biological clock kicks resulting in sudden decline of male suitors at this point she is pressured to marry. A Promiscuous lady seeing that her lifestyle has not attracted men with the intention of marrying her will decide to “change her ways” and become “conservative” in the hope of snarring a “nice man”, good provider & good father.

She then LIE about her Sexual Past, because she wants to be loved for the “Changed Person she is NOW” She becomes sister Nkechi who is a prayer warrior and attends every church program.
This is to lure in a man to marry her. Some will go to the entend of lying they are virgins only for the husband to marry her and be shocked. The Marriage then falls apart in one week because of lies. Or he later founds out she can't give birth because she destroyed her womb through abortions.

Unsatisfied sexual life
Sometimes she may not lie she is a virgin but pretends she never had multiple partners. The Husband being deceived she is decenr will feel the luckiest man alive. However, when wify finally has sex with her husband., she is bored out of her mind with his performance in bed, because Every Single Previous Lover outperforms her pathetic husband .
She begins to miss..
Makanaki: “who could go at it all night”
John: “who could give her multiple orgasms”
Zaddy: “who was better endowed”
Paul: “who was much more experience”
Or Falz: “who gave her WILD SEX . . . a preference that Hubby is totally unaware of.

Risk of extramarital affairs
Some wives start affairs, because of the Dead Bedroom Husband “my husband cannot meet my sexual needs I FELT the need to FEEL ALIVE AGAIN "," my husband is a 5minutes man". Affair is guaranteed to give her the endomorph rush that she craved during her promiscuous years. She then begins to cheat with her ex or a Neighbour and then refuse the Husband sex.
And there you have it, the emasculated husband caught in a sexless marriages i.e satan’s plan for marriages.

In the other end, the man gets married but his wife is boring in bed, he wants all the sexual styles he can think of but she is not willing to give in to his denands. He then gets a side chick to fulfill his sexual fantasies.

Unhappy marriage/seperation/divorce
Inevitably satan bides his time for an opportunity to expose her lies at the time in her marriage, she either gets caught cheating or the truth about her past gets revealed leading to cataclysmic consequences for her & the children (if there is).
The Husband then realizes his Entire Marriage was a big scam by this time he is sexually frustrated and very resentfull of his frigid wife the knowledge & MENTAL IMAGES that his wife had threesomes at college – One Night Stands with random guys, is psychologically too much for him to bear and he starts to cheat as revenge/ or seperate from his wife.

A man due to his previous excapades during his premarital life may want to taste other women because he is getting bored with having only one woman, he then ends up inpregnating a side chick or ends up contracting a disease.

As you can see premarital sex puts you at a disadvantage not only spiritually but physicially and healthwise.

Therefore brethren, abstain from premarital sex.



Eziokwu bu Ndu


Truth is Life


Leave Out the herbal Mixture
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by 4tomandchi: 2:07pm On Aug 09, 2020
Nooil:


Jesus Chris has done the work.
True but does that mean that as a christian our faith cannot be tested ? NO. Jesus accomplish 99.9% all we just need do is to complete that . 01 but in doing that you need to commit 100%. That's why we still fast and pray everyday not to be cought off guard.
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by WelcomeToBiafra: 2:19pm On Aug 09, 2020
Nigeria terrorist government satanic policies are the 99% cause.

Infact, Nigeria is the Satan we know.

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Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by AustineJohn908(m): 2:39pm On Aug 09, 2020
ArisingStorm:

Alright
I believe in God. I just don't believe in ur spirituality nonsense when it comes to sex cause I see people who do it being successful and I understand success is in the mindset and ur hardwork
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by Nobody: 2:54pm On Aug 09, 2020
4tomandchi:

True but does that mean that as a christian our faith cannot be tested ? NO. Jesus accomplish 99.9% all we just need do is to complete that . 01 but in doing that you need to commit 100%. That's why we still fast and pray everyday not to be cought off guard.

Nna, I don't know this one you're now preaching o. I only responded to the foundation problems you cited.

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Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by NELLY1990: 3:35pm On Aug 09, 2020
Truth be told? Ever since I started going through your messages I always perceived that something is not right. You just confirmed my suspicion. I pray the eyes of your Spirit opens. Amen
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr.
Isoright
Perused through your article and i must confess as a real niggarrr that it is a nice one

But all these things is what actually make life more interesting and not boring

To you the disadvantages outweigh its advantages.
But to me the advantage exceed its disadvantages...
Anyway everything has a mixed blessing

So i will continue living my life in the fast lane... smoking weed, drinking my bottles, banging pussy, got police chasing me and making my dope money
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by ArisingStorm: 3:49pm On Aug 09, 2020
AustineJohn908:
I believe in God. I just don't believe in ur spirituality nonsense when it comes to sex cause I see people who do it being successful and I understand success is in the mindset and ur hardwork
Don't be deceived by what you are seeing my friend. We are talking about the spiritual, You are focused on the physical. Let me try to give you an explanation, the physical realm is like our smartphone screen, the spiritual realm is the motherboard and all other major components we don't see.

Because you see successful people that are constantly having sex, who told you they are okay? Its because you are not seeing with the spiritual lens, many are dead corpse walking. When you mentioned ronaldo, I just didn't want to go deep, We have people that are in a covenant with the adversary already just to aquire physical riches.
If you really want to know if I am deceiving you or saying the truth, how about you look up and ask for guardiance by yourself, if you ask from your heart with good intentions and motive, it would be granted unto you. Ask for Wisdom.

You said the successful people and rich don't take spiritual serious, sincerely, they do seriously, those guys do rituals, they have what they are bowing to in their closet. This things are done in secret. Life is spiritual.
Shalom
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by AustineJohn908(m): 4:01pm On Aug 09, 2020
ArisingStorm:

Don't be deceived by what you are seeing my friend. We are talking about the spiritual, You are focused on the physical. Let me try to give you an explanation, the physical realm is like our smartphone screen, the spiritual realm is the motherboard and all other major components we don't see.

Because you see successful people that are constantly having sex, who told you they are okay? Its because you are not seeing with the spiritual lens, many are dead corpse walking. When you mentioned ronaldo, I just didn't want to go deep, We have people that are in a covenant with the adversary already just to aquire physical riches.
If you really want to know if I am deceiving you or saying the truth, how about you look up and ask for guardiance by yourself, if you ask from your heart with good intentions and motive, it would be granted unto you. Ask for Wisdom.

You said the successful people and rich don't take spiritual serious, sincerely, they do seriously, those guys do rituals, they have what they are bowing to in their closet. This things are done in secret. Life is spiritual.
Shalom
Ok o. have heard you but still I believe not all successful people that are aving sex are worshipping demons or whatsoever.

there is a saying in the Bible..."God causes his sun to shine upon. the bad and the good."....
.....
even God said he will bless those he wants to bless. weather good or bad.
so I will hold unto that believe.
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by 4tomandchi: 4:04pm On Aug 09, 2020
Nooil:


Nna, I don't know this one you're now preaching o. I only responded to the foundation problems you cited.
You are correct my brother.
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by ArisingStorm: 4:13pm On Aug 09, 2020
AustineJohn908:
Ok o. have heard you but still I believe not all successful people that are aving sex are worshipping demons or whatsoever.

there is a saying in the Bible..."God causes his sun to shine upon. the bad and the good."....
.....
even God said he will bless those he wants to bless. weather good or bad.
so I will hold unto that believe.
Yeah, correct, but you are not getting it right, don't misunderstand His Mercies.

When the wicked spring up like grass(flourish), And all the workers of wickedness blossom, It is for them to be destroyed forever(Eternity).
Tehillim (Psalms) 92:7

Flee whoring. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits whoring sins against his own body.
Qorintiyim Aleph (1 Corinthians) 6:18

Do not fret because of evil-doers, Do not be envious of the workers of unrighteousness. For they soon wither like grass, And fade like green plants. Trust in YAHUAH, and do good; Dwell in the earth, and feed on steadfastness.And delight yourself in YAHUAH, And let Him give you the desires of your heart.
Tehillim (Psalms) 37:1‭-‬4

Dont let riches and success of this realm decieve you from what is ahead.

Shalom
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by AustineJohn908(m): 4:20pm On Aug 09, 2020
ArisingStorm:

Yeah, correct, but you are not getting it right, don't misunderstand His Mercies.

When the wicked spring up like grass(flourish), And all the workers of wickedness blossom, It is for them to be destroyed forever(Eternity).
Tehillim (Psalms) 92:7

Flee whoring. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits whoring sins against his own body.
Qorintiyim Aleph (1 Corinthians) 6:18

Do not fret because of evil-doers, Do not be envious of the workers of unrighteousness. For they soon wither like grass, And fade like green plants. Trust in YAHUAH, and do good; Dwell in the earth, and feed on steadfastness.And delight yourself in YAHUAH, And let Him give you the desires of your heart.
Tehillim (Psalms) 37:1‭-‬4

Dont let riches and success of this realm decieve you from what is ahead.

Shalom




I understand you. but I will take being like RONALDO. let's God den judge who go enter heaven
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by Mywd: 4:24pm On Aug 09, 2020
Akapito:
It's time for sensible humans to rise up and speak for the Devil.

God is a criminal and responsible for all evil going on in the world.


Unless God is helpless and powerless

I am very sure ur life is miserable presently
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by Mywd: 4:26pm On Aug 09, 2020
AustineJohn908:
Ok o. have heard you but still I believe not all successful people that are aving sex are worshipping demons or whatsoever.

there is a saying in the Bible..."God causes his sun to shine upon. the bad and the good."....
.....
even God said he will bless those he wants to bless. weather good or bad.
so I will hold unto that believe.


And u still dey wallow for the mentality of even if u rob as a bad person God go still bless u ehn??.... Dey delay urself there
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by prodigyy(m): 4:28pm On Aug 09, 2020
I'm a positivist.

Bible admonishes us to respect & obey constituted authority.

Nigerian laws is silent on pre-marital sex.

So I'm free to explore.... grin
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by TemmyT002(m): 4:29pm On Aug 09, 2020
The disadvantages are more than the benefits. Like somebody said, 'The only benefit is a few minutes of pleasure "
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by Akapito: 5:24pm On Aug 09, 2020
saraki2019:

[s]God made humans, satan and angels, gave satan power and angels power, and humans the power tomake choices, set out principles , if you follow you win and if you fail satan win against you. in ISLAM[/s]



Cock and Bull story
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by Akapito: 5:25pm On Aug 09, 2020
Mywd:


I am very sure ur life is miserable presently



That's what you believe as African Christian or Muslim.
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by AustineJohn908(m): 6:27pm On Aug 09, 2020
Mywd:



And u still dey wallow for the mentality of even if u rob as a bad person God go still bless u ehn??.... Dey delay urself there
Did I talk about rob? am talking about sex and una nonsense believe say e dey spiritual.
spiritual kor Spiritual nee!
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by michresakidjo(m): 6:32pm On Aug 09, 2020
Kalatium:

God created the family concept as the cornerstone of His Church & Kingdom on earth . The children of a “healthy family” stand a much better chance at procreating and producing the next generation of healthy families and healthy productive societies.

Healthy families make disproportiately larger contributions to society. Economic growth, pay more taxes, moral stability, love, joy & peace in the Holy Spirit, the internet is FULL of evidence that children from broken families suffer terribly & generally under achieve.

Satan wants to destroy this corner stone of a healthy society. He sets out to destroy and who are more vulnerable than the youths. He entices us with premarital sex through social media, news, movies, erotic books, articles etc. Our young guys and young girls see it as a status quo, children of 10 years are even experimenting.

Youths want to feel among, within their peers. A guy feels he has arrived and starts chasing anything under skirts, whenever he is able to have his way with a girl, he is applauded. On the other end, especially in SS class A Girl feels she is very hot and can get any guy, she sees sex as an adventure and fun. This becomes worst in higher institutions.

This is how the devil is gradually succeeding. She starts sleeping with different guys in the name of fun, any guy who underperforms is seen as a disgrace and not man enough. This pressure guys into taking all kinds of substance such as Vega(sildenafil), aphrodisiacs and miscellaneous just to last long in bed and give her the best orgasm.

Adverse effects of promiscuity/premarital sex
As a Christian you already know premarital sex is a sin against God. This is the spiritual aspect of it, i do not want to repeat what you must have known before. Here i will like you to see the Physical and Medical Adverse effects of such lifestyle.

Psychological effects
As people keep having premarital sex they see themselves catching fun and getting the pleasure they want. However, they do not understand something in going on within them. In Promiscous individuals, brain chemicals such as PhenyEthylAmine & Oxytocin are depleted after 3 or 4 sexual unions, which make them physically incapable to deeply bond with their future spouse.

Risk of Infection
In their youthful exuberance young people enjoy diving raw but never seems to think about the repercussion. Although you might probably be lucky enough to escape any deadly disease but prevention is better than cure. Don’t destroy your good health with Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Herpes, or the dreaded HIV/AIDS.

Complications
Abstenance is the best contraception. No matter the contraceptives, the safest sex is marital sex. Contraceptives have the following side effects such as Intermenstrual spotting= Breakthrough vaginal bleeding common between expected periods, Nausea, Breast tenderness, Headaches and migraine, Weight gain, Mood changes, Missed periods etc

Many ladies end up having countless abortion some died, some nearly died while others end with a damaged womb leading to childless marriage.

Unwanted pregnancy
As far as a sex happens and a man ejaculates, pregnancy should be expected. Some guys get girls Pregnant and run away leaving her to be a single mum. Some ladies in the process gets pregnant and in fear of losing their womb after multiple abortions decides to keep the baby, this leads to unwanted pregnancy further leading to unwanted marriage.

Most times they never planned to get married, they end up being frustrated. Most times the guy is yet ready and is not capable of being a father. A pastor was shared a story of how he tried to make his wife to abort their first born child because he was not ready to marry, all the pills his wife took didn't work and she ended up giving birth. He had to marry her.

Lies
As a lady gets older, her biological clock kicks resulting in sudden decline of male suitors at this point she is pressured to marry. A Promiscuous lady seeing that her lifestyle has not attracted men with the intention of marrying her will decide to “change her ways” and become “conservative” in the hope of snarring a “nice man”, good provider & good father.

She then LIE about her Sexual Past, because she wants to be loved for the “Changed Person she is NOW” She becomes sister Nkechi who is a prayer warrior and attends every church program.
This is to lure in a man to marry her. Some will go to the entend of lying they are virgins only for the husband to marry her and be shocked. The Marriage then falls apart in one week because of lies. Or he later founds out she can't give birth because she destroyed her womb through abortions.

Unsatisfied sexual life
Sometimes she may not lie she is a virgin but pretends she never had multiple partners. The Husband being deceived she is decenr will feel the luckiest man alive. However, when wify finally has sex with her husband., she is bored out of her mind with his performance in bed, because Every Single Previous Lover outperforms her pathetic husband .
She begins to miss..
Makanaki: “who could go at it all night”
John: “who could give her multiple orgasms”
Zaddy: “who was better endowed”
Paul: “who was much more experience”
Or Falz: “who gave her WILD SEX . . . a preference that Hubby is totally unaware of.

Risk of extramarital affairs
Some wives start affairs, because of the Dead Bedroom Husband “my husband cannot meet my sexual needs I FELT the need to FEEL ALIVE AGAIN "," my husband is a 5minutes man". Affair is guaranteed to give her the endomorph rush that she craved during her promiscuous years. She then begins to cheat with her ex or a Neighbour and then refuse the Husband sex.
And there you have it, the emasculated husband caught in a sexless marriages i.e satan’s plan for marriages.

In the other end, the man gets married but his wife is boring in bed, he wants all the sexual styles he can think of but she is not willing to give in to his denands. He then gets a side chick to fulfill his sexual fantasies.

Unhappy marriage/seperation/divorce
Inevitably satan bides his time for an opportunity to expose her lies at the time in her marriage, she either gets caught cheating or the truth about her past gets revealed leading to cataclysmic consequences for her & the children (if there is).
The Husband then realizes his Entire Marriage was a big scam by this time he is sexually frustrated and very resentfull of his frigid wife the knowledge & MENTAL IMAGES that his wife had threesomes at college – One Night Stands with random guys, is psychologically too much for him to bear and he starts to cheat as revenge/ or seperate from his wife.

A man due to his previous excapades during his premarital life may want to taste other women because he is getting bored with having only one woman, he then ends up inpregnating a side chick or ends up contracting a disease.

As you can see premarital sex puts you at a disadvantage not only spiritually but physicially and healthwise.

Therefore brethren, abstain from premarital sex.




God bless you bro....I appreciate time taken to write this
.......I'm a youth and one way or the other I've been caught up in the web of sexual pervasion but your message is touching...ready to let go off the oldman (Adamic nature) And embrace the New man (Jesus)


God bless you richly.... Don't be discouraged by what people say
Re: How Satan Crumbles A 21st Century Marriage by Mywd: 6:55pm On Aug 09, 2020
AustineJohn908:
Did I talk about rob? am talking about sex and una nonsense believe say e dey spiritual.
spiritual kor Spiritual nee!


Until u enter wahala becaos of am then u go know wetin dey shele

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