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Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by bigcee(m): 5:34am On Aug 11, 2020
chinchonglee:
We all knw u wuld fvck him.
U jst came here to exhibit excess buga.
U dnt need advice, u jst need a condom
grin

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Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by bigcee(m): 5:34am On Aug 11, 2020
chinchonglee:
We all knw u wuld fvck him.
U jst came here to exhibit excess buga.
U dnt need advice, u jst need a condom
grin

Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by kenneh1(m): 5:42am On Aug 11, 2020
hitekk:
hmm. tell him that all the people you dated in the past died mysteriously and since then you decided not to date any guy again to avoid losing him.
All this yoruba movies you they watched affecting you too much
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Agugbadin: 5:48am On Aug 11, 2020
rasheedatt:
I am freaking out about this, My boss asked me out on a date which I think is innapropriate but I love my job and i was looking for a loooong time before i found it so I will be damned if i give up.

I was very kind and told him there is zero interest here so i wouldnt want to waste his time. He told me I should quit the job or accept him and he will increase my salary.

I told him to give me a week to think about it.

What should I do?

Some blacks are subhuman just like every member of Boko haram.
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by SmartPolician: 5:49am On Aug 11, 2020
Abudu2000:
So that thing u give to some jobless hopeless boy somewhere is what u can't let him have a piece of. Even better if he's single and searching. This is 2021 already hunger go beat u if u loose that job grin

Are you you are not the randy man?
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by HRMK: 5:55am On Aug 11, 2020
QUIT THE JOB!THE MAN WULD EVENTUALLY SEND HER PACKING AFTER SATISFYING HIMSELF!!

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Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 6:02am On Aug 11, 2020
magicminister:



The boss asking her out is not a problem even though it’s unethical.

It becomes harassment when you threaten to make the person suffer some level of hardship - in this case her job- if the amorous advances is rejected.

If your sister comes home and tells you that her oga wants to fuccck her or else she’ll lose her job, will you still take the same stand or will you do to the office and cave his fuckinggg head in??

You forgot both are not co-workers, so the boss' suppose threat to make her lose her job is not as the same as to make her suffer.

Since the world don't revolve around him, he can't stop her getting job else where. So, she is at her liberty to walk out willingly.. People quits or changes job liberally and willingly for many reasons, even this type of case inclusively.. So, she should not manipulate and abuse the liberty she has without using excuse and sympathy cards..

-Ask, what's her own decision? It's about her, not the tempter..
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by chris51(f): 6:07am On Aug 11, 2020
rasheedatt:
I am freaking out about this, My boss asked me out on a date which I think is innapropriate but I love my job and i was looking for a loooong time before i found it so I will be damned if i give up.

I was very kind and told him there is zero interest here so i wouldnt want to waste his time. He told me I should quit the job or accept him and he will increase my salary.

I told him to give me a week to think about it.

Quit the job. Your boss is a hopeless and irresponsible man. He is trying to intimidate and blackmail you.
Go and do something with your hands. Don't let the idiot ruin your future.

What should I do?
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by almarthins(m): 6:07am On Aug 11, 2020
hitekk:
hmm. tell him that all the people you dated in the past died mysteriously and since then you decided not to date any guy again to avoid losing him.

grin grin grin...i swell i no go do am again.
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by chris51(f): 6:07am On Aug 11, 2020
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Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by chris51(f): 6:09am On Aug 11, 2020
rasheedatt:
I am freaking out about this, My boss asked me out on a date which I think is innapropriate but I love my job and i was looking for a loooong time before i found it so I will be damned if i give up.

I was very kind and told him there is zero interest here so i wouldnt want to waste his time. He told me I should quit the job or accept him and he will increase my salary.

I told him to give me a week to think about it.

Quit the job. Your boss is a hopeless and irresponsible man. He is trying to intimidate and blackmail you.
Go and do something with your hands. Don't let the idiot ruin your future.

What should I do?
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by merits(m): 6:36am On Aug 11, 2020
rasheedatt:
I am freaking out about this, My boss asked me out on a date which I think is innapropriate but I love my job and i was looking for a loooong time before i found it so I will be damned if i give up.

I was very kind and told him there is zero interest here so i wouldnt want to waste his time. He told me I should quit the job or accept him and he will increase my salary.

I told him to give me a week to think about it.

What should I do?
Check your dressing I know you are not decently dressed.using of complete hijab or deeper life xtian dressing is a solution to all this nonsense the way you dress is the way you will be address,I don't blame the man atall he wants to take his own share from your public property.

*Flaunt cleavage
*Flaunt breasts
*Flaunt tits, this is the result of it, temptation everywhere.ladies beware.



Once again are you decently dress?I know your answer is capital NO.then carry your cross.

Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Hushmalay(m): 6:37am On Aug 11, 2020
Stevyne:
Hmmmm... Make sense!
na so I hope her bosss no dey read this comment now lol �
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Deborah98(f): 6:40am On Aug 11, 2020
Stevyne:
Hmmmm... Make sense!
sense wee not kee you
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by kaywhy09(m): 6:44am On Aug 11, 2020
For the now, the ball is in your court. But for the later, kindly improve your skill and be expert in your field. With that, you'll always be the one to decide, not the boss.
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 6:46am On Aug 11, 2020
hitekk:
hmm. tell him that all the people you dated in the past died mysteriously and since then you decided not to date any guy again to avoid losing him.
Old story, who haven't read abt this mysterious death story. I'm aware he's quit aware
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by okoroemeka(m): 6:49am On Aug 11, 2020
No matter how immoral it may sound but I think this is the chance for you to control your boss,he is the Randy type and it left for you to use all your feminine guile and charm on him, remember the end justifies the means,he will not stop with just one nack ,and also been jobless because of a few minutes Nack is not worth it, especially when the boss will not cut off the pvssy and take it home, take control of his mind,this is your chance to be the boss of your boss if you know how to go about it
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Tonytonex(m): 6:49am On Aug 11, 2020
hitekk:
hmm. tell him that all the people you dated in the past died mysteriously and since then you decided not to date any guy again to avoid losing him.
I have watched this in a movie but it was true
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Coolgent(m): 6:58am On Aug 11, 2020
hitekk:
hmm. tell him that all the people you dated in the past died mysteriously and since then you decided not to date any guy again to avoid losing him.
Yea if he insist just date him and milk him dry
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Iseoluwani: 7:04am On Aug 11, 2020
hitekk:
hmm. tell him that all the people you dated in the past died mysteriously and since then you decided not to date any guy again to avoid losing him.

as good as the advice is, he will sack her because he will say that his business will go down because she get bad luck
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by chinchonglee(m): 7:18am On Aug 11, 2020
Sarang:


And this is your advice with 78 mumus supporting you?
Nigerian government didn’t mess up our country
Idiots like you and your likers did
If u like dnt go and trace the cause of ur poverty...
Be blaming me okay!

Poverty will descend on u
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 7:23am On Aug 11, 2020
Bewiseedet:
U go give her job
God will give her job
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 7:24am On Aug 11, 2020
Pimpmaride:


Shud I give u a call Cox I gst ur digit....
Jokes apart
have my digit all you can,i don't pick strange numbers
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Gordieshegz(m): 7:28am On Aug 11, 2020
hitekk:
hmm. tell him that all the people you dated in the past died mysteriously and since then you decided not to date any guy again to avoid losing him.


Siddon there...
An average randy and reckless man will take his chances and hope not to die..

A man that will doubt and want to check if a lady is truly menstruating and even want to have sex with her if she truly is on her period, wont believe this
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Nobody: 7:30am On Aug 11, 2020
Zzor:
have my digit all you can,i don't pick strange numbers

I'm nt strange... We are frnds na
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Gordieshegz(m): 7:39am On Aug 11, 2020
Fidelismaria:


your boss is a bloody simp

I mean wtf is wrong with some men

what happened to never mix business with pleasure

He's not very smart

dating him will greatly affect your performance

tell him to shove the salary increment up his ass


But wait is it a one man business?




All of this will matter to him if he truly cares about her. If he truly loves, he won't put her at an emotional crossroads.

No right and lovingman will issue a threat on a lady to force a relationship out of her.

Many men of his kind will only take an advantage of the op's hopelessness and sack her weeks after sexcapades with her.

Promotion won't happen, salary increase will never come through, that same sack she so much fears will come to pass as she will be more or less disgraced out of the job.

@op, please, count your cost very well before you embark on this journey. It is a very risky one with vivid outcome.

No doubt there are good bosses out there who are truly in love with their workers or subordinates and want to wife them, sadly, your boss doesnot appear like one of them.

If possible, tender in your signature before he sacks you.. Better chances will happen to you if you remain resolute and truthful to your course.

Stay strong and remain blessed!
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by Sarang(f): 7:40am On Aug 11, 2020
chinchonglee:

If u like dnt go and trace the cause of ur poverty...
Be blaming me okay!

Poverty will descend on u

Funny enough we are all poor
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by goshee: 7:42am On Aug 11, 2020
UDUJ:


Points to consider in your decision:

1. How long your job search was before getting the job
2. Do you enjoy your job and feel fulfilled in it
3. The type of person your boss is - is he one that never takes no for an answer or one that is considerate and can see reason with you
4. Is it a one man business and he is the owner? If not you can always complain to HR if the company has an HR department
5. Is your boss married? If he is then this is a NO NO
6. Is your boss unmarried?
7. Is your boss good looking and do you find him attractive?
8. Does your boss have an history of dating his employees? (you can ask questions to find out about this)
9. Are you ready for a fling (office romance)?

You see how I laid out these points. You need to think deep and make your decision. We cannot make this decision for you.
All these your questions are inconsequetial, is he the sole owner of the business, if yes date him and keep your job. Forget all these hypocrisies unless you can do without the job
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by chinchonglee(m): 7:43am On Aug 11, 2020
Sarang:


Funny enough we are all poor
Look for ur types... Not me and you
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by membranus: 7:46am On Aug 11, 2020
hitekk:
hmm. tell him that all the people you dated in the past died mysteriously and since then you decided not to date any guy again to avoid losing him.

"All died"?

Wow!!!

That's why I love Nairaland's Advisorial Service.

It's the best in the world, beating Twitter by a wide margin.
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by lonelydora: 7:52am On Aug 11, 2020
rasheedatt:
I am freaking out about this, My boss asked me out on a date which I think is innapropriate but I love my job and i was looking for a loooong time before i found it so I will be damned if i give up.

I was very kind and told him there is zero interest here so i wouldnt want to waste his time. He told me I should quit the job or accept him and he will increase my salary.

I told him to give me a week to think about it.

What should I do?

Is he your boss as in owner of the company? Or your direct line manager?

If he is the owner, make sure you record every of your conversation secretly. Have it as a prove and tell him you can't date him. If he threatens to sack you, let him know you will quit and go public with your evidence.

If he is your line manager, tell him you will report him to the management as sexual harassment.

As you plan this, start looking for job asap.
Re: My Boss Wants To Date Me. What Should I Do? by SirJerrie(m): 7:59am On Aug 11, 2020
If your "Boss" truely cared about you and wants to date you, he'll not threaten you with your job..
Your bus is a very stup1d man...
Na ashaw0 him be...
All he wants is your cookie jar...Your bus wan use you count scores

Plss don't give in to his pressure
As long as you didn't this job through Koni Koni ways, God wey give you the job go still provide another one for you...

Stand your ground

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