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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by Ishilove: 2:11am On Aug 13, 2020
Of course we will calculate how much we gave you, especially when you collected it as a loan and now trying to act smart by not repaying. Some of these men are unfortunate idiots.

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by Nobody: 2:49am On Aug 13, 2020
I have had a couple of nice girls do nice thigs for me without rubbing it in my face.. I believe u get what u give tho... Currently there's this girl that always does things for me at the slightest opportunity. She always comes through. Although i have done a lot for her in the past too while we were dating and i still do for her when i can. Now she has a new guy but she still carry my matter for head.. She's like my paddy rn. Sometimes i wonder what she's really up to.
I think girls who rub it in ur face are either too poor in spirit and monetary value or they're really not feeling u... but a lot will rub it in tho

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by bezimo(m): 3:03am On Aug 13, 2020
Oluromantic:
You just dey learn? You no know woman before?
When God said in the Bible that it's more blessed to give than receive.. He wasnt talking to everybody o. He was talking to men only cus He knows women don't have any idea about giving. All their own life is centered around receiving. They may carry the biggest Bible but that giving verse is not for them.

You cant be more correct. I am sure if they do a survey on who stingy pass on all girls frim different countries..9ja girls will take first..bunch of akagums.
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by Nobody: 3:17am On Aug 13, 2020
Ishilove:
Of course we will calculate how much we gave you, especially when you collected it as a loan and now trying to act smart by not repaying. Some of these men are unfortunate idiots.
The ones you collected on loans, have you paid back? Abi na puna pay am?

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by SeekHim: 3:32am On Aug 13, 2020
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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by mylander(m): 3:38am On Aug 13, 2020
frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo


No difference from what we have been saying nah.
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by cococandy(f): 3:43am On Aug 13, 2020
ignoreme:


They don't think you owe them your body. They just think they are being exploited.
It's not romance if you can't share your body. If you can't share your body, atleast share your money.
Only one party cannot be sharing indefinitely. That is a scam.
There is love in sharing.

That’s your way of justifying it
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by geewean(m): 4:03am On Aug 13, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Women are like the devil
They will give you with one hand and take back from you with double hands


But it was a woman that gave birth to u.Its a woman that's your mother.Becareful how u throw stones in the market Kos it may hit one of your own.

Recieve sense
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by knowhowk: 4:08am On Aug 13, 2020
engrchykae:
as in "upon everything I did for you"
I gave you my body,as if men didn't give sperm
. grin grin grin Men are getting wiser Everyday ...
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by knowhowk: 4:09am On Aug 13, 2020
geewean:



But it was a woman that gave birth to u.Its a woman that's your mother.Becareful how u throw stones in the market Kos it may hit one of your own.

Recieve sense
No it should have be men that should be given birth ...Which Yeye stone is that ? I was even a man is a mother thanks for reminding me ...
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by alllivesmatter(m): 4:11am On Aug 13, 2020
frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo

Your theory is definitely faulty. You said "A woman". It would have made sense if you said "some women". Don't drag the female folk into your ideology & principles please. Speak for yourself...or Speak for "Some Women".

Dont make it seem as if it's completely wrong or skewed for a woman or girl to give out money to ANYONE (especially guys) wether as an assist or out of goodwill.

Please...speak for yourself. Thank you.
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by Eniolakiite(f): 4:12am On Aug 13, 2020
I'm good

Oluromantic:

Eniola how are you?
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by Ategberoson(m): 4:16am On Aug 13, 2020
this is like a mixed feelings to me because the good one I met surpasses the bad one I met. I have done a lot of sacrifices both morally, psychologically and financially for a lady very well


If a lady help me with cash and she's referring to it, so far the money meet my target at that moment, all her reference hold no water in my side, I can't be fúcking you and you expect me to be shivering or worried over unnecessary things


I actually give no damn and I won't returned shishi like those Sissy crying up there. if I'm giving, you've to reciprocate when I need you

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by alllivesmatter(m): 4:16am On Aug 13, 2020
Elder0001:


Did you reason before posting this trash?


grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by alllivesmatter(m): 4:20am On Aug 13, 2020
Withambition:
But she can take my penis and take my money?

Ask her Brother...Brother ASK her....Oliver Twist People
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by alllivesmatter(m): 4:22am On Aug 13, 2020
dalass:


I don't know the hype guys are putting into this matter... So listen up everyone..

When you tell a woman: borrow me such an amount.... Its borrowed simple!



Even if she shyly declines repayment.. In her record, Its still borrowed! So pay up as promised .

So if you want money and your lady has, ask don't say borrow me... But in your sly mind hope she won't ask for it. Nooo freaking way! grin

Same way they'll request us to borrow them some money and when we do....They flare up like a Gas cylinder IF we request for the money we lent out.

Oh...I just remembered..they expect us to let go shaaa...na guys we be....we're guys!!!!

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by alllivesmatter(m): 4:26am On Aug 13, 2020
Bellotelli:
My ex once borrowed me 50k out of her own volition to complete my rent and I promised to pay her by month end. Can you believe after a week she requested for her money because we had a little misunderstanding.thank God I had someone handy to borrow me so that I could pay her. I learnt my lesson since then.

out of her own volition oooo. The females arguing Ugandan here will not see this. The rule is simple. As much as possible...Avoid by all means and all cost, Avoid REQUESTING financial assistance from girls & some women lol....


I'm saying that based on the reasoning that girls are different from women shaaa...
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by alllivesmatter(m): 4:34am On Aug 13, 2020
Ikjosh04:


Trash!!

Read what you wrote and be honest with yourself, when your sons are due for marriage and bring home a lady to you and the girl spit out this thrash from her filthy mouth, will you accept the girl as a wife material for your son?

most Nigeria females don't reason with their brain when it comes to relationship with the opposite sex. They're parasitic in nature.

Spot on
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by ignoreme: 4:37am On Aug 13, 2020
cococandy:


That’s your way of justifying it

I'm not justifying anything. It is what it is.
I'm not even complaining. I have accepted you are selfish beings.

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by miniming: 4:38am On Aug 13, 2020
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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by alllivesmatter(m): 4:41am On Aug 13, 2020
SweetyMarvel00:
I am not unfamiliar with this. I was staying with my bro in Lagos when Nigeria was under recession. He shared a story with me about his doctor friend, whose father was sacked. After few weeks, the wife, who has been the one catering for the family, since the lost the job, started coursing the man, how lazy and irresponsible he was. This is a man that has trained a successful doctor.

The man shed a lot of tears that day and vowed to die hungry, if the provision is from his wife. The man started deterioting in health. The son came over to the house and expressed his disappointment at his mum.

The son gave his dad some BP drugs and 100k immediately and asked dad to always call him anything he needs assistance. The woman was left with the selfishness of eating her money alone.

The marriage never remained the same. The man started cooking his own food, sleeping in different room.

What was painting the man was that this was the first time he would be needing financial assistance from his wife in marriage of almost 30 years and yet the woman couldn't endure with him in the trying times.

It is selfish ladies who have made monies their god that do this... ladies who place value or currency better than anything. Narrow minded entitled girls who have refused to see that giving is a two-way thing.

God bless you my Brother. This is a case of wife & Husband. That's the mentality they went into marriage with. God help me...God help our young & hardworking men out there.

Can anyone imagine a wife of over thirty years would behave like this towards her very own husband
God help me ooooo. God help us!!!!!!

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by causimalbarka(m): 4:43am On Aug 13, 2020
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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by Coldfeets: 4:45am On Aug 13, 2020
Bankalert:
even your mother will remind you of how she carried you in her tummy for nine months yen yen yen.

When it comes to women and money, just forget it... The best of them can fail that test.

Is she lying?

Didn't she carry me for good 9 months?

Abeg leave story joor... she deserves that accolade.

Better my mother reminds me of such favours than one bitch coming out from nowhere to tell me that she helped me build my dreams and as such, I owe the rest of my life to her!
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by alllivesmatter(m): 4:46am On Aug 13, 2020
rubyjan:
cheesy

You guys are so funny. Well mine is if you borrow money from a woman, remember the emphasis is on borrow, kindly repay when you promised.

This is different from minor helps here and there. A certain friend of mine borrowed N400k to a friend of hers who she thought she was in a serious relationship with. This guy had an accident with his car and needed to fix it up and sell it and return the money borrowed. At least that was the story he sold to her cos they live in different states which is far from each other.

Well long story short, he returned half of money and refused to return the rest after close to 2 years reciting one story after another and mind you during this time, he has withdrawn emotionally from her. No calls and few unemotional chats here and there. If you were in her shoes ,what will you do?

Most of the guys talking do not say the whole truth most of the times about their dealings with women ,so don't just jump and conclude what you don't know about.

What the Guy did was totally wrong and I condemn same. However, this happens both ways...

Had it been the tables were turned, some women or girls ( as the case maybe) wouldn't even consider refunding a kobo and they'd be justified that they haven't committed any crime at all in as much as that money came from a guy.

That being said...I think there's a reason we all have what we've come to recognise as conscience. Everyone has it.
It's just that some people deliberately choose not to hear it whenever it speaks and that makes a case for an individual's action(s).

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by alllivesmatter(m): 4:50am On Aug 13, 2020
Yankee101:
I think every man should test the woman he wants to marry financially

If she can't give and you know for sure she has, save yourself the trouble

Confirm she has, pretend you're suddenly broke, ask for her help. Keep the money for relatively long. Push it like 3 times. If she passes open your wallet for her expressly let her enjoy your kingdom. Of course don't take advantage of her.
The original purpose of a wife is a help meet. Meaning someone who can compliment you. You're the provider. No question. But she's there for you if you need her. Either by saving from the excess you give her for rainy days or working and bringing to the table once in a while

words of wisdom my Brother. Words of wisdom. I just got to hear of a story where a very beautiful lady moved out of her matrimonial home because the husband wasn't dishing out cash the way He did when He was courting her. That's what I heard, I don't know if there's more to that story...I don't know at all.

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by timisquare82(m): 4:55am On Aug 13, 2020
Men no dey calculate?

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by King123456: 4:58am On Aug 13, 2020
This post is not funny or an attack on women. Men stop accepting help from so called babes. If collecting money from women is your calling then collect from female family members. A girl whom I took care started earning better while I lost my job. She started to assist me every now and then. Brothers, the disrespect rose so high to a stage of me migrating from main boyfriend to side guy. I could no longer control or ask her to stay away from any guy I felt she was getting too close.

The story would be told in full soon. Hustle make woman no turn you to insult bag. H U S T L E

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by alllivesmatter(m): 5:03am On Aug 13, 2020
King123456:
This post is not funny or an attack on women. Men stop accepting help from so called babes. If collecting money from women is your calling then collect from female family members. A girl whom I took care started earning better while I lost my job. She started to assist me every now and then. Brothers, the disrespect rose so high to a stage of me migrating from main boyfriend to side guy. I could no longer control or ask her to stay away from any guy I felt she was getting too close.

The story would be told in full soon. Hustle make woman no turn you to insult bag. H U S T L E

I'm very sorry about what you went through Sir. QUITE sorry. But on a general note...That's how most girls/women are. God will give us the grace to overcome. There're still good & angelic ones out there...May God help us locate them.

One can only imagine.... One can only Imagine.

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by Edusouls(m): 5:13am On Aug 13, 2020
Eating a woman’s money is like eating a devils thing, you continue to pay for it till there is nothing left of you..

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Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by Willdone5406: 5:18am On Aug 13, 2020
Honduras01:


it takes a lot of patience, surely sense will come ur way one day!
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin u are savage king
Re: Women Are Very Calculative, Don't Accept Financial Assistance From Them by Oluromantic: 5:22am On Aug 13, 2020
frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo
But when men borrow you money and starts asking when it's time to pay, you'll start being sentimental.

You don't know what it means to give at all

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