I can't stop laughing here. You really said the right word here.

frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, Haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo

Is it not better for both men and women to that same game. "Borrow & Pay"
.The relationship will be mature and equal

starbuck:
You attract your kind... Your circles matters, so stop labelling all my gender bad




I don't do that anyway

shutupuu you attract wish kind?
All women that made a big deal of helping their men has got something to do with their circle of friends? or the men they do it to, do they also make a big deal out of rendering help or announcing it on BBC because that "you attract your kind" does not make one bit of sense in this issue...just imagine

Fact

Yes one out of thousand.

[quote author=kalvoken post=92753488] I know some women in most cases can be so annoying, but that doesn't call for anyone to be using demeaning words on them. Remember, when you say women, you are referring to both parents, sisters and daughters.

I wonder if anyone in his right sense would call his sister, mother, or daughter, A VAGINA PERSON. Not after you had lucked the Vagina on your way to this world, some are still licking sef.


Back to the topic. This is truly common among ladies, and even guys too.

Some would help you just to cage you. If you dear escape, you would be the talk of town. After all that I had done for you.
So, it's not just limited to women [quote]lol..ita not just girlfriend or wife, its general for all women including ur mum, have u had any issue with ur mum?, only for her to remind on how she was sending u monry when u were in school..lol wey be say na 2k or 4k for 2 weeks thwm go send person that time, na as guy man person go hustle for school to find means survive...mum go nag like say na stranger she been send the meagre money, cos of any small issue wey later commot..abeg its typical women nature to record any financial deed they do for u, and its kinda cute and funny lol..just try and adapt to it, to see the girlfriend alone wey go give u,let alone complain,na big testimony o

BiggyB242:


They will rather sleep with you than render financial help. If your Nigerian babe help you with cash she knows you can't pay at the moment just know she is truly in love with you.

You are right.

Pûssy is nothing to women and they know it's a big deal for a high number of men. So, they use it to advantage by dishing it out in place of cash and pretend to men like it is something serious

I've seen some foolish men here advocate that women that they are in relationship with, shouldn't be asked for money. Women often act entitled and get bored when men have to do all without allowing her bring something of interest to the table. Women, are more serious with relationships when they commit resources. Not the other way round.

frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo

YOU JUST SUCCEDED TO SCARE ME MORE. I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS IS COMING FROM WOMAN. I AM SORRY FOR YOUR HUSBAND. JUST IMAGINE YOUR HUSBAND HAS THESE BEHAVIOUR YOU LISTED ABOVE. CHAI....

I tend to disagree little with the topic because if you don't have money to execute a project or you are in dire situation how will you go about it? Well some dude will rather not ask assistance from a Lady because of the insult attached to it. But some careless guys will accept the money and insult. But the bitter truth is if you should collect money from your Bea be ready for the insult attached to it.

dalass:


I don't know the hype guys are putting into this matter... So listen up everyone..

When you tell a woman: borrow me such an amount.... Its borrowed simple!



Even if she shyly declines repayment.. In her record, Its still borrowed! So pay up as promised .

So if you want money and your lady has, ask don't say borrow me... But in your sly mind hope she won't ask for it. Nooo freaking way!

Fear catch me. I am still not sure if women uses brain to think. It's has to be something else.

ignoreme:


But women have vagina and they are people.

.. Actually, I can't help you.

Assssh oooh aaaah harrrrder!!!

Joshmanuel10:
Moral lesson if u not planning on getting married don't date just Bleep a prostitute, don't let stress kill u, this world is stressful to now enter debt with woman is death

Borrow but have money to pay back... I think

only fools who have no destiny will hearken to this advice

kalvoken:

.. Actually, I can't help you.

Of course. You can't even help yourself.

frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo

n

but men can give money,heart and love abi? this life no balance

Larrywizzy423:
Even when your mother want to help you make sure you reject too oh, since our moms are also women too

Yes our mums are women too and they can exhibit that behaviour to their husband's or son. Mum that will remind you of how she paid 3k for your jamb that made u gain admission, remind u of how u gave her only 1k out of your 18k salary, remind you of how she assisted u while sick and finally how carried you for 9 months and breastfed you for 2 years.... Please I will never ask help nor receive help from any woman including my mother or sisters Thank you... it doest matter they still have the generic feminine nature

The new trend for Nigerians girls now is I don't have transport fare. when they are coming to your house you have to pay for To and Fro for them, they will never want to use their money for tp, although not all of them

@ frozen70,

The dude reported that she rejected his offer to pay back the 1000Rand on a later date. But understanding the makeup of women (abi some women), he kept aside 1000Rand in the event that she request for it.

And she did not disappoint.


Did you also read where another guy reported that he collected 200Rand for Uber because he didn't have cash on him at the time. The following day, he handed 1000Rand to her to stock up her collection (probably food/non food items). Same lady had the nerve to ask for the 200Rand she gave him the previous day.

Haba!

frozen70:


They are feasting on this post as if she shouldn't talk about what she regarded as borrowed

Let them maintain their lane, simple

What if he as for it will u give?

Ishilove:
Of course we will calculate how much we gave you, especially when you collected it as a loan and now trying to act smart by not repaying. Some of these men are unfortunate idiots.

You ladies don't even give us money if we don't mention the word "borrow".

Every time you collect money from women, be expecting an insult to go with it. It's like buy one get one free.

frozen70:


I never knew you still keep broken mirror to see your reflections

You are not smart at all.

frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo

Hmmm... This is deep.

Truly women doesn't love.

frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo

Dont ever give any man any money, if he is an idiot he wont pay back, speaking from experience. 80% of nigerian men are leeches.

Stallion93:
I want sugar mummy

U wan get jedi jedi

Nicepoker:
You are not smart at all.

she lacks smartness on every lobe

Nothing calculative here. That's like a child who continues to drag and embarrasse his parents because of the N200 he gave them which they even used to buy food they all ate together.

Lovelypet28:
Dont ever give any man any money, if he is an idiot he wont pay back, speaking from experience. 80% of nigerian men are leeches.

.

99.99999% of Nigerian ladies are ticks, zero brain, zero nothing to offer

frozen70:
You guys are getting it wrong pls

When a woman gives you money, it's a borrowed money because its necessary at that time for you

She does that because you needed it and out of nothing she has to do that because she doesn't want you to be in distress

But bear in mind that you are with her money and don't ever think she has forgotten it

As a matter of fact, a woman keeps more of financial records than abuse records

Just respect yourself through out that period she gives it to you

She also believes that she can't give you her heart and gives you her money, no naw, haba!!!

Any day you frustrate her, she will remind you of every kobo

I don't normally qoute female monikers on nairaland, but just want to ask this question.

What do you mean buy a lady giving her heart?

paulolee:
it seems thats happening in S.A because our naija girls would never have any cash to help u with in the first place...they spend soo much money on thierself bt always complaining being broke whenever you ask for help..
was with a bea last year that was working and earning nice cash, asked her to lend me 10k to add to mine so i use to pay bills for an interview in another state that i budgetted 40k because i planned stayin a week, days letter she miraculously gave me 5k maybe because of the fasting and prayer i did and GOD touched her stonned heart..
went and the interview didnt work as planned but i meet an old Friend in the same hotel dt jus came back from u.k and he transferred 100k to use as t.p bk to my state and to offset bills, only for me to return and the idiot girl was accusing me of cheating on her with her own money because i stayed longer than planned..
I explained to her what happened, then transferred 10k to her and told her dt i dnt wana ever see her wicked face again in my life..
my perception for girls changed from then up till now..

Cheating on her with 5k, that girl really finish you.

extol1:
Deborah98, can this be true?

lolzzzzz maybe oooo

AfroKnight:


If some babes dash you 1K, you don enter be dat.

One day you will hear news that she’s the one who made you who you are today.

Hahaha so true