Zzor:
Will you die if you don't have sex again?

Dayoebe:
in everything you do, don't be a simp

My advice for you is to try Surrogacy.
you will cough out Money but it worth it

dangermouse:
U have options bro. U can go on family planning. This will enable u to still be having sex with her without pregnancy occuring. I think this is ur major problem. U can still learn to discipline urself and practice withdrawal method during sex. Secondly, u can adopt as many babies as u whsh, if more babies are ur problem. I cant advice u to get a mistress or marry another woman, it will surely make u stray from her.

akpunda86:

You already have two of your own kids by blood.
Dangermouse if i love adoption we would have since but is my blood i need.im not against adoption but my lineage matters

EVILFOREST:

ADOPT additional 2 if you really need 4.
Walk down to an ORPHANAGE and ADOPT 2 KIDS..
I guess that makes sense.
Or Go to your VILLAGE and ADOPT 2 ORPHANS.
Train them as yours.
By doing that you have empowered the Living.
You have done a great service to humanity.

kodded:
if you sincerely love her then you should accept the fact that you will not have a child again...



...I don't think your marriage will be a happy one if you decide to sleep with other women just because your wife can't put to birth again.

Zzor:
Will you die if you don't have sex again?

akpunda86:

I nvr said cant put to bed but i daid she no want again

akpunda86:
Hi fellas. Getting a second wife no big deal for me but wat happens when im gone.I thank God for my two beautiful kids but is four i planned.

Im planning renting a new apartment once i see a matured lady but is painful to me.

akpunda86:
Hi fellas.To God be the glory.ladies need ur input.The rich also cry.I got married in 2008.was full of life married a young lady of 25 as we believe fertility increases wit young age.well along d lines my wife always took in but miscarriages occur.Ten miscarriages.Infact Lagos gynas are crooks.one of the reasons we moved to Enugu.
In Enugu we met a popular gyna.who adviced once she takes in she come.As God want it my wife was admitted on third month of marriage baby born on seventh month.placed in incubator.My bills was in millions but as God want it a way opened and all debts paid.

Our second kid came two years later at full trimister.

So as we want anoda kid but not now but i always ask my wife when safe to have sex and she gave me green light.Kasa burst she took in again.i was in site and she called me by 2am.i was scared cos tut robbers came.
Said having pains.told her go hospital nxt day.went and after scan doc said ectopic pregnancy so cs operation initiated.

So right now we all fine but my wife said she z is not having children again that im free to go outside meet any woman but for her is done.

It pained me i was weak.im tired thats why i need advices here.
Infact touching her from now im scared as we have spent heavily in dis hospital.

Getting a second wife no big deal for me but wat happens when im gone.I thank God for my two beautiful kids but is four i planned.

Im planning renting a new apartment once i see a matured lady but is painful to me.

guy1234:
You are a very wicked person. You have 2 kids and you are not content. What if your wife loses her life in the process of having another child. Who told you that you yourself can't die tomorrow. Who told you that the money you think you have today to take care of a large family can disappear tomorrow?

Foolish man

akpunda86:

I nvr said cant put to bed but i daid she no want again

akpunda86:


Your rit but no sex.im married still using condoms.everyday.ha guy.

guy1234:
You are a very wicked person. You have 2 kids and you are not content. What if your wife loses her life in the process of having another child. Who told you that you yourself can't die tomorrow. Who told you that the money you think you have today to take care of a large family can disappear tomorrow?

Foolish man

lightangel65i:


Yes men of God have learnt to tame that urge with Gods grace, you think its so easy cause you are a lady it takes determination
Not everyone has that, you won't understand, women have little or no urges

ItrendNaija:
Wetin carry me.enter this thread? Nonsense!
OP if you don't have anyone to tell you, let me tell you that you're foolish and you don't deserve that woman that gave you 2 kids.

You want to marry another woman because it's 4 kids you want. She told you to go out and meet other women and you think she meant it? She's just disappointed in your selfish and and inconsiderate self!!!

akpunda86:
Hi fellas.To God be the glory.ladies need ur input.The rich also cry.I got married in 2008.was full of life married a young lady of 25 as we believe fertility increases wit young age.well along d lines my wife always took in but miscarriages occur.Ten miscarriages.Infact Lagos gynas are crooks.one of the reasons we moved to Enugu.
In Enugu we met a popular gyna.who adviced once she takes in she come.As God want it my wife was admitted on third month of marriage baby born on seventh month.placed in incubator.My bills was in millions but as God want it a way opened and all debts paid.

Our second kid came two years later at full trimister.

So as we want anoda kid but not now but i always ask my wife when safe to have sex and she gave me green light.Kasa burst she took in again.i was in site and she called me by 2am.i was scared cos tut robbers came.
Said having pains.told her go hospital nxt day.went and after scan doc said ectopic pregnancy so cs operation initiated.

So right now we all fine but my wife said she z is not having children again that im free to go outside meet any woman but for her is done.

It pained me i was weak.im tired thats why i need advices here.
Infact touching her from now im scared as we have spent heavily in dis hospital.

Getting a second wife no big deal for me but wat happens when im gone.I thank God for my two beautiful kids but is four i planned.

Im planning renting a new apartment once i see a matured lady but is painful to me.

livgenius:
Lots of different options here:
For your wife, there are various contraceptive options to make sure she doesn't get pregnant again: implant, IUD, IUS, pills, injections.
If you want more children then use a surrogate. Sperm from you, egg from your wife, implanted in another woman to carry. Still your child

Chii59:

Ignorant comment. Whoever told you that women don't have urges? No wonder you lots are so selfish because you think you're the only ones whose sexual needs must be fulfilled at all costs.

akpunda86:
Getting a second wife no big deal for me but wat happens when im gone.I thank God for my two beautiful kids but is four i planned.

Im planning renting a new apartment once i see a matured lady but is painful to me.

Zzor:
Will you die if you don't have sex again?