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What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by gnykelly(op): 1:40pm On Aug 14, 2020

I have been trying to start a meaningful relationship for quite a while. kept bumping into these recurring case of single mom.

I don't want to go down the aisle with extra content by the side.

though they may have good character but. it still doesn't cut it for me.

what could have gone wrong as a society to produce a huge batch of single mom with so many irresponsible fathers.

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by kalu61(m): 2:23pm On Aug 14, 2020

gnykelly:
I have been trying to start a meaningful relationship for quite a while. kept bumping into these recurring case of single mom.

I don't want to go down the aisle with extra content by the side.

though they may have good character but. it still doesn't cut it for me.

what could have gone wrong as a society to produce a huge batch of single mom with so many irresponsible fathers.

Na only God fit answer this question

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by Nephilim: 2:33pm On Aug 14, 2020*

gnykelly:
I have been trying to start a meaningful relationship for quite a while. kept bumping into these recurring case of single mom.

I don't want to go down the aisle with extra content by the side.

though they may have good character but. it still doesn't cut it for me.

what could have gone wrong as a society to produce a huge batch of single mom with so many irresponsible fathers.

youths are becoming more irresponsible with sex these days and that's the cause. Normally there should be no sex till marriage, and if marriage is not in view there should be no pregnancy either even if you gonna do sex.
Sex responsibly! Being a single parent depreciate your market value in the relationship market, we still have thousands of singles still praying for husband and they could be well considered for marriage since both are starting fresh with no extra luggage compared to baby mamas. Sex responsibly!

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by play5050: 2:43pm On Aug 14, 2020

We The Men Love Raw Sex Like Food

The Result Of Raw Sex Is What We Dnt Want Or Plan For.
The Ladies Sometime Think, Getting Pregnant Is An Assurance Of Marriage.

Some Are Afriad Of Abortion
I Can Remember Back In 2015, I Was Just 20 That Time, I Meet One Fine Black Jos Babe At Bukuru Market Jos, Something Lead To Something We Started Dating, She Was Just 16 But Big Like She Is 23.

I Told Her My Dream And Plans, Babe Just Fall For Me, She Set Me Up And Intentionally Get Pregnant For Me

2015 Was A Hell For Me But I Have To Relocate From Jos, I Thank God The Baby Boy Is Okay And Strong Like His Father.

And For The Babe, She Is A Single Mother Now And I Dnt Add Her In My Plan For The Next 5years To Come But If She Can Wait Then We Are Good To Go.

#babymama_is_not_assurance_for_marriage

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by paulolee(m): 3:33pm On Aug 14, 2020

failure to differentiate the real meaning of getting married and staying married....

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by Tajbol4splend(m): 3:58pm On Aug 14, 2020

Casual sex, wrong marriage, pregnancy from rape.

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by fataisulaiman: 4:40pm On Aug 14, 2020

"Westernization" of the Nigerian culture. All the follow follow I must do what is being shown on western tv, the pronounced immorality that our youth celebrate everyday.

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by Zabiboy: 4:40pm On Aug 14, 2020

gnykelly:
I have been trying to start a meaningful relationship for quite a while. kept bumping into these recurring case of single mom.

I don't want to go down the aisle with extra content by the side.

though they may have good character but. it still doesn't cut it for me.

what could have gone wrong as a society to produce a huge batch of single mom with so many irresponsible fathers.

SMH @ bolded ....
So the cause of the high rate is now irresponsible fathers... Then the ladies that opened their legs are responsible...
It baffles me how some guys think..

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by BlackBullXXX(m): 5:04pm On Aug 14, 2020

That's the trend this days. Our society is slowly decaying.

Hot and lonely ladies should DM me. Got a package for them. cool

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by lightangel65i(m): 6:08pm On Aug 14, 2020

Some are single moms cause the guy give them belle run

Next is thecase of useless and abusive husbands

Third is a case of lesbian moms

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by frozen70(f): 3:10am On Aug 15, 2020

gnykelly:
I have been trying to start a meaningful relationship for quite a while. kept bumping into these recurring case of single mom.

I don't want to go down the aisle with extra content by the side.

though they may have good character but. it still doesn't cut it for me.

what could have gone wrong as a society to produce a huge batch of single mom with so many irresponsible fathers.

It's because they refuse to use condom, that's the simple fact

But the major problem is that they don't want to carry responsibilities yet the want to enjoy what married couples are doing

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by ibkonekt(m): 3:41am On Aug 15, 2020

because women are whores by nature and men are dogs by nature. a society that removes accountability from sexual acts will always yield this results

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by Authoreety: 3:56am On Aug 15, 2020

Women are now turning out into something else, guys are scared of settling down with these women.

Some guys are actually irresponsible

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by CaveAdullam: 7:13am On Aug 15, 2020*

No value for traditional and cultural values. Many are given a chance to claim victims for the crime they commit. No accountability. No shame.

Our elders, has also become reticent. The church and religious house don't care. The family don't care. The government don't care as they even provide incentives for many immoral acts.

There is need to go back to the shaming culture of the past. No more rationalizing stupidity, evil and mediocrity concurrently.

Shame bitches, hoes and thugs, that they might see what is good and probably change. Although total change is not possible, but at least it will go a long way in upholding our society and progress in civilization.

Thanks.

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by ibkonekt(m): 11:48pm On Sep 12, 2020

answer : feminism

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by Tajbol4splend(m): 2:52am On Sep 13, 2020

How many women have husband at home today, they are not uncountable

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by Ibechris2: 4:24am On Sep 13, 2020

Sadly,single parents is the new normal in our society,in fact every lady wants to test that which have been reserved and preserved by nature through God.

Can't imagine almost every Nigerian Musicians have baby mamas.
This goes a long way to depreciate the values of our African women.

It has been estimated that 2 in 10 women who are single parent gets married while the remaining may continue to remain single parents till their old age.

Causes of single parents are:
1, poverty.
2, Multiple sex related relationships.
3,Divorce.
4, Feminism.
5, Greed.
6. Defective family upbringing.
7. Age consciousness
8, advancement in medical technology such as I.V.F and finally,
8.Uncontrolled Libido.

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by Tunagee(m): 10:51am On Sep 13, 2020

Ibechris2:
Sadly,single parents is the new normal in our society,in fact every lady wants to test that which have been reserved and preserved by nature through God.

Can't imagine almost every Nigerian Musicians have baby mamas.
This goes a long way to depreciate the values of our African women.

It has been estimated that 2 in 10 women who are single parent gets married while the remaining may continue to remain single parents till their old age.

Causes of single parents are:
1, poverty.
2, Multiple sex related relationships.
3,Divorce.
4, Feminism.
5, Greed.
6. Defective family upbringing.
7. Age consciousness
8, advancement in medical technology such as I.V.F and finally,
8.Uncontrolled Libido.

You nailed it. Exactly

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by JONNYSPUTE(m): 10:58am On Sep 13, 2020

Zabiboy:

SMH @ bolded ....
So the cause of the high rate is now irresponsible fathers... Then the ladies that opened their legs are responsible...
It baffles me how some guys think..

....Was about quoting him when I saw your reply.

When we call some of them (guys) names here,some people don't get to understand why.

His mindset is something else.

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by gnykelly(op): 5:41pm On Sep 15, 2020

JONNYSPUTE:
....Was about quoting him when I saw your reply.

When we call some of them (guys) names here,some people don't get to understand why.

His mindset is something else.

don't you think it is wrong entrusting your own child to your divorce partner or do you think everything is about being a red piller

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by johnkey: 6:33pm On Sep 15, 2020

naija babes of our generation aren't worth putting in the house to take care of for life. just impregnate one and collect your child after breastfeed stage, they aren't worth one iota of pity anymore. hoes with numerous body counts na that one I go come put for house? over my dead body

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by BlackfireX: 6:37pm On Sep 15, 2020

BBNaija ... Yes that is the cause..

Buhari.. Gbese upon gbese and kangaroo economic policies

Village people.... Hmmmm

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by uthlaw: 6:50pm On Sep 15, 2020

frozen70:
It's because they refuse to use condom, that's the simple fact

But the major problem is that they don't want to carry responsibilities yet the want to enjoy what married couples are doing

and the ladies continue to open legs....who are you blaming?

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by kurupt1: 6:55pm On Sep 15, 2020

Why una dey worry una sef....these women will cry Las las grin

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by essentialone1: 11:07am On Jan 24, 2025

In real life, most single mothers are extremely rude, wicked, and aggressive.

Anyway, that is shy they became single mothers in the first place.

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by Exceed15: 11:42am On Jan 24, 2025

Broken homes.

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by 66ungs(m): 11:48am On Jan 24, 2025

answer: SAPA

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by TheBreastSucker(m): 12:35pm On Jan 24, 2025

Is it not men that are getting them pregnant?

This is the reason why I only suck breasts grin

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by TheBreastSucker(m): 12:36pm On Jan 24, 2025

essentialone1:
In real life, most single mothers are extremely rude, wicked, and aggressive.

Anyway, that is shy they became single mothers in the first place.

Stop spreading these lies all over the place

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Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by essentialone1: 1:21pm On Jan 24, 2025

TheBreastSucker:
Stop spreading these lies all over the place

It is the truth. Stop imagining their breasts inside your mouth, then stand neutral, and re-observe them.

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by ItisWell22(f): 1:41pm On Jan 24, 2025

fataisulaiman:
"Westernization" of the Nigerian culture. All the follow follow I must do what is being shown on western tv, the pronounced immorality that our youth celebrate everyday.

Exactly.
Westernization 😢
Because “our leaders” from saner climes do it, so it’s okay.

It’s not okay.

Even when sin becomes norm and we all do it, it’s still sin…

Except for the victims of rape.

Like someone mentioned above already, if you must have sex, do it responsibly.

Re: What Is The Cause Of High Number Of Single Parent In Nigeria by Kobojunkie: 7:08pm On Jan 24, 2025

gnykelly:
➜I have been trying to start a meaningful relationship for quite a while. kept bumping into these recurring case of single mom. I don't want to go down the aisle with extra content by the side. though they may have good character but. it still doesn't cut it for me. what could have gone wrong as a society to produce a huge batch of single mom with so many irresponsible fathers.

Well, blame the irresponsible fathers who would rather drop their seed and run away from the commitment that ought to follow. 😏

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