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Is that the same with most people?

I have been nonchalant in my behaviour towards others, I treat some people very badly with the mentality that (if I have more friends and allys, why not 1 or 2 enemies?)

I fought with my roommate last year and I called him names and began to spread rumours about him to people. I lacked forgiveness and also empathy, I locked my heart towards him and it is something I am really sorry for and this taught me to change my attitude towards people.

How do you treat people?
Do people learn life lessons off your treatment towards them?

Life is easier when you use the principles of "Do what to others what you'll like to be done to You" Put yourself in the person's shoes before any decision.

And Yes, people do learn life lessons with the way another individual or persons treats them and in the worst scenarios, that may be the last straw on the camel's back! Turning them into bad people automatically. Me for example, I always say, "don't do anything to me in the hopes that you'll apologize later cos i may not forgive you" but i also believe people can change.

I hope you do apologise to that your roomie and truly change that behavior cos making enemies for yourself is not fun at all.

HuntSon:
Life is easier when you use the principles of "Do what to others what you'll like to be done to You" Put yourself in the person's shoes before any decision.

And Yes, people do learn life lessons with the way another individual or persons treats them and in the worst scenarios, that may be the last straw on the camel's back! Turning them into bad people automatically. Me for example, I always say, "don't do anything to me in the hopes that you'll apologize later cos i may not forgive you"

I hope you do apologise to that your roomie and truly change that behavior cos making enemies for yourself is not fun at all.

thanks for replying.

What I did was that I locked my heart to my roommate for over 5 weeks because he refused to sweep for a semester (but he swept the next semester).

To make him pay for what he did, I was playing my music at high volume even with his visitors there, I even called him "fàggot" and threatened to kill him and I began telling people in the hostel he was a homosexual (even when I am not heterosexual myself).

I went too far in my actions. I put him thru so much pain that he left he room at the end of the 5 weeks, I just locked my heart and refused to make any compromise

I dont know why I did what I did as that was extreme wickedness, I apologised to him and promised myself to never bring anyone down in life, and make sure no one learns life lessons from me.

I should have chosen the easier route of peace but I chose to be otherwise

I am sorry Mr Tobi (my roommate last year)

Durentt:
thanks for replying.

What I did was that I locked my heart to my roommate for over 5 weeks because he refused to sweep for a semester (but he swept the next semester).

To make him pay for what he did, I was playing my music at high volume even with his visitors there, I even called him "fàggot" and threatened to kill him and I began telling people in the hostel he was a homosexual (even when I am not heterosexual myself).

I went too far in my actions. I put him thru so much pain that he left he room at the end of the 5 weeks, I just locked my heart and refused to make any compromise

I dont know why I did what I did as that was extreme wickedness, I apologised to him and promised myself to never bring anyone down in life, and make sure no one learns life lessons from me.

I should have chosen the easier route of peace but I chose to be otherwise

I am sorry Mr Tobi (my roommate last year)

Woah! That's really something wild. Find a way and get to him so you can apologize too. Glad for the change

Huntson and durennt are good people.

segunzik:
Hu.ntson and durennt are one and the same person.

ok

Durentt:
ok

You know it's true.