Tocynone:
I believe everyone has their own challenges.
She may be going through a lot without informing you.
Just give her more time

TransAtlanticEx:
Man weh no get money must suffer for women hand,na their way...Whether sister,girlfriend or whatever except mothers,in my own case atleast.
Nwanne belu e belu,when hustle pay e go dey call you for phone dey pass phone to her children make them rapport with their uncle.
That time bone her,her bastard children and the damn husband,if she will ever have any.
Na so them dey run this kind matters.
Welcome to the world of suffering bro,enjoy it and dont let it weigh you down.
Goodluck.

Ugaboy:
you have to live your life without her, make sure u build a life in such that she wont resist to get reach you.
look i started with with you & ended you, cus only you can do it better, she owe you nothing.

Righteousness89:
This is where you Consult My DADDY who Has the Heart of Man in His Hands..

Be the Instrument that God will use to bring your Family together..

It's Very Important that we Know God and Surrender to JESUS, not Just in Mouth but indeed..

When there is a Problem we stand in the Gap to pray.

Problems like this goes on for long when there is no one to Stand in the Gap in Prayers..

etrange:


Everything is an opportunity for you people to bash women. A lot of elder sisters are the bread winners of their families out there in the absence of their parents but once there's a bad story involving a lady, you guys collectively call them out. You think men would have been any better if all the crimes, rape stories, etc we see on the front page everyday are used to collectively bash the masculine gender? You make exception for mothers as if the girlfriends, sisters and wives aren't the same women that constitute mothers.

If someone does something wrong, call the person out and leave the gender. Sexism is not different from racism.

Abdulhakeem78:
@Kenwills, accept her the way she is and be more focus on your achievements. I believe if you make it to the top she would definitely love to be around you. Money calls people to your presence while poverty distances them from you. Work on your success, I believe she will come to you either directly or indirectly.

TransAtlanticEx:
Carry your feminism or whatever move very far from me please.
I wasnt saying all female are like that but a huge majority.
Thank you.

Jesslove:
I don’t blame her . She don’t want to have anything to do with you cos you are a guy she feels helping you will be pointless cos someday you will get married to a Jezebel who will label her as a witch and you will forget everything good she has done for you. Just be a man and let her be

swiz123:


Go and wash plates if you have nothing to say

etrange:


Like a huge majority of men are rapists or spammers? I don't know what feminism is but I know that judging people based on their gender instead of the content of their individual characters is discrimination and no one would like to be on the receiving side of such egregious labelling.

Jesslove:

E dey pain you? ����

TransAtlanticEx:
Sorry ma.

swiz123:


What pains me is that girls like you make me feel NL guys are right by saying Nigerian girls are dumb

etrange:


I am not a lady. I don't have to be one to be objective.

You're welcome.

etrange:


Everything is an opportunity for you people to bash women. A lot of elder sisters are the breadwinners of their families out there in the absence of their parents but once there's a bad story involving a lady, you guys collectively call them out. You think men would have been any better if all the crimes, rape stories, etc we see on the front page every day are used to collectively bash the masculine gender? You make exceptions for mothers as if the girlfriends, sisters, and wives aren't the same women that constitute mothers.

If someone does something wrong, call the person out and leave the gender. Sexism is not different from racism.

TransAtlanticEx:
So why you carry lady matter for head?
I'm curious

etrange:


I will answer to the best of my ability.

I live in a country where I am judged by the colour of my skin. Even before I say a word, assumptions are made about me. I know what it feels like to be perceived based on the action of others like me. I've been on Nairaland for 10 years, I've seen the trends and I can say for sure that the misogyny that goes on on this forum is worst than tribalism. Of course, I can't change that. But I will always air my opinion because I have sisters; loving sisters who are still in Nigeria.

Thanks for asking.

Annwrites:
Your relationship with your sister is presently not healthy. Give her the space she desperately asked for. You deserve better.

Not all relationship with ones sibling is rosy. Go about your life on your own. You could call her once in a while to check up on her. But try not to ask her for anything.

However, try not to hold this against her. Be ready to be there for her if need be in the future.

Annwrites:
You couldn't have said it more.

The double standards leaves me nonplussed many times. But then, I realize that cismen are largely untrained and really just over grown babies seeking validation.

He just wanted to be noticed.

Dotherightthing:
This is where you Cconsult Mmy DADDY who Hhas the Hheart of Mman in His Hhands..

Be the Iinstrument that God will use to bring your Ffamily together..

It's Vvery Iimportant that we Kknow God and Ssurrender to JESUS, not Jjust in Mmouth but indeed..

When there is a Pproblem we stand in the Ggap to pray.

Problems like this goes on for long when there is no one to Sstand in the Ggap in Pprayers..

jabolo:


Many men do not support his immature rants. As, I hope, many women would disown your own unfortunate generalization.

Sad. It's not a perpetual war of the sexes. Why should it be? I only have to look at my own cherished sisters and mother I'll always fight for.

The fantasists aka 'pill dispensers' will be along soon.