₦airaland Forum

OGWILLS123:
Which religion does she belong to and which one do you belong to too
so that I will know how to give the advice

Elitecool:
I'm a muslim

Croccityboi123:
Be a man

Meekha:
Eyah. Have loved a Muslim girl too and we couldn't pull through cos of religion. I know it'll meet the bricks already. Not my wish though but the society's wish. Love relationships like this seldom lead to marriage. If you're in the North, save yourselves from unnecessary time wastage. If you're in the West, then it may be possible

SIRRITE:
Hmmm, though u need ur parents blessings and support in ur marriage, without their prayers especially u guys are not yet married.

Elitecool:
Abiooo! Even If my parents give a green light, what of hers?

SIRRITE:
Hers is likely to let her go since she is woman, u know africa parents mentality consining a female child nah

SIRRITE:
Hmmm, though u need ur parents blessings and support in ur marriage, without their prayers especially u guys are not yet married.

SO WITHOUT THEIR PRAYERS A MARRIAGE IS INVALID?

YOU DON'T NEED YOUR PARENTS BLESSINGS AND PRAYERS FOR ANYTHING. IT'S A FACT THAT MANY TROUBLESOME AND FAILED MARRIAGES WERE BLESSED AND SUPPORTED BY PARENTS.

FOR A MARRIAGE TO WORK, IT TAKES TWO PEOPLE WHO ARE WILLING TO WORK WITH EACH OTHER TO STAY TOGETHER. ALL THERE NEEDS TO BE IS PEACE, LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, AND CASH.
EVERYTHING ELSE INCLUDING RELIGION, TRIBE, RACE, PARENTS APPROVAL AMONGST OTHERS ARE BULLSHIT EXCUSES PEOPLE MAKE UP IN OTHER TO ESCAPE FROM SOMETHING.

YOU DIDN'T SEEK APPROVAL TO DATE THEM AND WASTE THEIR TIME FOR 5 YEARS, NOW YOU SEEK APPROVAL TO MARRY THEM?
WILL YOU SEEK APPROVAL TO DIVORCE TOO? WHAT IF YOUR PARENTS DIE, WILL THEIR SPIRITS BE THERE TO CONTINUE MAKING DECISIONS FOR YOU?

Elitecool:
North central, Yoruba. Why did u say that?

CAPSLOCKED:
SO WITHOUT THEIR PRAYERS A MARRIAGE IS INVALID?

YOU DON'T NEED YOUR PARENTS BLESSINGS AND PRAYERS FOR ANYTHING. IT'S A FACT THAT MANY TROUBLESOME AND FAILED MARRIAGES WERE BLESSED AND SUPPORTED BY PARENT

abbertee:
If your mother oppose your marriage just move on and find another girl, only whitch knows whitch

Elitecool:
Isn't that uncivil way of thinking? Be civil pls.

ZinoFasisi:
Honestly it's best ya'll move on.

1. Her parents won't agree no matter the pressure, probably same as yours
2. Aside that She is won't convert, and u won't too. Are u ready to watch her go to church every sunday, vigil, revival etc. to serve her God? And is she ready to watch u recites ur dua, go for ur 5 daily prayers? For the rest of ur lives
3. If you guys get married, religion is going to be a big issue both from ur end and parents' end too.
A. Who gets to decide Children's religion
B. Type of wedding u'll have, Muslim or Christian
C. Who names/dedicates the child pastor or imam.

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SO WITHOUT THEIR PRAYERS A MARRIAGE IS INVALID?

YOU DON'T NEED YOUR PARENTS BLESSINGS AND PRAYERS FOR ANYTHING. IT'S A FACT THAT MANY TROUBLESOME AND FAILED MARRIAGES WERE BLESSED AND SUPPORTED BY PARENTS.

FOR A MARRIAGE TO WORK, IT TAKES TWO PEOPLE WHO ARE WILLING TO WORK WITH EACH OTHER TO STAY TOGETHER. ALL THERE NEEDS TO BE IS PEACE, LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, AND CASH.
EVERYTHING ELSE INCLUDING RELIGION, TRIBE, RACE, PARENTS APPROVAL AMONGST OTHERS ARE BULLSHIT EXCUSES PEOPLE MAKE UP IN OTHER TO ESCAPE FROM SOMETHING.

YOU DIDN'T SEEK APPROVAL TO DATE THEM AND WASTE THEIR TIME FOR 5 YEARS, NOW YOU SEEK APPROVAL TO MARRY THEM?
WILL YOU SEEK APPROVAL TO DIVORCE TOO? WHAT IF YOUR PARENTS DIE, WILL THEIR SPIRITS BE THERE TO CONTINUE MAKING DECISIONS FOR YOU?

SIRRITE:
U can date a girl with just the decision between u and the girl, but u cant marry a woman with just u and her decision, u decide to marry her and she decided to marry u is the first step, but without the parents agreement's even government will not give marriage certificate.beside that parents blessing, word's over marriage,that is what God honour's and back up with ok.

Elitecool:
I'm a muslim

SIRRITE:
U can date a girl with just the decision between u and the girl, but u cant marry a woman with just u and her decision, u decide to marry her and she decided to marry u is the first step, but without the parents agreement's even government will not give marriage certificate.beside that parents blessing, word's over marriage,that is what God honour's and back up with ok.

SIRRITE:
U can date a girl with just the decision between u and the girl, but u cant marry a woman with just u and her decision, u decide to marry her and she decided to marry u is the first step, but without the parents agreement's even government will not give marriage certificate.beside that parents blessing, word's over marriage,that is what God honour's and back up with ok.

CAPSLOCKED:
I ASK AGAIN. WHAT ABOUT ORPHANS? YOUR GOD DOESN'T HONOUR THEIR MARRIAGES?
WHAT ABOUT PARENTS THAT MAKE BLATANTLY WRONG DECISIONS THAT THEIR CHILDREN KICK AGAINST?

LOOK. WE ARE GRATEFUL TO PARENTS FOR BIRTHING NEW HUMANS. BUT THEY'RE NOT THE ULTIMATE. THEY ALSO MAKE MISTAKES TOO AND AS ADULTS WE SHOULD ENDEAVOR TO OPPOSE THEM AND STAND ON CERTAIN DECISIONS WE MAKE FOR OURSELVES.

ALSO, MARRIAGES AREN'T ON THE LIST OF THE THINGS YOUR GOD CARE ABOUT. DON'T EVEN INCLUDE THAT DUDE IN ANY DISCUSSION THAT REQUIRE COMMON SENSE.

CAPSLOCKED:
I ASK AGAIN. WHAT ABOUT ORPHANS? YOUR GOD DOESN'T HONOUR THEIR MARRIAGES?
WHAT ABOUT PARENTS THAT MAKE BLATANTLY WRONG DECISIONS THAT THEIR CHILDREN KICK AGAINST?

LOOK. WE ARE GRATEFUL TO PARENTS FOR BIRTHING NEW HUMANS. BUT THEY'RE NOT THE ULTIMATE. THEY ALSO MAKE MISTAKES TOO AND AS ADULTS WE SHOULD ENDEAVOR TO OPPOSE THEM AND STAND ON CERTAIN DECISIONS WE MAKE FOR OURSELVES.

ALSO, MARRIAGES AREN'T ON THE LIST OF THE THINGS YOUR GOD CARE ABOUT. DON'T EVEN INCLUDE THAT DUDE IN ANY DISCUSSION THAT REQUIRE COMMON SENSE.

Meekha:
Cos the Northern and the Southern muslims worships a different Allah. If the North is half as educated and reasonable as the South, then you can pull through!

Sorry, local man gotta be blunt