freeborn02:


Then one day, your daughter will leave home wearing nothing like a mad person.and you will see it as normal also.

was the girl naked? The pervert in you is waiting for my daughter to come out naked na?

welcome to Oshodi

alphaNomega:
quick question, was the girl naked?

dey dia dey ask quick question. Everyone should be mindful cos the world has gone mad

SmartPolician:
Dress the way you wish to be addressed

The body of a woman is powerful and should not be exposed to public glare (even the Bible tells men to run upon seeing it. No amount of cast and bind can avert it. That's the way men was designed)

Some touts will assume you are a prostitute just the way you dressed. Being who they are, they can rape you and gladly go to jail

After all, what they are living is no life because Nigeria has dashed many hopes and shattered dreams

Respect people in your neighborhood and stop classifying everyone you see. Stop raising your shoulders high; that's stupidity!

Some girls love to learn in a hard way

Just know that the death penalty didn't stop crime and jail terms cannot stop rape either

Rant however you want to

Dress well first...

If the spike in rape cases persists, then we will know that the faults are not from the girls

you have spoken what is in mind. even the Quran prohibits indecent dressing. also, both sexes should lower thier gazes. the problem we are having these days is that apart from being religious and not Godly, we tend to emulate almost at Western ideas dogmatically.
to me anyway, the lady was wrong by dressing indecently and the man also for his inability to control his feelings.

Victoria inyama can be described and an ENABLER. You see those women who usually tell you if you do this and don't do this maybe this wouldn't have happened. Pay close attention to such people, they will always make it seem like your fault, and being a woman like you ,it might not seem out of place after all she is a woman too, but then in pyschology they are reffered to as "ENABLERS".

naturefellow:
share your own ass and legs online for us to rate because you are self-created. nonsense!

See this hybrid homosexual baboon!

You want to see my ass and my legs so u can masturbate

Search for bobrisky.NOT me.

pocohantas:


Her shape is nice. All that without surgery...

The guy did wrong. I don’t see anything wrong with the girl’s clothes, but knowing the level of raving testosterone in Computer village- I won’t wear such there.

your last clause say it all... This is why they call it common sense

True

Rebelutionary:

In countries where the law works, is it the "Victoria inyamas" that call the law enforcement agencies to execute the law? The law just works because the system want it to work! Has SARS harrasment stopped- witnessed one yesterday!

For me what I glean from Victoria's opinion is simple: In such a situation, ladies dress fittingly! We can condemn and rant about the idiot's inapropriate action all we want but hey, in the "absence" of laws, common sense dictates that you do everything within your power to protect yourself! What I say here, is what I tell my four sisters to avoid stories that touch cos these fellas have nothing to loose.

Yeah, let us keep condemning the girl and give up on the rule of law altogether so idiots like him can harass more women even if they dress 'appropriately', whatever that means to y'all. There is no hope for this country.

Why the guy no wait

Fuckingmallam45:
Does dressing sense matter?

“Take care of your costume and your confidence will take care of itself”

Dressing sense does matter. In some events/some places - where you go, dressing sense really gives you confidence. The way you dress sometimes gives you confidence.

This is because :

People cannot see your character but they - at first instant can see how you dress. One must remember that how you dress will reflect the real you.

They say that a man is known by his “dress and address”. Your dressing sense reflects your personality, character, mood, style and what actually you are as an individual.

You don’t have to dress up so grand but a simple black/white well ironed combo might do the tricks. Notice the shoes too.

If you are in an function and go without proper dressing sense, you can be judged. From my personal experiences, people do judge easily.
Here is a simple trick :

Dress yourself with any dress you like and look at the mirror.

Dress yourself the way the function demands and look at the mirror. Groom yourself well.

Which one gives you the look you like? A or B. If you don A and then go to a function - you’ll be a outcast. A social gathering requires social appeal. A proper dressing sense can do the trick always.

For women :

A dressing sense is something that gives her power and makes her look powerful.
No makeup can match the power of dressing sense.

An advice : People always look at Gates/Mark and say “The aim is to be rich and not to look rich”.
People all around the world when they meet mark/gates they will say - they are rich even if they wore a underwear and walk.
But they don’t in your case. So groom urself well

Rules of dressing well :

Dressing professionally can make you feel better about yourself. Comfy sweats and T-shirts can create a relaxed, I-don't-care kind of attitude.


[s]When you dress up in a suit, you tend to stand straighter and project more confidence, which people will respond to positively.[/s]

Thank you all for reading.

I agree with your point, but the underlined part shows mental servitude and confinement to the west. Why must a black person only attain greater confidence in suit, why not in our local regalia?

Chuzoetoh:
dey dia dey ask quick question. Everyone should be mindful cos the world has gone mad

You have not been assaulted before and na why you dey run your mouth. See, no matter what you wear, an assailant can still decide to attack you. Ask the girls wearing hijab in the north, young boys carrying a laptop bag in Lagos and PH.

Plz be modest in all you do

ojuu4u:




Became you are foolish, perhaps you are going mad.


Use ur intelligent to erase the embarrassment she received yesterday now.


Ur stupidity will destroy you too one day.


Pervert people that want to see female shape to easy their pleasure, the one you watch on Internet not satisfy you

e pain am....

why are most girls getting stupid everyday, you want to dress like a hoe and expect everyone to mind their business, not everybody have a business to mind, that why you will get raped, Social media has made black/ Nigerian girls think they can dress anyhow they like in real life, forgetting your reality and your people are still backward thinkers and so are you.

Its sad when i see black girls saying "a girl can dress anyhow she wants" because they watch western movies and see white people moving about naked, you can never compare the white man thinking with that of a black man ,

even biologically black men have high testosterone levels than white men, even the black mans Sexual organs are way bigger than the white man.
The world is changing fast but you girls need to educate your self sometimes, you cant be dressing like a western white woman in a primitive environment.

Facts: If that girl gets raped its definitely because of her outfit, and yes it would be an instant urge or action by the rapist, it cant be premeditated at this point.

Lets stop the foolishness Please.

you nailed it

Balenciagaokey:

The lady is right..
She is wearing the skimpy gown.. Probably at the wrong place.
Ladies are free to wear anything they like, But Common sense entails you know when and Where to do that.

haha

FREEMADNESS:
in life ur mode of dressing matters alot cox d way u dress is d way pple will address u.


sumtyms minding ur business is d key to lesser worries (madam u too no different from d girl joor)





anyone wit d girl's digits shld please massage me privately

(cox me too go like press d nyash)

lefulefu:
wich ukwu are u talking about

so u dae carry wetin pass dah one abi?

Kobicove:
A lady should be free to wear whatever she wants...

Her attire should not be a basis for harassing her

dress the way you want to be addressed. Dress like a harlot be treated like a harlot simple. All she would have done is to negotiate price with the guy. Simple

True talk

those of you backing her indecency, why not tell your mama to be dressing the way she dressed. Godly people everywhere. na wetin den dey teach Ina for church be that? I see

The real agberos are the rational people they don't tolerate it in their formal environments like work. They regulate dress behaviour strictly. You woudl think the rational people can mind block enough to permitt such.but no! No!.

The dressing are fitted from core human physiology to which they are subject themselves. So There best strat. Well prevention. Strict regulations on dress codes.

A sexy wear is design to communicate sex appeal. We speak many language at instance. Body languages being one.

All the idiots lying on the fence on this matter or are blaming the lady are fucktards.You would think when they go to europe they would be spanking the ass of every lady on bikini.Let's be reasonable.

alphaNomega:
You have not been assaulted before and na why you dey run your mouth. See, no matter what you wear, an assailant can still decide to attack you. Ask the girls wearing hijab in the north, young boys carrying a laptop bag in Lagos and PH.

pls don't quote me again before the gods strike you down there.

I didn't read her but whatever it is nothing can justify that guy action , as a matter of fact he should arrested for harassment, I mean what's wrong with that lady dressing ?

SegFault:

We are bringing up sane countries you are bringing Arab countries. Okay o. Allow undue rights to women? Ogbeni there is no such thing as giving undue rights to women, make we stop dey reason like this ah. Now I know why fathers are very reluctant to give their daughters off.

An insane Arab country is more developed than Nigeria.

Stop copying oyinbos , dem no like una sef

Bunsenbun:
All the idiots lying on the fence on this matter or are blaming the lady are fucktards.You would think when they go to europe they would be spanking the ass of every lady on bikini.Let's be reasonable.

European ladies don't dress seductively unless in a beach, night club or summer to tan.

Do Nigerian ladies need tanning?

Copycat na him go kill una

Nigsrdumb:


An insane Arab country is more developed than Nigeria.

Stop copying oyinbos , dem no like una sef

You again. Abeg I don't have time to argue with you, you'll only end it with insults.

SegFault:

You again. Abeg I don't have time to argue with you, you'll only end it with insults.

Sister or brother I'm telling you the truth. Please don't succumb to leftist agenda trying to destroy the black woman.

There's nothing more beautiful than a traditional African woman.


Even oyinbos will attest to this.

They hate all those ghetto black Americans you're trying to copy.