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Grine:
I met this beautiful girl around last year September. She looked so innocent and she was humble with lot of respect.
We got to know each other very well and then we started dating full time.
Sometimes she comes to my side to spend the weekend with me, she do tell me how her ex whom she loved so much cheated on her and broke her heart. So I promised her that I won't cheat on her. That made me cut off any form of relationship I had with other girls, and then to focused on her alone.
For the few months we dated, I never in any time cheated on her, infact I respected her so much that I don't reply to any girl chats apart from hers, started to ignored most of my female friends so that I won't be distracted or tempted.
The relationship with this girl was going fine, she spends most time with me, her phone was always with me she had no password. I was sure she was not doing anything with any guy.
Sometime around July this year, we had issues, I gave her 10,000 naira to cook for the the weekend, to my surprise, she used the money for her personal use. She did not cook as I expected instead, she used the money to buy clothes.
This got me angry as I shouted at her, I insulted her, she insulted me back and then she left.
She stopped coming to my place and we stopped communicating.
After like two weeks, she called and apologize, I forgave her and we started talking again, we started seeing ourselves, for the two weeks we were having issues, I never cheated on her with anybody as I believed we will reconcile later.
Fast forward to this month, I was with her phone browsing (she gave me to use), when a strange message came in to her inbox. I opened it, and it was a guy. They guy texted that he was missing her and that when Will they see themselves again. This message got me so worried so i asked her whom it was, she told me that it was her old class mate and that she doesn't have anything to do with him.
Yesterday Morning again the same guy called her, she picked and was telling the guy to leave her that she is with her boyfriend. Then the boy of phone said "when we had sex, you never told me you were with your boyfriend".
I got chills when I heard that.
So I asked her to explain, at first she was lieing but later confessed to me that when we were having issues, she slept with the guy just Once with condom and since then the guy has been disturbing her. That before she had sex with the guy, she told him that she had a boyfriend.And now the guy wants to see her again.
I was so Shocked and reminded her of our promise that we will not cheat on each other.
She started crying and asked me to forgive her, that it would not repeat itself again.
I have been thinking about this since, and I don't know what to do. It was so painful because I never cheated on her, I loved and respected her.
She's an hardworking girl, i never believed she could do such a thing even at my back.
She has been begging me since to forgive her, that she only had sex with him once.

AlphaStorm:
One of the Problems with guys is STUPIDITY .
THIS SCENARIO was used by UBUNJA in one of his miseducations titled : THE BREAKUP SHE INITIATED FOR NO REASON..

Check this out, she met with the guy and wanted to fvck him. The only way for her to do that without loosing you was to spend the 10k so as to get u angry and take some time off the relationship (I bet she was the one who started d quarrel and heaped the most insults).

Whilst u have NOT broken up yet she can fvck d guy and come back to you. Even if d matter cast, she fit use d temporary breakup as excuse while shedding crocodile tears.
She knows u love her soo much and she made sure to isolate you from other girls and finish u with fake love. That way, even if she messup, u go forgive her

ALAYE WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE.

YOU HAVE BEEN PLAYED....!!!!!!!!!

1beat:
congratulations

do you know why I congratulate you , God as show the type of woman you are about to settle down with is now left for you to use your brain ..


if you come back from work late �
if work transfer you to another state .. �
if you travel out of the country for 2 to 3 months
if you're financially broke �


use ur brain now don't come back here to seek for advice after unrepair damage

AlphaStorm:
One of the Problems with guys is STUPIDITY .
THIS SCENARIO was used by UBUNJA in one of his miseducations titled : THE BREAKUP SHE INITIATED FOR NO REASON..

Check this out, she met with the guy and wanted to fvck him. The only way for her to do that without loosing you was to spend the 10k so as to get u angry and take some time off the relationship (I bet she was the one who started d quarrel and heaped the most insults).

Whilst u have NOT broken up yet she can fvck d guy and come back to you. Even if d matter cast, she fit use d temporary breakup as excuse while shedding crocodile tears.
She knows u love her soo much and she made sure to isolate you from other girls and finish u with fake love. That way, even if she messup, u go forgive her

ALAYE WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE.

YOU HAVE BEEN PLAYED....!!!!!!!!!

Fantasticcc:
The break-up she initiates for no reason....read up ubunja mis-education and thank me later

Grine:

dorin27:
you sound lonely...just an observation though. Mabinu

dorin27:
you sound lonely...just an observation though. Mabinu

Grine:
I met this beautiful girl around last year September. She looked so innocent and she was humble with lot of respect.
We got to know each other very well and then we started dating full time.
Sometimes she comes to my side to spend the weekend with me, she do tell me how her ex whom she loved so much cheated on her and broke her heart. So I promised her that I won't cheat on her. That made me cut off any form of relationship I had with other girls, and then to focused on her alone.
For the few months we dated, I never in any time cheated on her, infact I respected her so much that I don't reply to any girl chats apart from hers, started to ignored most of my female friends so that I won't be distracted or tempted.
The relationship with this girl was going fine, she spends most time with me, her phone was always with me she had no password. I was sure she was not doing anything with any guy.
Sometime around July this year, we had issues, I gave her 10,000 naira to cook for the the weekend, to my surprise, she used the money for her personal use. She did not cook as I expected instead, she used the money to buy clothes.
This got me angry as I shouted at her, I insulted her, she insulted me back and then she left.
She stopped coming to my place and we stopped communicating.
After like two weeks, she called and apologize, I forgave her and we started talking again, we started seeing ourselves, for the two weeks we were having issues, I never cheated on her with anybody as I believed we will reconcile later.
Fast forward to this month, I was with her phone browsing (she gave me to use), when a strange message came in to her inbox. I opened it, and it was a guy. They guy texted that he was missing her and that when Will they see themselves again. This message got me so worried so i asked her whom it was, she told me that it was her old class mate and that she doesn't have anything to do with him.
Yesterday Morning again the same guy called her, she picked and was telling the guy to leave her that she is with her boyfriend. Then the boy of phone said "when we had sex, you never told me you were with your boyfriend".
I got chills when I heard that.
So I asked her to explain, at first she was lieing but later confessed to me that when we were having issues, she slept with the guy just Once with condom and since then the guy has been disturbing her. That before she had sex with the guy, she told him that she had a boyfriend.And now the guy wants to see her again.
I was so Shocked and reminded her of our promise that we will not cheat on each other.
She started crying and asked me to forgive her, that it would not repeat itself again.
I have been thinking about this since, and I don't know what to do. It was so painful because I never cheated on her, I loved and respected her.
She's an hardworking girl, i never believed she could do such a thing even at my back.
She has been begging me since to forgive her, that she only had sex with him once.

lefulefu:
the 10k she used for herself that u gave her for cooking should tell u the type of person she is
ditch her and save urself a load of stress
or u can continue dating her if u love being misreable
on the issue that another guy is chyking her i wont comment on dat one
dat one na normal tin
u can even use that one as excuse to ditch her
and if i should add i wonder where u guys get these sort of no good girls
no nl guy has ever come here saying he has found a nice girl for himself
all the girls wey una dey find are always wahala girls
its like u guys are wahala magnets

Evolutionlove:
First of all, How old are you?? In order for me to know how best to address this your tear rubber mumuness.......

IamPlato:
This Una Stories Sef, wether Na Lie Or True Person No Know.


Cheat On Her And Tell Her Its A Mistake. Abi She De Mad ni


Only Two Weeks The Olosho Couldnt Close Her Leg.


She Instigated That Issue You Both Had So She Can Take long Break Of Fvcking Another Guy... For Me Thats An Unforgiveable Fatal Error.

iLegendd:
Mtcheew.

Spelling = 90%
Punctuation = 30%
Simp 99%
Stupidity 88%

I'm out.

Relationship posts don tire me. So boring.