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Tra6ix:
I don't want to look cheap

Mumu girl. Are you not cheap?
Coming to nairaland to cry over a guy.

Cheap thing.

Tra6ix:
I don't want to look cheap

Shoot your shot, it doesn’t make you look cheap.
You looking cheap or not depends on how well you continue to develop and work on yourself, add value to your life and to your man.

Don’t because you don’t want to look cheap let someone you are most likely to have a great future with pass you by.

That he asked you out doesn’t mean you won’t end up being cheap and that you asked him out doesn’t mean you will end up being cheap.

You don't even need to shoot your shot. Just cross the ball and before you know it, you'd realize that the guy is a Kepa.

Just get very close and open (not your legs) with him. Give it two months, you guys would be in a relationship without anyone shooting any shot

Victorious12:
Small Girl forming Standards, No Shiloh this Year

God! God!! God!!! Remember my case file, all my friends are married, I never see husband----(tra6ix -2021 Shiloh)

CaveAdullam:
Women always proving the postulations present in TRP.
The mr "nice guy" was apparently rejected because hypergamy always seek a male that belongs to a higher status---physical, economic, social etc.


Women always seek the sisterhood Uber Alles to verify the potential quality of any male that approaches them. This is what is refered to the herd mentality or group thinking.

Did you read what they told her? He is low standard. That's hypergamy. Because at this point hypergamy wants an alpha male that can titillates her.

Mr "nice guy" was eventually ghosted but was still monitored via whatsapp status maybe until he attains the standards that can satisfy her hypergamy.

Mr "nice guy" came back in a moment of sorrow thinking he can usurp it as an opportunity to achieve his fantasy.......maybe she's is the "one," but he will be disappointed.

Sorry baby, it was just hypergamy at play. Hypergamy always reject the nice guy but give thousands of "f^cks to the alpha male.

The mr nice guy became smart and moved on because he knew there were many girls outside. He overcame the scarcity mentality mindset to an abundance mindset. He knew he is the prize to be won.

What gave this guy such kind of breakthrough? Maybe one way or the other he discovered TRP or something related to it or just mere luck or common sense.


Hypergamy is really a b@st@rd. It is now in full display; Alpha f^cks Beta bucks.

The Alpha male that once thrilled you for a short moment which you enjoyed(ALPHA F^CKS) until situations went south is now poignant. And since you are now in final year, you must quickly at least secure a Beta male that will transport your long term needs(BETA BUCKS). And this young man here, has what it takes to better those needs.

Hahahaha. He's no longer a low standard male.

You really did a nice job carrying out a proper surveillance on this young man. Well done.

After expanding on the TRP specimen you gave us, now to my advice:

Enhance your greenlights, and if your hypergamy senses that he is a dominant man, latch onto him. If you are lucky that he has not become cognizant with TRP, and still in his blue pilled beta state, he "might" commit into a serious relationship with you otherwise, you will definitely become another plate for him to spin.......looooool

If he's not a dominant male, your hypergamy will look for such. It is good for a woman to marry such a man for the sake of her children and the society at large. We don't need another breeds of simps, because they are difficult to deal with and because they have a larger influence than alpha males in our world, their stupidity and their way of governance is second to none.

Take care.

Ubunja, Skepticus, Regex, emmadaot, Glycolyssis, martinez39s.

Your analysis was thorough. Perfect scenario to observe women's brutal hypergamy in play.

I hope this dude knows and appreciate the great miracle the good lord has done to save his life by making this bîtch reject him. He literally dodged a bullet of pain, distraction and destruction.

Truth is, this bîtch and her slutty friends never chose this nice guy in question. The asshole she is presently dating and complaining about, ranks much higher than him in attraction. That's why he delayed his offer, tossing him around till the nice guy got exhausted and moved on.

She only wants him for his future potential and if the future potential fails to materialize into wealth and status that she craves, she'll dump him as quick as possible because she never chose him.

Men, there is a lot to learn from this story. Go where you are wanted and stop forcing yourselves on women who don't give you clear mating signals (green light) or reject you more than once.

AdaoraJoy:
From your story , the guy likes you and he's still single. Just shoot a single shot and he's yours already

You're cute and I like you.

Should I shoot my shot with you?

Just look at you. You rejected him because you thought he didn't have any plans for his future, then you realized he has a bright future. Do tell us what your own plans are besides getting married

CaveAdullam:
Women always proving the postulations present in TRP.
The mr "nice guy" was apparently rejected because hypergamy always seek a male that belongs to a higher status---physical, economic, social etc.


Women always seek the sisterhood Uber Alles to verify the potential quality of any male that approaches them. This is what is refered to the herd mentality or group thinking.

Did you read what they told her? He is low standard. That's hypergamy. Because at this point hypergamy wants an alpha male that can titillates her.

Mr "nice guy" was eventually ghosted but was still monitored via whatsapp status maybe until he attains the standards that can satisfy her hypergamy.

Mr "nice guy" came back in a moment of sorrow thinking he can usurp it as an opportunity to achieve his fantasy.......maybe she's is the "one," but he will be disappointed.

Sorry baby, it was just hypergamy at play. Hypergamy always reject the nice guy but give thousands of "f^cks to the alpha male.

The mr nice guy became smart and moved on because he knew there were many girls outside. He overcame the scarcity mentality mindset to an abundance mindset. He knew he is the prize to be won.

What gave this guy such kind of breakthrough? Maybe one way or the other he discovered TRP or something related to it or just mere luck or common sense.


Hypergamy is really a b@st@rd. It is now in full display; Alpha f^cks Beta bucks.

The Alpha male that once thrilled you for a short moment which you enjoyed(ALPHA F^CKS) until situations went south is now poignant. And since you are now in final year, you must quickly at least secure a Beta male that will transport your long term needs(BETA BUCKS). And this young man here, has what it takes to better those needs.

Hahahaha. He's no longer a low standard male.

You really did a nice job carrying out a proper surveillance on this young man. Well done.

After expanding on the TRP specimen you gave us, now to my advice:

Enhance your greenlights, and if your hypergamy senses that he is a dominant man, latch onto him. If you are lucky that he has not become cognizant with TRP, and still in his blue pilled beta state, he "might" commit into a serious relationship with you otherwise, you will definitely become another plate for him to spin.......looooool

If he's not a dominant male, your hypergamy will look for such. It is good for a woman to marry such a man for the sake of her children and the society at large. We don't need another breeds of simps, because they are difficult to deal with and because they have a larger influence than alpha males in our world, their stupidity and their way of governance is second to none.

Take care.

Ubunja, Skepticus, Regex, emmadaot, Glycolyssis, martinez39s.

Oil dey ur head

Skepticus:
Your analysis was thorough. Perfect scenario to observe women's brutal hypergamy in play.

I hope this dude knows and appreciate the great miracle the good lord has done to save his life by making this bîtch reject him. He literally dodged a bullet of pain, distraction and destruction.

Truth is, this bîtch and her slutty friends never chose this nice guy in question. The asshole she is presently dating and complaining about, ranks much higher than him in attraction. That's why he delayed his offer, tossing him around till the nice guy got exhausted and moved on.

She only wants him for his future potential and if the future potential fails to materialize into wealth and status that she craves, she'll dump him as quick as possible because she never chose him.

Men, there is a lot to learn from this story. Go where you are wanted and stop forcing yourselves on women who don't give you clear mating signals (green light) or reject you more than once.

Cave kill meat, you on fire roast am.

To add to what them bosses have said;

Always look at behaviors, study it, interpret it and make sure it tallies with what you want. The world is science (I don't mean to take a jab at those who studied art) you gotta be observant to know what's going on. A lot of men always misinterpret some behaviors to nonsense. I know some fellas that will tell me the behavior of op is just so that she doesn't come off as a cheap girl. That's stupid. Don't fall for that.

Peace.

Tra6ix:
I don't want to look cheap

But he has made his move twice and twice, you have turned him down. How do you now want him to know that you are ready now when he cannot read your mind?

Regex:
Cave kill meat, you on fire roast am.

To add to what them bosses have said;

Always look at behaviors, study it, interpret it and make sure it tallies with what you want. The world is science (I don't mean to take a jab at those who studied art) you gotta be observant to know what's going on. A lot of men always misinterpret some behaviors to nonsense. I know some fellas that will tell me the behavior of op is just so that she doesn't come off as a cheap girl. That's stupid. Don't fall for that.

Peace.

It's a science and applying this knowledge to tactfully navigate every facet of life is an art.

Someone already said she is confused

I hope sense reach a high number of men over time. Lol

Now you've got to do the Chase! that big task u enjoy from him..

Tra6ix:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all. During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing, I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend. When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me. I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page

My sister tell him you have thought about his advances and you have agreed to be his GF....simple!!! See you have every right to love and be loved!!! So since he did the chyking once and twice just give him the answer which is yes na....or if your Shy of telling him yes you can either send him a text or invite him to an open place.....Then tell him you have thought about what he's said about wanting you ...and then just draw him close and give him a deep kiss.....that alone is a sign say you don gree for am!!! Do am ooooo before another babe carry your bobo

Zzor:
school love,rubbish love.

Make I no talk........it's from experience sha.....

Skmoda360:
Make I no talk........it's from experience sha.....

talk ooo, I like amebo

Zzor:
talk ooo, I like amebo

You are talking from experience now....

Skmoda360:
You are talking from experience now....

i didn't talk from any experience

GreatMage:
Why are women like this?

A guy showed you love, cared for you while others didn't, even wrote a poem like Shakespeare but still you repaid his attention, time and love for what? Trash!

At the end of the day "men are scum"...

And for that 'cheap' talk of a thing?
That's the most disgusting mentality in most gals that I hate!

How expensive do you wanna be!

women are complex.

@khiaa
como estas

que hora es en california

Zzor:
i didn't talk from any experience

Ok no wahala

Vagina people too stupid, what kind of useless creatures are they.

Sometimes, its better to leave women with their wahala than waste all your resources fruitlessly chasing them

Tra6ix:
I didn't want to cause a break up with my boyfriend, I wanted him to cause the break up

at your pússy risk

Tra6ix:
I don't want to look cheap

Why is it that when a girl sees the opportunity to talk to a guy, you hear them saying, "I don't wanna look cheap". my friend, if you can not request for something u want, you maybe end up loosing it. Be wise? I mean, where is it written that a guy must be the one to do the talking. OK, am done

aminusodiq:
Start calling him... Call him endlessly...
He will see d greenlight in due time...

Btw he mayn't love u d way he used to... In DAT case, u may be simply used and dumped

That's my fear

Call him and express your feelings,there is nthn bad in it. Its nt only guys' duty to be proposing.

lordally:
My sister tell him you have thought about his advances and you have agreed to be his GF....simple!!! See you have every right to love and be loved!!! So since he did the chyking once and twice just give him the answer which is yes na....or if your Shy of telling him yes you can either send him a text or invite him to an open place.....Then tell him you have thought about what he's said about wanting you ...and then just draw him close and give him a deep kiss.....that alone is a sign say you don gree for am!!! Do am ooooo before another babe carry your bobo

Thank you

Tra6ix:
Thank you

Mumu of the universe.. Mtcheew

most school love always end at school gate

Can I post this story on my blog ?

Instagram Naija..

Ohms.

Tra6ix:
That's my fear

shoot your shot!!! Who knws if he still loves u!!! Just use ur brain!!!

Tra6ix:
I don't want to look cheap

So we should tell him for you.