Being a good boyfriend to your girlfriend shouldn't be such a difficult task to start with. It requires patience, you being yourself, and treating your girlfriend like you would treat your lovely sister whom you love so much as a sibling.

Hence, below are a few essential tips to keep you on the right track to being the best guy your girlfriend has ever dated.

1. Respect her always

Inorder to have a smooth Relationship with anyone, it requires you respect them for who they are. And not making them feel less of themselves for being with you.

Hence, this also applies to a romantic relationship with your girlfriend. Endeavour to treat her with all the respect you can. Once she feels respected by you, she would feel so safe being with you.

2. Always be patient with her

Ladies most times have mood swings. And they can sometimes act out of proportion, and say or do things they don't mean.

But not withstanding, if you can endeavour to always be patient with your girlfriend during her down moments,then she will really appreciate you for treating her with much care,and understanding

3. Be her friend; rather than being a bossy boyfriend.

Nobody really likes a person who orders others around every now and then. Therefore, being a good boyfriend to your girlfriend entails you try as much as you can,to keep your ego aside and treat her as your friend. And not making her feel like she's in a cage called a relationship

4. Encourage her to be her best.

By encouraging your girlfriend to being her best would enable her know, that to some great extent, you believe in her goals and aspirations.

And you can go out of your way whenever you can to make sure she comes out the best in whatever she wants to do.

This could be you encouraging her not to give up on her piano class, not to give up on her writing skills, etc. This way, she will feel blessed having you in her life.

5. Endeavour to make her feel special

By endeavouring to make your girlfriend feel special would not only make her love you the more, but it would make her know and feel you have eyes for only her. This can be done by surprising her with little special gifts, taking her to dinner dates, etc.

6. Love and take her family and friends as yours

Women actually loves a man that would accept and see their friends and family as his. So therefore, by being a good boyfriend, you can endeavour to be closer to the family and friends of your girlfriend and get to know them as much as you can. In order to have a good cordial Relationship with them. She will really appreciate.

7. Do not cheat on her; no matter what.

Women feel heartbroken and loose their self esteem when the guy/man they love heats on them with someone else. They start feeling less worthy, and not good enough.

Hence, to be a good boyfriend to your girlfriend, endeavour not to ever cheat on her. It might be hard, but when you say you love someone, you owe them your love, trust, loyalty, and faithfulness, no matter what. So therefore, never cheat on your girlfriend, no matter what.

8. Listen to her

Women love anyone who would listen to them even when they are not making any sense. They just want you to hear about how their day went, about their day out with the girls, about their day at work/school, etc without making them feel they talk too much or they are being too jittery.

So therefore, to be a good boyfriend to your girlfriend, endeavour to always listen to her. And anywhere you have objections, you try to chip in with love,care and understanding.

9. Give her space whenever you feel she needs it

A romantic relationship becomes choking whenever you do not give your partner space to do other things, or hangout with others asides you or just being around them every now and then.

It's even worse, when every now and then you ask your partner, where is she, who is she with, who is she chatting with etc.

Yeah you love her, but the love shouldn't being so possessive to the point of not giving your girlfriend enough space to breathe some fresh air at least.

Hence, give her,her space to be herself and enjoy other things with friends and family asides your company.

10. Appreciate her the best ways you can.

The feeling of being appreciated does not only make you feel loved and accepted. It makes you feel you are on the right track doing the right things.

Therefore, in the quest of being a good boyfriend, appreciate your girlfriend in the presence of your friends, colleagues, your family, and everyone who knows the both of you as a love bird.

Try as much as you can to do it sincerely, and watch her blossom in all angles, giving you more of her love, care and affection.

Reading piece that might also interest you!!!

https://elizegan.com/how-to-be-a-good-girlfriend/

https://elizegan.com/11-ways-to-be-more-romantic-to-your-partner/

https://elizegan.com/amazing-things-to-do-to-keep-your-relationship-strong/

https://elizegan.com/true-love-from-a-woman/

https://elizegan.com/valid-signs-of-a-healthy-romantic-relationship/

https://elizegan.com/warning-signs-of-a-toxic-partner/

Are you a good girlfriend?

Please what do i stand to gain after all this?...cos after all we know what some ladies of this generation are like

ALL THESE WHILST SHE FVCKS ANOTHER DIICK

dingbang:
Are you a good girlfriend?

I don't have a boyfriend. But definitely I will be if I were to be in a relationship at the moment.

Rossonero:
Please what do i stand to gain after all this?...cos after all we know what some ladies of this generation are like

You don't want to be yet you expect your girlfriend to be good to you? There are still a few good ones out there please!! Be patient, your meet her soon

Junkie1:
ALL THESE WHILST SHE FVCKS ANOTHER DIICK

Well, if you're faithful, she might also be you know
So are you faithful at the moment in your Relationship?

JustcallmeFavou:
Being a good boyfriend to your girlfriend shouldn't be such a difficult task to start with. It requires patience, you being yourself, and treating your girlfriend like you would treat your lovely sister whom you love so much as a sibling.

Hence, below are a few essential tips to keep you on the right track to being the best guy your girlfriend has ever dated.

1. Respect her always

Inorder to have a smooth Relationship with anyone, it requires you respect them for who they are. And not making them feel less of themselves for being with you.

Hence, this also applies to a romantic relationship with your girlfriend. Endeavour to treat her with all the respect you can. Once she feels respected by you, she would feel so safe being with you.

2. Always be patient with her

Ladies most times have mood swings. And they can sometimes act out of proportion, and say or do things they don't mean.

But not withstanding, if you can endeavour to always be patient with your girlfriend during her down moments,then she will really appreciate you for treating her with much care,and understanding

3. Be her friend; rather than being a bossy boyfriend.

Nobody really likes a person who orders others around every now and then. Therefore, being a good boyfriend to your girlfriend entails you try as much as you can,to keep your ego aside and treat her as your friend. And not making her feel like she's in a cage called a relationship

4. Encourage her to be her best.

By encouraging your girlfriend to being her best would enable her know, that to some great extent, you believe in her goals and aspirations.

And you can go out of your way whenever you can to make sure she comes out the best in whatever she wants to do.

This could be you encouraging her not to give up on her piano class, not to give up on her writing skills, etc. This way, she will feel blessed having you in her life.

5. Endeavour to make her feel special

By endeavouring to make your girlfriend feel special would not only make her love you the more, but it would make her know and feel you have eyes for only her. This can be done by surprising her with little special gifts, taking her to dinner dates, etc.

6. Love and take her family and friends as yours

Women actually loves a man that would accept and see their friends and family as his. So therefore, by being a good boyfriend, you can endeavour to be closer to the family and friends of your girlfriend and get to know them as much as you can. In order to have a good cordial Relationship with them. She will really appreciate.

7. Do not cheat on her; no matter what.

Women feel heartbroken and loose their self esteem when the guy/man they love heats on them with someone else. They start feeling less worthy, and not good enough.

Hence, to be a good boyfriend to your girlfriend, endeavour not to ever cheat on her. It might be hard, but when you say you love someone, you owe them your love, trust, loyalty, and faithfulness, no matter what. So therefore, never cheat on your girlfriend, no matter what.

8. Listen to her

Women love anyone who would listen to them even when they are not making any sense. They just want you to hear about how their day went, about their day out with the girls, about their day at work/school, etc without making them feel they talk too much or they are being too jittery.

So therefore, to be a good boyfriend to your girlfriend, endeavour to always listen to her. And anywhere you have objections, you try to chip in with love,care and understanding.

9. Give her space whenever you feel she needs it

A romantic relationship becomes choking whenever you do not give your partner space to do other things, or hangout with others asides you or just being around them every now and then.

It's even worse, when every now and then you ask your partner, where is she, who is she with, who is she chatting with etc.

Yeah you love her, but the love shouldn't being so possessive to the point of not giving your girlfriend enough space to breathe some fresh air at least.

Hence, give her,her space to be herself and enjoy other things with friends and family asides your company.

10. Appreciate her the best ways you can.

The feeling of being appreciated does not only make you feel loved and accepted. It makes you feel you are on the right track doing the right things.

Therefore, in the quest of being a good boyfriend, appreciate your girlfriend in the presence of your friends, colleagues, your family, and everyone who knows the both of you as a love bird.

Try as much as you can to do it sincerely, and watch her blossom in all angles, giving you more of her love, care and affection.

Reading piece that might also interest you!!!

https://elizegan.com/how-to-be-a-good-girlfriend/

https://elizegan.com/11-ways-to-be-more-romantic-to-your-partner/

https://elizegan.com/amazing-things-to-do-to-keep-your-relationship-strong/

https://elizegan.com/true-love-from-a-woman/

https://elizegan.com/valid-signs-of-a-healthy-romantic-relationship/

https://elizegan.com/warning-signs-of-a-toxic-partner/

do you people deliberately write the opposite of how things work or what??

JustcallmeFavou:


I don't have a boyfriend. But definitely I will be if I were to be in a relationship at the moment.

whats preventing you from having a boyfriend

JustcallmeFavou:


Well, if you're faithful, she might also be you know
So are you faithful at the moment in your Relationship?

I WAS ACTUALLY UNLESS GETTING HIGH IS CHEATING

This has to be the worst piece of crap I've read on Nairaland.

ubunja:
do you people deliberately write the opposite of how things work or what??

If you're presently living the opposite. It's telling you how to be good at least. It takes nothing to be good you know

JustcallmeFavou:


If you're presently living the opposite. It's telling you how to be good at least. It takes nothing to be good you know

are you really serious right now??

JasperVII:
This has to be the worst piece of crap I've read on Nairaland.

Being bitter doesn't do anyone any good. So please stop being this way!!! Stay safe...

Junkie1:
I WAS ACTUALLY UNLESS GETTING HIGH IS CHEATING

Hmmmm, ok if you say so

dingbang:
whats preventing you from having a boyfriend

Need a break, that's all!!!

Remember guys, that she's a woman doesn't mean she will tell you truth.

Not that she's lying, she's saying what she perceives to be true. What tickles her emotions.


Do the very opposite (with sense actually) of whatever advice a lady gives you

You don't want to be yet you expect your girlfriend to be good to you? There are still a few good ones out there please!! Be patient, your meet her soon

Ubunja there's something you said about the bolded in one of your miseds. I know it ain't fly with men.

GLYCOLYSISS you did say something about it too.

JustcallmeFavou:


Being bitter doesn't do anyone any good. So please stop being this way!!! Stay safe...

So because he doesn't agree with your points now means he's bitter...smh
No surprises though, it's always emotions over logic every time for you women

Well what about how to be a good girl friend??

Hmmm

boninho:

So because he doesn't agree with your points now means he's bitter...smh
No surprises though, it's always emotions over logic every time for you women

Not that! If he doesn't completely agree with the points I stated, is just to ignore. Rather than saying something so mean. How will he feel if I, or someone else had written something as such to anything else he had written??

globalmart:
Well what about how to be a good girl friend??

An article relating to this (How to be a good girlfriend) is directly underneath this article.

Respect her is very important. Alot of guys lack respect which isn't good. They feel they are a guy they can control u like duh. Respect is very important bikonu

op is an habitual consumer of zee world and telemondo

RUBISHH

RUBINSH!

JustcallmeFavou:


You don't want to be yet you expect your girlfriend to be good to you? There are still a few good ones out there please!! Be patient, your meet her soon

Well these days being a good boyfriend seems not to be what some ladies want cos i was. But as you rightly said 'be patient', so am patiently waiting .

JustcallmeFavou:


Not that! If he doesn't completely agree with the points I stated, is just to ignore. Rather than saying something so mean. How will he feel if I, or someone else had written something as such to anything else he had written??

Mean? He just gave his opinion of your write-up. Whatever he said and how ever he said it, it's still his opinion, and it's his right to air it. He doesn't have to agree with even 1% of your conclusion. You're just a bag of emotions, quench it a bit

boninho:

Mean? He just gave his opinion of your write-up. Whatever he said and how ever he said it, it's still his opinion, and it's his right to air it. He doesn't have to agree with even 1% of your conclusion. You're just a bag of emotions, quench it a bit

Alright, we are all entitled to our opinions so no need to argue about it. Goodnight, and stay safe.