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Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Miznain: 10:11am On Sep 01, 2020
purples25:
You've said it all. They always treat natural girls as second class and Lower grade.
It's a matter of preference �. I prefer ladies with Natural looks to those with make up. Maybe I'm just a weirdo.
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by cfree14(op): 10:54am On Sep 01, 2020
Miznain:
It's a matter of preference �. I prefer ladies with Natural looks to those with make up. Maybe I'm just a weirdo.
No you're not my frnd. You're perfectly normal cus you're not alone
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by fati2001(m): 11:12am On Sep 01, 2020
see dem deceiving themselves.
i prefer natural look. ...but if make over pass unah go turn neck go back like giraffe.

Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by purples25(f): 11:16am On Sep 01, 2020
Miznain:
It's a matter of preference �. I prefer ladies with Natural looks to those with make up. Maybe I'm just a weirdo.
You're not a weirdo, and yes there are others like you. But they are few.
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by shamsin6300(m): 11:16am On Sep 01, 2020
fati2001:
see dem deceiving themselves.
i prefer natural look. ...but if make over pass unah go turn neck go back like giraffe.
grin
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by fati2001(m): 11:20am On Sep 01, 2020
shamsin6300:
grin
happy new month.
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by shamsin6300(m): 11:24am On Sep 01, 2020
fati2001:
happy new month.
I pray this month comes with a lot of blessing to u & ur family.
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by fati2001(m): 11:26am On Sep 01, 2020
shamsin6300:
I pray this month comes with a lot of blessing to u & ur family.
Amen. thanks
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by shamsin6300(m): 11:27am On Sep 01, 2020
fati2001:
Amen. thanks
I forget to ask u their names even.
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by fati2001(m): 11:32am On Sep 01, 2020
shamsin6300:
I forget to ask u their names even.
which name?
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by shamsin6300(m): 11:36am On Sep 01, 2020
fati2001:
which name?
The children's now
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by fati2001(m): 11:40am On Sep 01, 2020
shamsin6300:
The children's now
amina Sheri
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by shamsin6300(m): 12:21pm On Sep 01, 2020
fati2001:
amina
Sheri
Wen next you are bless with a baby boy, do name him after me please. wink
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Nobody: 2:12pm On Sep 01, 2020
dairykidd:
That sounds delicious cheesy
Lol U think so
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Nobody: 3:34pm On Sep 01, 2020
Missyford31:
Lol U think so
Oh yes cheesy
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Miznain: 10:07pm On Sep 01, 2020
purples25:
You're not a weirdo, and yes there are others like you. But they are few.
Oh great news
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Miznain: 10:07pm On Sep 01, 2020
cfree14:
No you're not my frnd. You're perfectly normal cus you're not alone
Awesome bro
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by purples25(f): 10:19pm On Sep 01, 2020
Miznain:
Oh great news
Lol you seem a bit sarcastic smiley

But i know you are just replying.
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Sixfeetbelle: 2:30am On Sep 02, 2020
cfree14:
Attention you say. Truth be told too, you don't need all that to get even the attention.
There is this girl in my area, I think she is a deeper life member but guess what, she is getting all the attention and funny enough she doesn't even wear make ups
Why is she getting all the attention?
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Nobody: 3:13am On Sep 02, 2020
dairykidd:
Oh yes cheesy
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Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by cfree14(op): 6:33am On Sep 02, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
Why is she getting all the attention?
Its a natural thing. That's what natural beauty does. I highly recommend you join the natural club(that's if you're a lady)
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by FGonline: 6:44am On Sep 02, 2020
ZINIBANKS:
Lol op why do married men cheat
Cause when a man is befriending a woman at first before marriage she will hide her true self so after marriage they wont make up again or in most cases they apply less makeup the man now get to know that he has been face scammed
From there problem will start
Women will tell you they're looking for a real man
And they theirself ain't real
If you see some women without makeup you will JP
u said it all
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Miznain: 7:12am On Sep 02, 2020
purples25:
Lol you seem a bit sarcastic smiley

But i know you are just replying.
Honestly I'm not being sarcastic.
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Sixfeetbelle: 9:23am On Sep 02, 2020
cfree14:
Its a natural thing. That's what natural beauty does. I highly recommend you join the natural club(that's if you're a lady)
I'll list a bunch of questions for you to cross off so I can understand what you mean by natural.

Is she fair skinned?
Is she straight as a pole?
Is her face filled with pimples?
Does she have blemishes or patches of dark spots on her face?
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Berryli: 9:27am On Sep 02, 2020
I guess its d new norm and people just want to go with the trend. As for me I'm not comfortable painting my face with all sorts cos it feels really uncomfortable. I prefer being natural aha or just a little touch up
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by cfree14(op): 10:24am On Sep 02, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
I'll list a bunch of questions for you to cross off so I can understand what you mean by natural.

Is she fair skinned?
Is she straight as a pole?
Is her face filled with pimples?
Does she have blemishes or patches of dark spots on her face?
I don't think I really need to walk you through all that for you to understand what I mean by natural.
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Sixfeetbelle: 11:00am On Sep 02, 2020
cfree14:
I don't think I really need to walk you through all that for you to understand what I mean by natural.
I believe you need to, cause your assumption that ladies should go natural is immature and insensitive cause you made that statement without taking into consideration that not everyone is fine facially. While your "aunty natural" might appeal to people, someone with blemishes and ugly patches of skin won't. Some people will tell you that some ladies are finer with make up and should be appreciated with that.

Although some ladies are swans, others are ugly ducklings that need that "extra" boost of confidence. Same is applicable to men. Some men grow beards to enhance their "manliness" and I don't see anyone calling them out. Some gym to appear manly, some try to get pink lips to appear sexy etc.

Everyone should be allowed to do what they find confidence in.
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by cfree14(op): 11:37am On Sep 02, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:
I believe you need to, cause your assumption that ladies should go natural is immature and insensitive cause you made that statement without taking into consideration that not everyone is fine facially. While your "aunty natural" might appeal to people, someone with blemishes and ugly patches of skin won't. Some people will tell you that some ladies are finer with make up and should be appreciated with that.

Although some ladies are swans, others are ugly ducklings that need that "extra" boost of confidence. Same is applicable to men. Some men grow beards to enhance their "manliness" and I don't see anyone calling them out. Some gym to appear manly, some try to get pink lips to appear sexy etc.

Everyone should be allowed to do what they find confidence in.
From all what you've said one cannot help but notice that you re lover of make ups. Well let me tell you something, there is someone for everyone. I know some persons are born beautiful while others are not that fortunate. The fact that you re not all good looking doesn't mean you should go about deceiving people by covering it up. Like I said, there is always someone available who would love you the way you are.
Mind you, I'm not entirely against making up, a little bit of this and that would actually do. You don't have to look entirely different from your real self. I hope I made sense?
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Nobody: 12:01pm On Sep 02, 2020
cfree14:
A lady will spend hours wearing make up just to look good and for how long, few hours, at most a day.
Sometimes I wonder why ladies go through all that stress just to cover up their real self. I mean, even the guys know that wearing make up doesn't reveal who you truly are but yet you still go about deceiving the world.
I know of a lady who spends about 3k in the hands of make up artist every time she wants to take pictures. The funny thing is that she washes or removes the same make up immediately she post those pictures on social media.
So my question to the ladies is, don't you think its a waste of time spending too much and resources trying to look like someone you're not for few hours?
Because finally you guys will still pick the ones that made up over the natural ones..
Cos guys like flashy things..
So let them keep decieving una..

But the real truth is that make up help boost some people's self esteem..
Because nah d same una go dey call them fine girl.If them no make up una go call them mgbeke or Mary..

So whose fault is it??
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Sixfeetbelle: 12:08pm On Sep 02, 2020
cfree14:
From all what you've said one cannot help but notice that you re lover of make ups. Well let me tell you something, there is someone for everyone. I know some persons are born beautiful while others are not that fortunate. The fact that you re not all good looking doesn't mean you should go about deceiving people by covering it up. Like I said, there is always someone available who would love you the way you are.
Mind you, I'm not entirely against making up, a little bit of this and that would actually do. You don't have to look entirely different from your real self. I hope I made sense?
So what's the essence of your initial post if you believe everyone is beautiful in their own way?



Besides who said we're deceiving people by using make up? We want to feel confident and attractive so how is that deceit? Would you get attracted to us if we looked like the wicked witch of the West?
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by cfree14(op): 12:12pm On Sep 02, 2020
globalmart:
Because finally you guys will still pick the ones that made up over the natural ones..
Cos guys like flashy things..
So let them keep decieving una..

But the real truth is that make up help boost some people's self esteem..
Because nah d same una go dey call them fine girl.If them no make up una go call them mgbeke or Mary..

So whose fault is it??
I think its wrong of u to generalize it that way. Not every guy as u think.

Bring ur ear let me tell u a secret(this should only be btw is). We guys know its all fake and deceitful bt we sometimes praise them just to get what we want.

The truth and reality of it is dat no guy would truly love to marry a girl who covers her real face with paints.
Re: Ladies:why Go Through All This Stress by Nobody: 12:18pm On Sep 02, 2020
cfree14:
I think its wrong of u to generalize it that way. Not every guy as u think.

Bring ur ear let me tell u a secret(this should only be btw is). We guys know its all fake and deceitful bt we sometimes praise them just to get what we want.

The truth and reality of it is dat no guy would truly love to marry a girl who covers her real face with paints.
I disagree with u...I have a woman friend whose husband is the who always gets here make-up..he encourages her to make up
Some guys actually like make up
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