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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by pretydiva(f): 5:34pm On Sep 08, 2020
Parents these days have lots of roles to play in the upbringing of their children. The church isn't left out. May God have mercy on us all

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Goodman247: 5:34pm On Sep 08, 2020
It is over everywhere in the world,

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Shortyy(f): 5:34pm On Sep 08, 2020
Lol
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Sheenor: 5:34pm On Sep 08, 2020
It is well with this generation.
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by NekkyCee(f): 5:34pm On Sep 08, 2020
Parenting in this age is very challenging. May God help us raise a godly generation.

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Theta1: 5:35pm On Sep 08, 2020
You are right
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Always82: 5:35pm On Sep 08, 2020
is all about grid.them when to have and do what the big antys do and have.the only place you can see a confarm olosho now is our collage.
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by anibi9674: 5:36pm On Sep 08, 2020
Passionate888:
Till now I'm still single, one smallie of 16 years get 2 girlfriends and 1 careless wey him dey nack on steady
no be childs, within their circle them dey Bleep theirself

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by jericco1(m): 5:36pm On Sep 08, 2020
Not entirely true
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Goodman247: 5:37pm On Sep 08, 2020
Ugbola must service puna, it is everywhere all over the world
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Memberclub(m): 5:37pm On Sep 08, 2020
Dammmnn niggggga!!!

Let them enjoy their life
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by HeavenlyHolines(m): 5:38pm On Sep 08, 2020
Another major thing that affect girls with relationship is Korean n Indian films they watch. They try to pattern their lives like to actors n actresses and for the girls,any 'Oyinbo or fair' guy is handsome with a good heart and before you know they have enter once chance. A times they don't know that the whites they see on TV is different from real life. Some persons will b watching those films and be crying. Have u ever asked ur self if they watch our films not to talk of being emotional

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Openbusiness: 5:39pm On Sep 08, 2020
Thank God I don't have a daughter
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Nobody: 5:40pm On Sep 08, 2020
Bonatheripper:
Puna must be serviced



You don't expect girls to use it for pissing alone



I was lucky to have my own share of sweet newly released Punas.... U won't just understand that feeling.


Jah bless Two ends multinational highschool ikom cross River State

Pussy isn't used for peeing.

urethra is different from pussy.

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by freeborn02: 5:40pm On Sep 08, 2020
Justnice11:


Things are changing swiftly, and it seems the world is becoming more and more corrupt. When we were kids, there are certain things we can't do (or even have access to). Nevertheless, the opposite is the case in today's society.

Today, you see young secondary school students indulging in things some university students of those days didn't even do. In this article, we will be discussing why some secondary school girls are having boyfriends.

It's unfortunate that rather than concentrating on their education and building their future, they are already messing up themselves with guys. Unfortunately, some of them ended up dropping out of school due to reasons like:
- unwanted pregnancy and premature motherhood
- death, as a result of complications that came up while trying to abort their baby
- embracing the lies told by their so-called boyfriend, and ending up embracing a life of mediocrity (think about young girls that ran away from their parent's house to suffer with a stupid guy somewhere).
- Etc.

Now, let's see some of the factors bringing these things in the first place:

1. Lack Of Proper Home Training:
Everyone knows that many parents today are terrible people who have no business bringing children into this world in the first place. I mean, how will you give birth to children, and you don't care about what they become? Such parents don't have time to train their girls and such girls grew without direction. Such girls ended up without dignity, and even see nothing wrong with messing around.

2. Youthful Exuberance
Well, many secondary school girls (even those that are from strict homes) are simply exhibiting youthful exuberance. Young chaps are still young (and foolish), and they usually act without thinking about the repercussions of their actions.

3. Not To Be Left Out
For some girls, they do stuff because their classmate are doing it, and they don't want to be left out. This is a good reason parents must teach their girls to be confident and independent - not to follow the crowd to do something bad.

4. Peer Pressure
Some girls were originally not interested in such things, but found themselves there because they were forced by their friends. Hence, our girls must be taught to be careful with those that associate with. They should run from the "bad girls crew".

5. Lack Of Essential Things
Some girls started messing themselves with boys because they need money to take care of themselves. Hence, parents should strive providing for their daughters, so they won't need anything from any stupid guy (who will want to take advantage of her situation to mess her body).

In conclusion, please, parents should take good care of their daughters. Many secondary school students are exposed to terrible things today. Always follow the day to day activities of your daughter, so she won't bring shame and disgrace to you

You missed out on point:Curiosity!
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by etibaba(m): 5:41pm On Sep 08, 2020
Justnice11:

3. Not To Be Left Out
For some girls, they do stuff because their classmate are doing it, and they don't want to be left out. This is a good reason parents must teach their girls to be confident and independent - not to follow the crowd to do something bad.

4. Peer Pressure
Some girls were originally not interested in such things, but found themselves there because they were forced by their friends. Hence, our girls must be taught to be careful with those that associate with. They should run from the "bad girls crew".
Three and four are the same.
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Farki: 5:41pm On Sep 08, 2020
Relationships ≠ sex.

Sha the same people saying relationships are immoral will be disturbing single women over 21 to hurry up and get married.

Maybe if we actually taught children about safe sex and making the right choices instead of assuming they won't do it we wouldn't have this kind of thread.

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by winkmart: 5:42pm On Sep 08, 2020
really
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Iamgrey5(m): 5:44pm On Sep 08, 2020
1) Peer pressure

2) Peer pressure

3)Did I say peer pressure

4) I forgot to mention peer pressure

5) Yes, I said peer pressure

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Ladycewhy(f): 5:44pm On Sep 08, 2020
Dear Nigerians and non Nigerians welcome to another misogynistic thread.grin grin grin.

Op I am waiting for your thread on why girls and even babies are being raped in Nigeria. undecided

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by anonimi: 5:45pm On Sep 08, 2020
Bonatheripper:
Puna must be serviced
You don't expect girls to use it for pissing alone
I was lucky to have my own share of sweet newly released Punas.... U won't just understand that feeling.
Jah bless Two ends multinational highschool ikom cross River State


www.nairaland.com/attachments/3444716_img20160215224419_jpeg3a9d404699eb823dbaa7a23a7e345c55

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by atiku4President(m): 5:46pm On Sep 08, 2020
Quality20:
Many of them are carrying different STDs including HIV and AIDS.
Very true.
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by ubcandid(m): 5:46pm On Sep 08, 2020
solmusdesigns:
cool



Patents Parents and more parenting


But let us be factual with ourselves their is a drastic drop in teenage pregnancy among school children than witnessed in the 80s and 90s



.
bitter truth
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by anonimi: 5:46pm On Sep 08, 2020
Iamgrey5:
1) Peer pressure
2) Peer pressure
3)Did I say peer pressure
4) I forgot to mention peer pressure
5) Yes, I said peer pressure


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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Nobody: 5:46pm On Sep 08, 2020
Justnice11:


Things are changing swiftly, and it seems the world is becoming more and more corrupt. When we were kids, there are certain things we can't do (or even have access to). Nevertheless, the opposite is the case in today's society.

Today, you see young secondary school students indulging in things some university students of those days didn't even do. In this article, we will be discussing why some secondary school girls are having boyfriends.

It's unfortunate that rather than concentrating on their education and building their future, they are already messing up themselves with guys. Unfortunately, some of them ended up dropping out of school due to reasons like:
- unwanted pregnancy and premature motherhood
- death, as a result of complications that came up while trying to abort their baby
- embracing the lies told by their so-called boyfriend, and ending up embracing a life of mediocrity (think about young girls that ran away from their parent's house to suffer with a stupid guy somewhere).
- Etc.

Now, let's see some of the factors bringing these things in the first place:

1. Lack Of Proper Home Training:
Everyone knows that many parents today are terrible people who have no business bringing children into this world in the first place. I mean, how will you give birth to children, and you don't care about what they become? Such parents don't have time to train their girls and such girls grew without direction. Such girls ended up without dignity, and even see nothing wrong with messing around.

2. Youthful Exuberance
Well, many secondary school girls (even those that are from strict homes) are simply exhibiting youthful exuberance. Young chaps are still young (and foolish), and they usually act without thinking about the repercussions of their actions.

3. Not To Be Left Out
For some girls, they do stuff because their classmate are doing it, and they don't want to be left out. This is a good reason parents must teach their girls to be confident and independent - not to follow the crowd to do something bad.

4. Peer Pressure
Some girls were originally not interested in such things, but found themselves there because they were forced by their friends. Hence, our girls must be taught to be careful with those that associate with. They should run from the "bad girls crew".

5. Lack Of Essential Things
Some girls started messing themselves with boys because they need money to take care of themselves. Hence, parents should strive providing for their daughters, so they won't need anything from any stupid guy (who will want to take advantage of her situation to mess her body).

In conclusion, please, parents should take good care of their daughters. Many secondary school students are exposed to terrible things today. Always follow the day to day activities of your daughter, so she won't bring shame and disgrace to you

Lack of essential things is the reason why most girls are involving themselves in all sorts of rubbish.
When their parents can't afford phone, subscription, clothes and other basic stuffs for them they turn to boyfriends.

Same thing applies to boys that turn to yahoo in a desperate bid to provide their needs and live the good life that their parents couldn't afford for them.
Long story cut short, don't give birth to children if you can't afford their needs or take care of them. It's not a must to give birth to children.

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by 4tomandchi: 5:48pm On Sep 08, 2020
Show me the home you come from and I will tell you who you are.
What you see today as a problem is a reflection of our society the moral decadence has gotten to the peak. Most of this kids are from broken marriages and unwanted pregnancies so the root cause is the family foundation.

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by thundafire: 5:48pm On Sep 08, 2020
Bonatheripper:
Puna must be serviced



You don't expect girls to use it for pissing alone



I was lucky to have my own share of sweet newly released Punas.... U won't just understand that feeling.


Jah bless Two ends multinational highschool ikom cross River State
remember Karma comes with a truck load.

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by madjune(m): 5:48pm On Sep 08, 2020
I condemn this act amongst young boys and girls because they virtually learn nothing or pass nothing btw themselves besides sex and ignorance.

But, between an older guy and a young guy; though it's child abuse, keen insight shows the girl learns through it.

I'm not advocating this. Just an observation.
As a corper way back, i had this young school girl in this small time village and lonely nights and heavy rains drew us close.
In the evenings, I'd play my series of world music, from jazz to rock and to Bob Marley...

Whenever, i pulled off Bob Marley, this girl would get annoyed.
Overtime, she learned almost all Bob's songs, lyrics, vibes and the nuance of his tuff gong rhythm.

And overtime too, i could see a shine of wisdom and a higher discernment of things and structure in her eyes.

This was a girl, barely 15 at the time.
And nice, she was.

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Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Taiwojon(m): 5:48pm On Sep 08, 2020
op is right


say no to boyfriend and girlfriend.




Jesus save
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Nobody: 5:52pm On Sep 08, 2020
Elder0001:


Pussy isn't used for peeing.

urethra is different from pussy.


Passes through same route


The pussy highway
Re: 5 Reasons Secondary School Girls Are Having Boyfriends by Arkmanbuddy(m): 5:53pm On Sep 08, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Perused through your articles by reading between lines while putting on my intellectual cap
And i must say your write up is not vacuous and not devoid of intellect
This is to say we humans are now living life in the fast lane


You don dey speak grammar these days o! Hope no be sey you don dey mix Oshogbo weed with the one you dey take? I just dey ask ni o!

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