Mbdovey:
Marrying a Nigerian is good to me. My thought though

Cousin9999:


That's the issue for many.

Everyone should want a good partner, but the definition of that has really gone off the rails.

Mbdovey:
I don't know why most men keep saying marriage is not important. What happened when you're old? who will stand by you? Who will take care of you? We all need each other. In as much as marriage is not the ultimate, it's very important.

Mbdovey:
Marrying a Nigerian is good to me. My thought though

Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.

flyca:

Babe, if you have been on NL for sometime now, you would have noticed all the negetivity towards ladies here by the guys, they come under the umbrella of “Red Pills”. “Nigerian girls are bad” “Nigerian girls are bad” buhahaha. Bro!, there are good Nigerian ladies, but you they will not see them because the good ladies are with good Nigerian men! So babe, don't be sad when they bash you here.

Wanting to be married is noble, so whatever trashtalk you read here, do not feel bad for expressing that idea (albeit in a wrong space).

If you are born and raised in Nigeria, if you have the Nigerian thing in you - in my opinion - marrying a well-raised Nigerian man is the better option for you.

Same advice I will give a Nigerian man! But sometimes, “white woman” too dey shaak them! But in the long run, it is better to marry someone from your own culture and background. Someone that you will not feel inferior to, someone that will not feel that marrying them is a priviledge, someone that deeply understands you, someone that you share a cultural connection with, someone that you will not constantly be under pressure to impress, someone that understands the meaning of marriage the way you understand it etc

See eh, it's not even only Nigeria to Nigeria, every country to every country, every culture to every culture or at least similar. Not someone that has different customs, different food and lifestyle, different values, different parentage. If you watch TLC's 90 Day Fiance, you will notice that most clashes are cultural not financial.

I met my Nigerian husband abroad. I had options from other countries and I am sure he had other “white girl” options too. But we decided to be with each other and it has turned to be a very good decision for me. We get to experience new things from the same perspective of life (travel, food, language you name it). If our passports are getting rejected at the airport, they are rejecting both of us TOGETHER!

The first time I met my in-laws eh ...... PEACE. Whenever my mom-in-law speaks Igbo to me, I feel a deep connection. Well, this is my own cent!

Tatashi:
I can never move to Canada or US and look for a Nigerian/African Man to marry. I dey crase? What happened to finding a God fearing Handsome Caucasian? How can you move to a developed well advanced country and search for a Nigerian man to marry... Men that are backward and misogynistic in nature. Go to America and see how Nigerian Men are slaughtering their hardworking wives esp Nurses. Pls if you want to live long as a woman you better run away from black men oh. There's this special type of jealousy they carry. God forbid

Nooil:





Think of the beautiful half-caste children you'll even birth. If it's to say hi to them, I'll do it with Erica's type of smile. It is worth the effort.

vhuqnl:

Getting married for aesthetics (half-caste kid) is disgusting and low. And selfish too

Petyprincess:

Like seriously, even mod pushed this rubbish to front-page to promote bashing of Nigerian women from frustrated guys.

They masturbate on any topic that bashes Nigerian women but will lick a white old granny ass for green card,these men can't tolerate shit from Africa American women,they will lick their ass to get a green card while bashing Nigerian women.

Most of these guys are not sincere,some are suffering to keep their status while be deceiving gullible supposed "fans" and "asslickers" on nairaland at the same time bashing Nigerian women. Even fresh immigrants will start shouting "a white lady picked me up,payed my bills,etc

Believe these people at your risk!

Nooil:

Happy boys day

antocreative:
All ye men here that I bashing Nigerian women make me laugh! I know must of you are washing pant of the so-called white women. Brothers, pls don't pay heed to them! It is far better to marry your fellow Nigerian, except you are not a real man who wants his posterity to live on forever. Checkout men on their old age who married whites back then, do they look happy to you? As for me, I will go back home and marry and I will commit it to the hands of GOD. I wnt my posterity to live on and I dont want to have children who might have identity crises. Most of you talking rubbish about the Nigerian women have never been outside the country before. You also suffer from serious inferiority complex! If you are a true son of the soil, marry from your heritage, it pays in the long run! Forget the flashy white women of the west!

God1stson:

Ur are a good lady with a good heart. Ur desires are not out of place. u need sm1 like u. Send me mail at chijiwiz@gmail.com let's see if it work out since I'm still single.is not something to be ashamed of, if u have genuine intention. God's grace.

Adex2442:



I dont take trash. I am not a vegetable like yr......

omoyankee3:


You never jam AA

lefulefu2:
those ones on ur list dem wan use u check out of nigeria
u suppose know this nau

bizhop01:
I find difficult to date Nigerian when i was at abroad, i don't know if others feel the same.

Gamesmart:


So how come many Nigerian women are single there and searching?

Mbdovey:
But being in a strange country, seeing your fellow Nigerian to love and marry is beautiful. My thought though

sisipelebe:
I don't know. What is my business who's single or not. You guys should just leave Nigerian women alone. Una no dey tire?

Gamesmart:


So how come many Nigerian women are single there and searching?

Gamesmart:


To be frank, in Western countries, they are largely being left alone.

But the guys in Nigeria cannot because they really don't have options.

MiaBeer:


What a dumb question to ask. Is your mother not a Nigerian? Do you live outside Nigeria?
What is wrong with someone who live in a foreign land marrying someone from the same Country.
You are the type that will go there, forget your people, your roots and get lost.

Petyprincess:
Too much generalisation nd bashing of Nigerian ladies on this forum! Even those that married old white granny or African American single mum with multiple baby daddies for green card will still bash Nigerian women

Op don't be scared or worried,dnt let anyone make you feel Nigerian ladies aren't desirable in foreign country! As long as you not conversative about your culture you will definitely get a man,forget all stories they putting up here, upon "I don't do Nigerian girls" they still sending pms to same Nigerian women!

They love bashing Nigerian girls because they know the abroad based ones with green card are wise nd can easily know their intentions unlike desperate AA Or white granny!

Petyprincess:
Too much generalisation nd bashing of Nigerian ladies on this forum! Even those that married old white granny or African American single mum with multiple baby daddies for green card will still bash Nigerian women

Op don't be scared or worried,dnt let anyone make you feel Nigerian ladies aren't desirable in foreign country! As long as you not conversative about your culture you will definitely get a man,forget all stories they putting up here, upon "I don't do Nigerian girls" they still sending pms to same Nigerian women!

They love bashing Nigerian girls because they know the abroad based ones with green card are wise nd can easily know their intentions unlike desperate AA Or white granny!

Mbdovey:
what if what she told you was true?

When you're always comparing the white with Nigerian's women, you will always find fault in them.

azmanaty02:


Are you talking of the Nigerian men that are always killing their Nigerian wives?

thebosstrevor1:



they are looking for papers that is why

Crispels:


So, every Nigerian who dates outside of his race needs a green card? I’ve been in the US for years now and most of my friends who married whites or African Americans are already US citizens who don't need any freakin green card. So, if I marry a white girl now, it automatically means I need papers?

The issue here has to do with the way Nigerian girls abroad treat guys during their lows.

lefulefu2:
if he is doing well for himself he wouldnt need to hustle for an old foreign woman.Its like tell me a nigerian who is a practicing medical doctor in canada will now be hustling for one old granny to marry cos of papers.wont make sense.the ones who run after oyibo grannies are mostly the street hustlers and wen i say street hustler u know what i mean.